{"id":4306,"date":"2020-06-06T10:38:23","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T10:38:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=4306"},"modified":"2020-06-06T10:38:23","modified_gmt":"2020-06-06T10:38:23","slug":"marredheniet-bashkeshortore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=4306","title":{"rendered":"MARR\u00cbDH\u00cbNIET BASHK\u00cbSHORTORE"},"content":{"rendered":"

Prej \u00e7\u00ebshtjeve q\u00eb Islami i kushton r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe \u00e7\u00ebshtja e familjes brenda sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe jasht\u00eb saj. Duke e pasur parasysh se bazamenti i \u00e7do familjeje \u00ebsht\u00eb burri dhe gruaja, Allahu p\u00ebr ta ligj\u00ebsoi ligje, caktoi kufij dhe rregulla, u detyroi detyra dhe na b\u00ebri me dije se p\u00ebrmbajtja dhe veprimi me k\u00ebto ligje dhe rregulla prej an\u00ebs s\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb shkak i formimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb familjeje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb e t\u00eb lumtur, e si shkak i p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimit t\u00eb tyre m\u00eb von\u00eb do t\u00eb vjen edhe deri tek formimi i nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb e t\u00eb lumtur. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb hutbe me lejen e Allahut do ta paraqes nj\u00eb tabel\u00eb orientimi n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet t\u00eb cil\u00ebs bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt do t\u00eb ken\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb udh\u00ebzohen se si ta formojn\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsojm\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre bashk\u00ebshortore.<\/p>\n

Fillimisht bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt duhet ta din\u00eb se Allahu, azze ue xhel<\/em>, gruan e krijoi prej burrit, q\u00eb ky i fundit t\u00eb gjen prehje tek ajo dhe me t\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00ebsohet begatia dhe t\u00eb arrihet lumturia. Allahu, azze ue xhel,<\/em> thot\u00eb: \u201c<\/strong>O njer\u00ebz! Frik\u00ebsojuni Zotit tuaj, i Cili ju krijoi prej nj\u00eb njeriu, nd\u00ebrsa prej atij krijoi bashk\u00ebshorten e tij, kurse prej k\u00ebtyre t\u00eb dyve krijoi shum\u00eb meshkuj e femra\u201d. <\/strong>(En-Nisa: 1) Ib\u00ebn Kethiri, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb<\/em>, n\u00eb komentin e k\u00ebtij ajeti thot\u00eb: \u201cAllahu prej Ademit krijoi bashk\u00ebshorten e tij, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb Hava, alejha selam<\/em>, e krijoi nga nj\u00eb brinj\u00eb e krahut t\u00eb majt\u00eb t\u00eb Ademit, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb Ademi ishte duke fjetur. Kur Ademit i doli gjumi, gjeti nj\u00eb grua pran\u00eb tij t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e p\u00eblqeu shum\u00eb dhe tek e cila ai gjeti prehje tek ajo dhe ajo gjeti prehje tek ai\u201d.<\/p>\n

