{"id":3769,"date":"2019-10-20T18:58:09","date_gmt":"2019-10-20T18:58:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=3769"},"modified":"2019-10-20T18:58:09","modified_gmt":"2019-10-20T18:58:09","slug":"dedikuar-te-permalluarve-dhe-te-lenduarve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=3769","title":{"rendered":"DEDIKUAR T\u00cb P\u00cbRMALLUARVE DHE T\u00cb L\u00cbNDUARVE"},"content":{"rendered":"
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  1. Jan\u00eb disa kujtime t\u00eb bukura, q\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb rikujtohen papritmas dhe t\u00eb detyrojn\u00eb t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00ebsh, edhe n\u00ebse nuk je n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb mir\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore.<\/li>\n
  2. Patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb ndiejm\u00eb ngapak dhembje, q\u00eb t\u00eb kthjellemi, ngapak t\u00eb d\u00ebshtojm\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb, ngapak t\u00eb humbim, q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb! Po disa m\u00ebsime nga jeta kan\u00eb ndikim m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb, kur ato shoq\u00ebrohen nga dhembja!<\/li>\n
  3. Metoda m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i mbytur kujtimet \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mundohesh, q\u00eb t\u00eb krijosh kujtime m\u00eb t\u00eb mira sesa ato!<\/li>\n
  4. Sado larg t\u00eb jesh, nuk i harron kurr\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb i do!<\/li>\n
  5. At\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e gjej n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb pik\u00ebllimit tim, nuk e dua as n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e g\u00ebzimit tim!<\/li>\n
  6. D\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi b\u00ebhet kat\u00ebr her\u00eb m\u00eb i madh sesa ajo normalja, kur shkaktari i atij d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi, \u00ebsht\u00eb personi q\u00eb e do nga brend\u00ebsia e zemr\u00ebs dhe shpirtit t\u00ebnd.<\/li>\n
  7. P\u00ebrmallimi i r\u00ebnd\u00eb dhe mendimi i tep\u00ebrt p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person t\u00eb caktuar, e b\u00ebn njeriun q\u00eb t\u00eb lidh\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb e sheh dhe \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb e d\u00ebgjon brenda dit\u00ebs me k\u00ebt\u00eb person!<\/li>\n
  8. Truri yt ka mund\u00ebsi t\u2019i kthej\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha situatat dhe rastet e pik\u00ebllimit q\u00eb i ke kaluar n\u00ebp\u00ebr jet\u00eb, edhe at\u00eb vet\u00ebm me p\u00ebrjetimin e nj\u00eb situate ku n\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh i pik\u00eblluar!<\/li>\n
  9. Ai q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb jep nga koha e vet, mos i sakrifiko dit\u00ebt p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb tij!<\/li>\n
  10. Mos i shkaktoni dhembje askujt, \u00e7do zemre i mjafton ajo q\u00eb e ka nga dhembjet!<\/li>\n
  11. Ndiej nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person q\u00eb e d\u00ebgjon gjith\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e kam n\u00eb brend\u00ebsin\u00eb time dhe t\u00eb m\u00eb thot\u00eb: N\u00ebse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb braktisin, un\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb braktisi!<\/li>\n
  12. Vuajta dhe u brengosa, u nguta dhe u pendova, m\u00eb erdhi keq dhe u d\u00ebshp\u00ebrova, humba dhe u d\u00ebmtova, madje qaja, por n\u00eb fund m\u00ebsova!<\/li>\n
  13. Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb nuk duam t\u2019i harrojm\u00eb, jan\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht ata q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb na harrojn\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  14. Eg\u00ebrsira nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7doher\u00eb adresa e zemrave t\u00eb vdekura, zemrat e mira nganj\u00ebher\u00eb eg\u00ebrsohen p\u00ebr t\u2019u mbrojtur nga dhembja!<\/li>\n
  15. Mos luaj asnj\u00ebher\u00eb me ndjenjat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, ngase ka mund\u00ebsi ta fitosh loj\u00ebn, mir\u00ebpo do t\u2019i humb\u00ebsh ata q\u00eb i ke p\u00ebrreth p\u00ebr t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn!<\/li>\n
  16. Heshtim, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur nuk gjejm\u00eb fjal\u00eb, e cila e p\u00ebrshkruan p\u00ebrhapjen e ndjenjave!<\/li>\n
