{"id":3747,"date":"2019-10-10T09:28:30","date_gmt":"2019-10-10T09:28:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=3747"},"modified":"2019-10-10T09:28:30","modified_gmt":"2019-10-10T09:28:30","slug":"jeta-vazhdon-edhe-pse-shpirti-ndien-dhembje-dhe-syri-loton","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=3747","title":{"rendered":"JETA VAZHDON EDHE PSE SHPIRTI NDIEN DHEMBJE DHE SYRI LOTON"},"content":{"rendered":"
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  1. Dhemb, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur p\u00ebrmallohesh p\u00ebr dik\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh me t\u00eb, por m\u00eb von\u00eb e t\u00ebrheq vendimin, sepse n\u00eb vete ndien se ai nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty dhe t\u00eb folurit t\u00ebnd me t\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  2. Dhemb, q\u00eb njeriu m\u00eb i af\u00ebrt i zemr\u00ebs t\u00eb jet\u00eb larg syve t\u00eb tu!<\/li>\n
  3. Dhemb shum\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb thon\u00eb b\u00ebhu i fort\u00eb, e ata nuk e kan\u00eb fare iden\u00eb se n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsish kalon!<\/li>\n
  4. Ka dhembje q\u00eb nuk i shpreh dot gjuha dhe nuk i loton syri, mir\u00ebpo i vuan r\u00ebnd\u00eb zemra!<\/li>\n
  5. Dhemb, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur ti e l\u00eb veten anash p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe ata pastaj ikin!<\/li>\n
  6. Dhembja e b\u00ebn koh\u00ebn t\u00eb gjat\u00eb shum\u00eb, madje pa fund!<\/li>\n
  7. Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti dhemb, kur i beson dikujt verb\u00ebrisht, dhe po ky person, ta v\u00ebrteton se ti me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb je i verb\u00ebr!<\/li>\n
  8. Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e dhembjeve na vijn\u00eb nga ata q\u00eb u kemi dh\u00ebn\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  9. Dhembja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i detyrosh shprehjet e fytyr\u00ebs t\u00eb marrin pamje t\u00eb jashtme, krejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta me at\u00eb q\u00eb e ndien!<\/li>\n
  10. Kush t\u00eb braktis q\u00eb t\u00eb ndiesh dhembje, mos prit prej tij q\u00eb ta d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb z\u00ebrin e dhembjeve t\u00eb tua!<\/li>\n
  11. Edhe vetmia jep dhembje dhe ato nuk i njeh, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 ai q\u00eb i p\u00ebrjetoi!<\/li>\n
  12. Nuk m\u00eb d\u00ebmtoi i huaji q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb njohu, po dhembjen ma shkaktoi i af\u00ebrmi q\u00eb m\u00eb njeh!<\/li>\n
  13. Jeta m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi t\u00eb qaj me nj\u00eb qosh ku nuk m\u00eb sheh njeri, e pastaj t\u2019i fshij lot\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb dal para njer\u00ebzve i buz\u00ebqeshur!<\/li>\n
  14. Jeta m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi se lloji m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00eb i t\u00eb qarit, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb qeshurit gjat\u00eb sprov\u00ebs!<\/li>\n
  15. Plaga m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb, plaga e fituar nga nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb s\u2019e ke paramenduar se do t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndoj\u00eb ndonj\u00eb dit\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  16. Prej gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti dhemb, kur ndonj\u00ebri nga ata t\u00eb d\u00ebmton para mas\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkon falje n\u00eb vetmi.<\/li>\n
  17. Thyerja e zemrave nuk nxjerr z\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo jep shum\u00eb dhembje!!<\/li>\n
  18. Njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb her\u00ebt thoshin: \u201cNuk ia di vler\u00ebn mir\u00ebsis\u00eb sime, p\u00ebrderisa nuk e takon tjetrin!\u201d<\/li>\n