Imam Buhariu dhe Muslimi, Allahu i m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb<\/em>, n\u00eb librat e tyre e sh\u00ebnojn\u00eb nj\u00eb hadith prej Ebu Hurejres, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb,<\/em> se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cD\u00ebgjoni porosin\u00eb time, ndaj grave b\u00ebhuni t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm, sepse ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb krijuara nga brinj\u00ebt. Briri an\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb lakuar e ka pjes\u00ebn e ep\u00ebrme. Po deshe ta drejtosh, ai do t\u00eb thyhet, e po e le ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb, do t\u00eb ngele i lakuar. Prandaj d\u00ebgjoni porosin\u00eb time, ndaj grave b\u00ebhuni t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt po ashtu duhet ta din\u00eb se Allahu gruan e krijoi t\u00eb jet\u00eb mprehje dhe qet\u00ebsi p\u00ebr burrin e saj. Allahu, azze ue xhel,<\/em> thot\u00eb: \u201c<\/strong>\u00cbsht\u00eb Ai q\u00eb ju krijoi nga nj\u00eb njeri i vet\u00ebm <\/strong>(Ademit), prej t\u00eb cilit krijoi edhe bashk\u00ebshorten e tij <\/strong>(Havan\u00eb), q\u00eb t\u00eb gjente qet\u00ebsi tek ajo\u201d.<\/strong> (El-A\u2019raf: 189) Sikurse njeriu q\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tij e merr si vendstrehim dhe mburoj\u00eb q\u00eb e mbron prej t\u00eb nxehtit dhe t\u00eb ftohtit e k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb, po ashtu gruaja p\u00ebr burrin e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb vendstrehim ku e gjen k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe qet\u00ebsin\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore dhe n\u00eb af\u00ebrsin\u00eb e saj gjen shoq\u00ebri dhe miq\u00ebsi. Pra ata dy jan\u00eb mbules\u00eb dhe mburoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri tjetrin ashtu si\u00e7 na rr\u00ebfen edhe Allahu, azze ue xhel<\/em>: \u201c<\/strong>Ato jan\u00eb petk p\u00ebr ju e ju jeni petk p\u00ebr ato<\/strong>\u201d.<\/strong> (El-Bekare: 187)<\/p>\n

Burri duhet ta dij\u00eb se gruaja duhet fisnik\u00ebruar e nderuar dhe se nuk lejohet n\u00ebn\u00e7mimi dhe ofendimi i saj. Allahu burrin e ka urdh\u00ebruar q\u00eb gruan e tij ta strehon aty ku banon ai vet, ta ushqen me at\u00eb \u00e7ka ushqehet vet dhe ta veshmbath\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb kur veshmbathet vet. Allahu, azze ue xhel,<\/em> thot\u00eb: \u201c<\/strong>le t\u00eb banojn\u00eb aty ku banoni edhe ju\u201d. <\/strong>(Et-Talak: 6) I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, kur u pyet prej Muavije ib\u00ebn Hide se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkon gruaja prej burrit t\u00eb saj, u p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201cTa ushqej\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 e ushqen veten, ta vesh\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 e vesh\u00eb veten, t\u00eb mos i m\u00ebshoj\u00eb n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb, t\u00eb mos e n\u00ebn\u00e7moj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos largohet prej saj p\u00ebrve\u00e7 brenda sht\u00ebpis\u00eb (t\u00eb mos ik)\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Po ashtu n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre bashk\u00ebshortore duhet t\u00eb mbisundon toleranc\u00eb e nd\u00ebrsjell\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortore dhe t\u00eb mbisundon dashuria e m\u00ebshira. Allahu, azze ue xhel<\/em>, thot\u00eb: \u201c<\/strong>Dhe nj\u00eb prej shenjave t\u00eb Tij \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb prej jush krijoi p\u00ebr ju bashk\u00ebshortet tuaja, q\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00ebsoheni pran\u00eb tyre, duke v\u00ebn\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet jush dashuri dhe m\u00ebshir\u00eb. Me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb ka shenja, p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb\u201d.<\/strong> (Er-Rum: 21)<\/p>\n