  17. Zemra ime, lajm\u00ebroji ata se ti nuk je gur! Lajm\u00ebroji se edhe ti je zem\u00ebr si zemrat e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ndien, do e ndien dhembje dhe \u00e7do gj\u00eb l\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjurm\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  18. P\u00ebrkujdesuni p\u00ebr fsheht\u00ebsit\u00eb tuaja, jan\u00eb disa q\u00eb i p\u00ebrhapin ato, q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb qeshin me ty!<\/li>\n
  19. Disa sjellje na shkaktojn\u00eb dhembje, mir\u00ebpo prap\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshim nga dashuria q\u00eb e ndiejm\u00eb p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb na i shkaktoi ato!<\/li>\n
  20. Shum\u00eb e bukur \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i shtrenjt\u00eb tek ai person q\u00eb i frikohet humbjes sate nj\u00eb dit\u00eb prej dit\u00ebve!<\/li>\n
  21. Pritja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb, pritja e atij q\u00eb nuk vjen!<\/li>\n
  22. Ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb distancat mes teje dhe atij q\u00eb e do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebta, mir\u00ebpo at\u00eb q\u00eb e skalit zemra nuk e fshin koha!<\/li>\n
  23. Vetmia \u00ebsht\u00eb e k\u00ebndshme kur e zgjedhim vet\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e eg\u00ebr, kur detyrohemi n\u00eb t\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  24. Jepjuani atyre q\u00eb i doni ndjenj\u00ebn e siguris\u00eb, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  25. Kur pik\u00ebllohen ata q\u00eb i duam, neve na kaplon pik\u00ebllimi dy her\u00eb, nj\u00eb her\u00eb sepse ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitur dhe her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, sepse jemi t\u00eb paaft\u00eb t\u2019i mbrojm\u00eb nga pik\u00ebllimi!<\/li>\n
  26. Kur ti jeton p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, Allahu do t\u00eb ta d\u00ebrgoj\u00eb ty nj\u00eb person q\u00eb do t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb ty t\u00eb lumtur!<\/li>\n
  27. Kur e ndien se ke nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb vetmohesh pak me veten, kjo n\u00ebnkupton se e posedon nj\u00eb fjalim q\u00eb nuk e kupton askush p\u00ebrve\u00e7 teje!<\/li>\n
  28. Jeta ka p\u00ebrfundim, pa marr\u00eb parasysh a qeshe apo qave. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, mos bart brenga q\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrfiton nga to asgj\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  29. Ai q\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrkujdeset p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e tua, nuk p\u00ebrkujdeset edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb vetat, prandaj dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb e bukur, mir\u00ebpo bujaria \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e bukur!<\/li>\n
  30. T\u00eb jesh i vet\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, sesa t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtosh marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb meriton!<\/li>\n
  31. Kur nuk qajm\u00eb nga pik\u00ebllimi, kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se i kemi humbur ndjenjat, po m\u00ebrzit\u00eb tona jan\u00eb shtuar aq shum\u00eb sa nuk mundemi t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb lot t\u00eb barazohen me m\u00ebrzit\u00eb tona, dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye na mjafton heshtja!<\/li>\n
  32. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb kemi nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb flasim q\u00eb ta shprehim at\u00eb q\u00eb gjendet brenda nesh, mir\u00ebpo, shum\u00eb shpejt heshtim, nga fakti se e kemi nj\u00eb parandjenj\u00eb se ata q\u00eb na d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb, s\u2019do t\u00eb na kuptojn\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  33. Njer\u00ebzit e mir\u00eb, kur ndiejn\u00eb dhembje, heshtin!<\/li>\n
  34. N\u00ebse e l\u00ebndon ndok\u00ebnd dhe heshtja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjat\u00eb, ji i bindur se ai t\u00eb nd\u00ebshkon me nd\u00ebshkim m\u00eb t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr sesa nd\u00ebshkimi i t\u00eb folurit!<\/li>\n
  35. Sa duken dit\u00ebt t\u00eb mang\u00ebta, at\u00ebher\u00eb kur mungon personi t\u00eb cilin do ta kesh prezent p\u00ebr \u00e7do moment!<\/li>\n
