{"id":1478,"date":"2016-12-15T13:09:16","date_gmt":"2016-12-15T13:09:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/SHKIWP\/index.php\/2016\/12\/15\/mendjemadhesia-dhe-demi-i-saj-2\/"},"modified":"2016-12-15T13:09:16","modified_gmt":"2016-12-15T13:09:16","slug":"mendjemadhesia-dhe-demi-i-saj-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=1478","title":{"rendered":"MENDJEMADH\u00cbSIA DHE D\u00cbMI I SAJ"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00ebmundje e zemr\u00ebs, dhe cil\u00ebsi e lig\u00eb dhe e qortuar fort\u00eb. Sot plot nga njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrshkruhen me k\u00ebt\u00eb cil\u00ebsi, nga e cila na paralajm\u00ebroi fort\u00eb Allahu dhe i D\u00ebrguari i Tij, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb. Disa nga t\u00eb par\u00ebt tan\u00eb than\u00eb: Gjynahu i par\u00eb i cili ju b\u00eb Allahut ka qen\u00eb nga mendjemadh\u00ebsia. Allahu tha<\/span>: \u201c<\/strong>Kur u tham\u00eb engj\u00ebjve: \u201cP\u00ebruluni n\u00eb sexhde para Ademit\u201d, ata u p\u00ebrul\u00ebn, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 Iblisit, i cili nuk deshi, u tregua mendjemadh\u201d.<\/strong>\u00a0Bekare 34.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, e qart\u00ebsoi kuptimin e mendjemadh\u00ebsis\u00eb me nj\u00eb hadith, t\u00eb cilin na e p\u00ebrcjelli Ib\u00ebn Mesudi, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur nga ai, ku thot\u00eb:\u00a0\u201cNuk do t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb xhenet ai, q\u00eb n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tij ka nj\u00eb grimc\u00eb mendjemadh\u00ebsie\u201d.<\/em>\u00a0Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb tha: Dikush d\u00ebshiron, q\u00eb rrobat dhe sandalet t\u2019i ket\u00eb t\u00eb bukura? I D\u00ebrguari i Tij, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb,\u00a0 tha:\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>\u201cAllahu \u00ebsht\u00eb i bukur dhe e do t\u00eb bukur\u00ebn.\u00a0<\/em>Mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb refuzimi i t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs dhe sjellja me arroganc\u00eb ndaj njer\u00ebzve\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Refuzimi i t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs:\u00a0mospranimi i saj dhe refuzimi me m\u00ebndjemadh\u00ebsi i atij, q\u00eb e thot\u00eb at\u00eb .<\/p>\n

Sjellja me arroganc\u00eb ndaj njer\u00ebzve:\u00a0duke i posht\u00ebruar dhe p\u00ebrbuzur.<\/p>\n

I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, e qart\u00ebsoi se zbukurimi n\u00eb form\u00eb dhe rroba \u00ebsht\u00eb nga \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e dashura tek Allahu dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nga mendjemadh\u00ebsia. Mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb cil\u00ebsi e brendshme, ku gjurm\u00ebt e saj paraqiten n\u00eb sjelljet e njeriut, dhe e nxit at\u00eb n\u00eb mospranimin e s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs dhe n\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00e7mimin e njer\u00ebzve. Iblisi kur u paraqit mendjemadh para Ademit, alejhi selam, e pengoi mendjemadh\u00ebsia e tij q\u00eb t\u2019i bie n\u00eb sexhde, dhe me at\u00eb ta refuzon urdhrin e Allahut. Mendjemadh\u00ebsia ishte sebepi q\u00eb jobesimtar\u00ebt i nxiti t\u2019i kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb Pejgamber\u00ebt e Allahut kur u erdh\u00ebn me argumente t\u00eb qarta:\u00a0\u201cK\u00ebshtu, ata i mohuan ato padrejt\u00ebsisht dhe me mendjemadh\u00ebsi, edhe pse shpirti i tyre i besonte p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta. Pa shiko,\u00a0<\/strong>cili ka qen\u00eb fundi i shkat\u00ebrrimtar\u00ebve!\u201d.<\/strong>\u00a0Neml 14.<\/p>\n