  19. M\u00eb s\u00eb miri \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ta dim\u00eb pozit\u00ebn ton\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb mos ta tejkalojm\u00eb at\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  20. Nga dhembjet m\u00eb t\u00eb ashpra \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb humb\u00ebsh nj\u00eb njeri e ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i gjall\u00eb para teje dhe ta ndiesh prezenc\u00ebn e nj\u00eb personi, i cili ua largua dhe m\u00eb nuk kthehet!<\/li>\n
  21. Disa krijojn\u00eb arsyetime q\u00eb t\u00eb largohen e disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb shpikin fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbetur!<\/li>\n
  22. Disa dhembje nuk rr\u00ebfehen dhe syri nuk i loton, ato vet\u00ebm i japin dhembje zemr\u00ebs dhe trupit!<\/li>\n
  23. Sa dhemb kur t\u00eb vij\u00eb ajo q\u00eb e shpreson, mir\u00ebpo m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb von\u00eb, ti ke ndryshuar dhe me t\u00eb kan\u00eb ndryshuar edhe shpresat!!<\/li>\n
  24. \u00c7do plag\u00eb ka ila\u00e7, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 dy plag\u00ebve: Plaga e fituar nga shoku q\u00eb t\u00eb tradhtoi dhe plaga e t\u00eb dashurit q\u00eb t\u00eb braktisi!<\/li>\n
  25. Kur p\u00ebrmallohemi p\u00ebr dik\u00eb, edhe at\u00eb fort, bota na duket se ka mbetur bosh nga njer\u00ebzit!<\/li>\n
  26. Sa duken dit\u00ebt t\u00eb mang\u00ebta, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur mungon personi, t\u00eb cilin do ta kesh prezent p\u00ebr \u00e7do moment!<\/li>\n
  27. Mos u pik\u00ebllo kur njer\u00ebzit nuk t\u00eb rikujtojn\u00eb p\u00ebrve\u00e7se kur kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb, po buz\u00ebqeshu, ngase ti je si qiriu, kur atyre u err\u00ebsohet jeta, nguten t\u00eb vijn\u00eb te ti!<\/li>\n
  28. Lot\u00ebt jan\u00eb fjal\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr q\u00eb gjuha nuk mundet t\u2019i shqiptoj\u00eb dhe zemra nuk mundet t\u2019i mbaj\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  29. N\u00ebse vuan p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb dhembjes s\u00eb ndonj\u00eb njeriu, ti je fisnik, kurse n\u00ebse merr pjes\u00eb n\u00eb sh\u00ebrimin e tij, ti je madh\u00ebshtor!<\/li>\n
  30. Uria e ndjenjave na e m\u00ebson heshtjen, derisa edhe e harrojn\u00eb metod\u00ebn e t\u00eb folurit dhe pamjen e fjal\u00ebve!<\/li>\n
  31. Dhemb shum\u00eb kur e ndien se je i tep\u00ebrt n\u00eb zemrat e atyre q\u00eb i do, kurse brenga jote, e t\u00ebra, \u00ebsht\u00eb t’i b\u00ebsh t\u00eb lumtur!<\/li>\n
  32. Ku t\u00eb kishin qen\u00eb dit\u00ebt flet\u00eb, e t\u00eb grisja nga ato cil\u00ebn t\u00eb dua!<\/li>\n
  33. Shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb mund t\u00eb gjesh njeri, i cili ka mbetur ashtu si ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb takimin e par\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  34. Mos ia mund\u00ebso askujt ta dij\u00eb fsheht\u00ebsin\u00eb e lot\u00ebve t\u00eb tu, sepse ai do ta di si t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb qash!<\/li>\n
  35. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u dhimbsur, kur t\u00eb parafytyrojn\u00eb n\u00eb mendjet e tyre me nj\u00eb pamje t\u00eb gabuar, dhe ata, nuk ta njohin brend\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00ebnde!<\/li>\n
  36. Ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ta shohin plag\u00ebn, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb mbi kok\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, mir\u00ebpo, ata nuk e ndjejn\u00eb dhembjen, e cila t\u00eb mundon!<\/li>\n
  37. N\u00ebse nuk ndjen dhembje, nuk do t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh!<\/li>\n
  38. Sa ndjenj\u00eb e ashp\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb kur je i pafuqish\u00ebm t\u00eb largohesh dhe nuk mundesh t\u00eb afrohesh!<\/li>\n
  39. Jeta m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi q\u00eb t\u00eb qaj n\u00eb vetmi dhe t\u00eb mos u shkaktoj dhembje atyre q\u00eb i kam p\u00ebrreth meje, dhe po ashtu, jeta m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi q\u00eb ankesat e mia t\u2019i sh\u00ebnoj n\u00eb fleta dhe ato t\u2019ia drejtoj Zotit tim!<\/li>\n
  40. Fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb dalin gjat\u00eb t\u00eb qarit, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqertat q\u00eb i thot\u00eb njeriu!<\/li>\n
