{"id":1502,"date":"2017-03-20T15:59:50","date_gmt":"2017-03-20T15:59:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/SHKIWP\/index.php\/2017\/03\/20\/dhimbjet-qe-na-duhen\/"},"modified":"2017-04-07T21:00:38","modified_gmt":"2017-04-07T21:00:38","slug":"dhimbjet-qe-na-duhen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=1502","title":{"rendered":"DHIMBJET Q\u00cb NA DUHEN"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sot, Ummeti po p\u00ebrjeton dhimbje t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe t\u00eb shumta, pas t\u00eb cilave shpresojm\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb rrug\u00ebdalja dhe fitorja, ngase prej ligjeve natyrore q\u00eb Allahu i ka vendosur n\u00eb Tok\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0<\/span>\u201cpas v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsis\u00eb, Allahu do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb leht\u00ebsimin\u201d.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Por, nuk do flasim p\u00ebr k\u00ebto dhimbje, tema jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr disa dhimbje q\u00eb na duhen, dhimbje q\u00eb na g\u00ebzojn\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se fjala dhimbje \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kuptim q\u00eb askush nuk e do, por kur shfleton disa raste q\u00eb i ka ruajtur historia, e kupton se dhimbja mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb edhe kuptim pozitiv.<\/p>\n

Kemi p\u00ebr q\u00ebllim at\u00eb dhimbje e cila vjen si rezultat i pik\u00ebllimit q\u00eb t\u00eb ka ikur nj\u00eb pun\u00eb e mir\u00eb apo si rezultat i keqardhjes q\u00eb ke r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb m\u00ebkat.<\/p>\n

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Allahu na sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb shembull t\u00eb atill\u00eb n\u00eb Kuran, shumbull kur zemrat cop\u00ebtohen p\u00ebr mos b\u00ebrjen e t\u00eb mir\u00ebs edhe pse nuk pat\u00ebn mund\u00ebsi. Na flet p\u00ebr ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebt u paraqit\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb betej\u00ebn e Tebukut, me d\u00ebshir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb luftuar n\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb Allahut, por gjendja financiare nuk e lejonte at\u00eb… at\u00ebher\u00eb paraqitet roli i pik\u00ebllimit dhe i lotit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur se zemra po vlon dhe po cop\u00ebtohet q\u00eb nuk po arrin shansin ta b\u00ebj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb ibadet<\/p>\n

\u201cU kthyen nd\u00ebrsa syt\u00eb u rridhnin lot, nga pik\u00ebllimi q\u00eb nuk kishin \u00e7ka t\u00eb shpenzojn\u00eb\u201d.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Shum\u00eb prej nesh mund t\u00eb qajm\u00eb, por k\u00ebt\u00eb rast e regjistroi Allahu dhe nj\u00ebherit d\u00ebshmoi p\u00ebr lot dhe pik\u00ebllim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb.<\/p>\n

A ke d\u00ebgjuar se \u00e7far\u00eb u ndodhi musliman\u00ebve n\u00eb luft\u00ebn e Hendekut, kur rreziku prej jobesimtar\u00ebve ishte aq i af\u00ebrt dhe musliman\u00ebt u angazhuan tejmase me rraskapitje dhe xhihad, ishin n\u00eb aso gjendje, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn Allahu tha:<\/p>\n

\u201ce kur iu zgurdulluan syt\u00eb dhe zemrat arrit\u00ebn n\u00eb fyt\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0derisa per\u00ebndoi Dielli dhe u paraqit Omeri radijallahnu anhu, duke i shar\u00eb dhe duke i fyer jobesimtar\u00ebt, nga pik\u00ebllimi e nervoza… p\u00ebr \u00e7ka?! Tha: O i D\u00ebrguar i Allahut, nuk arrita me fal namazin e iqindis\u00eb!<\/p>\n

Pejgamberi, alejhi salatu ue selam, i tha: \u201cAs un\u00eb nuk e kam falur, na preokupuan nga namazi i mes\u00ebm, Allahu ua mbusht\u00eb varret dhe sht\u00ebpit\u00eb plot zjarr\u201d.<\/p>\n

Kjo dhimbje duhet t\u00eb paraqitet n\u00eb rastin e kund\u00ebrt, kur ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb biesh n\u00eb m\u00ebkat, t\u00eb pik\u00ebllohesh q\u00eb ke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb haram.<\/p>\n

Kemi shembullin e gruas nga fisi Gamidi e cila ishte mashtruar dhe kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb zina dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjeu nj\u00eb dhimbje dhe pik\u00ebllim q\u00eb e shtyri tre vjet me radh\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb sh\u00ebrimin d.m.th. nd\u00ebshkimin, i cili sh\u00ebrim n\u00ebnkuptonte vdekjen e saj.<\/p>\n

Kjo grua shkoi e penduar tek i D\u00ebrguari dhe i tha: Kam r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb kurv\u00ebri, m\u00eb pastro! Por i D\u00ebrguari e ktheu. Ajo erdhi t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen dhe i tha: O i D\u00ebrguar pse po m\u00eb kthen, un\u00eb jam shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb!? Ai i tha: Ik, derisa ta lind\u00ebsh! Kur e lindi erdhi p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e mb\u00ebshtjellur q\u00eb e mbante n\u00eb krah dhe tha: Ja, k\u00ebt\u00eb e kam lindur. Pejgamberi i tha: Ik, jepi gji derisa t\u00eb ket\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb haj\u00eb vet. Pas dy viteve erdhi p\u00ebrs\u00ebri, duke i dh\u00ebn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs nj\u00eb kashore buk\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb, dhe tha: O i D\u00ebrguar i Allahut, un\u00eb e kryva gjidh\u00ebnien dhe ja ky tash ha vet… at\u00ebher\u00eb Pejgamberi, alejhi salatu ue selam, f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ia la n\u00eb dor\u00eb dikujt prej musliman\u00ebve nd\u00ebrsa mbi t\u00eb zbatoi nd\u00ebshkimin e caktuar nga Allahu.<\/p>\n

