{"id":116,"date":"2013-11-30T20:03:19","date_gmt":"2013-11-30T20:03:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/SHKIWP\/index.php\/2013\/11\/30\/itinerari-i-pendimit\/"},"modified":"2013-11-30T20:03:19","modified_gmt":"2013-11-30T20:03:19","slug":"itinerari-i-pendimit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=116","title":{"rendered":"ITINERARI I PENDIMIT"},"content":{"rendered":"

1-Fal\u00ebndero Allahun q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb kuptosh pesh\u00ebn e m\u00ebkateve ndaj Tij, t\u00eb ka mund\u00ebsuar t\u00eb pendohesh, dhe nuk t\u00eb mori shpirtin duk\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebkate. <\/span><\/span>
2-Dije se ti e b\u00ebre t\u00eb vdekur zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde n\u00eb m\u00ebkate, por Allahu t\u00eb ka ngjallur me drit\u00ebn e udh\u00ebzimit. <\/span><\/span>
3-A e din se Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb g\u00ebzuar p\u00ebr pendimin t\u00ebnd, edhe pse Ai nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty?
4- A e din se Allahu t\u00eb ka premtuar se do t\u2019i shnd\u00ebrroj\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqiat e tua n\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb mira?<\/span> <\/span>
<\/span>5- A e din se ti tash je nga ata q\u00eb i do Allahu? <\/span><\/span>
6- B\u00ebhu i sinqert n\u00eb pendimin t\u00ebnd dhe bindu se Allahu do ta pranon at\u00eb. Kujto vras\u00ebsin e 100 personave.<\/span>
7- Largohu nga shoq\u00ebria e keqe dhe mos u ul me ata, fshij numrat e tyre dhe m\u00ebnjano \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb rikujton ata. Ata jane shigjeta helmuese.<\/span>
8- Lutu tek Allahu q\u00eb t\u00eb forcoj\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rrug\u00eb.<\/span>
9- Mos u mund nga ana e frik\u00ebs, dije se Allahu fal\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb pendohet.<\/span> <\/span>
10- Largohu nga \u00e7do mbeturin\u00eb e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs: fotografi, satelit, revista, numra dhe youtube.<\/span>
11- Akuzo pendimin se ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i plot\u00eb dhe se ai ka mang\u00ebsi e dob\u00ebsi, ashtu q\u00eb \u00e7do her\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i penduar.<\/span>
12- N\u00eb fillim mund t\u00eb gjesh v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb l\u00ebnien e m\u00ebkateve, por kush i frik\u00ebsohet Allahut, Ai ia hap\u00eb rrug\u00ebt.<\/span>
13- Dijes e se shoq\u00ebria e p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shoq\u00ebri e pagabuar, por n\u00eb mesin e tyre ka: t\u00eb mire dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqinj, t\u00eb manget e t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyer, kapu pas fes\u00eb e jo pas njer\u00ebzve.<\/span> <\/span>
14- Fillo t\u00eb ndryshosh sjelljet e tua me familjen t\u00ebnde q\u00eb nga momenti i udh\u00ebzimit, ashtu q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb shohin shenjat e udh\u00ebzimit n\u00eb ty.<\/span> <\/span>
15- B\u00ebhu person me fillim serioz dhe me ambicje t\u00eb larta.<\/span> <\/span>
16- Mundohu t\u00eb ruash tekbirin fillestar me imamin dhe safin e par\u00eb.<\/span>
17- Lexo biografin\u00eb e Muhamedit alejhi selam q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh si ka qen\u00eb me Allahun dhe me njer\u00ebzit.<\/span>
18- Disa njer\u00ebz mund t\u00eb tallen me ty, si: t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit, shok\u00ebt n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb e pun\u00eb, njer\u00ebzit e lagj\u00ebs. Por, mos ua v\u00ebr\u00eb veshin.<\/span> <\/span>
19- Vizito vendet q\u00eb zbusin zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, si: spitalet, sht\u00ebpit\u00eb e pleqve, varrezat, vendin ku pastrohen t\u00eb vdekurit, etj.<\/span>
