Fal\u00ebnderimi i takon vet\u00ebm Allahut, i cili na urdh\u00ebroi q\u00eb t\u00eb kapemi p\u00ebr litarin e Tij dhe na ndaloi prej p\u00ebr\u00e7arjes dhe kontradiktave: \u201cKush mbahet fort pas (fes\u00eb s\u00eb) Allahut, sigurisht q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i drejtuar n\u00eb udh\u00eb t\u00eb mbar\u00eb\u201d (Ali Imran: 101) D\u00ebshmoj se nuk i takon me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb adhurimi askujt p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se Allahut, i Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dhe nuk ka shok. Dhe d\u00ebshmoj se Muhamedi \u00ebsht\u00eb rob dhe i D\u00ebrguari i Tij dhe d\u00ebshmoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb njeriu me moral m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb dhe me zem\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb. Paqja dhe m\u00ebshira e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, mbi familjen dhe shok\u00ebt e tij dhe mbi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebt i pasojn\u00eb ata me t\u00eb mira, deri n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Gjykimit.<\/p>\n
O ju njer\u00ebz, frikojuni Allahut dhe dijeni se ju jeni v\u00ebllez\u00ebr n\u00eb Fe dhe se kjo v\u00ebllaz\u00ebri dhe lidhje fetare \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e fort\u00eb se \u00e7do lidhje tjet\u00ebr. Dit\u00ebn e Kiametit nuk ka dhe nuk vlen lidhja familjare mes jush, por at\u00eb Dit\u00eb miqt\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebhen armiq t\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 t\u00eb drejt\u00ebve, q\u00eb e kan\u00eb pasur frik\u00eb Allahun. Realizoni k\u00ebt\u00eb v\u00ebllaz\u00ebri me dashuri dhe af\u00ebrsi mes jush, dojani nj\u00ebri tjetrit t\u00eb mir\u00ebn dhe bashk\u00ebpunoni n\u00eb t\u00eb, veproni vepra t\u00eb cilat e p\u00ebrforcojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje dhe e kultivojn\u00eb at\u00eb dhe largojuni veprave t\u00eb cilat e dob\u00ebsojn\u00eb at\u00eb lidhje dhe e mang\u00ebsojn\u00eb at\u00eb. Nj\u00eb umet nuk mundet t\u00eb jet\u00eb umet dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb fuqi derisa nuk b\u00ebhet ashtu si\u00e7 e ka p\u00ebrshkruar Pejgamberi, alejhi salatu ue selam, n\u00eb th\u00ebnien e tij: \u201cBesimtari p\u00ebr besimtarin \u00ebsht\u00eb si nd\u00ebrtesa, pjes\u00ebt e t\u00eb cil\u00ebs mbajn\u00eb fort nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn\u201d.<\/p>\n
O v\u00ebllez\u00ebr, Allahu p\u00ebr ju e ligj\u00ebsoi at\u00eb q\u00eb e p\u00ebrforcon unitetin e juaj dhe e kultivon dashurin\u00eb mes jush dhe e largon armiq\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr\u00e7arjen e ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebnia e selamit mes jush. Selami, pra, mbjell dashuri dhe af\u00ebrsi, kurse braktisja e kontaktit mes jush sjell armiq\u00ebsi dhe ashp\u00ebrsi. N\u00ebse e takoni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetuni mes jush dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt nga ju jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00ebt me selam dhe ai q\u00eb ia kthen selamin le t\u2019i p\u00ebrgjigjet me fytyr\u00eb t\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshur dhe me p\u00ebrgjigje q\u00eb d\u00ebgjohet.
