{"id":4606,"date":"2020-10-16T15:30:41","date_gmt":"2020-10-16T15:30:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=4606"},"modified":"2020-10-16T15:30:41","modified_gmt":"2020-10-16T15:30:41","slug":"llojet-e-te-thyerve-shpirterisht-dhe-menyra-se-si-te-perkujdesemi-ti-ngushellojme-e-tua-largojme-merzine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=4606","title":{"rendered":"LLOJET E T\u00cb THYERVE SHPIRT\u00cbRISHT DHE M\u00cbNYRA SE SI T\u00cb P\u00cbRKUJDESEMI, T&#8217;I NGUSH\u00cbLLOJM\u00cb E T&#8217;UA LARGOJM\u00cb M\u00cbRZIN\u00cb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dit\u00ebve t\u00eb sotme nevoja e njer\u00ebzve p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb m\u00ebshiruese, p\u00ebr ngush\u00ebllim fisnik, sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe angazhim n\u00eb kryerjen e nevojave t\u00eb tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme dhe e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, sidomos n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb kur \u00ebsht\u00eb shtuar t\u00eb folurit dhe jan\u00eb pak\u00ebsuar veprat, \u00ebsht\u00eb paraqitur koprracia lakmuese, egoizmi dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrhapur varf\u00ebria dhe injoranca.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb gabim shum\u00eb i madh q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb hairit ta neglizhojn\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesjen ndaj ndjenjave t\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb t\u00eb sprovuarve, si dhe t\u2019i l\u00ebn\u00eb an\u00ebsh problemet e njer\u00ebzve dhe nevojat e tyre t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e tep\u00ebrt t\u00eb formosh shoqata q\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesen p\u00ebr t\u00eb paaft\u00ebt, t\u00eb vejat dhe jetim\u00ebt, gjithashtu nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e padobishme apo e kot\u00eb t\u00eb angazhohemi p\u00ebr nevojat e t\u00eb varf\u00ebrve, t\u00eb dob\u00ebt\u00ebve, t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00ebve si dhe t\u00eb goditurve nga fatkeq\u00ebsia.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Dit\u00ebve t\u00eb sotme zem\u00ebrthyerit jan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb lloj, n\u00eb mesin e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve b\u00ebjn\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb varfrit, t\u00eb vejat dhe jetim\u00ebt, kurse p\u00ebrkujdesja p\u00ebr ta llogaritet qet\u00ebsim i ndjenjave dhe rehati p\u00ebr t\u00eb sprovuarin prej tyre.<\/p>\n<p>Ebu Berzeh, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, e jepte nj\u00eb en\u00eb t\u00eb madhe me qull\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes dhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje p\u00ebr t\u00eb vejat, jetim\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb mjerit.<\/p>\n<p>Mensuri, mbreti i Marokos, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, i tubonte jetim\u00ebt nj\u00eb her\u00eb gjat\u00eb vitit dhe jepte urdh\u00ebr q\u00eb \u00e7do f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u2019i jepet nj\u00eb dinar, rrob\u00eb, kula\u00e7 dhe sheg\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>El-Kadij Muhamed ib\u00ebn Alij el-Mervezij, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, njihej si rrobaqep\u00ebs, p\u00ebr shkak se nat\u00ebn qepte p\u00ebr jetim\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb mjer\u00ebt dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb e llogariste l\u00ebmosh\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ahmed ib\u00ebn Alij er-Rifaij, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, tubonte drunj dhe me to shkonte te sht\u00ebpit\u00eb e t\u00eb vejave.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Prej atyre q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb dit\u00ebve t\u00eb sotme p\u00ebr ngush\u00ebllimin dhe largimin e m\u00ebrzis\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb sprovuarit dhe t\u00eb goditurit me fatkeq\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrkujdesja p\u00ebr ndjenjat e tyre b\u00ebhet duke i nxitur p\u00ebr durim n\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre, leht\u00ebsimin e v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive dhe pik\u00ebllimit t\u00eb tyre, edhe at\u00eb me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mira dhe me vepra t\u00eb hijshme.<\/p>\n<p>Kur u mbyt dhe u kryq\u00ebzua n\u00eb Meke, Abdullah ib\u00ebn ez-Zubejri, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij!, i than\u00eb Abdullah ib\u00ebn Omerit, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tyre!, se Esma bint Ebu Bek\u00ebr, n\u00ebna e Abdullah ib\u00ebn Zubejrit, gjendet n\u00eb an\u00ebn e xhamis\u00eb dhe me t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar lajmin, shkoi menj\u00ebher\u00eb duke shpejtuar q\u00eb ta ngush\u00eblloj\u00eb dhe t\u2019ia largoj\u00eb m\u00ebrzin\u00eb me rastin e vrasjes s\u00eb birit t\u00eb saj dhe i tha: \u201cK\u00ebto trupa t\u00eb vdekur nuk jan\u00eb gj\u00eb, po shpirtrat jan\u00eb tek Allahu, andaj ki frik\u00eb Allahun dhe b\u00ebn durim!