20- Vizito faqet e dobishme islame n\u00eb internet q\u00eb kan\u00eb: ligj\u00ebrata islame, shkrime t\u00eb ndryshme dhe pyetje e pergjigje rreth fes\u00eb.<\/span>
21- Kujdesu t\u00eb b\u00ebsh adhurime vullnetare, si: agj\u00ebrim, sadaka, lutje, dhik\u00ebr, lexim t\u00eb K\u2019uranit, namaz nate, etj.<\/span> <\/span>
22- Plot\u00ebsoje koh\u00ebn t\u00ebnde t\u00eb lire me aktivitete serioze, si: m\u00ebsim t\u00eb K\u2019uranit p\u00ebrmendesh, k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb dituris\u00eb, ose me gj\u00ebra t\u00eb lejuara, si: sport, ushtrime fizike, not, etj<\/span> <\/span>
23- Rregullo koh\u00ebn dhe vendos list\u00ebn e prioriteteve. Ji i vendosur t\u2019i realizosh ato: t\u00eb matohesh pas nje viti, mesimin p\u00ebrmend\u00ebsh te Kur\u2019anit pas nje viti, mesime dhe ligj\u00ebrata \u00e7do jav\u00eb.<\/span> <\/span>
24- Bashkimi me shok\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb pajtohet me ty dhe t\u00eb ndihmon.<\/span> <\/span>
25- Njohja e par\u00ebnd\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb dunjas\u00eb dhe shuarjen e saj dhe se ajo nuk vlen\u00eb asgj\u00eb.<\/span> <\/span>
26- Kontakto m\u00eb shpesh me ndonj\u00eb hoxh\u00eb, thirr\u00ebs, m\u00ebsues q\u00eb ai t\u00eb jet\u00eb me t\u00eb cilin k\u00ebshillohesh p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjet dhe problemet e tua t\u00eb cilat mund t\u00eb ndodhin ty pas pendimit.<\/span> <\/span>
<\/span>27- Kujdes nga portat e shejtanit, cytjet dhe dyert e tij, mos paso hapat e tij.<\/span><\/span> <\/span><\/span>
28- Mos nxito t\u00eb gjykosh t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt: filani \u00ebsht\u00eb qafir, bidatxhi, kronik, e t\u00eb ngjajshme me k\u00ebto shprehje, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 pas v\u00ebrtetimit dhe konsultimit me njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kan\u00eb dije dhe eksperience n\u00eb k\u00ebto \u00e7\u00ebshtje.<\/span>
29- Nxito n\u00eb ndalimin nga e keqja .<\/span>
30- Ti ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr q\u00ebndrushm\u00ebri deri n\u00eb vdekje.<\/span> <\/span>
31- Le t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb e kaluara jote si nje m\u00ebsim p\u00ebr ty n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. P.sh. tek: neglizhenca n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrimin me t\u00eb k\u00ebqinjt\u00eb. K\u00ebta jan\u00eb shkak p\u00ebr devijimin t\u00ebnd, at\u00ebhere mos e neglizho k\u00ebt\u00eb detaj.<\/span> <\/span>
32- Dije se m\u00ebkatet e tua t\u00eb medha nuk jan\u00eb penges\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jesh nj\u00eb burr\u00eb (grua) i madh pas udhezimit, kush ka qen\u00eb Omeri-Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb- para islamit dhe pas.<\/span>
33- Patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb dish kuptimin e sakt\u00eb t\u00eb pendimit, dije se lejohet t\u00eb loz\u00ebsh, t\u00eb udh\u00ebtosh, t\u00eb zbukurohesh, t\u00eb tregtosh. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto n\u00eb p\u00ebrputhje me rregullat islame.<\/span> <\/span>
34- Largimi nga vendet e joshjes dhe sprov\u00ebs, sprovat jane dy lloje: 1) epshe dhe vendet e tyre: tregje, qendra tregtare, kanale televizive. <\/span><\/span>2) Dyshime, si: leximi i librave q\u00eb kan\u00eb ide denigruese, shikimi i programeve dhe emisioneve q\u00eb cenojn\u00eb besim ton\u00eb.<\/span><\/span> <\/span><\/span>
35- Shkruaj tregimin t\u00ebnd t\u00eb udh\u00ebzimit, ndoshta merr mesim ndokush .<\/span>
36- Lexo tregimet e t\u00eb penduarve dhe merr shembull nga pendimi i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i tyre.<\/span>
