{"id":217,"date":"2014-04-10T10:41:29","date_gmt":"2014-04-10T10:41:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/SHKIWP\/index.php\/2014\/04\/10\/rendesia-e-shokeve-dhe-e-shoqerise\/"},"modified":"2014-04-10T10:41:29","modified_gmt":"2014-04-10T10:41:29","slug":"rendesia-e-shokeve-dhe-e-shoqerise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=217","title":{"rendered":"R\u00cbND\u00cbSIA E SHOK\u00cbVE DHE E SHOQ\u00cbRIS\u00cb"},"content":{"rendered":"

Njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb llojllojsh\u00ebm, me karaktere t\u00eb ndryshme, me natyrshm\u00ebri q\u00eb e dallon nj\u00ebrin nga tjetrin, dhe \u00e7do nj\u00ebri anon ka ajo q\u00eb i p\u00ebrshtatet atij dhe e don\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i ngjash\u00ebm me t\u00eb! I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, thot\u00eb<\/span>: \u201cShpirtrat jan\u00eb si ushtar\u00ebt q\u00eb grumbullohen; ata q\u00eb ata i njohin do t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb mir\u00eb nd\u00ebrsa me ata q\u00eb nuk i njohin nuk do t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb mir\u00eb”. <\/span><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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Njeriu i men\u00e7ur nuk e shoq\u00ebron p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se t\u00eb ndershmin dhe nuk p\u00ebrzihet p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se me t\u00eb mirin. Nuk e shoq\u00ebron t\u00eb huajin p\u00ebrderisa t\u2019ia m\u00ebson gjendjen e tij dhe nuk e v\u00ebllaz\u00ebron at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e njeh p\u00ebrderisa t\u2019ia zbulon veprat e tij, sepse njeriu ndikohet nga morali i shokut t\u00eb tij dhe p\u00ebrshkruhet me cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e atij q\u00eb e shoq\u00ebron. Ebu Hurejra, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb, p\u00ebrcjell se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cNjeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fen\u00eb e shokut t\u00eb vet, pra le t\u00eb shikon se k\u00eb e shoq\u00ebron\u201d.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

Hadithi na b\u00ebn t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb se njeriu duhet t\u00eb mediton dhe t\u00eb mendon se k\u00eb e merr p\u00ebr shok\u00eb dhe k\u00eb e shoq\u00ebron. N\u00ebse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me fen\u00eb dhe moralin e tij le ta shoq\u00ebron, ose p\u00ebrndryshe le t\u00eb largohet nga ai, sepse shoq\u00ebria e keqe do ta shkat\u00ebrron dhe n\u00eb moralin dhe fen\u00eb e tij do t\u00eb ndikon!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ebu Hatim thot\u00eb: Kush e shoq\u00ebron t\u00eb ligin nuk shp\u00ebton dhe po ashtu ai q\u00eb hyn n\u00ebp\u00ebr dyert e t\u00eb keqes akuzohet p\u00ebr lig\u00ebsi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ib\u00ebn Arabi thot\u00eb: Shoq\u00ebrimi i t\u00eb ul\u00ebt\u00ebve dhe m\u00ebkatar\u00ebve ta sh\u00ebmton pamjen, ta ul pozit\u00ebn, ta ngec gjuh\u00ebn dhe njeriun e posht\u00ebron.<\/span><\/p>\n

Shurejk ib\u00ebn Abdullah thot\u00eb: Mos udh\u00ebto me m\u00ebkatarin se ai t\u00eb shet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pije e ushqim.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hatab ib\u00ebn el Muali e k\u00ebshilloi t\u00eb birin dhe i tha: Ki kujdes nga shoq\u00ebria e keqe. Ata e tradhtojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e shoq\u00ebron, dhe e pik\u00ebllojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb i merr ata p\u00ebr shok, dhe af\u00ebrsia e tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e rrezikshme se sa zgjebja dhe mos shoq\u00ebrimi i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb prej moralit t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ebu Musa el Esharij, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur nga ai, p\u00ebrcjell se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201c<\/i><\/span>Shembulli i shokut t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe shokut t\u00eb keq \u00ebsht\u00eb (p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht) si poseduesi i miskut dhe kova\u00e7it. Mbart\u00ebsi i miskut ose do te jap\u00eb er\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ose do ta blesh, ose do t\u00eb ndjesh prej tij er\u00ebn e mir\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa kova\u00e7i ose do t\u00eb t\u00eb djeg\u00eb rrobat, ose do t\u00eb ndjesh prej tij er\u00ebn e keqe\u201d. <\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