Prej shenjave q\u00eb e udh\u00ebzojn\u00eb \u00e7iftin bashk\u00ebshortor drejt p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimit t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre bashk\u00ebshortore \u00ebsht\u00eb respektimi i detyrimeve dhe t\u00eb drejtave q\u00eb i kan\u00eb mes vete. K\u00ebto detyrime dhe t\u00eb drejta jan\u00eb t\u00eb bazuara mbi at\u00eb q\u00eb e njohin njer\u00ebzit prej moralit t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe cil\u00ebsive t\u00eb bukura n\u00eb adetet dhe traditat e tyre edhe at\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb dhe \u00e7do vend. Allahu, azze ue xhel<\/em>, thot\u00eb: \u201c<\/strong>Grat\u00eb kan\u00eb aq t\u00eb drejta sa kan\u00eb edhe detyra, sipas arsyes s\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb\u201d. <\/strong>(El-Bekare: 228); \u201cJetoni e silluni mir\u00eb me to!\u201d. <\/strong>(En-Nisa: 19) Hind bint Utbeh, gruaja e Ebu Sufjanit erdhi te i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, dhe i tha: \u201cO i D\u00ebrguar i Allahut, Ebu Sufjani \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb koprrac. Ajo q\u00eb ai ma jep, nuk mjafton p\u00ebr mua dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb un\u00eb pa dijen e tij marr prej pasuris\u00eb s\u00eb tij. I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, i tha: \u201cMerre vet\u00ebm at\u00eb q\u00eb ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ty dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00ebnd\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Allahu na sqaron n\u00eb Kur\u2019an se gruaja ka t\u00eb drejta q\u00eb duhet burri t\u2019i respekton, mir\u00ebpo ka edhe detyra q\u00eb ajo duhet t\u2019i respekton dhe se burri ka nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb mbi t\u00eb. Allahu, azze ue xhel,<\/em> thot\u00eb: \u201cGrat\u00eb kan\u00eb aq t\u00eb drejta sa kan\u00eb edhe detyra, sipas arsyes s\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb, ndon\u00ebse burrat kan\u00eb nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb <\/strong>(m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie) mbi ato<\/strong>\u201d. <\/strong>(El-Bekare: 228) K\u00ebt\u00eb grad\u00eb Allahu e sqaroi n\u00eb nj\u00eb ajet tjet\u00ebr ku tha: \u201c<\/strong>Meshkujt kan\u00eb autoritet mbi grat\u00eb, meq\u00eb Allahu u ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb disa cil\u00ebsi mbi ato dhe, meq\u00eb ata shpenzojn\u00eb p\u00ebr mbajtjen e tyre\u201d. <\/strong>(En-Nisa: 34)<\/p>\n

Edhe pse detyrimet dhe t\u00eb drejtat bazohen mbi adetet dhe traditat e mira q\u00eb njihen n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, prap\u00eb se prap\u00eb kan\u00eb ardhur citate t\u00eb cilat k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje prej burrit dhe gruas dhe nuk lejohet neglizhenca e tyre. Prej tyre:<\/p>\n

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  1. Gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb e detyruar ta respektoj\u00eb burrin e saj derisa ai nuk thirr n\u00eb m\u00ebkat ndaj Allahut.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Allahu, azze ue xhel<\/em>, thot\u00eb: \u201cGra t\u00eb mira jan\u00eb ato t\u00eb d\u00ebgjueshmet, q\u00eb ruajn\u00eb fsheht\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb ka urdh\u00ebruar Allahu\u201d. <\/strong>(En-Nisa: 34)<\/p>\n

    Imam Buhari dhe Muslimi, Allahu i m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb<\/em>, e sh\u00ebnojn\u00eb nj\u00eb hadith prej Ebu Hurejr\u00ebs, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb<\/em>, i cili transmeton se Profeti, alejhi salatu ue selam, <\/em>ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cN\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb e thirr gruan e tij n\u00eb shtrat dhe ajo refuzon dhe ai fle i hidh\u00ebruar, at\u00eb grua do ta mallkojn\u00eb melaqet deri n\u00eb agim!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

    Ebu Hurejra, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb<\/em>, transmeton se Muhamedi, alejhi salatu ue selam,<\/em> ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cPo ta kisha urdh\u00ebruar dik\u00eb q\u00eb ti b\u00ebj sexhde dikujt, do ta kisha urdh\u00ebruar gruan q\u00eb ti b\u00ebj sexhde burrit t\u00eb saj!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