  36. Nuk pendohem p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb q\u00eb hyri n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time, i sinqerti m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb lumtur dhe i ligu m\u00eb dha nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb, m\u00eb i keqi ishte m\u00ebsim p\u00ebr mua, kurse m\u00eb i miri, ai nuk m\u00eb la asnj\u00ebher\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  37. Mos jeto duke e pritur ndok\u00ebnd, ai q\u00eb prezenc\u00ebn t\u00ebnde nuk e konsideron p\u00ebrfitim p\u00ebr t\u00eb, as munges\u00ebn t\u00ebnde nuk e konsideron humbje p\u00ebr t\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  38. Disa njer\u00ebz kan\u00eb afat skadimi, dhe n\u00ebse vazhdon lidhja jote me ta, ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb helmohesh!<\/li>\n
  39. Q\u00eb t\u00eb mos vdes\u00ebsh dy her\u00eb, mos iu kthe atij q\u00eb t\u00eb braktisi!<\/li>\n
  40. N\u00eb thell\u00ebsin\u00eb e \u00e7do njeriu ka dhembje t\u00eb heshtur!<\/li>\n
  41. Kur shikon me zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, syve t\u00eb tu u humbet kuptimi!<\/li>\n
  42. N\u00ebse jeta t\u00eb dha nj\u00eb sebep q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb pik\u00ebllohesh, ti jepja nj\u00ebqind sebepe q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh i lumtur!<\/li>\n
  43. Mos bjer nga syt\u00eb e atyre q\u00eb i do, pa marr\u00eb parasysh se \u00e7ka do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, dhe n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme, kapu p\u00ebr qerpik\u00ebt e syve t\u00eb tyre!<\/li>\n
  44. N\u00ebse larg\u00ebsia nuk ta shton dashurin\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb ti asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ke dashuruar me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  45. Ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ai i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb af\u00ebr teje t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb i larg\u00ebt te ti, e ai q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb larg teje t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb i af\u00ebrt te ti, af\u00ebrsia \u00ebsht\u00eb me ndjenja e jo me prezenc\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  46. Mos e detyro ask\u00ebnd q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdeset dhe t\u00eb interesohet p\u00ebr ty, ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, do t\u00eb hulumtoj\u00eb pas teje, ashtu si hulumton pas nj\u00eb gj\u00ebje t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb, q\u00eb ka humbur nga ai!<\/li>\n
  47. N\u00ebse problemet do t\u00eb zgjidheshin me ikje, toka do t\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohej n\u00eb planet t\u00eb braktisur!<\/li>\n
  48. Kujdes nga t\u00eb kapurit p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb e dy llojeve t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve: Nj\u00eb person i cili nuk e respekton prezenc\u00ebn t\u00ebnde n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij apo nj\u00eb person i cili nuk t\u00eb vler\u00ebson!<\/li>\n
  49. Kush banon n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn time, s\u2019ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb vdes\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  50. Kur e dashuron nj\u00eb person me sinqeritet, e t\u00ebra ajo q\u00eb t\u00eb intereson \u00ebsht\u00eb lumturia e tij, edhe n\u00ebse ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb me ty!<\/li>\n
  51. Ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do, n\u00eb ty sheh bukuri, q\u00eb ti nuk e sheh n\u00eb veten t\u00ebnde!<\/li>\n
  52. Nuk pyet p\u00ebr ty p\u00ebrve\u00e7se atij q\u00eb i mungon, e nuk i mungon, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se atij q\u00eb e ndien zbraz\u00ebtir\u00ebn e madhe pas largimit t\u00ebnd!<\/li>\n
  53. Largohu nga ata njer\u00ebz q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb i tregojn\u00eb gabimet e tua!<\/li>\n
  54. Mos ia lejo askujt t\u00eb t\u00eb bind\u00eb se largimi i tij nga ti ishte me arsye, sepse ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do sinqerisht, do t\u2019i gjej\u00eb me qindra rrug\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur deri te ti!<\/li>\n
  55. Mendoj se disa kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb pak q\u00eb t\u00eb injorohen, q\u00eb ta din\u00eb se sa i mir\u00eb ishte p\u00ebrkujdesi yn\u00eb ndaj tyre!<\/li>\n
  56. But\u00ebsia me njer\u00ebzit nganj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb krim ndaj vetes!<\/li>\n