\nAllahu p\u00ebr ju e ligj\u00ebsoi po ashtu edhe vizit\u00ebn e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit kur t\u00eb s\u00ebmureni. Vizita e t\u00eb s\u00ebmurit sjell dashuri dhe e zbut zemr\u00ebn, e shton besimin dhe sjell shp\u00ebrblime. Kush e viziton nj\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb e th\u00ebrret nj\u00eb thirr\u00ebs nga lart qiellit \u201cU g\u00ebzofsh me t\u00eb mira dhe u shp\u00ebrblefshin hapat e tua me t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe sht\u00ebpia jote u b\u00ebft\u00eb Xheneti!\u201d. Kush e viziton v\u00ebllain e vet musliman vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb hurfet e Xhenetit derisa t\u00eb kthehet nga vizita e t\u00eb s\u00ebmurit. I than\u00eb: O i D\u00ebrguar i Allahut, \u00e7ka jan\u00eb hurfet? Tha: \u201cFrytet e Xhenetit\u201d. Kush viziton nj\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb p\u00eblqehet q\u00eb t\u2019i q\u00ebndroj\u00eb te koka dhe t\u2019i jep gajret e ta qet\u00ebsoj\u00eb me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mira dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme, duke i uruar sh\u00ebrim dhe jet\u00ebgjat\u00ebsi. Kjo vep\u00ebr ia ngrit moralin dhe e forcon shpirt\u00ebrisht. \u00cbsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb vizituesi t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb lutje prej t\u00eb s\u00ebmurit, sepse lutja t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e b\u00ebn i s\u00ebmuri p\u00ebr vizituesin i ngjan lutjes s\u00eb melaqeve. Mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ia rikujtoj\u00eb pendimin dhe ta nxit\u00eb q\u00eb koh\u00ebn ta shfryt\u00ebzoj\u00eb n\u00eb lexim t\u00eb Kur\u2019anit, dhikrit dhe istigfarit dhe t\u2019i tregoj\u00eb se si duhet t\u00eb pastrohet me uj\u00eb apo tejemum, si ta fal\u00eb namazin, e si ta l\u00eb porosin\u00eb, p\u00ebr arsye se shum\u00eb nga t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00ebt nuk i din\u00eb k\u00ebto rregulla dhe dispozita.
\nAllahu p\u00ebr ju ligj\u00ebsoi po ashtu p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimin mes njer\u00ebzve. Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar n\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb tha: \u201cS\u2019ka kurrfar\u00eb t\u00eb mire n\u00eb shum\u00eb prej bisedave t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb fshehta, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 rastit kur ndokush k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb t\u00eb jepet sadaka ose t\u00eb kryhet nj\u00eb vep\u00ebr e mir\u00eb apo paq\u00ebsim nd\u00ebrmjet njer\u00ebzve\u201d. (En-Nisa: 114) Me nj\u00eb hadith ka ardhur se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam, i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Ebu Ejubit, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb: \u201cA d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb tregoj p\u00ebr nj\u00eb tregti\u201d. Ebu Ejubi iu p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201cPo, o i D\u00ebrguar i Allahut\u201d. Pejgamberi, alejhi salatu ue selam, i tha: \u201cT\u00eb shkosh dhe t\u2019i p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsosh njer\u00ebzit n\u00ebse ata jan\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00e7ar\u00eb mes vete dhe t\u2019i afrosh ata mes tyre n\u00ebse jan\u00eb larguar nj\u00ebri nga tjetri\u201d.<\/p>\n
Njeriu kur v\u00ebren se mes dy vetave ka armiq\u00ebsi dhe p\u00ebr\u00e7arje mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb merr iniciativ\u00eb q\u00eb ta largoj\u00eb at\u00eb armiq\u00ebsi derisa at\u00eb ta shnd\u00ebrroj\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri dhe larg\u00ebsin\u00eb mes tyre n\u00eb af\u00ebrsi dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast do t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00ebsi dhe shp\u00ebrblim t\u00eb madh.<\/p>\n
I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam, ua ligj\u00ebsoi q\u00eb kur ta d\u00ebgjoni nj\u00eb musliman q\u00eb teshtit\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cElhamdulilah-Fal\u00ebnderimi i takon Allahut\u201d ju t\u2019ia ktheni atij me \u201cJerhamukallah-Allahu ju m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb\u201d q\u00eb n\u00eb fund ai t\u2019ua kthej\u00eb dhe t\u2019ju thot\u00eb \u201cJehdikumullahu ue juslih balekum- Allahu ju udh\u00ebzoft\u00eb dhe gjendjen e juaj e p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoft\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
