Fal\u00ebnderimet dhe Lavd\u00ebrimet i takojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm Allahut t\u00eb Madh\u00ebruar, nd\u00ebrsa salavatet dhe selamet qofshin mbi t\u00eb d\u00ebrguarin e Allahut, mbi familj\u00ebn e tij, shok\u00ebt e tij, dhe mbi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb e pasojn\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e tij
Dhe m\u00eb pastaj:
Allahu i madh\u00ebruar na ka urdh\u00ebruar respektimin e prind\u00ebrve si dhe na ka lajmruar p\u00ebr obligimet t\u00eb cilat i kemi karshi tyre n\u00eb shum\u00eb ajete Kur’anore:
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” Adhuronie Allahun, mos i b\u00ebni kurrnj\u00eb shoq Atij; b\u00ebni mir\u00ebsi prind\u00ebrve.”
(En Nisa: 36).
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” Zoti yt ka urdh\u00ebruar q\u00eb ta adhuroni vet\u00ebm Ate dhe t’u b\u00ebni mir\u00ebsi prind\u00ebrve.
N\u00ebse nj\u00ebri prej tyre, ose t\u00eb dy, arrijn\u00eb pleq\u00ebrin\u00eb te ti, mos u thuaj atyre:
“Uh!”, dhe mos i kund\u00ebrshto ata (me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqia), dhe drejtohu atyre me fjal\u00eb respekti.
L\u00ebshoj para tyre krah\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb p\u00ebruljes prej m\u00ebshir\u00ebs dhe thuaj:
“O Zoti im, m\u00ebshiroji ata, ashtu si\u00e7 m\u00eb kan\u00eb edukuar kur isha un\u00eb i vog\u00ebl!”
(El Isra: 23-24).
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” Dhe, Ne, i kemi urdh\u00ebruar njeriun q\u00eb t’i nderoj\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e vet.
N\u00ebna e ka bartur at\u00eb, duke duruar mundim pas mundimi, e ndarja e tij (nga gjiri) \u00ebsht\u00eb brenda dy vitesh.
(Dhe i kemi th\u00ebn\u00eb njeriut): “B\u00ebhu falenderues ndaj Meje dhe prind\u00ebrve tu!
Tek Un\u00eb do t\u00eb ktheheni t\u00eb gjith\u00eb”.
(Lukman: 14).
K\u00ebto ajete Kur’anore na m\u00ebsojn\u00eb se obligohemi t’i respektojm\u00eb, t\u00eb jemi bamir\u00ebs, t’i fal\u00ebnderojm\u00eb prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb, sidomos kur kujtojm\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e n\u00ebn\u00ebs e cila na barti n\u00eb barkun e saj, v\u00ebshtir\u00easit\u00eb e lindjes, etj.
Dhe respekti ndaj prind\u00ebrve, p\u00ebrmbledh furnizimin me ushqim, para, kur ata kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb.
Transmetohet nga Abdullah Ibn Mes’udi,- radijAllahu anhu!,- se Pejgamberi,- salallahu alejhi ue selem!,- \u00ebsht\u00eb pyetur se cila vep\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mira?
Tha: Namazi n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e vet.
U pyet prap: Pastaj cila?
Tha: Respektimi i prind\u00ebrve.
U pyet prap: Pastaj cila?
Tha: Xhihadi(Lufta) n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e Allahut.
(Buhariu: 2782, Muslimi: 85).
Transmetohet nga Abdullah Ibn Amrun,- radijAllahu anhu!,- se Pejgamberi,- salallahu alejhi ue selem!,- ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: ” K\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia e Allahut q\u00eandron n\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve, kurse hidh\u00ebrimi i Allahut q\u00ebndron n\u00eb hidh\u00ebrimin e prind\u00ebrve.”
(Tirmidhiu: 1900, Ibn Hibani: 2026, Hakimi: 4\/151-152,Shejh Albani e vler\u00easoi hadithin si sahih(t\u00eb sakt\u00eb) n\u00eb Sahih el Xhami: 3507).
Hadithe n\u00eb lidhje me rrespektin dhe bamir\u00ebsin\u00eb ka shum\u00eb.
Nd\u00ebrsa, e kund\u00ebrta e respektimit \u00ebsht\u00eb mosrespektimi, dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb prej m\u00ebkateve m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, duke u bazuar n\u00eb hadithin e Pejgamberit,- salallahu alejhi ue selem!,- ku thot\u00eb:
” A doni t’ju lajmroj\u00eb se cilat jan\u00eb m\u00ebkatet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha?
K\u00ebt\u00eb e p\u00ebrs\u00ebriti tre her\u00eb pejgamberi alejhi selam.
Sahab\u00ebt iu p\u00ebrgjigj\u00ebn: Po, o i d\u00ebrguar i Allahut.
Pejgamberi,- alejhi selam!,- tha:
T’i b\u00ebsh ortak Allahut dhe mos t’i respektosh prind\u00ebrit…….”
(Buhariu: 2654, Muslimi: 87, prej hadithit t\u00eb Ebi Bekretes,- radijAllahu anhu).
Transmetohet nga Abdullah Ibn Amrun Ibn Asi,- radijAllahu anhuma!,- se Pejgamberi,- alejhi selam!,- ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:
” Prej m\u00ebkateve t\u00eb m\u00ebdha \u00ebsht\u00eb sharja(ofendimi) i prind\u00ebrve!
Sahab\u00ebt e pyet\u00ebn:
O i d\u00ebrguar i Allahut, a ka njeri q\u00eb i ofendon apo shan\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e tij?
Pejgamberi,- alejhi selam!,- tha:
Po, e ofendon bab\u00ebn e dikujt, e ai ia kthen duke e ofenduar bab\u00ebn e k\u00ebtij, e ofendon n\u00ebn\u00ebn e dikujt, e ai ia kthen duke e ofendu n\u00ebn\u00ebn e k\u00ebtij.”
(Buhariu: 5973, Muslimi: Muslimi: 90).
Obligim \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do musliman e muslimane q\u00eb t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr respektin e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij, t’i b\u00ebj\u00eb mir\u00eb atyre, sidomos kur ata jan\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e shtyer t\u00eb pleq\u00ebris\u00eb, duke u larguar nga \u00e7do gj\u00eb e cila shpie drejt\u00eb mosrespektimit t\u00eb tyre, qofshin ato fjal\u00eb apo vepra.
Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb Ai i cili i forcon musliman\u00ebt dhe i shpie drejt\u00ea gj\u00ebrave p\u00ebrmes t\u00eb cilave k\u00ebnaqet Allahu, i ndihmon atyre t\u00eb kujdesen p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e tyre, mbajtjes s\u00eb lidhjeve farefisnore, dhe i qorton ata nga mosrespektimi i prind\u00ebrve dhe i k\u00ebputjes s\u00eb lidhjes farefisnore .
Njashtu i largon nga \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb e hidh\u00ebron At\u00eb, dhe i ofron drejt\u00eb Rahmetit t\u00eb Tij, Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i Plot\u00ebfuqish\u00ebm p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Burimi: Mexhmu’u el Fetaua ue Mekal\u00e0t Muteneuiah: 8\/306-308).<\/p>\n
Shejh Abdulaziz Ibn Bazi, rahimehullah.
Nga arabishtja: Suad Shabani<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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