  57. N\u00ebse arma m\u00eb e fort\u00eb q\u00eb ti e posedon \u00ebsht\u00eb largimi, at\u00ebher\u00eb arma ime m\u00eb e zhvilluar \u00ebsht\u00eb harresa!<\/li>\n
  58. Ka zemra q\u00eb nuk din\u00eb t\u00eb urrejn\u00eb, sado q\u00eb u b\u00ebn padrejt\u00ebsi dhe ka zemra q\u00eb nuk din\u00eb t\u00eb duan, sado q\u00eb i fisnik\u00ebron!<\/li>\n
  59. E kam nj\u00eb rregull t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb: Ti nuk ke koh\u00eb p\u00ebr mua, un\u00eb nuk kam vend p\u00ebr ty!<\/li>\n
  60. Mos u p\u00ebrkujdes p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb injoron, po p\u00ebrkujdesu p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb i injoron t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt p\u00ebr hir t\u00ebndin!<\/li>\n
  61. Zemrat e mira nuk e harrojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb u p\u00ebrkujdes p\u00ebr to nj\u00eb dit\u00eb prej dit\u00ebve!<\/li>\n
  62. Gabimin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh q\u00eb e b\u00ebn njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb bindja e tij se \u00ebsht\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm!<\/li>\n
  63. Syt\u00eb e harrojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e kan\u00eb par\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo zemrat nuk i harrojn\u00eb ata q\u00eb i kan\u00eb dashur!<\/li>\n
  64. Disa njer\u00ebz hulumtojn\u00eb pas gabimeve t\u00eb tua, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb largohen nga ti, kurse disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb i mbyllin syt\u00eb e tyre para gabimeve t\u00eb tua, ngase duan t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb me ty.<\/li>\n
  65. Disa sjellje na shkaktojn\u00eb dhembje, mir\u00ebpo prap\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshim nga dashuria p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb na i shkaktoi ato!<\/li>\n
  66. Kur nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr e do nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr, syri nuk e sheh t\u00eb met\u00ebn!<\/li>\n
  67. Edhe p\u00ebrskaj pik\u00ebllimit, mbetet shpresa dhe bindja n\u00eb Allahun, ajo m\u00eb e bukura n\u00eb brend\u00ebsin\u00eb ton\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  68. Mos e detyro ask\u00ebnd q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdeset p\u00ebr ty e t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh sikurse ai q\u00eb e ujit pem\u00ebn artificiale dhe pret nga ajo q\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00eb fryte!<\/li>\n
  69. Ka ndjenja q\u00eb nuk mundet t\u2019i p\u00ebrshkruaj\u00eb asnj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, madje nuk ka hap\u00ebsir\u00eb fare t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruhen, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se t\u2019i thuash atij q\u00eb e ke para teje: Eja dhe shikoje dynjan\u00eb nga pozita ime!<\/li>\n
  70. Jan\u00eb disa njer\u00ebz ku p\u00ebr ta mbetet dashuria n\u00eb zemrat tona edhe p\u00ebrskaj asaj se ata nuk interesohen p\u00ebr ne!<\/li>\n
  71. Larg\u00ebsia nga t\u00eb dashurit, zemr\u00ebs i jep dhembje, kurse larg\u00ebsia nga Allahu, zemr\u00ebn e vdes!<\/li>\n
  72. E ke mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb shkruash p\u00ebr pik\u00ebllimin t\u00ebnd me em\u00ebr t\u00eb huazuar, mir\u00ebpo nuk mund t\u00eb pik\u00ebllohesh me zem\u00ebr t\u00eb huazuar!<\/li>\n
  73. E bukur \u00ebsht\u00eb ta injorosh dhembjen e thell\u00eb n\u00eb brend\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00ebnde dhe t\u00eb thuash: K\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta!<\/li>\n
  74. Jemi m\u00ebsuar ta bartim barr\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb durojm\u00eb, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt mendojn\u00eb se ne nuk ndiejm\u00eb.<\/li>\n
  75. N\u00ebse n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde nuk e ke af\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb njeri t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, mos u m\u00ebrzit, p\u00ebr arsye se ti ke mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb jesh e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe ti nuk e di.<\/li>\n
  76. Nuk ke p\u00ebr ta ndier vler\u00ebn e ndokujt, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se at\u00ebher\u00eb kur do ta shoh\u00ebsh zbraz\u00ebtir\u00ebn q\u00eb e ka l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb ty pas largimit t\u00eb tij!<\/li>\n