    Ebu Hurejra, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb<\/em>, transmeton se Muhamedi, alejhi salatu ue selam,<\/em> ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cN\u00ebse gruaja i fal\u00eb pes\u00eb koh\u00ebt e namazit, e agj\u00ebron muajin e Ramazanit, e ruan moralin e saj dhe i n\u00ebnshtrohet burrit t\u00eb saj, at\u00ebher\u00eb asaj do ti thuhet q\u00eb t\u00eb hyj n\u00eb Xhenet nga cila der\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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    1. Gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb e detyruar q\u00eb burrin e saj ta dashuroj\u00eb, ta respektoj\u00eb, t\u00eb sillet but\u00eb me t\u00eb, t\u2019i ndihmoj\u00eb n\u00eb nevojat e tij, t\u2019i sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tij dhe t\u2019i edukoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Imam Muslimi, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb<\/em>, sh\u00ebnon nj\u00eb hadith prej Abdullah ib\u00ebn Amru se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cDynjaja \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, nd\u00ebrsa k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia m\u00eb e madhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dynja \u00ebsht\u00eb gruaja e mir\u00eb\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

      Cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e gruas s\u00eb mir\u00eb jan\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb hadith tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin e sh\u00ebnon Nesaiu, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb<\/em>, prej hadithit t\u00eb Ebu Hurejres i cili thot\u00eb se i \u00ebsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, se cilat gra jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mira? P\u00ebrgjigjja e tij, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, ishte: \u201cGruaja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo e cila t\u00eb g\u00ebzon kur t\u00eb shikon, e cila t\u00eb d\u00ebgjon kur di\u00e7ka e urdh\u00ebron dhe e cila e ruan autoritetin t\u00ebnd, moralin e vet dhe pasurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde kur mungon!\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

      Ebu Hurejra, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb<\/em>, transmeton nga i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, se ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cGruas nuk i \u00ebsht\u00eb lejuar t\u00eb agj\u00ebroj nafile n\u00eb prezenc\u00ebn e burrit t\u00eb saj, pa lejen e tij dhe i \u00ebsht\u00eb ndaluar t\u00eb l\u00ebshoj dik\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pa lejen e burrit\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

      Imam Neveviu, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb<\/em>, thot\u00eb: \u201cBurri ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqet me gruan e tij p\u00ebr \u00e7do dit\u00eb dhe e drejta e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb detyrim q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kryhet menj\u00ebher\u00eb dhe nuk mund ta ndaloj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb detyrim nj\u00eb adhurim vullnetar apo nj\u00eb detyrim q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kusht t\u00eb kryhet menj\u00ebher\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n

      Shembullin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb na jep Aishja, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb<\/em>, e cila i vononte dit\u00ebt e agj\u00ebrimit t\u00eb cilat i kishin mbetur pa agj\u00ebruar prej muajit Ramazan derisa vinte muaji Shaban dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb e arsyetoi duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se: \u201cKam qen\u00eb e nx\u00ebn\u00eb prej t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, ose me t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin e Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

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      1. Gruaja duhet ta mbroj\u00eb veten e saj dhe nderin e saj dhe t\u2019i largohet \u00e7do gj\u00ebje q\u00eb nxit dyshime tek burri i saj.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Muhamedi, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, n\u00eb hutben e tij t\u00eb lamtumir\u00ebs kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cO njer\u00ebz! Nj\u00ebsoj si\u00e7 keni t\u00eb drejta mbi grat\u00eb tuaja, edhe ato kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejta mbi ju. E drejta juaj mbi to \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ju tradhtojn\u00eb, t\u00eb mos e marrin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pa lejen tuaj ndonj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb s`ju p\u00eblqen dhe t\u00eb mos b\u00ebjn\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb pamoralshme\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