Poashtu ua ligj\u00ebsoi dhurimin e dhuratave mes jush dhe na lajm\u00ebroi se dhurata \u00ebsht\u00eb shkak p\u00ebr largimin e zem\u00ebrimit dhe sjell dashuri. Pra \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb sjell lidhje dhe unitet mes musliman\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb e ligj\u00ebsuar t\u00eb veprohet dhe duhet t\u00eb kapemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam, ndaloi nga \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb i p\u00ebr\u00e7an dhe i largon musliman\u00ebt mes vete. E ndaloi q\u00eb t\u00eb distancohet v\u00ebllai musliman nga muslimani m\u00eb shum\u00eb se tre dit\u00eb, t\u2019ia kthejn\u00eb shpin\u00ebn nj\u00ebri-tjetrit dhe mos ta p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndesin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin p\u00ebr arsye se armiq\u00ebsia mes tyre n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb largohet po vet\u00ebm se do t\u00eb shtohet. Kjo sjellje pa dyshim se \u00ebsht\u00eb e qortuar dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e pranuar mir\u00ebpo e shohim se shejtani luan me disa njer\u00ebz derisa i shpien n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vep\u00ebr edhe pse ndoshta ata jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb e duan hajrin dhe jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb kapur p\u00ebr fe, por shejtani i mashtron dhe fillojn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb distancohen nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri madje p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje personale apo p\u00ebr interesa t\u00eb dynjas\u00eb dhe harrojn\u00eb se Islami \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i vlefsh\u00ebm se \u00e7do gj\u00eb personale dhe dobi t\u00eb dynjas\u00eb. I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam, rreth k\u00ebsaj tha se: \u201cNuk i lejohet muslimanit ta bojkotoj\u00eb v\u00ebllain e tij musliman m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se tre dit\u00eb. N\u00ebse e bojkoton at\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se tre dit\u00eb dhe vdes n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje hyn n\u00eb zjarr\u201d.<\/p>\n
Dhe po ashtu tha: \u201c\u00c7do t\u00eb h\u00ebn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb enjte prezantohen veprat e robit dhe Allahu ia fal\u00eb n\u00eb ato dit\u00eb \u00e7do robi q\u00eb nuk i ka p\u00ebrshkruar shok dhe ortak Allahut p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se atij i cili ka mosmarr\u00ebveshje me v\u00ebllain e vet musliman dhe Allahu thot\u00eb leni ata dy derisa t\u00eb pajtohen mes tyre\u201d.<\/p>\n
Largimi i muslimanit nga muslimani pra \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndaluar p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se n\u00ebse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebkatar q\u00eb i shfaq ato n\u00eb publik dhe p\u00ebr at\u00eb ligj\u00ebsohet n\u00ebse n\u00eb largimin nga ai ka dobi q\u00eb t\u00eb largohen musliman\u00ebt nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u2019i largohet m\u00ebkateve apo t\u2019i pak\u00ebson ato.<\/p>\n
Sheriati i Allahut ka ardhur me ndales\u00eb sa i p\u00ebrket bartjes s\u00eb fjal\u00ebve dhe ecjes n\u00eb mesin e njer\u00ebzve me q\u00ebllim t\u00eb shp\u00ebrndarjes s\u00eb tyre dhe futjes urrejtje n\u00eb mesin e njer\u00ebzve. I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cNuk hyn n\u00eb Xhenet ai q\u00eb bart fjal\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
Sheriati i Allahut po ashtu ndaloi nga sharja dhe fyerja p\u00ebr arsye se kjo shpien deri n\u00eb armiq\u00ebsi dhe urrejtje.<\/p>\n
O ju besimtar\u00eb, afrohuni mes vete dhe largoni armiq\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe urrejtjet mes jush dhe b\u00ebhuni rob\u00ebr t\u00eb Allahut v\u00ebllez\u00ebr mes jush.<\/p>\n
Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar thot\u00eb: \u201cN\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, besimtar\u00ebt jan\u00eb v\u00ebllez\u00ebr, andaj pajtojini v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit tuaj midis tyre dhe kijeni frik\u00eb Allahun, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb m\u00ebshiroheni\u201d. (El-Huxhurat: 10)<\/p>\n
Shejh Dr. Salih El Humejd<\/p>\n
Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Fal\u00ebnderimi i takon vet\u00ebm Allahut, i cili na urdh\u00ebroi q\u00eb t\u00eb kapemi p\u00ebr litarin e Tij dhe na ndaloi prej p\u00ebr\u00e7arjes dhe kontradiktave: \u201cKush mbahet fort pas (fes\u00eb s\u00eb) Allahut, sigurisht q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i drejtuar n\u00eb udh\u00eb t\u00eb mbar\u00eb\u201d (Ali Imran: 101) D\u00ebshmoj se nuk i takon me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb adhurimi askujt p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se Allahut, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3837,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3836","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-c96-davet","9":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3836","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3836"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3836\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3838,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3836\/revisions\/3838"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3837"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3836"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3836"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3836"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}