  77. Nga shkaqet e heshtjes n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mungesa e atyre q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  78. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb jetosh i qet\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, largohu nga ata q\u00eb kur kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb, e kur ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta nuk i gjen!<\/li>\n
  79. N\u00ebse mendjemadh\u00ebsia jote nuk t\u00eb lejon t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh me mua, ji i sigurt se krenaria ime nuk m\u00eb lejon mua t\u00eb pyes p\u00ebr ty!<\/li>\n
  80. Ne nuk kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dashuri shtes\u00eb, e as p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb shtes\u00eb, po ajo q\u00eb kemi nevoj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb sinqeriteti n\u00eb ndjenja, jo m\u00eb shum\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  81. Ne nuk mundemi t\u2019i ringjallim lulet q\u00eb jan\u00eb thar\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo e kemi at\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb mbjellim lule m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura sesa ato!<\/li>\n
  82. Nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr q\u00eb t\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur nj\u00eb dit\u00eb prej dit\u00ebve, b\u00ebje t\u00eb lumtur me nj\u00eb lutje q\u00eb ajo nuk e di!<\/li>\n
  83. Mos u pik\u00ebllo n\u00ebse ndokush t\u00eb fshin nga jeta e tij, ndoshta nuk i p\u00eblqeu t\u2019i shoq\u00ebroj\u00eb mbret\u00ebrit dhe vendosi t\u00eb ec\u00ebn me ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si ai.<\/li>\n
  84. Mos e prit kthimin e atij personi q\u00eb nuk ka nd\u00ebrgjegje, se ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb me nd\u00ebrgjegje t\u00eb vdekur, nuk kthehen!<\/li>\n
  85. Sinqeriteti \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdosh t\u00eb b\u00ebsh dua p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb e do, edhe n\u00ebse largohet ai nga ti!<\/li>\n
  86. L\u00ebndoje nj\u00eb person me sinqeritet, mir\u00ebpo asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos e b\u00ebj t\u00eb lumtur me g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr!<\/li>\n
  87. N\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e \u00e7donj\u00ebrit nga ne ekziston nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb e mbyllur, ku frikohemi t\u00eb trokitet dera e saj, q\u00eb t\u00eb mos qajm\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  88. Koha nuk e ndryshon ask\u00ebnd, po koha e zbulon \u00e7do njeri se si \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb realitet!<\/li>\n
  89. Dy persona p\u00ebrkujdesen p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb holl\u00ebsishme rreth teje: Ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do fort dhe ai q\u00eb t\u00eb urren fort!<\/li>\n
  90. Ai q\u00eb nuk e kupton heshtjen t\u00ebnde, nuk do t\u2019i kuptoj\u00eb as fjal\u00ebt e tua, e ai q\u00eb nuk i kupton fjal\u00ebt e tua nuk ka p\u00ebr t\u2019i respektuar as mendimet e tua!<\/li>\n
  91. N\u00ebse e ndien dhembjen, ti je \u201ci gjall\u00eb\u201d, e n\u00ebse i ndien dhembjet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, at\u00ebher\u00eb ti je \u201cnjeri\u201d!<\/li>\n
  92. Ka ndjenja q\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndahen me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ato si t\u00eb pastra i ruajm\u00eb brenda zemr\u00ebs, nga frika se ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndoten menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas daljes s\u00eb tyre!<\/li>\n
  93. N\u00ebse nuk lufton p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb e do, mos b\u00ebrtit nga dhembja q\u00eb e ndien kur e humb!<\/li>\n
  94. P\u00ebr hir t\u00eb atij q\u00eb e duam, e bartim at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e duam!<\/li>\n
  95. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e bukur t\u2019ia jap\u00ebsh g\u00ebzimin tjetrit,<\/strong> edhe pse ti ke nevoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  96. Ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do me sinqeritet, nuk do t\u00eb ik\u00ebn larg q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebm duke e ndier dhembjen e munges\u00ebs sate!<\/li>\n