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        1. Nuk i lejohet gruas t\u00eb del jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb pa lejen e burrit edhe po t\u00eb ishte dalja e saj p\u00ebr n\u00eb xhami.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Ib\u00ebn Omeri, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb<\/em>, e p\u00ebrcjell nj\u00eb hadith nga Muhamedi, alejhi salatu ue selam, <\/em>se ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cN\u00ebse grat\u00eb e juaja nga ju k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb nat\u00ebn leje p\u00ebr shkuarje n\u00eb xhami, at\u00ebher\u00eb lejoni ato q\u00eb t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

          Burri po ashtu duhet t\u2019i kushtoj\u00eb v\u00ebmendje disa detyrave q\u00eb bien mbi t\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos i neglizhon ato. Prej tyre:<\/p>\n

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          1. Dh\u00ebnia e mehrit.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Allahu, azze ue xhel,<\/em> thot\u00eb: \u201cDhe jepuni me gjith\u00eb zem\u00ebr grave tuaja dhurat\u00ebn e kuror\u00ebzimi\u201d. <\/strong>(En-Nisa: 4)<\/p>\n

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            1. Shpenzimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrkujdesja, e cila p\u00ebrfshin t\u00eb gjitha ato q\u00eb gruaja ka nevoj\u00eb si ushqim, veshje, banes\u00eb, ila\u00e7e etj., madje edhe n\u00ebse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e pasur ose e pavarur nga kjo ndihm\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Allahu, azze ue xhel<\/em>, thot\u00eb: \u201cPasaniku le t\u00eb shpenzoj\u00eb sipas pasuris\u00eb q\u00eb ka, nd\u00ebrsa i varfri le t\u00eb shpenzoj\u00eb sipas asaj q\u00eb i ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb Allahu; Allahu nuk e ngarkon ask\u00ebnd mbi sa i ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb.\u201d<\/strong> (Et-Talak: 7)<\/p>\n

              I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>, i tha Sadit, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb<\/em>: \u201cDhe p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb shpenzosh duke k\u00ebrkuar me t\u00eb vet\u00ebm Fytyr\u00ebn e Allahut, do t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh shp\u00ebrblimin deri edhe kafshat\u00ebn q\u00eb i v\u00eb n\u00eb goj\u00eb edhe gruas t\u00ebnde\u201d<\/em>.<\/p>\n

              \u00a03. <\/strong>Burrit nuk i lejohet q\u00eb ta rrah gruan n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb dhe nuk lejohet n\u00ebn\u00e7mimi i saj qoft\u00eb me fjal\u00eb apo me vep\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

              Allahu, azze ue xhel<\/em>, thot\u00eb: \u201c<\/strong>Grat\u00eb e ndara n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn e pritjes, le t\u00eb banojn\u00eb aty ku banoni edhe ju, sipas mund\u00ebsive tuaja dhe mos u bini n\u00eb qaf\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i detyruar <\/strong>(t\u00eb largohen)\u201d. <\/strong>(Et-Talak: 6)<\/p>\n

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              1. Burri duhet q\u00eb gruan ta fisnik\u00ebroj\u00eb, ta lavd\u00ebroj\u00eb p\u00ebr pun\u00ebt q\u00eb i kryen n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, ta lavd\u00ebroj\u00eb p\u00ebr edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat e tjera dhe ta fal at\u00ebher\u00eb kur gabon.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Ib\u00ebn Abasi, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb, <\/em>transmeton se Muhamedi, alejhi salatu ue selam, <\/em>thot\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt nd\u00ebr jush jan\u00eb ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt ndaj grave t\u00eb tyre, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb jam m\u00eb i miri ndaj grave t\u00eb mia!\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

                Ebu Hurejra, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb<\/em>, transmeton se Muhamedi, alejhi salatu ue selam, <\/em>thot\u00eb: \u201cBesimtari nuk e urren besimtaren. N\u00ebse nuk i p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb sjellje e saj, mund t\u2019i p\u00eblqej\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr sjellje\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