Tash, le t\u2019i b\u00ebjm\u00eb pyetje vetvetes: P\u00ebr \u00e7ka qajm\u00eb ne? Kur pik\u00ebllohemi ne? \u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb na sjell\u00eb neve n\u00eb at\u00eb gjendje? Pse nuk ndjejm\u00eb \u2013 p\u00ebrve\u00e7 ndonj\u00ebri \u2013 as\u00e7far\u00eb dhimbje nd\u00ebrsa gjynahe b\u00ebjm\u00eb plot?<\/p>\n

Shkaqet n\u00eb vazhdim, na zbulojn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjen besoj:<\/p>\n

1. Pak e njohim Allahun. \u00cbsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: Kush e njeh Allahun m\u00eb shum\u00eb, i ka frik\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb na mund\u00ebsojn\u00eb ta njohim Allahun m\u00eb mir\u00eb jan\u00eb: Leximi dhe meditimi n\u00eb Librin e Allahut, meditimi n\u00eb emrat dhe cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e Tij, analiza n\u00eb krijimin madh\u00ebshtor q\u00eb Allahu ka b\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

2. Pak e meditojm\u00eb Kuranin. Sikur ta meditonim thell\u00eb, kjo do t\u00eb garantonte nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr q\u00eb i ka frik\u00eb Allahut, q\u00eb do t\u00eb kuptonte thell\u00ebsisht fjal\u00ebt e Zotit dhe do t\u00eb njihte qart\u00eb kuptimin e emrave dhe cil\u00ebsive t\u00eb Allahut. K\u00ebsisoj zemra do t\u00eb zbutej dhe do t\u00eb kthehej.<\/p>\n

Paramendo \u00e7far\u00eb zemra do kishim, sikur t\u00eb meditonim thell\u00eb n\u00eb ajete sikur ky:<\/p>\n

\u201cdhe ata kur japin at\u00eb q\u00eb e japin nd\u00ebrsa zemrat i kan\u00eb t\u00eb trishtuara se te Zoti do t\u00eb kthehen. K\u00ebta jan\u00eb q\u00eb shpejtojn\u00eb drejt t\u00eb mirave b\u00ebjn\u00eb gara p\u00ebr to<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n

3. Nuk po heqim dor\u00eb nga m\u00ebkati dhe po ngulim k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb. Pejgamberi, alejhi salatu ue selam na ka paralajm\u00ebruar: \u201cDo t\u00eb paraqiten sprova mbi zemr\u00ebn sikurse hastra, thup\u00ebr pas thupre. Ajo zem\u00ebr q\u00eb i thith\u00eb b\u00ebhet e zez\u00eb, kurse ajo zem\u00ebr q\u00eb i refuzon b\u00ebhet e bardh\u00eb. Pra, zemrat b\u00ebhen dy lloj: e bardh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mundet ta d\u00ebmtoj\u00eb asgj\u00eb derisa t\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb qielli e toka; dhe e zez\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e njeh t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e as e qorton t\u00eb keqen, ai b\u00ebn \u00e7far\u00eb t\u2019i do epshi\u201d. (Muslimi 231)<\/p>\n

4. Pak i llogarisim gjendjet tona. Marrja n\u00eb llogari e vetvetes \u00ebsht\u00eb argument se zemra \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjall\u00eb, zem\u00ebr e cila do t\u00eb orientohet drejt pastrimit nga ndyr\u00ebsit\u00eb e gjynahut. Ebu Davud el Hafri tregon: Shkova te Kurz ib\u00ebn Vebra n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe e gjeta duke qar\u00eb, i thash\u00eb pse po qan? Tha: \u201cMbr\u00ebm\u00eb nuk arrita ta lexoj pjes\u00ebn ditore timen nga Kurani, e kjo ka ndodhur vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndonj\u00eb gjynahu q\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

5. Shkujdesi p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebrejtur ndikimin e namazit n\u00eb jet\u00ebt tona. Allahu ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:<\/p>\n

\u201cFale namazin, v\u00ebrtet\u00eb namazi largon nga ndyr\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe e keqja\u201d.<\/p>\n

Sikur ta b\u00ebnim sakt\u00ebsisht namazin ashtu si\u00e7 Allahu e do prej nesh, do t\u00eb ndjenim dhimbje dhe do t\u00eb qanim fort\u00eb kur na ikin farzet apo kur biem n\u00eb gjynahe.<\/p>\n

Allahu na udh\u00ebzoft\u00eb!<\/p>\n

Dr. Omer el Mukbil<\/p>\n

P\u00ebrshtati: Omer Berisha<\/p>\n

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Sot, Ummeti po p\u00ebrjeton dhimbje t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe t\u00eb shumta, pas t\u00eb cilave shpresojm\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb rrug\u00ebdalja dhe fitorja, ngase prej ligjeve natyrore q\u00eb Allahu i ka vendosur n\u00eb Tok\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0\u201cpas v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsis\u00eb, Allahu do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb leht\u00ebsimin\u201d. Por, nuk do flasim p\u00ebr k\u00ebto dhimbje, tema jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr disa dhimbje q\u00eb na duhen, dhimbje q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1502","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c96-davet","7":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1502","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1502"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1502\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1692,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1502\/revisions\/1692"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1502"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1502"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1502"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}