Mendjemadhin mendjemadh\u00ebsia e pengon t\u2019i lutet Zotit t\u00eb vet dhe ta adhuron At\u00eb. Allahu thot\u00eb:\u00a0\u201cZoti juaj ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cLutmuni Mua, se do t\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjem! Me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ata q\u00eb tregohen mendjem\u00ebdhenj e nuk duan t\u00eb M\u00eb adhurojn\u00eb, do t\u00eb hyjn\u00eb n\u00eb Xhehenem t\u00eb posht\u00ebruar\u201d!\u201d.<\/strong>\u00a0Gafir 60.<\/p>\n

Mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i pengon disa nga pasanik\u00ebt apo disa nga ata q\u00eb ju \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb pushtet, ta falin namazin apo namazin me xhemat n\u00ebp\u00ebr xhami. I sheh se xhamit\u00eb i kan\u00eb af\u00ebr sht\u00ebpive t\u00eb tyre, dhe e d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb ezanin p\u00ebr \u00e7do koh\u00eb, dhe mendjemadh\u00ebsia nuk e len t\u00eb shkon n\u00eb xhami, dhe t\u00eb del para Allahut s\u00eb bashku me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ngase e sheh veten se \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i madh se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

Mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i pengon disa t\u00eb mos punojn\u00eb komfor tradit\u00ebs s\u00eb t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, ashtu si e p\u00ebrcjell imam Muslimi nga Seleme ib\u00ebn Ekva, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb, i cili tregon se nj\u00eb njeri ka ngr\u00ebn\u00eb te Pejgamberi, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, me dor\u00ebn e majt\u00eb, e i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut i tha:\u00a0\u201cHa me dor\u00ebn e djatht\u00eb!\u201d<\/em>\u00a0Ai tha: \u201cNuk mundem!\u201d Pejgamberi, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, tha:\u00a0\u201cSi nuk mundesh! Nuk e pengoi asgj\u00eb p\u00ebrve\u00e7 mendjemadh\u00ebsis\u00eb!\u201d\u00a0<\/em>Pas k\u00ebsaj, njeriu nuk e afroi dor\u00ebn e majt\u00eb te goja\u201d.<\/p>\n

Mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i pengon disa nga marrja e m\u00ebsimit t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm, ashtu si\u00e7 e cekin edhe disa nga t\u00eb par\u00ebt tan\u00eb se k\u00ebt\u00eb dituri nuk e merr mendjemadhi.<\/p>\n

T\u00eb b\u00ebrit mendjemadh para t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs dhe para krijesave, e b\u00ebn t\u00eb detyruesh\u00ebm nd\u00ebshkimin e llojllojsh\u00ebm, edhe at\u00eb t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vonsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n

Nga nd\u00ebshkimet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha \u00ebsht\u00eb se mendjemadhit i largohet zemra e tij nga udh\u00ebzimi. Allahu tha:\u00a0\u201c<\/strong>Do t\u2019i largoj prej shenjave t\u00eb Mia ata q\u00eb sillen me arrogance n\u00eb Tok\u00eb\u201d.<\/strong>\u00a0Earaf 146, dhe tha:\u00a0\u201cK\u00ebshtu ua vulos Allahu zemrat mohuesve\u201d.<\/strong>\u00a0Earaf 101. Kurse n\u00eb librat e hadithit ka ardhur se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se: \u201cN\u00eb dit\u00ebn e gjykimit mendjem\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb do t\u00eb grumbullohen e do t\u00eb mblidhen, p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb sa nj\u00eb grimc\u00eb e vog\u00ebl, ku posht\u00ebrimi i rrethon nga t\u00eb gjitha an\u00ebt\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sufjan ib\u00ebn Ujejne, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cKush e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb gjynahun p\u00ebr shkak epshit, shpreso p\u00ebr t\u00eb pendim, ngase Ademi, alejhi selam, ra n\u00eb gjynah p\u00ebr shkak epshit, dhe Allahu ia fali, kurse, kush e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb gjynahun p\u00ebr shkak mendjemadh\u00ebsis\u00eb, frikoju se p\u00ebr t\u00eb ka mallkim, sepse Iblisi ra n\u00eb gjynah p\u00ebr shkak mendjemadh\u00ebsis\u00eb, dhe u mallkua!<\/p>\n