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                1. Burri duhet q\u00eb t\u2019ia mbroj\u00eb gruas fen\u00eb, ta nxit n\u00eb veprimin e pun\u00ebve t\u00eb mira, t\u2019ia m\u00ebsoj\u00eb asaj at\u00eb \u00e7ka i b\u00ebn dobi, ta urdh\u00ebroj\u00eb n\u00eb faljen e namazit n\u00eb koh\u00ebt e tij, ta urdh\u00ebroj\u00eb n\u00eb veshjen e hixhabit, ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb p\u00ebr moralin e mir\u00eb dhe edukat\u00ebn e lart\u00eb, t\u2019ia m\u00ebsoj\u00eb e shpjegoj\u00eb adhurimet q\u00eb duhet gruaja t\u2019ia kryej\u00eb Zotit t\u00eb saj, etj.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Allahu i tha t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Tij, alejhi salatu ue selam<\/em>: \u201c<\/strong>Urdh\u00ebroje familjen t\u00ebnde, q\u00eb t\u00eb fal\u00eb namazin dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb!\u201d. <\/strong>(Ta Ha: 132); \u201cTrego n\u00eb Lib\u00ebr p\u00ebr Ismailin! V\u00ebrtet, ai ishte i sinqert\u00eb n\u00eb premtimet e veta, ishte i d\u00ebrguar dhe profet. Ai e urdh\u00ebronte popullin e vet q\u00eb t\u00eb falte namazin e t\u00eb jepte zeqatin dhe ishte i mir\u00ebpritur te Zoti i vet\u201d. <\/strong>(Merjem: 54-55)<\/p>\n

                  Allahu, azze ue xhel<\/em>, thot\u00eb: \u201c<\/strong>O ju, q\u00eb besoni! Ruani veten dhe familjet tuaja nga zjarri, l\u00ebnda djeg\u00ebse e t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe gur\u00ebt\u201d. <\/strong>(Et-Tehrim: 6)<\/p>\n

                  Aliu, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb<\/em>, thot\u00eb: \u201cEdukoni familjen e juaj dhe m\u00ebsojuani atyre t\u00eb mir\u00ebn\u201d.<\/p>\n

                  Detyrat dhe t\u00eb drejtat mes burrit dhe gruas jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta, disa prej tyre jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqyera e disa detyruese, mir\u00ebpo ajo \u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb ceket \u00ebsht\u00eb se \u00e7do nj\u00ebri prej tyre duhet q\u00eb t\u2019ia jep hakun tjetrit dhe mos t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shembull gruaja q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e barabart\u00eb me burrin n\u00eb t\u00eb drejtat e tij dhe as burri mos ta shfryt\u00ebzoj\u00eb at\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi n\u00eb udh\u00ebheqje dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi q\u00eb ia ka dhan\u00eb Allahu ndaj gruas e t\u2019i b\u00ebj padrejt\u00ebsi dhe ta rrah pa t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Allahu, azze ue xhel<\/em>, thot\u00eb: \u201cGrat\u00eb kan\u00eb aq t\u00eb drejta sa kan\u00eb edhe detyra, sipas arsyes s\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb\u201d. <\/strong>(El-Bekare: 228)<\/p>\n

                  E lus Allahun t\u00eb na b\u00ebn dobi mua dhe ju me udh\u00ebzimin e Kur\u2019anit dhe Sunetit t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Tij, alejhi salatu ue selam. <\/em>Kjo ishte ajo \u00e7ka d\u00ebshiroja ta them. K\u00ebrkoj falje tek Allahu p\u00ebr mua dhe ju dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb musliman\u00ebt prej \u00e7do m\u00ebkati. K\u00ebrkoni falje prej Tij se me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb Gjith\u00ebfal\u00ebsi dhe M\u00ebshir\u00ebploti.<\/p>\n

                  Dr. Emin ib\u00ebn Abdullah Esh Shakaui<\/strong><\/p>\n

                  Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n

                  \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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