{"id":1925,"date":"2017-06-12T12:46:43","date_gmt":"2017-06-12T12:46:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=1925"},"modified":"2017-06-12T12:46:43","modified_gmt":"2017-06-12T12:46:43","slug":"durimi-si-rruge-drejt-shperblimit-te-madh-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=1925","title":{"rendered":"DURIMI SI RRUG\u00cb DREJT SHP\u00cbRBLIMIT T\u00cb MADH"},"content":{"rendered":"
Ramazani \u00ebsht\u00eb muaji i durimit. Durimi, si\u00e7 ka ardhur n\u00eb nj\u00eb hadith, \u00ebsht\u00eb sinonim i Ramazanit. Nesaiu transmeton n\u00eb Sunen se Pejgamberi [alejhis salatu ves selam] ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:\u00a0<\/span>Agj\u00ebrimi i muajit t\u00eb durimit dhe tri dit\u00ebve nga \u00e7do muaj llogaritet agj\u00ebrim i t\u00ebr\u00eb koh\u00ebs<\/span>.\u201d<\/a>[1]<\/span><\/div>\n
Ramazani me adhurimet e tij arrin t\u00eb reflektoj\u00eb durimin dhe esenc\u00ebn e tij m\u00eb s\u00eb miri. Kjo p\u00ebr shkak se ai, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb, t\u00eb tri llojet e durimit, arrin t\u2019i p\u00ebrmbledh gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb muaji. E dini, durimi ndahet n\u00eb tri pjes\u00eb:<\/span><\/div>\n
1)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>Durim p\u00ebr t\u00eb adhuruar Allahun. Agj\u00ebrimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb tjet\u00ebr vet\u00ebm se urdh\u00ebr i Allahut, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb me t\u00eb, realizohet kjo pjes\u00eb e par\u00eb e durimit.<\/span><\/div>\n
2)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>Durim ndaj m\u00ebkatit, pra p\u00ebr\u00a0 t\u00eb mos b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebkat. P\u00ebrmbajtja e besimtarit nga ushqimi, pija, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet seksuale, e po k\u00ebshtu edhe p\u00ebrmbajtja nga fjal\u00ebt e pista, hidh\u00ebrimi, sharja, kacafytja, jan\u00eb imazhe t\u00eb durimit ndaj m\u00ebkateve.<\/span><\/div>\n
3)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>Durim ndaj caktimeve t\u00eb Allahut. Njeriu p\u00ebrballon urin\u00eb dhe etjen, duke patur parasysh gjithnj\u00eb se ato jan\u00eb caktime t\u00eb Allahut. <\/span><\/div>\n
N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb edhe praktikisht Ramazanin ta shnd\u00ebrrojm\u00eb n\u00eb muaj durimi, sot n\u00eb fokus do t\u00eb kemi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e k\u00ebtij tipari dhe virtyti p\u00ebr besimtarin. <\/span><\/div>\n
Sinonime n\u00eb efekte pozitive<\/span><\/div>\n
Durimi dhe agj\u00ebrimi jan\u00eb sinonime edhe p\u00ebr efektet e nj\u00ebjta q\u00eb kan\u00eb. Ato frenojn\u00eb egon, epshin, hidh\u00ebrimin dhe \u00e7do sjellje tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb pamatur. Muhammedi [alejhis salatu ves selam] duke na folur p\u00ebr agj\u00ebrimin, thot\u00eb:\u00a0<\/span>Agj\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb mburoj\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb (besimtari) le t\u00eb mos flet fjal\u00eb t\u00eb pista dhe t\u00eb mos b\u00ebj\u00eb verime injorante. E. N\u00ebse ndodh\u00eb t\u00eb provokohet (fizikisht) apo ngacmohet (verbalisht-shahet), at\u00ebher\u00eb le t\u00eb thot\u00eb: Un\u00eb jam agj\u00ebruesh\u00ebm! Un\u00eb jam agj\u00ebruesh\u00ebm!<\/span>\u201d<\/a>[2]<\/span><\/div>\n
Pra, shihet qart\u00eb se efektet e agj\u00ebrimit jan\u00eb tamam durim.<\/span><\/div>\n
Agj\u00ebrimi dhe durimi sinonime edhe n\u00eb shp\u00ebrblim<\/span><\/div>\n
Agj\u00ebrimi dhe durimi kan\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb element tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb tregon se jan\u00eb sinonime. \u00cbsht\u00eb shp\u00ebrblim. Jan\u00eb dy veprat e rralla, shp\u00ebrblimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat \u00ebsht\u00eb i pallogaritur. Thot\u00eb Allahu duke na folur p\u00ebr shp\u00ebrblimin e durimtar\u00ebve:<\/span><\/div>\n
…nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb durueshmive u jepet shp\u00ebrblimi i tyre pa mas\u00eb!<\/span>\u201c (ez-Zumer, 10)<\/span><\/div>\n
