A e di se n\u00ebna e burrit t\u00ebnd \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebs nga \u00e7el\u00ebsat e lumturis\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortore?!<\/p>\n
Merri k\u00ebto k\u00ebshilla se si t\u00eb sillesh me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e burrit t\u00ebnd, dhe me k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fitosh nj\u00eb nga \u00e7el\u00ebsat e lumturis\u00eb t\u00ebnde bashk\u00ebshortore:<\/p>\n 1. Largoju ankesave drejtuar burrit t\u00ebnd p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb e vepron n\u00ebna e vet:<\/p>\n Ngase kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb p\u00ebr burrin dhe ai bie n\u00eb nj\u00eb pozit\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb keqe mes dy pal\u00ebve t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij, n\u00ebn\u00ebn dhe gruan e vet. Prandaj, kujdesu q\u00eb ai t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb e buz\u00ebqesh dhe nxit lumturi n\u00eb shpirtin e tij dhe ia pak\u00ebson lodhjet dhe mundimet, kurse ankesa ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb jep rezultate jo t\u00eb lavd\u00ebruara!<\/p>\n 2. Fol p\u00ebr vjehrr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde mir\u00eb:<\/p>\n Pa marr\u00eb parasysh para saj apo larg saj, para burrit t\u00eb saj apo familjes s\u00eb saj, apo edhe t\u00eb huajve, ngase k\u00ebshtu e ndjen vjehrra se kjo grua e do me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe me sinqeritet.<\/p>\n 3. T\u00eb vizituarit e saj dhe interesimi p\u00ebr gjendjen e saj:<\/p>\n N\u00ebse ajo banon n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi tjet\u00ebr, at\u00ebher\u00eb vizitoje dhe interesohu p\u00ebr gjendjen e saj. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb respekt dhe nder i madh p\u00ebr t\u00eb, dhe kjo do t\u00eb afron m\u00eb tep\u00ebr tek ajo, madje t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh edhe m\u00eb e dashur se bijat e saj.<\/p>\n 4. Respektoje lidhjen e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb mes burrit t\u00ebnd dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb vet:<\/p>\n Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb l\u00ebri asaj hap\u00ebsir\u00eb me burrin t\u00ebnd, n\u00ebse burri yt i flet di\u00e7ka n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb tij n\u00eb vesh apo e kund\u00ebrta, mos u lodh q\u00eb ta dish se \u00e7ka i tha asaj. Nga sjellja e mir\u00eb dhe respekti, \u00ebsht\u00eb ta kuptosh se ajo \u00e7\u00ebshtje ty nuk t\u00eb intereson!<\/p>\n 5. Mbjell n\u00eb shpirtrat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj dashurin\u00eb ndaj gjyshes dhe gjyshit t\u00eb tyre:<\/p>\n M\u00ebsoji ata q\u00eb ta respektojn\u00eb vjehrr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde dhe t\u00eb sillen mir\u00eb me t\u00eb. T\u2019i ndihmojn\u00eb n\u00ebse ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb, t\u2019i japin dhurata dhe gj\u00ebra tjera q\u00eb aludojn\u00eb n\u00eb respekt t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb ndaj saj!!<\/p>\n 6. Jepi p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi k\u00ebrkesave t\u00eb vjehrr\u00ebs t\u00ebnde:<\/p>\n Vjehrra e jote \u00ebsht\u00eb grua e moshuar, ka q\u00ebndruar zgjuar dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb lodhur dhe ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj. Prandaj, e patjet\u00ebrsueshme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh se nevojat dhe k\u00ebrkesat e saj jan\u00eb par\u00ebsore p\u00ebr t\u2019u realizuar.<\/p>\n 7. Takoje vjehrr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde e buz\u00ebqeshur dhe me buz\u00ebqeshje t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb:<\/p>\n Buz\u00ebqeshja ka ndikim magjik, ajo mbjell dashuri n\u00eb zem\u00ebr dhe i largon problemet dhe mospajtimet mes vete.<\/p>\n Gruaja e vet\u00ebdijshme mundet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb shum\u00eb nga vjehrra e saj, n\u00ebse e p\u00ebrmir\u00ebson sjelljen e vet. Mir\u00ebpo n\u00ebse sillet keq me t\u00eb, do ta humb rehatin\u00eb e saj dhe ardhm\u00ebrin\u00eb e saj. Islami na urdh\u00ebron q\u00eb ta respektojm\u00eb t\u00eb madhin.<\/p>\n Dhe n\u00eb fund, rikujto se sa her\u00eb q\u00eb imani yt \u00ebsht\u00eb i thell\u00eb dhe i sinqert\u00eb, edhe sjellja e jote me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e burrit t\u00ebnd do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb!!<\/p>\n Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" A e di se n\u00ebna e burrit t\u00ebnd \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebs nga \u00e7el\u00ebsat e lumturis\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortore?! Merri k\u00ebto k\u00ebshilla se si t\u00eb sillesh me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e burrit t\u00ebnd, dhe me k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fitosh nj\u00eb nga \u00e7el\u00ebsat e lumturis\u00eb t\u00ebnde bashk\u00ebshortore: 1. 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