  41. Momenti m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb qash n\u00eb heshtje mbi jast\u00ebkun t\u00ebnd dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se je duke fjetur!<\/li>\n
  42. Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti e lodh shpirtin \u00ebsht\u00eb fshehja e asaj q\u00eb kemi nevoj\u00eb ta shprehim!<\/li>\n
  43. Loti \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebrtitm\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nuk e d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo Allahu at\u00eb e d\u00ebgjon!<\/li>\n
  44. Armiku m\u00eb i keq \u00ebsht\u00eb ai, q\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb dit\u00eb prej dit\u00ebve miku yt!<\/li>\n
  45. Zemrat e pastra ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndiejn\u00eb dhembje dhe t\u00eb plagosen, mir\u00ebpo ato asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk urrejn\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  46. \u00c7do ndjenj\u00eb nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashur, disa nga to kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mik q\u00eb nuk tradhton, shoq\u00ebrues q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb shkakton dhembje dhe shpirt q\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebron p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb dhe nuk shkon!<\/li>\n
  47. Ka nga njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb \u00e7doher\u00eb kur u kushton kujdes kushteve t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb posht\u00ebrojn\u00eb, \u00e7doher\u00eb kur u kushton kujdes ndjenjave t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb l\u00ebndojn\u00eb dhe \u00e7doher\u00eb kur ua ngrit \u00e7\u00ebshtjen e tyre, ata t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00e7mojn\u00eb! Ata nuk do ta kuptojn\u00eb vler\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se at\u00ebher\u00eb kur do t\u00eb t\u00eb humbin!<\/li>\n
  48. Besimi i sh\u00ebmb\u00ebllen njeriut: shum\u00eb vite p\u00ebr t\u2019u plakur, kurse nj\u00eb moment p\u00ebr t\u00eb vdekur.<\/li>\n
  49. Qelqi thyhet dhe z\u00ebri nd\u00ebrpritet me shpejt\u00ebsi, kurse copat e qelqit mbeten dhe e l\u00ebndojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb i prek, k\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe me t\u00eb folurit q\u00eb l\u00ebndon, shpejt p\u00ebrfundon, mir\u00ebpo mbetet zemra ajo q\u00eb ndien dhembje n\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsi!<\/li>\n
  50. O Zot, m\u00ebshiroji shpirtrat q\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb dhembje dhe nuk flasin!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Marr\u00eb nga libri:<\/p>\n

    NGA DHEMBJA DREJT LUMTURIS\u00cb<\/p>\n

    (Th\u00ebnie t\u00eb men\u00e7ura nga jeta dhe p\u00ebrvoja)<\/p>\n

    Irfan Jahiu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Dhemb, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur p\u00ebrmallohesh p\u00ebr dik\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh me t\u00eb, por m\u00eb von\u00eb e t\u00ebrheq vendimin, sepse n\u00eb vete ndien se ai nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty dhe t\u00eb folurit t\u00ebnd me t\u00eb! Dhemb, q\u00eb njeriu m\u00eb i af\u00ebrt i zemr\u00ebs t\u00eb jet\u00eb larg syve t\u00eb tu! Dhemb shum\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3748,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,67,23],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3747","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-te-zgjedhura","9":"category-c89-urtesi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3747","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3747"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3747\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3749,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3747\/revisions\/3749"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3748"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3747"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3747"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3747"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}