{"id":198,"date":"2014-03-15T09:58:48","date_gmt":"2014-03-15T09:58:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/SHKIWP\/index.php\/2014\/03\/15\/porosi-per-femren-muslimane\/"},"modified":"2014-03-15T09:58:48","modified_gmt":"2014-03-15T09:58:48","slug":"porosi-per-femren-muslimane","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=198","title":{"rendered":"POROSI P\u00cbR FEMR\u00cbN MUSLIMANE"},"content":{"rendered":"

<\/span>Allahu, azze ue xhel,<\/i> i ka lavd\u00ebruar grat\u00eb muslimane t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb besimtare, durimtare, e t\u00eb devotshme dhe i ka p\u00ebrshkruajtur se ato jan\u00eb besnike <\/span>q\u00eb ruajn\u00eb fsheht\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb ka urdh\u00ebruar Allahu. Prandaj Allahu, azze ue xhel,<\/span><\/i> <\/span>kur i ka p\u00ebrshkruar cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e besimtar\u00ebve  ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: <\/span>“Dhe Zoti iu p\u00ebrgjigj lutjes s\u00eb tyre:\u201cUn\u00eb nuk do t\u2019ia humb mundin askujt nga ju q\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb vepra, qoft\u00eb mashkull apo fem\u00ebr.Ju jeni nj\u00eblloj (n\u00eb shp\u00ebrblim).”<\/b> Ali Imran 195.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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<\/span>Motra ime muslimane, pasi q\u00eb Allahu t\u00eb nderoi e fisnik\u00ebroi me k\u00ebt\u00eb fe dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebri mbret\u00ebresh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet,  d\u00ebshiroja ta dhuroj nj\u00eb buqet\u00eb k\u00ebshillash, i cili i p\u00ebrmban n\u00eb vete dhjet\u00eb k\u00ebshilla q\u00eb i p\u00ebrngjajn\u00eb tr\u00ebndafilave t\u00eb bukur dhe me arom\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme: <\/span><\/p>\n

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<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e par\u00eb:<\/span><\/b>  Gruaja muslimane beson se Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb Zoti i saj dhe se Muhamedi \u00ebsht\u00eb i d\u00ebrguari i saj dhe se Islami \u00ebsht\u00eb feja e saj. Gjurm\u00ebt e besimit t\u00eb saj shihen qartazi n\u00eb fjal\u00ebt, veprat dhe mendimet e saja, pra ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e kujdesshme prej hidh\u00ebrimit t\u00eb Allahut dhe i frik\u00ebsohet d\u00ebnimit t\u00eb Tij t\u00eb dhimbsh\u00ebm si rezultat i kund\u00ebrshtimit t\u00eb urdh\u00ebrave t\u00eb Tij.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e dyt\u00eb:<\/span><\/b> Gruaja muslimane \u00ebsht\u00eb e kujdesshme p\u00ebr faljen e pes\u00eb  koh\u00ebve t\u00eb namazit me n\u00ebnshtrim t\u00eb plot\u00eb dhe me abdes\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur, duke mos e preokupuar prej namazit asnj\u00eb preokupacion tjet\u00ebr dhe penguar prej adhurimit asnj\u00eb d\u00ebfrim. Tek ajo shihen qartazi gjurm\u00ebt e namazit, p\u00ebr shkak se namazi largon prej imoralitetit dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqijave dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb fortifikat\u00eb e madhe prej m\u00ebkateve.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e tret\u00eb:<\/span><\/b> Gruaja muslimane \u00ebsht\u00eb e kujdesshme n\u00eb veshjen e mbules\u00ebs dhe ajo nderohet e fisnik\u00ebrohet me veshjen e saj. Nuk paraqitet  vet\u00ebm se e mbuluar duke k\u00ebrkuar mbrojtje prej Allahut, azze ue xhel,<\/i> dhe duke e fal\u00ebnderuar At\u00eb q\u00eb e fisnik\u00ebroi dhe e mbrojti me veshjen e hixhabit dhe d\u00ebshiroi pastrimin e saj. Thot\u00eb i Lart\u00ebsuari: “<\/b><\/span>O ti i D\u00ebrguar , thuaju grave dhe vajzave t\u00eb tua, si dhe grave t\u00eb <\/span>besimtar\u00ebve, q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebshojn\u00eb mbules\u00ebn e tyre (t\u00eb kok\u00ebs) p\u00ebrreth trupit. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e p\u00ebrshtatshme q\u00eb ato t\u00eb njihen e t\u00eb mos ngacmohen nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.” <\/span><\/b>Ahzab 59.