{"id":237,"date":"2014-05-05T10:45:56","date_gmt":"2014-05-05T10:45:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/SHKIWP\/index.php\/2014\/05\/05\/gruaja-martohet-per-fe-e-jo-per-bukuri\/"},"modified":"2014-05-05T10:45:56","modified_gmt":"2014-05-05T10:45:56","slug":"gruaja-martohet-per-fe-e-jo-per-bukuri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=237","title":{"rendered":"GRUAJA MARTOHET P\u00cbR FE E JO P\u00cbR BUKURI!!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb prej dit\u00ebve, m\u00eb erdhi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi i nj\u00eb familjeje t\u00eb ndershme q\u00eb e pata njoftuar m\u00eb her\u00ebt, dhe ma shprehu d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e vet q\u00eb ta marton vajz\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebr mua. Un\u00eb pajtova t\u00eb dal dhe t\u00eb shikoj vajz\u00ebn, sipas kritereve q\u00eb i jep Islami, mir\u00ebpo ajo nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu fare, nuk ishte e bukur dhe ishte e vjet\u00ebr n\u00eb mosh\u00eb!<\/span><\/p>\n

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Vendosa q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e martoj! Ajo i ndjeu shenjat e pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb sime n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn time, mir\u00ebpo para se t\u00eb largohet e mbuloi fytyr\u00ebn e saj dhe m\u00eb tha: Ti je burri i fundit n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time q\u00eb do ta sheh fytyr\u00ebn time dhe nuk do t\u00eb martohem m\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb!!<\/span><\/p>\n

U ngrita dhe u largova nga vendi dhe arrita n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time, mir\u00ebpo nuk mundesha t\u00eb b\u00ebj gjum\u00eb! Ndoshta nuk besoni, mir\u00ebpo fillova t\u00eb ndjej dashuri t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme ndaj saj q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebri ta harroj pamjen e saj, dhe mu rikujtonin fjal\u00ebt e saj, dhe thash pasha Allahun, fytyr\u00ebn e saj nuk ka p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb asnj\u00eb dh\u00ebnd\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrve\u00e7 meje!<\/span><\/p>\n

Nuk kisha durim t\u00eb pres dhe trokita n\u00eb der\u00ebn e prindit t\u00eb saj n\u00eb ora tre t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit! E hapi der\u00ebn dhe i thash t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen dua fejes\u00eb me vajz\u00ebn t\u00ebnde! T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen kur u fejuam prindi i saj m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoi, dhe filloi t\u00eb qan, dhe m\u00eb tha: Allahu ti largoft\u00eb brengat ashtu si ma largove breng\u00ebn time.<\/span><\/p>\n

I thash: Kjo do t\u00eb jet\u00eb me lejen e Allahut gruaja ime n\u00eb dynja dhe Xhenet!<\/span><\/p>\n

U ktheva n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb pushoj dhe e lajm\u00ebrova shokut tim t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmon n\u00eb ceremonin\u00eb e martes\u00ebs dhe dhuratave, dhe pas nj\u00eb periudhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr u martova me t\u00eb. Dit\u00ebn e martes\u00ebs vajza m\u00eb tha: E di se m\u00eb martove prej m\u00ebshir\u00ebs ndaj meje, mir\u00ebpo pasha Allahun nuk do t\u00eb pendohesh asnj\u00eb her\u00eb!<\/span><\/p>\n

Dhe me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, Allahu e b\u00ebri n\u00eb syt\u00eb e mi t\u00eb jet\u00eb gruaja m\u00eb e bukur e dynjas\u00eb, dhe m\u00eb furnizoi me tri vajza, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia e jet\u00ebs son\u00eb!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ajo me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb u b\u00eb Xheneti im n\u00eb dynja, as nuk e ngrit z\u00ebrin ndaj meje, as nuk m\u00eb ofendon, as nuk zem\u00ebrohet me mua, dhe sjellja e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mira!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ngjarjen time t\u00eb jet\u00ebs pata d\u00ebshir\u00eb ta ndaj me ju, dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00ebsim, p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb i japin p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi bukuris\u00eb para fes\u00eb dhe moralit. E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb se edhe un\u00eb gabova, por Allahu ma mund\u00ebsoi t\u00eb mos vazhdoj n\u00eb at\u00eb gabim, dhe ta martoj nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb ka fe dhe moral, dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia e syve t\u00eb mi, n\u00eb dynja dhe me lejen e Allahut edhe n\u00eb Xhenet!<\/span><\/p>\n

I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cMartohet femra p\u00ebr kat\u00ebr gj\u00ebra: p\u00ebr pasurin\u00eb e saj, nderin e saj, bukurin\u00eb dhe fen\u00eb e saj. Zgjidhni at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fetare, q\u00eb t\u00eb keni begati\u201d.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb prej dit\u00ebve, m\u00eb erdhi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi i nj\u00eb familjeje t\u00eb ndershme q\u00eb e pata njoftuar m\u00eb her\u00ebt, dhe ma shprehu d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e vet q\u00eb ta marton vajz\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebr mua. Un\u00eb pajtova t\u00eb dal dhe t\u00eb shikoj vajz\u00ebn, sipas kritereve q\u00eb i jep Islami, mir\u00ebpo ajo nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu fare, nuk ishte e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-237","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c94-gruaja-dhe-familja"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=237"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=237"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=237"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=237"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}