{"id":1767,"date":"2017-04-18T13:41:36","date_gmt":"2017-04-18T13:41:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=1767"},"modified":"2017-04-18T17:05:18","modified_gmt":"2017-04-18T17:05:18","slug":"mbaresoni-femijet-tuaj-me-lutje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=1767","title":{"rendered":"MBAR\u00cbSONI F\u00cbMIJ\u00cbT TUAJ ME LUTJE"},"content":{"rendered":"
MBAR\u00cbSONI F\u00cbMIJ\u00cbT TUAJ ME LUTJE<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb nj\u00eb prej begative m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha q\u00eb na i jep Allahu, subhane\u00adhu ve teala. Na g\u00ebzojn\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri dhe shpresojm\u00eb ndihm\u00ebn tyre kur t\u00eb\u00a0rriten. I konsiderojm\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsi ton\u00ebn\u00a0tek t\u00eb cil\u00ebt d\u00ebshiromi t\u2019i shohim virtytet\u00a0tona dhe g\u00ebzohemi kur atyre u thuhet sa shum\u00eb i ngjan bab\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

Tek besimtar\u00ebt kjo lumturi nuk plot\u00eb\u00adsohet pa u siguruar se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre jan\u00eb\u00a0n\u00eb udh\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm q\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\u00a0udh\u00ebtim n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb Zotit ta vazhdo\u00adjn\u00eb edhe gjeneratat q\u00eb do vijn\u00eb. K\u00ebto njer\u00ebz i lavd\u00ebron Zoti i gjith\u00ebsis\u00eb duke i quajtur rob\u00ebrit e M\u00ebshiruesit t\u00eb cil\u00ebt k\u00ebt\u00eb epitet e kan\u00eb fituar me cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre n\u00eb mesin e t\u00eb cilave \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe ajo t\u00eb cil\u00ebn Allahu e p\u00ebrmend n\u00eb ajetin vijues:<\/p>\n

\u201cEdhe ata q\u00eb thon\u00eb: \u201cZoti yn\u00eb, na b\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb g\u00ebzuar me (pun\u00ebn) e grave tona dhe pasardh\u00ebsve tan\u00eb, e\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>neve na b\u00ebn shem bull p\u00ebr t\u00eb devot\u00adshmit.\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>(Furkan, 74)<\/p>\n

Ib\u00ebn Kethiri n\u00eb tefsirin e k\u00ebtij ajeti\u00a0thot\u00eb: \u201cAta q\u00eb e lusin Allahun q\u00eb tu jep\u00a0pasardh\u00ebs q\u00eb do ti binden Allahut dhe do\u00a0ta adhurojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm At\u00eb duke mos i p\u00ebr\u00adshkruar shok n\u00eb adhurim.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ib\u00ebn Abbasi thot\u00eb: Pasardh\u00ebs q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb vepra t\u00eb mira q\u00eb do t\u2019i g\u00ebzojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e tyre n\u00eb dynja dhe ahiret.<\/p>\n

Ikrime thot\u00eb: D\u00ebshironin q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre t\u2019i respek\u00adtojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Ib\u00ebn Xheriri thot\u00eb: E adhurojn\u00eb Allahun n\u00eb\u00a0m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe nuk\u00a0u shkaktojn\u00eb telashe prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n

Kur Hasan El Basriu u pyet p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ajet tha: Ata\u00a0luten q\u00eb Allahu t\u2019ua mund\u00eb\u00adson t\u00eb shohin bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt\u00a0e tyre, v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e tyre dhe\u00a0miqt\u00eb e tyre n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e\u00a0adhurimit. Nuk ka k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi\u00a0m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr mysli\u00admanin se sa t\u00eb sheh djalin e\u00a0tij, nipin e tij dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin\u00a0e tij n\u00eb adhurim ndaj Allahut.<\/p>\n

Kjo ishte edhe rruga e pejgamber\u00ebve,\u00a0paqja dhe m\u00ebshira e Allahut qoft\u00eb mbi ta.<\/p>\n

Ishin njer\u00ebz q\u00eb m\u00eb sinqerisht e\u00a0adhurojn\u00eb Allahun, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt vazhdimisht\u00a0kujdeseshin p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpit\u00eb e tyre dhe p\u00ebr\u00a0udh\u00ebzimin e pasardh\u00ebsve t\u00eb tyre. Ata e\u00a0dinin fort\u00eb mir\u00eb ndikimin e duas\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb si dhe n\u00eb sh\u00ebrimin e\u00a0mang\u00ebsive q\u00eb i kishin. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak ata\u00a0b\u00ebjn\u00eb dua p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb akoma nuk u jan\u00eb lindur.<\/p>\n

K\u00ebshtu veproi edhe i zgjedhuri\u00a0Ibrahim, alejhi selam, i cili n\u00eb p\u00ebrul\u00ebsi i\u00a0ngriti duart lart\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkoi prej Allahut t\u2019i jep f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr\u00admir\u00ebsues:<\/p>\n