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e kat\u00ebrt<\/span><\/b>: Gruaja muslimane \u00ebsht\u00eb e kujdesshme n\u00eb n\u00ebnshtrimin ndaj burrit t\u00eb saj, \u00ebsht\u00eb e but\u00eb me at\u00eb, e m\u00ebshiron, e thirr n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe e k\u00ebshillon, e qet\u00ebson, nuk e rrit z\u00ebrin e saj ndaj tij dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e vrazhg\u00ebt me at\u00eb n\u00eb fjalim.          Transmetohet me nj\u00eb hadith t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet se Pejgamberi, sal-allahu alejhi ue selem,<\/i> ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: “Ajo grua q\u00eb i fal\u00eb pes\u00eb koh\u00ebt e namazit, e agj\u00ebron Ramazanin, e mbron nderin e saj dhe e respekton burrin e saj, hyn n\u00eb Xhenetin e Allahut.”<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e pest\u00eb<\/span><\/b>: Gruaja muslimane i edukon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj me n\u00ebnshtrim ndaj Allahut, azze ue xhel,<\/i> i ushqen me besim t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet dhe ia mbjell n\u00eb zemrat e tyre dashurin ndaj Allahut dhe t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Tij, sal-allahu alejhi ue selem,<\/i> dhe i largon prej m\u00ebkateve dhe moralit t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar, thot\u00eb Allahu a.v.xh.:<\/span> “O ju, q\u00eb besoni! Ruani veten dhe familjet tuaja nga zjarri, l\u00ebnda djeg\u00ebse e t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe gur\u00ebt. At\u00eb e mbik\u00ebqyrin engj\u00ebjt  e fuqish\u00ebm e t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kurr\u00eb nuk i kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb urdhrat <\/span>e Allahut, por i zbatojn\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb ato.” <\/b>Tehrim 6.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e gjasht\u00eb:<\/span><\/b> Gruaja muslimane nuk vetmohet me burr\u00eb t\u00eb huaj, transmetohet me nj\u00eb hadith t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet se Pejgamberi, sal-allahu alejhi ue selem,<\/i>  ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: “Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vetmuar nj\u00eb grua me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb, vet\u00ebm se shejtani ka qen\u00eb i treti i tyre.” <\/i>Transmeton Ahmedi dhe Tirmidhiu, hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb i v\u00ebrtet.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/i>Pra, ajo nuk udh\u00ebton e vetmuar pa mahrem, nuk i viziton tregjet dhe vendet  publike vet\u00ebm se me nevoj\u00eb edhe at\u00eb duke e mbuluar trupin e saj me hixhab.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e shtat\u00eb:<\/span><\/b> Gruaja muslimane nuk i p\u00ebrngjason  burrave n\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb  e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb vet\u00ebm se p\u00ebr burrat. Thot\u00eb Pejgamberi, sal-allahu alejhi ue selem: “I mallkoft\u00eb Allahu ata burra q\u00eb i p\u00ebrngjasojn\u00eb  grave dhe ato gra q\u00eb i p\u00ebrngjasojn\u00eb burrave.” Transmeton Buhariu ,Ebu Davudi. Tirmidhiu dhe Ibni Maxheh.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/i>Poashtu ndalohet p\u00ebrngjasimi me jobesimtaret n\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7ka ve\u00e7ohen ato prej zbukurimeve dhe pamjeve, ku  thot\u00eb Pejgamberi, sal-allahu alejhi ue selem: <\/span>“Kush i p\u00ebrngjason nj\u00eb populli ai \u00ebsht\u00eb prej tyre.”<\/i> Transmeton Ahmedi dhe Shejh Albani thot\u00eb se hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb i v\u00ebrtet .