Pyetja:<\/p>\n
A lejhohet q\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy vite n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend tjet\u00ebr duke punuar dhe fituar pasuri, porse gruja e tij q\u00ebndron n\u00eb vendin e saj (sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e saj)!?<\/p>\n
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P\u00ebrgjigjja:<\/p>\n
Obligim p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebshortin \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jetoje jet\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebn e vet.<\/p>\n
Allahu,- xhele veala!,- thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n
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“Silluni mir\u00eb me to! N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ato nuk ju p\u00eblqejn\u00eb aq shum\u00eb (duroni) sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur q\u00eb juve di\u00e7ka t\u00eb mos u p\u00eblqej\u00eb, por q\u00eb Per\u00ebndia n\u00eb at\u00eb do t\u2019ju sjell\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira”. En-Nisa 19.<\/p>\n
Obligim, t\u00eb cilin e bart\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti ndaj bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebs s\u00eb vet dhe anasjelltas.<\/p>\n
Dhe prej k\u00ebtyre obligimeve \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe q\u00eb burri t\u00eb mos mungoj\u00eb nga bashk\u00ebshortja e vet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, ngase prej t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb saja \u00ebsht\u00eb ta shijoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn bashk\u00ebshortore, njashtu si\u00e7 e posedon edhe ai vet (burri) k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Mir\u00ebpo, n\u00ebse bashk\u00ebshortja \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb pajtushm\u00ebri me munges\u00ebn e tij po edhe n\u00ebse mungesa e bashk\u00ebshortit zgjat\u00ebt, at\u00ebher\u00eb i lejoh\u00ebt burrit t\u00eb mungoj\u00eb dhe nuk ka di\u00e7ka p\u00ebnges\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
M\u00ebgjithat\u00eb, kjo b\u00ebh\u00ebt me kushte: Duhet q\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti ta l\u00ebj\u00eb gruan e tij n\u00eb vend t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb mos ti kanos\u00ebt ndonj\u00eb frik\u00eb apo edhe di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr bashkshortes s\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n
Por, n\u00ebse bashk\u00ebshortja e tij nuk ka r\u00ebn\u00eb dakort p\u00ebr nj\u00eb munges\u00eb kaq t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti obligohet t\u00eb kthehet tek gruaja e tij \u00e7do 6muaj, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 n\u00ebse e ndal ndonj\u00eb arsye e pranueshme; sikurse \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00ebmundja apo t\u00eb ngjajshme me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ju kujtojm\u00eb se disa nga shok\u00ebt e Muhamedit,- salallahu alejhi ve selem!,- e kan\u00eb kufizuar koh\u00ebn e munges\u00ebs s\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit nga bashk\u00ebshortja e tij, n\u00eb 4 muaj e disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nga ata edhe n\u00eb 6 muaj.<\/p>\n
Le ta dine bashk\u00ebshorti se n\u00ebse mungesa e tij kalon m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se 6 muaj dhe gruaja e tij k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb ai t\u00eb kthehet sepse ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast bashkshorti patjet\u00ebr duhet t\u00eb kthehet tek gruaja e tij.<\/p>\n
Dhe n\u00ebse burri refuzon k\u00ebrkes\u00ebn e bashkshortes s\u00eb tij, at\u00ebher\u00eb ajo ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb paraqes\u00eb akuz\u00eb n\u00eb gykat\u00eb dhe ta prish kuror\u00ebn me bashk\u00ebshortin e saj.<\/p>\n
Porse, n\u00ebse ajo ia lejon bashk\u00ebshortit munges\u00ebn larg\u00eb saj p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb, q\u00eb ndodh\u00eb t\u00eb zgjat\u00ebt shum\u00eb, 1 apo 2 vite, at\u00ebher\u00eb i lejohet bashk\u00ebshortit dhe nuk ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb m\u00eb gruaja ta prish kuror\u00ebn ose t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb ngjajshme me t\u00eb, sepse k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb m\u00eb nuk e posedon gruaja, sepse ajo u pajtua me munges\u00ebn e tij dhe jeton n\u00eb siguri, ka furnizim t\u00eb bollsh\u00ebm nga bashk\u00ebshorti dhe nuk i mungon asgj\u00eb (ushqimi, parat, sigurimi, sht\u00ebpia, familjar\u00ebt etj).<\/p>\n
Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i Dituri!.<\/p>\n
Shejh Muhamed bin Salih El-Uthejmin, -Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!-.<\/p>\n
Nga arabishtja: Suad B. Shabani<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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