Largoju m\u00ebkatar\u00ebve dhe atyre t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuarve dhe bojkotoi gjynahqar\u00ebt. P\u00ebrzierja me ta shum\u00eb nd\u00ebshkime i solli dhe shum\u00eb begati i largoi dhe shum\u00eb bela i shkaktoi: \u201c<\/span>Ai q\u00eb ka p\u00ebr shok djallin, dihet sa shok i keq \u00ebsht\u00eb!\u201d. <\/span><\/b>Nisa 38.<\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00eb q\u00eb e udh\u00ebheqin m\u00ebkatar\u00ebt dhe <\/span>kriminel\u00ebt, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb pik\u00ebllim dhe humbje t\u00eb madhe: \u201c<\/b><\/span>At\u00eb Dit\u00eb keqb\u00ebr\u00ebsi do t\u00eb haj\u00eb gishtat e duarve t\u00eb veta, duke th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cAh, sikur ta kisha marr\u00eb rrug\u00ebn <\/span><\/b>(e drejt\u00eb) me t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin! Ah, sikur t\u00eb mos e kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb filanin mik!  Ai m\u00eb ka larguar nga K\u00ebshilla <\/b>(Kurani) q\u00eb m\u00eb kishte ardhur! N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, djalli e braktis gjithmon\u00eb njeriun n\u00eb \u00e7astin e nevoj\u00ebs\u201d. <\/b>Furkan 27-29.<\/span><\/p>\n

O ju musliman, shoq\u00ebria e mir\u00eb dhe shoku <\/span>i <\/span>mir\u00eb<\/span> jan\u00eb <\/span>begati <\/span>e madhe dhe e shtrenjt\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

U pyet ib\u00ebn Semak: Kush e meriton nga shok\u00ebt t\u2019i duam?! Tha: Ai q\u00eb e ka fen\u00eb, dhe mendjen e sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb, ai i cili nuk t\u00eb lodh\u00eb kur \u00ebsht\u00eb af\u00ebr, dhe nuk t\u00eb harron kur \u00ebsht\u00eb larg, kur je af\u00ebr tij t\u00eb afron, dhe kur largohesh nga ai p\u00ebrkujdeset p\u00ebr ty, kur k\u00ebrkon ndihm\u00eb nga ai t\u00eb ndihmon dhe kur ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet.<\/span><\/p>\n

Shoq\u00ebria m\u00eb e mir\u00eb dhe shok\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb kur i sheh ta rikujtojn\u00eb Allahun, urt\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre n\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb dobi, dhe k\u00ebshillat dhe biografia e tyre t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb n\u00eb adhurime: \u201cDhe q\u00ebndro me ata q\u00eb i luten Zotit t\u00eb vet n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes dhe mbr\u00ebmje, duke d\u00ebshiruar Fytyr\u00ebn <\/b>(k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb) e Tij dhe mos i shmang syt\u00eb nga ata <\/b>(tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt), duke d\u00ebshiruar stolit\u00eb e shk\u00eblqimin e k\u00ebsaj jete. Mos d\u00ebgjo at\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e t\u00eb cilit ia kemi l\u00ebn\u00eb mosp\u00ebrfill\u00ebse ndaj p\u00ebrmendjes Son\u00eb e, q\u00eb shkon pas d\u00ebshirave t\u00eb veta, duke shkelur \u00e7do kufi n\u00eb veprimet e veta\u201d<\/b>. Kef 28.<\/span><\/p>\n

O ju musliman rikujtoni fjal\u00ebn e Allahut: \u201cAt\u00eb Dit\u00eb miqt\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhen armiq t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 t\u00eb drejt\u00ebve, q\u00eb e kan\u00eb pasur frik\u00eb Allahun\u201d.<\/b> Zuhruf 67.<\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrshtati: Irfan JAHIU<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb llojllojsh\u00ebm, me karaktere t\u00eb ndryshme, me natyrshm\u00ebri q\u00eb e dallon nj\u00ebrin nga tjetrin, dhe \u00e7do nj\u00ebri anon ka ajo q\u00eb i p\u00ebrshtatet atij dhe e don\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i ngjash\u00ebm me t\u00eb! I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cShpirtrat jan\u00eb si ushtar\u00ebt q\u00eb grumbullohen; […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-217","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c95-ahlak"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/217","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=217"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/217\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=217"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=217"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=217"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}