  97. Kush interesohet p\u00ebr ty n\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsi, vet\u00ebm ai \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb e meriton nj\u00eb qosh t\u00eb posa\u00e7\u00ebm n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, mos u largo nga ai sido q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  98. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb na kupton, para se t\u00eb na besoj\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  99. Nuk krahasohet dashuria e njer\u00ebzve me takimet e tyre t\u00eb shpeshta, ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb banojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr zemra edhe pse takimet me ta jan\u00eb t\u00eb rralla!<\/li>\n
  100. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ndodh q\u00eb t\u00eb qaj\u00eb n\u00eb ty \u00e7do gj\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 syve t\u00eb tu!<\/li>\n
  101. Kur e di se p\u00ebrgjigjja do t\u00eb t\u00eb shkaktoj\u00eb dhembje, respektoje zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde dhe harroje pyetjen!<\/li>\n
  102. Ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do nuk t\u00eb l\u00eb, edhe po t\u00eb ishe ther\u00eb mes dy duarve t\u00eb tij!<\/li>\n
  103. Ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb t\u00eb sheh p\u00ebr \u00e7do dit\u00eb, po ai, i cili hulumton pas teje p\u00ebr \u00e7do dit\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  104. Respekti dhe p\u00ebrkujdesja jan\u00eb fsheht\u00ebsit\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat nuk vdesin!<\/li>\n
  105. Shum\u00eb nga t\u00eb heshturit q\u00eb i ke p\u00ebrreth, ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb bartin n\u00eb zemrat e tyre m\u00eb shum\u00eb dashuri p\u00ebr ty, sesa ata q\u00eb flasin!<\/li>\n
  106. Ai q\u00eb t\u00eb do sinqerisht, \u00ebsht\u00eb ai, q\u00eb n\u00eb ty i sheh 99 t\u00eb meta dhe nj\u00eb cil\u00ebsi t\u00eb mir\u00eb! E do at\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn dhe i l\u00eb t\u00eb metat!<\/li>\n
  107. Jeta ma m\u00ebsoi dashurin\u00eb, p\u00ebrvojat m\u00eb m\u00ebsuan se k\u00eb ta dua dhe situatat e ndryshme ma b\u00ebn\u00eb me dije se kush m\u00eb do!<\/li>\n
  108. N\u00ebse arrin sukses n\u00eb mashtrimin e ndokujt, mos mendo se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb budalla, por ai kishte besim n\u00eb ty!<\/li>\n
  109. Dielli i sh\u00ebmb\u00ebllen t\u00eb dashuruarve, vjen dhe shkon pa k\u00ebrkuar leje dhe at\u00ebher\u00eb kur ik\u00ebn e err\u00ebson \u00e7do gj\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  110. Ai q\u00eb nuk e kupton heshtjen t\u00ebnde, nuk i kupton as fjal\u00ebt e tua!<\/li>\n
  111. Edhe pse ai\/ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb larg meje, mir\u00ebpo ma vjedh gjysm\u00ebn e dit\u00ebs duke menduar p\u00ebr t\u00eb!<\/li>\n
  112. Zoti im! Mos m\u00eb privo nga ata, q\u00eb lumturia ime \u00ebsht\u00eb e varur nga prezenca e tyre rreth meje!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    NGA DHEMBJA DREJT LUMTURIS\u00cb<\/p>\n

    (Th\u00ebnie t\u00eb men\u00e7ura nga jeta dhe p\u00ebrvoja)<\/p>\n

    Irfan Jahiu<\/p>\n

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    Jan\u00eb disa kujtime t\u00eb bukura, q\u00eb nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb rikujtohen papritmas dhe t\u00eb detyrojn\u00eb t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00ebsh, edhe n\u00ebse nuk je n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb mir\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore. Patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb ndiejm\u00eb ngapak dhembje, q\u00eb t\u00eb kthjellemi, ngapak t\u00eb d\u00ebshtojm\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb, ngapak t\u00eb humbim, q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb! Po disa m\u00ebsime nga jeta kan\u00eb ndikim m\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3770,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,67,23],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3769","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-te-zgjedhura","9":"category-c89-urtesi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3769","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3769"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3769\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3771,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3769\/revisions\/3771"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3770"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3769"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3769"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3769"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}