\u0648\u064e\u0625\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u062c\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064e\u0643\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u064a\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0622\u064a\u064e\u0627\u062a\u0650\u0646\u064e\u0627 \u0641\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0644\u0652 \u0633\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064c \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u06d6 . ” Kur t\u00eb vijn\u00eb te Ti ata q\u00eb besojn\u00eb n\u00eb argumentet Tona, thuaj:(Selamu Alejkum) “Shp\u00ebtimi (Paqa) qoft\u00eb mbi ju!.” ( En’am: 54).<\/p>\n
\u062f\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0641\u0650\u064a\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0633\u064f\u0628\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0627\u0646\u064e\u0643\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0651\u064e \u0648\u064e\u062a\u064e\u062d\u0650\u064a\u0651\u064e\u062a\u064f\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0641\u0650\u064a\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0633\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064c \u06da \u0648\u064e\u0622\u062e\u0650\u0631\u064f \u062f\u064e\u0639\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u064e\u0645\u0652\u062f\u064f \u0644\u0650\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u0650 \u0631\u064e\u0628\u0651\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0639\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e\u0645\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e ” Lutja e tyre n\u00eb to (kopshtije) \u00ebsht\u00eb: “Qofsh i lavd\u00ebruar o Zot!” e p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja e tyre n\u00eb t\u00eb: “Selam” e lutja e tyre e fundit \u00ebsht\u00eb: “Falenderojm\u00eb Allahun, Zotin e gjith\u00ebsis\u00eb!.”( Junus: 10). <\/p>\n
\u0648\u064e\u0633\u0650\u064a\u0642\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0627\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0627 \u0631\u064e\u0628\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0625\u0650\u0644\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u062c\u064e\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0629\u0650 \u0632\u064f\u0645\u064e\u0631\u064b\u0627 \u06d6 \u062d\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0649\u0670 \u0625\u0650\u0630\u064e\u0627 \u062c\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0641\u064f\u062a\u0650\u062d\u064e\u062a\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0648\u064e\u0627\u0628\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0642\u064e\u0627\u0644\u064e \u0644\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u062e\u064e\u0632\u064e\u0646\u064e\u062a\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0633\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064c \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0637\u0650\u0628\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0641\u064e\u0627\u062f\u0652\u062e\u064f\u0644\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u062e\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0650\u062f\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e ” E, ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb ruajtur (nga m\u00ebkatet), do t\u00eb shtyhen n\u00eb xhennet, grupe-grupe dhe dyert e tij hapen e do t’u thon\u00eb atyre rojtar\u00ebt e tij:(Selamu alejkum) “Shp\u00ebtimi qoft\u00eb mbi ju! Ju jeni t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur, andaj hyni n\u00eb t\u00eb, ku do t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb!.”(Zumer: 73).<\/p>\n
\u0633\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0645\u064c \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0628\u0650\u0645\u064e\u0627 \u0635\u064e\u0628\u064e\u0631\u0652\u062a\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u06da \u0641\u064e\u0646\u0650\u0639\u0652\u0645\u064e \u0639\u064f\u0642\u0652\u0628\u064e\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u062f\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0631\u0650 (e ju thon\u00eb):(Selamu alejkum) “Shp\u00ebtimi qoft\u00eb mbi ju, meq\u00eb keni duruar, e sa p\u00ebrfundim i bukur q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ky!. ” ( Rra’d: 24).<\/p>\n
Transmetohet nga Enesi,- Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb!,- se ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: M\u00eb tha mua i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut,- salallahu alejh i ue selem!,-: ” O biri im(o djalosh)! Kur t\u00eb hysh n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb t\u00ebnde(tek familja yte), jepju selam atyre(p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndeti me selamu alejkum), sepse kjo p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje do t\u00eb jet\u00eb bereqet p\u00ebr ty dhe p\u00ebr familj\u00ebn t\u00ebnde(pjestar\u00eat e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb t\u00ebnde).” (Sh\u00ebnon: Tirmidhiu- 2698, dhe thot\u00eb se hadithi \u00easht\u00eb hasen sahih. Shejh Albani e vler\u00ebsoi hadithin si sahih).<\/p>\n
Transmetohet se Enesi,- Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb!,- kaloi pran\u00eb disa t\u00eb f\u00ebmijeve dhe i p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndeti ata me selam(eselamu alejkum), dhe tha: K\u00ebshtu vepronte i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut,- salallahu alejhi ue selem!.” (Sh\u00ebnon: Buhariu – 11\/32(6247), Muslimi – 2168, Ebu Davudi – 5202 dhe Tirmidhiu – 2696).<\/p>\n
Omeri,- Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb thot\u00eb: “Dashuria v\u00ebllez\u00ebrore forcohet p\u00ebrmes tre gj\u00earave:
1. Kur ta takosh v\u00ebllain t\u00eand, ta p\u00ebrsh\u00eandet\u00ebsh me selam. 2. N\u00ease vjen n\u00ea mexhlis(takim) zgjerohu dhe liroja vendin t\u00eb ulet af\u00ear teje n\u00eb mexhlis.