Nd\u00ebrsa Muhammedi [alejhis salatu ves selam] n\u00eb nj\u00eb hadith kudsijj thot\u00eb duke cituar Allahun:\u00a0<\/span>Agj\u00ebrimi m\u00eb p\u00ebrket Mua dhe Un\u00eb shp\u00ebrblej p\u00ebr t\u00eb<\/span>…\u201d<\/a>[3]<\/span><\/div>\n
Durimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dob\u00ebsi<\/span><\/div>\n
P\u00ebrkundrazi. \u00cbsht\u00eb tipar dhe virtyt i \u00e7muar. \u00cbsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja q\u00eb besimtarin e prezanton si t\u00eb formuar. Muhammedi [alejhis salatu ves selam] ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:\u00a0<\/span>Besimtari q\u00eb p\u00ebrzihet me njer\u00ebz dhe duron t\u00eb metat \u2013 shqet\u00ebsimet e tyre, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i mir\u00eb se ai q\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrzihet me ta dhe nuk duron t\u00eb metat e tyre<\/span>.\u201d<\/a>[4]<\/span><\/div>\n
K\u00ebshtu, t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh me njer\u00ebz, sidomos kur k\u00ebt\u00eb e b\u00ebn me q\u00ebllim t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimit t\u00eb tyre, edhe n\u00ebse ofendohesh nga ndonj\u00eb injorant, ose duron dhun\u00ebn e ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb marri, mos mendo se je n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsuar. Muhammedi [alejhis salatu ves selam] betohet se kjo n\u00ebnkupton lart\u00ebsim. N\u00eb nj\u00eb hadith t\u00eb transmetuar nga Tirmidhiu q\u00ebndron:\u00a0<\/span>…dhe nuk ndodh\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebhet padrejt\u00ebsi e ai t\u00eb duroj\u00eb, e q\u00eb Allahu t\u00eb mos ia rrit nderin dhe krenarin\u00eb…\u201d<\/a>[5]<\/span><\/div>\n
K\u00ebshtu, nuk ka si durimi t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb tipar i njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj. Kur\u2019ani na m\u00ebson se ka qen\u00eb tipar edhe i profet\u00ebve.<\/span><\/div>\n
Ti (Muhammed) duro, ashtu sikurse duruan t\u00eb d\u00ebrguarit e vendosur…<\/span>\u201c (el-Ahkaf, 35)<\/span><\/div>\n
Durimi sekret i fitoreve <\/span><\/div>\n
Durimi \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebs edhe p\u00ebr suksese n\u00eb fusha tjera t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Ai garanton fitoren sa her\u00eb q\u00eb fjala kryesore i lihet atij. Allahu ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:<\/span><\/div>\n
N\u00ebse ju p\u00ebrjetoni ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ata i d\u00ebshp\u00ebron ajo, e n\u00ebse ju godet ndonj\u00eb e keqe, ata g\u00ebzohen p\u00ebr at\u00eb. Po, n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ju b\u00ebheni t\u00eb duruesh\u00ebm dhe ruheni (m\u00ebkateve), dinak\u00ebria e tyre nuk do t’u d\u00ebmtoj\u00eb aspak. \u00cbsht\u00eb e sigurt se All-llahu e ka n\u00eb dor\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb punojn\u00eb ata<\/span>.<\/span>\u201c (Ali Imran, 120)<\/span><\/div>\n
Dhe prej tyre Ne b\u00ebm\u00eb prij\u00ebs q\u00eb me urdhrin Ton\u00eb udh\u00ebzojn\u00eb, pasi q\u00eb ata (q\u00eb i b\u00ebm\u00eb prij\u00ebsa) ishin t\u00eb duruesh\u00ebm dhe ndaj argumenteve Tona ishin t\u00eb bindur<\/span>.<\/span>\u201c (es-Sexhde 24)<\/span><\/div>\n
Muslimi transmeton hadithin e Habbabit, i cili thot\u00eb: \u201cIu ankuam t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Allahut (p\u00ebr persekutimet nga idhujtar\u00ebt), nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ai kishte mb\u00ebshtetur kok\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga rrobat e tij n\u00ebn hijen e Qabes\u00eb. Ne i tham\u00eb: A nuk do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh ndihm\u00eb p\u00ebr ne? A nuk do t\u00eb lutesh p\u00ebr ne? Mir\u00ebpo ai tha: \u201cV\u00ebrtet, tek ata (besimtar\u00eb) q\u00eb kan\u00eb qen\u00eb p\u00ebrpara jush, merrej nj\u00eb burr\u00eb, hapej nj\u00eb grop\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e vendosnin at\u00eb. M\u00eb pas e merrnin sharr\u00ebn, ia vendosnin n\u00eb kok\u00eb dhe e ndanin n\u00eb dy pjes\u00eb, pastaj ia rripnin mishin dhe l\u00ebkur\u00ebn me kreh\u00ebr hekuri, por as kjo nuk e largonte nga feja e tij. Betohem n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb Allahut, se Allahu do ta plot\u00ebsoj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fe, saq\u00eb kalor\u00ebsi do t\u00eb udh\u00ebtoj\u00eb nga San\u2019aja deri n\u00eb Hadremeut, duke mos patur frik\u00eb ask\u00ebnd p\u00ebrve\u00e7 Allahut, apo ujkun p\u00ebr kopen\u00eb e vet, mir\u00ebpo ju nguteni.\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n