<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e tet\u00eb:<\/span><\/b> Gruaja muslimane n\u00eb radh\u00ebt e grave thirr n\u00eb fen\u00eb e Allahut, azze ue xhel,<\/i> me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb bukura, e duke e vizituar fqinj\u00ebn e saj, e duke komunikuar me motrat e saj muslimane me telefon e me internet, e duke shp\u00ebrndar\u00eb libra dhe kaseta islame. Ajo vepron me at\u00eb \u00e7ka e thot\u00eb dhe kujdeset ta shp\u00ebton veten dhe motrat e saja nga d\u00ebnimi i Allahut. Pejgamberi, sal-allahu alejhi ue selem, thot\u00eb: “T\u00eb b\u00ebhesh shkaktar p\u00ebr udh\u00ebzimin e nj\u00eb njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ty se sa t\u00eb posedosh deve t\u00eb kuqe .” <\/i>Transmeton Buhariu dhe Muslimi<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e n\u00ebnt\u00eb:<\/span><\/b> Gruaja muslimane e ruan zemr\u00ebn e saj prej dyshimeve dhe epsheve, syrin e saj prej haramit, veshin e saj prej muzik\u00ebs dhe gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb turpshme, t\u00eb gjitha gjymtyr\u00ebt e saj prej thyerjes s\u00eb ligjit t\u00eb Allahut dhe e di se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb devotshm\u00ebria. Transmetohet se Pejgamberi, sal-allahu alejhi ue selem,<\/i>  me nj\u00eb hadith t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: “Turp\u00ebroni prej Allahut m\u00eb turp t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet, se kush turp\u00ebrohet prej Tij me turp t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet, e mbron kok\u00ebn e tij dhe vet\u00ebdijen, barkun dhe \u00e7ka ka n\u00eb t\u00eb, dhe kush e kujton pleq\u00ebrin\u00eb i harron k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj bote”. <\/i>Transmeton Tirmidhiu.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>K\u00ebshilla e dhjet\u00eb:<\/span><\/b> Gruaja muslimane nuk i kalon dit\u00ebt dhe net\u00ebt e saja n\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb kota, e ruan koh\u00ebn e saj dhe e shfryt\u00ebzon n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgojuese, bart\u00ebse fjal\u00ebsh, ofenduese, e pap\u00ebrqendruar e neglizhente. Allahu, azze ue xhel, thot\u00eb<\/i>: “<\/b><\/span>Largohuni nga ata q\u00eb fen\u00eb e tyre e marrin si loj\u00eb dhe d\u00ebfrime q\u00eb jan\u00eb mashtruar nga jeta e k\u00ebsaj bote.!” <\/span><\/span><\/b>Enam 70, dhe thot\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb popull q\u00eb e humb\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre duke e kaluar n\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb kota : “<\/span>Kur Ora (e Kiametit) t\u2019u vij\u00eb papritur, ata do t\u00eb th\u00ebrrasin:\u201cT\u00eb mjer\u00ebt ne, sa shum\u00eb q\u00eb e kemi neglizhuar (Kiametin) n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e Tok\u00ebs!\u201d dhe do t\u00eb bartin gjynahet e veta mbi shpinat e tyre. Eh, sa e sh\u00ebmtuar \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo barr\u00eb!” <\/span><\/b>Enam 31.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>Autor: Aid El Karni                                                                <\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrkthehu: Irfan Jahiu<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Allahu, azze ue xhel, i ka lavd\u00ebruar grat\u00eb muslimane t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb besimtare, durimtare, e t\u00eb devotshme dhe i ka p\u00ebrshkruajtur se ato jan\u00eb besnike q\u00eb ruajn\u00eb fsheht\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb ka urdh\u00ebruar Allahu. Prandaj Allahu, azze ue xhel, kur i ka p\u00ebrshkruar cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e besimtar\u00ebve  ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: “Dhe Zoti iu p\u00ebrgjigj lutjes s\u00eb tyre:\u201cUn\u00eb nuk do […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-198","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c94-gruaja-dhe-familja"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=198"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=198"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=198"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=198"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}