\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim i v\u00ebrtet, t\u00eb cilin na e rr\u00ebfen nj\u00eb mjek musliman prej Arabis\u00eb Saudite, ku nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij e kaloi n\u00eb studime n\u00eb Angli. Gjat\u00eb studimeve jetonte me familjen e tij n\u00eb nj\u00eb lagje t\u00eb qet\u00eb, ku l\u00ebvizjet e njer\u00ebzve dhe makinave ishin aq t\u00eb rralla, saq\u00eb i huaji dallohej shum\u00eb leht\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ky v\u00eblla musliman na rr\u00ebfen dhe thot\u00eb: Fqinji im m\u00eb i af\u00ebrt ishte nj\u00eb plak\u00eb jomyslimane, e cila i kishte kaluar t\u00eb shtat\u00ebdhjetat. Jetonte e vetmuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb qet\u00eb, asaj nuk i trokiste askush n\u00eb der\u00eb dhe nuk e vizitonte njeri. Hynte dhe dilte prej sht\u00ebpis\u00eb e vetmuar, s\u2019kishte ask\u00ebnd prej t\u00eb af\u00ebrmeve p\u00ebr ta ndihmuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesur p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Ushqimin dhe rrobat \u00e7ka i nevojiteshin i blinte vet, saq\u00eb kur e shikonte njeri e kaplonte keqardhje p\u00ebr gjendjen e saj. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb prej dit\u00ebve k\u00ebrkoi prej meje t\u2019ia kryej nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb e kishte, dhe un\u00eb padyshim pranova q\u00eb me plot\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u2019i ndihmoj, pasi q\u00eb Islami na urdh\u00ebron q\u00eb t\u2019i respektojm\u00eb dhe ndihmojm\u00eb fqinj\u00ebt tan\u00eb edhe n\u00ebse jan\u00eb jomysliman\u00eb. Plaka aq shum\u00eb u habit, edhe pse nuk b\u00ebra ndonj\u00eb vep\u00ebr t\u00eb madhe, ngaq\u00eb pranova t\u2019i ndihmoj edhe at\u00eb pa t\u00eb holla.<\/p>\n T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen erdhi plaka n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ton\u00eb, i solli disa \u00ebmb\u00eblsira p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb dhe me vete kishte sjell\u00eb nj\u00eb mir\u00ebnjohje, e cila p\u00ebrdoret n\u00eb raste manifestimi, ku ishte shprehur me fjal\u00eb fal\u00ebnderimi dhe respekti p\u00ebr at\u00eb vep\u00ebr q\u00eb e b\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Nuk duhet t\u00eb \u00e7uditemi n\u00eb reagimin e saj, pasi q\u00eb ajo jetonte n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri ku s\u2019njihet fjala mir\u00ebsi dhe humanitet, dhe s\u2019din\u00eb se \u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebshira dhe keqardhja, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet mes fqinj\u00ebve n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve mbarojn\u00eb me p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjen e m\u00ebngjesit dhe mbr\u00ebmjes. E nxita q\u00eb ta viziton m\u00eb shpesh sht\u00ebpin\u00eb dhe gruan time, dhe me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet koh\u00eb pas kohe na vizitonte. Gjat\u00eb vizitave q\u00eb na b\u00ebnte, e kuptoi plaka se tek ne mysliman\u00ebt burri \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe i familjes s\u00eb tij. Ai p\u00ebrkujdeset p\u00ebr blerjen e ushqimit dhe rrobave dhe t\u00eb gjitha nevojave familjare. V\u00ebrejti se respekti i gruas ndaj burrit \u00ebsht\u00eb i lart\u00eb dhe po ashtu respekti i burrit ndaj gruas \u00ebsht\u00eb i madh, pa marr\u00eb parasysh se a \u00ebsht\u00eb vajz\u00eb, grua apo n\u00ebn\u00eb, sidomos kur ajo moshohet dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb garojn\u00eb p\u00ebr sh\u00ebrbimin dhe respektimin e saj. Kurse ai i cili s\u2019i p\u00ebrfill k\u00ebto ligje dhe s\u2019e posedon k\u00ebt\u00eb moral \u00ebsht\u00eb i urryer n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri. Po ashtu e v\u00ebrejti sjelljen e prindit me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij, dhe sjelljen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me prind\u00ebrit e tyre dhe sakrific\u00ebn e n\u00ebn\u00ebs p\u00ebr burrin e saj dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj.<\/p>\n Plaka e mjer\u00eb pasi q\u00eb e v\u00ebrejti k\u00ebt\u00eb familje myslimane, filloi ta krahasoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn e saj, se si jeton ajo dhe si jetojn\u00eb mysliman\u00ebt n\u00eb familjet e tyre. Iu rikujtuan f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe nipat e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebt s\u2019din\u00eb e mjera se ku jetojn\u00eb dhe asnj\u00ebri prej tyre s\u2019e viziton, ndoshta edhe vdes apo varroset e ata s\u2019din\u00eb asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Pastaj, filloi t\u2019ia rr\u00ebfej\u00eb gruas sime v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb me t\u00eb cilat ballafaqohet gruaja per\u00ebndimore n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe n\u00eb kryerjen e nevojave sht\u00ebpiake, ku edhe e mbaroi fjalimin e saj duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se: \u201cGruaja myslimane qenka mbret\u00ebresh\u00eb, dhe po mos t\u00eb isha n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e shkuar, do t\u00eb isha martuar me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb musliman sikurse burri yt dhe do t\u00eb jetoja sikurse jetoni ju\u201d.<\/p>\n Pra, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dukuri q\u00eb e dallon dhe e kupton \u00e7do njeri i cili jeton dhe punon n\u00eb per\u00ebndim dhe bot\u00ebn jomyslimane. Megjithat\u00eb disa prej mysliman\u00ebve t\u00eb hutuar, s\u2019iu vjen turp t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb n\u00eb imitimin e jomys-liman\u00ebve n\u00eb \u00e7do sfer\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs dhe publikimin e librave, revistave dhe gazetave q\u00eb flasin me mahnitje p\u00ebr drejtat e gruas per\u00ebndimore!<\/p>\n O Allah, fal\u00ebnderimi t\u00eb takon vet\u00ebm Ty q\u00eb na begatove me begatin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe, e ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb Islami: \u201cAta t\u00eb shprehin ty mir\u00ebnjohje (ta p\u00ebrmendin) q\u00eb u b\u00ebn\u00eb mysliman\u00eb. Thuaj: \u201cPranimin tuaj t\u00eb fes\u00eb islame mos ma njihni (mos ma p\u00ebrmendni) mua, por n\u00ebse jeni t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb Allahu juve ju b\u00ebri mir\u00eb, kur ju udh\u00ebzoi p\u00ebr besim.\u201d(El-Huxhurat: 17)<\/p>\n Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim i v\u00ebrtet, t\u00eb cilin na e rr\u00ebfen nj\u00eb mjek musliman prej Arabis\u00eb Saudite, ku nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij e kaloi n\u00eb studime n\u00eb Angli. 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