37- Mos fillo n\u00eb dawet-thirrje islame, perv\u00eb\u00e7 pasi t\u00eb kesh njohur bazat e fes\u00eb dhe kushtet e saja.<\/span>
38- K\u00ebrko dijen n\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, sepse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb mjet p\u00ebr shp\u00ebtimin t\u00ebnd pas Allahut t\u00eb Lart\u00ebsuar.<\/span> <\/span>
39- M\u00ebso dispozitat q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me pendimin.<\/span> <\/span>
40- Llogarit se kjo dit\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dita e fundit p\u00ebr ty, \u00e7ka kishe b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast.<\/span> <\/span>
41- Lexo Kur\u2019an dhe p\u00ebrmend Allahun shum\u00eb ashtu q\u00eb zemra yte t\u00eb mbushet me dashuri ndaj Allahut.<\/span>
42- Nxito t\u00eb martohesh ashtu q\u00eb t\u00eb ruash nderin tend, sepse shumica e m\u00ebkateve jan\u00eb nga epshet.<\/span> <\/span>
43- \u00c7do gj\u00ebje jepja vendin e saj dhe mbaj balanc.<\/span> <\/span>
44- Merr p\u00ebrgjigjet e fes\u00eb vet\u00ebm nga njer\u00ebzit competent.<\/span>
45- Nd\u00ebrro numrin e celularit, ashtu q\u00eb mos t\u00eb th\u00ebrrasin shoq\u00ebria e kaluar, apo shoqet e t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs.<\/span>
46- T\u00ebrheqja v\u00ebrejtjen njer\u00ebzve nga vendet e m\u00ebkateve.<\/span>
47- M\u00ebkatet e vetmis\u00eb jan\u00eb shkak p\u00ebr lajthitje, nd\u00ebrsa adhurimet n\u00eb vetmi jan\u00eb shkak p\u00ebr p\u00ebrforcim.<\/span>
48- Mos shko tek shok\u00ebt e vjeter q\u00eb t\u2019i th\u00ebrrasesh n\u00eb fe, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 at\u00ebhere kur je forcuar shume, dhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb t\u00ebnde t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb e kupton thirrjen.<\/span> <\/span>
49- N\u00ebse ke mund\u00ebsi b\u00ebj Umre dhe Haxhxh me shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb.<\/span>
50- Kujdes nga ekstremi i tepruar, andaj fillo me pun\u00eb t\u00eb pakta, sepse puna m\u00eb e dashur tek Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e vazhdueshme edhe n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e pakt\u00eb.<\/span>
I PENDUAR, Pasi u pendove dhe braktise \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr Allah, asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos ia jep shanc\u00ebn djallit t\u00eb t\u00eb mashtroj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kthehesh n\u00eb at\u00eb rrug\u00eb. Allahu na ndihmoft\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e pendimit dhe na mbrojtt\u00eb nga \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb na devijon nga ai. <\/span><\/span>Amin.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrshtati:<\/span> <\/span>Hoxh\u00eb Valdet Kamberi<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

1-Fal\u00ebndero Allahun q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb kuptosh pesh\u00ebn e m\u00ebkateve ndaj Tij, t\u00eb ka mund\u00ebsuar t\u00eb pendohesh, dhe nuk t\u00eb mori shpirtin duk\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebkate.  2-Dije se ti e b\u00ebre t\u00eb vdekur zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde n\u00eb m\u00ebkate, por Allahu t\u00eb ka ngjallur me drit\u00ebn e udh\u00ebzimit.  3-A e din se Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb g\u00ebzuar p\u00ebr pendimin t\u00ebnd, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-116","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c82-artikuj"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=116"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=116"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=116"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=116"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}