\u201cZoti im, m\u00eb dhuro mua (nj\u00eb f\u00ebmi\u00adj\u00eb) prej t\u00eb mir\u00ebve!\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>(Saffat, 100)\u00a0p\u00ebrgjigja ishte e shpejt\u00eb:\u00a0\u201cNe e g\u00ebzuam\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>at\u00eb me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb mbar\u00eb\u201d.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>(Saffat, 101)<\/p>\n

Kujdesi i Ibrahimit, alejhi selam, vazh\u00addoi gjat\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebs, n\u00eb lut\u00adjet e tija t\u00eb pand\u00ebrprera p\u00ebr familjen dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

\u201c(P\u00ebrkujto) Kur\u00a0Ibrahimi tha: \u201cZoti im! B\u00ebje k\u00ebt\u00eb qytet t\u00eb sigurt\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>dhe m\u00eb mbro mua e bijt\u00eb\u00a0e mi nga adhurimi i\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>idhujve (statuja gur\u00ebsh). Zoti im! Ata v\u00ebrtet i shmangin (nga rruga e drejt\u00eb) shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz. E kush m\u00eb\u00a0respekton mua, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i\u00a0imi (n\u00eb fe), e kush m\u00eb\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>kund\u00ebrshton mua, at\u00ebher\u00eb Ti je q\u00eb fal dhe q\u00eb m\u00ebshiron. Zoti yn\u00eb!\u00a0Un\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb familjes sime e ven\u00ad<\/em><\/strong>dosa n\u00eb nj\u00eb lugin\u00eb, ku nuk ka bim\u00eb, e pran\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb T\u00ebnde t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb. Zoti\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>yn\u00eb (i vendosa aty) q\u00eb ta falin namazin, pra b\u00ebn q\u00eb zemrat e disa njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb mall\u00ebngjehen p\u00ebr ata,\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>dhe, p\u00ebr t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderuar me mir\u00ebnjo\u00adhje,furnizoi ata me fruta. Zoti yn\u00eb!\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>S\u2019ka dyshim se Ti e di \u00e7ka fshehim dhe \u00e7ka publikojm\u00eb, se Allahut nuk\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>mund t\u2019i fshihet asnj\u00eb send n\u00eb tok\u00eb e\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>as n\u00eb qiell. Fal\u00ebnderimi i qoft\u00eb\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>Allahut, i cili n\u00eb pleq\u00ebri m\u00eb fali mua<\/em><\/strong>Ismailin dhe Is\u2019hakun!V\u00ebrtet, Zoi im\u00a0d\u00ebgjon dhe i p\u00ebrgjigjet lutjes. O Zoti\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>im! M\u00eb b\u00ebn mua nga ata q\u00eb falin namazin, e edhe prej pasardh\u00ebsve t\u00eb mi dhe pranoje lutjen time o Zoti yn\u00eb! Zoti yn\u00eb! M\u00eb fal (gabimet) mua edhe prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb mi, fali edhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb besimtar\u00ebt dit\u00ebn kur jepet llogaria.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>(Ibrahim, 35-41)<\/p>\n

T\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn rrug\u00eb e ndjek edhe\u00a0Zekirijai, alejhi selam, i cili b\u00ebri dua p\u00ebr\u00a0f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij para se t\u00eb lindin:<\/p>\n

\u201cZoti im, m\u00eb fal\u00eb edhe mua nga ana\u00a0Juaj nj\u00eb pasardh\u00ebs (f\u00ebmij\u00eb) t\u00eb mir\u00eb, v\u00ebrtet, Ti je d\u00ebgjues i lutjes\u201d!\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>(Ali Imran, 38) pastaj vazhdon duke b\u00ebr\u00eb\u00a0lutje p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pasardh\u00ebs me t\u00eb cilin Allahu\u00a0do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur dhe i cili do ta ndih\u00admoi at\u00eb na bartjen e obligimeve n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e thirrjes n\u00eb besim:<\/p>\n

\u201cTha: \u201cZoti im!V\u00ebrtet, mua m\u00eb jan\u00eb\u00a0dob\u00ebsuar eshtrat, m\u00eb jan\u00eb p\u00ebrhapur thinjat n\u00eb kok\u00ebn time, e me lutjen\u00a0time ndajTeje o Zoti im, asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk\u00a0kam qen\u00eb i d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar\u201d. Un\u00eb ua kam\u00a0frik\u00ebn pasardh\u00ebsve t\u00eb mi pas meje\u00a0(kush\u00ebrinjve, se do ta humbnin fen\u00eb),\u00a0nd\u00ebrsa gruaja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb sterile, pra m\u00eb fal nga ajo mir\u00ebsia Jote nj\u00eb\u00a0pasardh\u00ebs (nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb). T\u00eb m\u00eb trash\u00eb\u00adgoj\u00eb mua dhe t\u2019i trash\u00ebgoj\u00eb ata nga\u00a0familja e Jaku bit, dhe b\u00ebje at\u00eb, o Zoti im, t\u00eb p\u00eblqyesh\u00ebm (p\u00ebr Ty)!\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>(Merjem,\u00a04-6)<\/p>\n