3. Thirre v\u00ebllain t\u00ebnd me emrat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur q\u00eb ai i don apo ti e din\u00eb se ai g\u00ebzohet dhe k\u00ebnaqet kur e th\u00earret me ata emra.<\/p>\n
Komentim i p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm: Islami n\u00eb veten tij ng\u00ebrthen edukata t\u00eb llojllojshme, t\u00eb cilave duhet t’i kushtoj v\u00eamendje dhe r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi muslimani, si dhe t\u00ea mundohet t’i fus\u00ea n\u00eb praktik\u00eb edukatat islame. Nj\u00eb nga eduakatat islame \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja e familjar\u00ebve me selam( selamu alejkum) n\u00eb momentin kur muslimani futet apo kthehet n\u00ea sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tij. Sepse kjo p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje do t\u00ea jet\u00ea bereqet p\u00ebr t\u00ea dhe familj\u00ebn e tij. Dhe nuk ka aspak dyshim se praktikimi i sunetit sjell bereqete t\u00eb shumta n\u00eb familje, shoq\u00ebri apo edhe n\u00eb rrethin ku jetojm\u00eb. Gjithashtu, prej edukat\u00eas islam \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb edhe f\u00eamij\u00ebt t’i p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndesim me selam (selamu alejkum), t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb but\u00eb dhe kujdessh\u00ebm ndaj tyre, sepse k\u00eashtu na ka porositur i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut dhe sahab\u00ebt e tij. N\u00ebse veprojm\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, edhe f\u00ebmijet do t\u00ea edukuohen dhe do t\u00eb m\u00ebsohen ta praktikojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb sunet t\u00eb bereqetsh\u00ebm(selam). Allahu e udh\u00ebzoi t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin e tij q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin kur t’i takoj\u00eb ata q\u00eb besuan argumentet e Allahut, t’i p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes me selam. Selami, nj\u00ebherit \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja e banor\u00eave t\u00eb Xhenetit. Allahu,- xhele ue ala!,- do t’i p\u00earsh\u00ebndet banor\u00eat e Xhenetit me Selam. K\u00ebshilla e Omerit, na m\u00ebson se nj\u00eb nga elementet kryesore e forcimit t\u00ea lidhjeve v\u00ebllez\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja e v\u00ebllaut me selam \u00e7doher\u00ea q\u00eb ta takosh.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ka m\u00ebsojm\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrfitojm\u00eb nga kjo hytbe e shkurt\u00ebr:
1. P\u00eblqehet dhe preferohet q\u00eb ta p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u00ebsh familj\u00ebn me selam, \u00e7doher\u00eb q\u00eb hyn\u00eb apo del nga sht\u00ebpia.
2. P\u00eblqehet t’i p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet\u00ebsh edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me selam, sepse kjo ua mund\u00ebson atyre m\u00ebsimin dhe praktikimin e k\u00eatij suneti.
3. N\u00ebse d\u00eashiron t’ia zbut\u00eash zemr\u00ebn v\u00ebllait t\u00ebnd at\u00ebher\u00ea p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndete me selam.
4. N\u00ebse d\u00ebshiron t’i forcosh lidhjet v\u00ebllez\u00ebrore me nj\u00eb v\u00ealla, p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndete saher\u00ea q\u00ea e takon me selam dhe thirre me emra t\u00eb bukur q\u00eb ai i don.
5. Krenohu n\u00ebse je prej atyre q\u00eb p\u00ebrhapin nj\u00eb sunet(selamin) dhe fal\u00ebndero Allahun p\u00ebr k\u00eat\u00eb dhunti.<\/p>\n
Vazhdon Inshallah…<\/p>\n
Autor: Rashid Ibn Husejn AbdulKerim
Nga arabishtja: Suad B. Shabani.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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