Si mos t\u2019i kushtohet r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb s\u00ebmundjes s\u00eb mendjemadh\u00ebsis\u00eb kur i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se:\u00a0\u201cNuk do t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb xhenet ai, q\u00eb n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tij ka nj\u00eb grimc\u00eb mendjemadh\u00ebsie\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb penges\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb n\u00eb Xhenet, ngase ajo, nd\u00ebrhyn mes robit dhe mes moralit t\u00eb besimtar\u00ebve! Mendjemadhi nuk mundet t\u2019ia don\u00eb besimtar\u00ebve at\u00eb q\u00eb e don\u00eb p\u00ebr vete, dhe nuk mundet t\u00eb jet\u00eb modest, dhe t\u2019i largohen zilis\u00eb, urrejtjes dhe zem\u00ebrimit, dhe ta mposht mllefin dhe ta pranon k\u00ebshill\u00ebn. Kurse lloji m\u00eb i keq i mendjemadh\u00ebsis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb e pengon njeriun ta pranon t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn dhe t\u2019i n\u00ebnshtrohet asaj!<\/p>\n

O ju rob\u00ebr t\u00eb Allahut! Njeriu duhet ta largon mendjemadh\u00ebsin\u00eb nga vetja e tij, duke u njoftuar me prejardhjen dhe krijimin e tij, dhe nevoj\u00ebn e tij dhe fukarall\u00ebkun e tij, si dhe t\u00eb njoftohet me Zotin e tij dhe madh\u00ebshtin\u00eb e Tij.<\/p>\n

Njeriut i mjafton t\u00eb shikon n\u00eb baz\u00ebn e krijimit t\u00eb tij, e cila ishte nga asgj\u00ebja; fillimisht nga dheu, e pastaj nga sperma, e pastaj nga gjaku i ngjizur, e pastaj nga mishi, e pastaj u b\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrmendet, pasi q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebgjonte, e nuk shihte, e nuk ndjente dhe nuk l\u00ebvizte! Vet\u00ebm se e filloi me vdekjen e tij para jet\u00ebs, me dob\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij para forc\u00ebs, me fukarall\u00ebkun e tij para pasuris\u00eb, e pastaj vdes dhe b\u00ebhet dhe, dhe d\u00ebnohet apo begatohet n\u00eb varrin e tij, dhe pastaj ringjallet, dhe llogaritet dhe shp\u00ebrblehet p\u00ebr veprat e tij! Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar tha:\u00a0\u201cMallkuar qoft\u00eb njeriu! Sa mosmir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ai! Prej \u00e7far\u00eb gj\u00ebje e krijon Allahu at\u00eb?<\/strong>Prej pik\u00ebs s\u00eb far\u00ebs e krijon dhe i jep p\u00ebrmasa t\u00eb rregullta. M\u00eb pas ia leht\u00ebson rrug\u00ebn\u00a0<\/strong>(e lindjes)\u00a0e pastaj e vdes dhe i cakton nj\u00eb varr, dhe, kur t\u00eb doj\u00eb, Ai e ringjall. E megjithat\u00eb, njeriu ende nuk i ka plot\u00ebsuar ato q\u00eb i ka urdh\u00ebruar Ai!\u201d.\u00a0<\/strong>Abese 17-23.<\/p>\n

SHEJH DR. SALIH EL FEUZAN<\/p>\n

Nga arabishtja: Irfan\u00a0JAHIU<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00ebmundje e zemr\u00ebs, dhe cil\u00ebsi e lig\u00eb dhe e qortuar fort\u00eb. Sot plot nga njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrshkruhen me k\u00ebt\u00eb cil\u00ebsi, nga e cila na paralajm\u00ebroi fort\u00eb Allahu dhe i D\u00ebrguari i Tij, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb. Disa nga t\u00eb par\u00ebt tan\u00eb than\u00eb: Gjynahu i par\u00eb i cili ju b\u00eb Allahut […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1478","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c86-akide"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1478","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1478"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1478\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1478"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1478"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1478"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}