Melek\u00ebt shpejt e kthyen lajmin p\u00ebrg\u00ebzues:<\/p>\n

\u201cE duke u falur ai n\u00eb faltore, engj\u00ebjt\u00a0e th\u00ebrrasin: \u201cAllahu t\u00eb p\u00ebrg\u00ebzon ty me\u00a0Jahjan\u00eb, q\u00eb do t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetoj\u00eb fjal\u00ebn\u00a0(Isain) e ardhur nga Allahu, e q\u00eb do t\u00eb\u00a0jet\u00eb prij\u00ebs i matur dhe pejgamber nga\u00a0t\u00eb dalluarit\u201d!\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>(Ali Imran, 39)<\/p>\n

M\u00eb i zgjedhuri prej pejgamber\u00ebve kujdesej shum\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, urdh\u00ebronte\u00a0t\u00eb b\u00ebhet dua p\u00ebr ta dhe ndalonte nga lutja\u00a0kund\u00ebr tyre. B\u00ebnte dua edhe para se t\u00eb lindin:<\/p>\n

Kur mushrik\u00ebt eTaifit e refuzuan dhe e\u00a0sulmuan, Allahu e d\u00ebrgoi melekun e kodrave duke then\u00eb se pritet vet\u00ebm\u00a0urdhri i tij p\u00ebr ta shkat\u00ebrruar qytetin me\u00a0dy kodrat. I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, salallahu\u00a0alejhi ue selem, tha:\u201cJo. Ndoshta nga\u00a0<\/em>boshtet e tyre Allahu do t\u00eb krijon pasardh\u00ebs q\u00eb\u00a0do ta adhurojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm Allahun\u201d,\u00a0<\/em>dhe kjo ndodhi.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb hadithet e Muhammedit, salallahu\u00a0alejhi ue selem, mysliman\u00ebt k\u00ebshillohen\u00a0q\u00eb para marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve intime t\u00eb k\u00ebrko\u00adjn\u00eb strehim te Allahu prej djallit t\u00eb mal\u00adlkuar duke pohuar se f\u00ebmija e lindur nga\u00a0ai kontakt intim nuk do t\u00eb ndikohet nga\u00a0shejtani.<\/p>\n

I njohur \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe rasti i njeriut t\u00eb cilit\u00a0i kishte vdekur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, dhe i cili n\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn nat\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me bashk\u00ebshorten e tij dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut b\u00ebri lutje p\u00ebr ta q\u00eb\u00a0Allahu tu jep bereqet n\u00eb at\u00eb nat\u00eb. Atyre\u00a0ju lind\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe gjith\u00eb ishin haf\u00ebza t\u00eb\u00a0Kur\u2019anit. I shihja n\u00eb xhamin\u00eb e t\u00ebD\u00ebrguarit thot\u00eb transmetuesi i ndodhis\u00eb\u00a0Abaje ib\u00ebn Rifa\u2019ah.<\/p>\n

Ai, salallahu alejhi ue selem, b\u00ebnte dua\u00a0p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt pas lindjes s\u00eb tyre dhe kur\u00a0ishin f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Imam Muslimi e transmeton\u00a0rastin kur i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, salallahu\u00a0alejhi ue selem, b\u00ebri dua p\u00ebr Enesin, radi\u00adjallahu anhu, q\u00eb Allahu t\u2019i jep shum\u00eb pasuri dhe shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Pas shum\u00eb\u00a0vitesh kjo lutje u b\u00eb realitet dhe Enesi me\u00a0krenari thoshte: Sot numri i f\u00ebmij \u00ebve dhe\u00a0nipave t\u00eb mi \u00ebsht\u00eb mbi nj\u00ebqind.<\/p>\n

Shembulli i k\u00ebtyre duhet ndjekur me\u00a0p\u00ebrqendrim dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulje, t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb\u00a0lutje p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do situat\u00eb.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebrktheu: Talha Kurtishi<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb nj\u00eb prej begative m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha q\u00eb na i jep Allahu, subhane\u00adhu ve teala. Na g\u00ebzojn\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri dhe shpresojm\u00eb ndihm\u00ebn tyre kur t\u00eb\u00a0rriten. I konsiderojm\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsi ton\u00ebn\u00a0tek t\u00eb cil\u00ebt d\u00ebshiromi t\u2019i shohim virtytet\u00a0tona dhe g\u00ebzohemi kur atyre u thuhet sa shum\u00eb i ngjan bab\u00ebs. Tek besimtar\u00ebt kjo lumturi nuk plot\u00eb\u00adsohet pa u […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1768,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1767","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c94-gruaja-dhe-familja"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1767"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1767\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1772,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1767\/revisions\/1772"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}