{"id":3736,"date":"2019-10-05T09:28:39","date_gmt":"2019-10-05T09:28:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=3736"},"modified":"2019-10-05T09:28:39","modified_gmt":"2019-10-05T09:28:39","slug":"te-dhena-te-verteta-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=3736","title":{"rendered":"T\u00cb DH\u00cbNA T\u00cb V\u00cbRTETA"},"content":{"rendered":"
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  1. Shumica e njer\u00ebzve polemizojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb provokuar e jo p\u00ebr t\u2019u bindur!<\/li>\n
  2. Personat q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb nga mang\u00ebsia n\u00eb vet\u00ebbesim, zakonisht p\u00ebrpiqen q\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga vlerat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb ata t\u00eb duken m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt!<\/li>\n
  3. Gjithmon\u00eb ka njer\u00ebz n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde ku p\u00ebr ta ndien nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb madhe q\u00eb t\u2019i takosh n\u00eb kat\u00ebr sy, pa pasur ndonj\u00eb sebep bind\u00ebs p\u00ebr takim!<\/li>\n
  4. Shumica e njer\u00ebzve nuk u kushtojn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb bukura n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se at\u00ebher\u00eb kur kalon koha dhe ato humbin!<\/li>\n
  5. Nuk qortohet njeriu p\u00ebr varf\u00ebrin\u00eb e tij apo p\u00ebr pamjen e sh\u00ebmtuar t\u00eb tij, sepse ai n\u00eb to nuk ka fuqi e as mund\u00ebsi ndryshimi, mir\u00ebpo qortohet p\u00ebr gjuh\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb f\u00eblliqur dhe moralin e lig\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  6. Gjithmon\u00eb ekziston nj\u00eb doz\u00eb e vog\u00ebl e realitetit pas fjal\u00ebs \u201cb\u00ebja shaka\u201d, nj\u00eb doz\u00eb e vog\u00ebl e ndjenjave pas fjal\u00ebs \u201cnuk m\u00eb intereson\u201d, nj\u00eb doz\u00eb e vog\u00ebl e nevoj\u00ebs pas fjal\u00ebs \u201cm\u00eb l\u00ebr mua dhe problemin tim\u201d, dhe nj\u00eb doz\u00eb e madhe pas fjal\u00ebve \u201cheshtje\u201d!<\/li>\n
  7. Po t\u2019i kishte mjekuar mjeku t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00ebt me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin ila\u00e7, do t\u00eb vdisnin shumica prej tyre, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, mos i trajto t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  8. Mendimi i mir\u00eb, rehati p\u00ebr zemr\u00ebn.<\/li>\n
  9. Gjumi i leht\u00eb pasi t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re, t\u00eb ndihmon n\u00eb p\u00ebrforcimin e memorizimit t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb e ke m\u00ebsuar.<\/li>\n
  10. Pagjum\u00ebsia p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, shkakton v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb kontrollimin e ndjenjave t\u00eb tua, derisa ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb qesh\u00ebsh shum\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra t\u00eb kota!<\/li>\n
  11. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ndodh, q\u00eb mir\u00ebsia e tep\u00ebrt t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb prej shkaqeve t\u00eb problemeve t\u00eb tua!<\/li>\n
  12. Leximi \u00ebsht\u00eb jet\u00eb, dituria \u00ebsht\u00eb drit\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  13. Besimi ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr vite t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtohet, p\u00ebr disa sekonda t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrohet dhe p\u00ebr t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet!<\/li>\n
  14. T\u00eb jesh zem\u00ebrbut\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb eg\u00ebr, llogaritet trim\u00ebri e jo dob\u00ebsi!<\/li>\n
  15. Nuk interesohet p\u00ebr ty, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 ai t\u00eb cilit i mungon dhe nuk i mungon, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 atij, i cili e ndien distanc\u00ebn e boshll\u00ebkut pasi ti shkon.<\/li>\n
  16. Nj\u00eb sh\u00ebtitje n\u00ebp\u00ebr spital, t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb thuash nj\u00eb mij\u00eb her\u00eb Elhamdulilah (Fal\u00ebnderimi i takon Allahut).<\/li>\n
  17. Fjal\u00ebt u sh\u00ebmb\u00ebllejn\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebsave, n\u00ebse i p\u00ebrdor n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, me to e mbyll nj\u00eb goj\u00eb dhe e hap nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr.<\/li>\n
  18. T\u00eb qarit vjen at\u00ebher\u00eb, kur t\u00eb gjitha shkronjat e alfabetit jan\u00eb t\u00eb pafuqishme p\u00ebr t\u2019u shprehur!<\/li>\n