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ibrahim ib\u00ebn Muhamed ib\u00ebn Talha, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, kur d\u00ebgjoi p\u00ebr Urveh ib\u00ebn ez-Zubejrin, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, se ia kishin k\u00ebputur k\u00ebmb\u00ebn, shkoi p\u00ebr ta ngush\u00eblluar dhe i tha: \u201cPasha Allahun, ti nuk ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur dhe d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebvizur, para teje shkoi nj\u00eb organ prej organeve tua dhe nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb prej f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tu p\u00ebr n\u00eb xhenet, dhe t\u00ebr\u00ebsia e pason pjes\u00ebn e ndar\u00eb prej saj n\u00ebse do Allahu, neve Allahu prej teje na e la at\u00eb q\u00eb kishim nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb &#8211; dijen dhe njohurit\u00eb tua, Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdestar i shp\u00ebrblimeve tua dhe garantuesi i llogaris\u00eb t\u00ebnde.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kutejbe ib\u00ebn Seid, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, tha: \u201cKur iu djeg\u00ebn librat Ib\u00ebn Lehias, t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen El-Lejth ib\u00ebn Sad ia d\u00ebrgoi atij nj\u00ebmij\u00eb dinar\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Prej atyre q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndihmuar jan\u00eb edhe familjar\u00ebt e t\u00eb burgosurve.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb ndihmuarit e tyre realizohet me vizita, duke u p\u00ebrkujdesur p\u00ebr ta financiarisht, duke i mbrojtur q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ia shtin\u00eb dor\u00ebn askujt dhe duke i ruajtur nga mashtrimet. Sa i leht\u00ebsohet t\u00eb burgosurit fatkeq\u00ebsia kur e di se familja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb e mbrojtur dhe e sigurt!<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Prej atyre q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndihmuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019ua larguar m\u00ebrzin\u00eb dit\u00ebve t\u00eb sotme jan\u00eb sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor\u00ebt dhe pun\u00ebtor\u00ebt q\u00eb punojn\u00eb n\u00eb vende t\u00eb huaja.<\/p>\n<p>Ka prej tyre q\u00eb i kan\u00eb braktisur familjet dhe vendbanimin dhe kan\u00eb dal\u00eb jasht\u00eb vendit p\u00ebr ta fituar kafshat\u00ebn e goj\u00ebs dhe p\u00ebr shkaqe risku, dhe k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr neve q\u00eb t\u2019u q\u00ebndrojm\u00eb af\u00ebr dhe t\u2019i ngush\u00ebllojm\u00eb e t\u2019ua largojm\u00eb m\u00ebrzin\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ahmed ib\u00ebn Abdulhamid el-Harithij, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, tha: \u201cNuk kam par\u00eb njeri me moral m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb sesa El-Hasan el-Luluij, i veshte sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor\u00ebt e vet sikurse e veshte veten.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Gjithsesi, kjo edukat\u00eb islame k\u00ebrkohet madje edhe me armiqt\u00eb!<\/p>\n<p>Ib\u00ebn Kajimi, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, tha: \u201cShkova te m\u00ebsuesi im, Ib\u00ebn Tejmije, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, ta p\u00ebrg\u00ebzoj p\u00ebr vdekjen e nj\u00eb prej armiqve m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj t\u00eb tij, q\u00eb ai e armiq\u00ebsonte ashp\u00ebr dhe e mundonte tep\u00ebr, por ai e mohoi veprimin tim dhe nuk u pajtua me mua dhe tha se t\u00eb Allahut jemi dhe tek Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb kthimi. Pastaj u ngrit me shpejt\u00ebsi dhe shkoi te familja e t\u00eb vdekurit p\u00ebr ngush\u00ebllim dhe u tha: \u201cUn\u00eb jam n\u00eb vend t\u00eb tij, p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019ju ndihmuar un\u00eb do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u201d, kurse ata u g\u00ebzuan nga fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb i tha dhe u lut\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Muhamed el-Munexhid<\/p>\n<p>Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n<p>Pjes\u00eb nga libri: Ngush\u00ebllimi i shpirtrave dhe largimi i m\u00ebrzis\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dit\u00ebve t\u00eb sotme nevoja e njer\u00ebzve p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb m\u00ebshiruese, p\u00ebr ngush\u00ebllim fisnik, sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe angazhim n\u00eb kryerjen e nevojave t\u00eb tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme dhe e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, sidomos n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb kur \u00ebsht\u00eb shtuar t\u00eb folurit dhe jan\u00eb pak\u00ebsuar veprat, \u00ebsht\u00eb paraqitur koprracia lakmuese, egoizmi dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrhapur varf\u00ebria dhe injoranca. \u00cbsht\u00eb gabim [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":4607,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-4606","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-c96-davet","9":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4606","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4606"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4606\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4608,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4606\/revisions\/4608"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4607"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4606"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4606"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4606"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}