5.Kryerja e nevojave apo sh\u00ebrbimeve t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve<\/p>\n
I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb!, nuk ndjente neveri t\u00eb ec\u00eb me t\u00eb vejat dhe t\u00eb mjer\u00ebt dhe t\u2019i kryen nevojat e tyre dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n
Hakim ib\u00ebn Hizami, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, thot\u00eb: \u201cNuk ka dit\u00eb q\u00eb jam gdhir\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb dhe te dera ime nuk kam gjetur nevojtar vet\u00ebm se e kam ditur se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nga fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn k\u00ebrkoj nga Allahu shp\u00ebrblim.\u201d<\/p>\n
Muhamed ib\u00ebn Abdulvahid ez-Zahid, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, tha: \u201cBraktisja e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve mysliman\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00e7mim, kurse kryerja e nevojave dhe t\u00eb qenurit n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb krenari, andaj fal\u00ebnderoni Allahun p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe nxitoni t\u2019i kryeni nevojat e nevojtar\u00ebve.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ecte Bakiju ib\u00ebn Mehled, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, me t\u00eb dob\u00ebtin n\u00ebp\u00ebr err\u00ebsir\u00eb n\u00eb Ishbilija , me tjetrin shkonte deri n\u00eb Ilbijrah dhe me gruan e mjer\u00eb dhe t\u00eb dob\u00ebt n\u00eb Xhejan , q\u00eb t\u2019i kryen nevojat e tyre.<\/p>\n
I ndihmonte njer\u00ebzit dhe ishte n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb tyre edhe p\u00ebrskaj adhurimeve t\u00eb shumta, nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve t\u00eb dijes q\u00eb ishin num\u00ebr t\u00eb madh dhe merrnin prej tij dituri, dhe angazhimit t\u00eb tij n\u00eb k\u00ebrkimin e dituris\u00eb dhe shkrimit t\u00eb librave.<\/p>\n
6.Vizita e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit<\/p>\n
Vizita e t\u00eb s\u00ebmurit kur s\u00ebmuret dhe vizita e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve mysliman\u00eb gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebrave t\u00eb lira ka ndikim t\u00eb madh n\u00eb largimin e m\u00ebrzis\u00eb dhe n\u00eb shtimin e dashuris\u00eb dhe miq\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/p>\n
7.T\u00eb kuptuarit e mentaliteteve<\/p>\n
Shpirti i njeriut \u00ebsht\u00eb si deti, mes veti shpirtrat dallojn\u00eb me dallimin e njer\u00ebzve, at\u00eb q\u00eb e d\u00ebshiron nj\u00ebri nuk i p\u00ebrshtatet tjetrit.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn e tha Shebib ib\u00ebn Shejbe, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, kur tha: \u201cMos u ul me dik\u00eb q\u00eb nuk i p\u00ebrshtatesh atij, n\u00ebse d\u00ebshiron ta takosh injorantin me dije, t\u00eb shkujdesurin me njohuri, t\u00eb paaftin me argument, ke p\u00ebr ta d\u00ebmtuar at\u00eb q\u00eb ulesh me t\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n
Hasan ib\u00ebn Seid el-Mehzumij, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, kur d\u00ebshiroi t\u00eb nd\u00ebrton xhami, i erdhi nj\u00eb grua me nj\u00eb petk q\u00eb d\u00ebshironte t\u2019ia shet dhe ato t\u00eb holla t\u2019i jep p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrtimin e xhamis\u00eb. Petku vler\u00ebn reale e kishte jo m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjysm\u00eb dinari, mir\u00ebpo q\u00eb t\u2019ia k\u00ebnaq\u00eb zemr\u00ebn dhe t\u2019ia qet\u00ebsoj\u00eb shpirtin, e bleu petkun e saj p\u00ebr nj\u00eb mij\u00eb dinar\u00eb dhe e ruajti at\u00eb petk si qefin p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
8.Fshehja e merit\u00ebs dhe bamir\u00ebsis\u00eb gjat\u00eb qet\u00ebsimit t\u00eb shpirtit<\/p>\n
El Ka\u2019ka\u00eb ib\u00ebn Shevrin, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!, kur i shkonte ndonj\u00eb njeri e ulej me t\u00eb, i jepte pjes\u00eb nga pasuria e tij, i dilte n\u00eb krah kund\u00ebr armikut t\u00eb tij, nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsonte p\u00ebr nevojat e tij dhe pas ndej\u00ebs largohej prej tij duke e fal\u00ebnderuar.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebto ishin disa nga mjetet q\u00eb i qet\u00ebsojn\u00eb shpirtrat dhe ndjenjat e njer\u00ebzve dhe e lus Allahun q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve t\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb dobi!<\/p>\n