  19. Bukuria e shpirtit \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja e vetme, q\u00eb i verbri mund ta shoh\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  20. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb shtohet l\u00ebmosha aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb shtohet risku, sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb shtohet p\u00ebrulja n\u00eb namaz aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb shtohet lumturia dhe sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb shtohet respektimi i prind\u00ebrve aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb shtohet suksesi n\u00eb jet\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  21. T\u00eb folurit \u00ebsht\u00eb sikurse ila\u00e7i, n\u00ebse pak\u00ebson t\u00eb b\u00ebn dobi e n\u00ebse shton t\u00eb vret. (Amru ib\u00ebn El-As)<\/li>\n
  22. Rr\u00ebfehet se thjesht\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb gjysma e bukuris\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  23. Disa njer\u00ebz jan\u00eb si vitet, nuk kthehen m\u00eb, as q\u00eb harrohen dhe as q\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebriten!<\/li>\n
  24. Ai q\u00eb nuk e ndien lodhjen, s\u2019ka p\u00ebr ta ndier as \u00ebmb\u00eblsin\u00eb e rehatis\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  25. Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e shkurt\u00ebr q\u00eb at\u00eb ta shkat\u00ebrrosh me njer\u00ebz, q\u00eb para tyre duhet t\u2019i arsyetosh veprat e tua gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs, ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb mir\u00ebsi n\u00eb ty, kurse ai q\u00eb t\u00eb urren s\u2019do t\u00eb mund ta k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsh asnj\u00ebher\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  26. P\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb koha e tij nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr Allahun, vdekja p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb sesa jeta!<\/li>\n
  27. Jeta m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi se \u00e7do njeri ka zem\u00ebr, mir\u00ebpo jo \u00e7do njeri ka edhe nd\u00ebrgjegje, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye me njer\u00ebzit sillu sipas edukat\u00ebs sate e jo sipas edukat\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre!<\/li>\n
  28. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i varf\u00ebr ai q\u00eb e ka humbur arin, po i varf\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb e ka humbur edukat\u00ebn!<\/li>\n
  29. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta qart\u00ebsohet, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb asaj i shtohen armiqt\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  30. Bota prej teje e k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, hape mendjen t\u00ebnde para se ta hap\u00ebsh goj\u00ebn t\u00ebnde!<\/li>\n
  31. Modestia \u00ebsht\u00eb gjysma e bukuris\u00eb, e gjysma tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje!<\/li>\n
  32. T\u00eb men\u00e7urit jan\u00eb tre: Ai q\u00eb e braktis dynjan\u00eb, para se ta braktis\u00eb ajo, ai q\u00eb e nd\u00ebrton varrin e vet, para se t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb dhe ai q\u00eb e k\u00ebnaq Krijuesin e tij, para se ta takoj\u00eb At\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  33. Kur burrat qajn\u00eb, dije se m\u00ebrzit\u00eb ua kalojn\u00eb majave t\u00eb maleve!<\/li>\n
  34. Edhe p\u00ebrskaj t\u00eb gjith\u00eb asaj q\u00eb e themi dhe e shkruajm\u00eb, n\u00eb zem\u00ebr mbeten gj\u00ebra m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha sesa ato t\u00eb shprehen!<\/li>\n
  35. Ndoshta prind\u00ebrit nuk ta dhan\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb e ke shpresuar, mir\u00ebpo je i bindur se ata t\u00eb kan\u00eb dhan\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb e kan\u00eb poseduar!<\/li>\n
  36. P\u00ebr tri gj\u00ebra nuk ka zgjidhje: P\u00ebr fukarall\u00ebkun t\u00eb shoq\u00ebruar me dembeli, p\u00ebr armiq\u00ebsin\u00eb ku n\u00eb t\u00eb ka zili dhe p\u00ebr injoranc\u00ebn e shoq\u00ebruar me mendjemadh\u00ebsi.<\/li>\n
  37. Gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019i blesh: Koha, lumturia, shpresa, miq\u00ebsia, \u00ebndrrat dhe dashuria!<\/li>\n
  38. En\u00ebt e zbraz\u00ebta b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr zhurm\u00eb sesa en\u00ebt e mbushura, k\u00ebshtu jan\u00eb edhe mendjet!<\/li>\n
  39. Ai q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti t\u00eb do, \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebshillon ta fal\u00ebsh namazin!<\/li>\n