P\u00ebrmbyllje<\/span><\/div>\n
Durimi nuk do t\u00eb jep frytet e tij n\u00ebse nuk trajtohet tamam si nj\u00eb adhurim. Pra, n\u00ebse nuk p\u00ebrfillen kushtet, at\u00ebher\u00eb, vlera e tij mund t\u00eb humbet fare. K\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebrmbylljen e k\u00ebsaj ligj\u00ebrate do t\u00eb doja ta b\u00ebj me disa prej kushteve t\u00eb durimit q\u00eb garantojn\u00eb pranimin dhe shp\u00ebrblimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb:<\/span><\/div>\n
1)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>Nijjeti. Q\u00eb t\u00eb durohet vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr hire t\u00eb Allahut, ngase, nuk llogarit\u00ebsh i fort\u00eb n\u00ebse nuk hakmerresh vet\u00ebm pse je frikacak. Allahu ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:<\/span><\/div>\n
Edhe ata q\u00eb pat\u00ebn durim (ndaj t\u00eb k\u00ebqijave) p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e Zotit t\u00eb tyre dhe q\u00eb e fal\u00ebn namazin, dhe nga ajo me \u00e7ka Ne i furnizuam ata kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb fshehtas e haptas dhe me t\u00eb mir\u00eb e largojn\u00eb t\u00eb keqen. T\u00eb till\u00ebt kan\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/span>\u201c (err-Rra\u2019du, 22)<\/span><\/div>\n
2) Durimi t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn kur ti sprovohesh me di\u00e7. Muhammedi [alejhis salatu ves selam] ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: <\/span><\/div>\n
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Durimi \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb momentet e para t\u00eb goditjes \u2013 sprovimit.<\/span>\u201d<\/a>[6]<\/span><\/div>\n
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<\/a>[1] Albani thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb autentik.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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<\/a>[2] Buhariu.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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<\/a>[3] Transmetim unanim. Teksti \u00ebsht\u00eb i Buhariut.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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<\/a>[4] Transmeton Ibni Maxheh nd\u00ebrsa Albani thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb autentik.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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<\/a>[5] Albani thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb autentik.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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<\/a>[6] Transmetojn\u00eb Muslimi, Ebu Davudi, Tirmidhiu dhe Ibni Maxheh.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ramazani \u00ebsht\u00eb muaji i durimit. Durimi, si\u00e7 ka ardhur n\u00eb nj\u00eb hadith, \u00ebsht\u00eb sinonim i Ramazanit. Nesaiu transmeton n\u00eb Sunen se Pejgamberi [alejhis salatu ves selam] ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:\u00a0Agj\u00ebrimi i muajit t\u00eb durimit dhe tri dit\u00ebve nga \u00e7do muaj llogaritet agj\u00ebrim i t\u00ebr\u00eb koh\u00ebs.\u201d[1] Ramazani me adhurimet e tij arrin t\u00eb reflektoj\u00eb durimin dhe esenc\u00ebn e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1926,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1925","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1925","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1925"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1925\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1927,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1925\/revisions\/1927"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1926"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1925"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1925"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1925"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}