  40. Injorant nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb nuk di shkrim-lexim, por injorant \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb e di drejtimin e Qabes\u00eb dhe nuk falet!<\/li>\n
  41. Vendet e vjetra, rr\u00ebfime pa gjuh\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  42. Ib\u00ebn Abasi, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, u pyet se cila l\u00ebmosh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mira?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    U p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201cUji. A nuk e keni par\u00eb se banor\u00ebt e Xhehenemit do t\u2019u th\u00ebrrasin banor\u00ebve t\u00eb Xhenetit: \u2018Derdhni pak uj\u00eb te ne ose di\u00e7ka nga ajo q\u00eb ju ka dhuruar Allahu\u2019!<\/strong>\u201d[1]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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    1. Ato q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti i njollosin zemrat, jan\u00eb mendimet e k\u00ebqija!<\/li>\n
    2. Dhe n\u00eb fund, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb te Zoti yn\u00eb do t\u00eb kthehemi.<\/li>\n
    3. Ka dallim mes njeriut t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, e dallimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb mang\u00ebsi t\u00eb fuqis\u00eb, as n\u00eb mang\u00ebsi t\u00eb njohjes, por n\u00eb mang\u00ebsi t\u00eb vullnetit!<\/li>\n
    4. Posedon familje q\u00eb t\u00eb do, disa shok\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ushqim kur ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe kulm mbi kok\u00eb, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ti je m\u00eb i pasur sesa q\u00eb mendon!<\/li>\n
    5. Z\u00ebri i n\u00ebn\u00ebs sate n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi \u00ebsht\u00eb begati, q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti e meriton t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderohet Allahu p\u00ebr t\u00eb!<\/li>\n
    6. Nj\u00eb loj\u00eb e futbollit 90 minuta, filmat dhe serialet 50 minuta, namazi 5 minuta, kurse Xhehenemi p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb! Thjesht meditojeni k\u00ebt\u00eb!<\/li>\n
    7. Bukuria nuk e arrin p\u00ebrsosurin\u00eb, vet\u00ebm se me pastrimin e zemr\u00ebs!<\/li>\n
    8. Leximi i librave \u00ebsht\u00eb kultur\u00eb, leximi i fytyrave \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjuarsi, leximi i shpirtrave urt\u00ebsi dhe largpam\u00ebsi!<\/li>\n
    9. Kur pema n\u00eb vete nuk bart fryte, at\u00ebher\u00eb deg\u00ebt e saj i ngriten lart, k\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe gjendja e budallait, ai veten vazhdimisht e mendon m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb sesa t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt!<\/li>\n
    10. Ne jemi ata q\u00eb ua prodhojm\u00eb mendjemadh\u00ebsin\u00eb disave, sepse i japim vler\u00eb atij q\u00eb nuk ka fare vler\u00eb!<\/li>\n
    11. Kur ishin fukara ishin m\u00eb af\u00ebr Allahut, kurse kur iu shtua pasuria u larguan nga Allahu!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      [1]<\/a> (El-Earaf: 50)<\/p>\n

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      Marr\u00eb nga libri:<\/p>\n

      NGA DHEMBJA DREJT LUMTURIS\u00cb<\/p>\n

      (Th\u00ebnie t\u00eb men\u00e7ura nga jeta dhe p\u00ebrvoja)<\/p>\n

      Irfan Jahiu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

      Shumica e njer\u00ebzve polemizojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb provokuar e jo p\u00ebr t\u2019u bindur! Personat q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb nga mang\u00ebsia n\u00eb vet\u00ebbesim, zakonisht p\u00ebrpiqen q\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga vlerat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb ata t\u00eb duken m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt! Gjithmon\u00eb ka njer\u00ebz n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde ku p\u00ebr ta ndien nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb madhe q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3737,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3736","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3736","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3736"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3736\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3738,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3736\/revisions\/3738"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3737"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3736"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3736"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3736"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}