Nuk duhet harruar se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, i s\u00ebmuri, i brengosuri, i pik\u00eblluari, mjeku, pun\u00ebtori, thirr\u00ebsi, pasaniku, fukaraja, i moshuari, i riu, kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mira, buz\u00ebqeshje q\u00eb shk\u00eblqen dhe sjellje t\u00eb mir\u00eb. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebto adhurime. Prandaj duhet t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mundohen ta ringjallin k\u00ebt\u00eb adhurim te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb, t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00ebt, te nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit dhe m\u00ebsuesit, te dijetar\u00ebt dhe injorant\u00ebt, tek ai q\u00eb ia q\u00eblloi dhe tek ai q\u00eb gaboi.<\/p>\n
F\u00ebmija kur t\u00eb rritet ndoshta mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet dijetar dhe njeri me pesh\u00eb dhe i dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr umetin e tij dhe shkak t\u00eb b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb stimuluese q\u00eb e d\u00ebgjon prej m\u00ebsuesit apo prej ndonj\u00ebrit prej prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb vet.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb s\u00ebmurin q\u00eb e mundojn\u00eb dhembjet mund t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohet dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndoshet me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb stimuluese, lutje t\u00eb mir\u00eb, buz\u00ebqeshje t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb nga vizituesit.<\/p>\n
M\u00ebkatari dhe gjynahqari mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet dhe t\u00eb drejtohet me nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb t\u00eb bukur, rikujtim t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm dhe udh\u00ebzim t\u00eb drejt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Patjet\u00ebr duhet t\u00eb shfryt\u00ebzohet situata kur njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i dob\u00ebt q\u00eb ta lidhim me Allahun, sepse Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb shpresa dhe ngush\u00ebllimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb thyerit dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebruarit dhe Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb Ai q\u00eb e largon t\u00eb keqen: \u201cA ka m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se Ai q\u00eb i vjen n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb nevojtarit t\u00eb k\u00ebputur, kur i lutet Atij, q\u00eb jua largon t\u00eb keqen.\u201d (En-Neml: 62) Po ashtu, duhet rikujtuar t\u00eb sprovuarve shp\u00ebrblimin e madh q\u00eb e marrin t\u00eb sprovuarit ashtu si\u00e7 erdhi n\u00eb hadithin q\u00eb e p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb Ebu Hurejre dhe Ebu Seidi, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tyre!, se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb!, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cGjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb e godet myslimanin, qoft\u00eb lodhje, s\u00ebmundje, breng\u00eb, pik\u00ebllim, d\u00ebm, m\u00ebrzi, madje qoft\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb gjemb q\u00eb e shpon, n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet tyre Allahu ia shlyen m\u00ebkatet.\u201d<\/p>\n
Sa njeriut gjendja e tij i ka ndryshuar dhe \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e tij jan\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb ndonj\u00eb sprove t\u00eb dhembshme q\u00eb e ka goditur dhe stimulimit t\u00eb tyre p\u00ebr durim dhe p\u00ebrqendrim, madje kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb detyrim, derisa t\u00eb mos b\u00ebhen prej atyre q\u00eb kur vijn\u00eb sprovat, krizat dhe er\u00ebrat e fatkeq\u00ebsive dhe sprovave i marrin dhe i bartin me vete.<\/p>\n
E lus Allahun t\u00eb na ruaj\u00eb nga sprovat dhe fitnet q\u00eb duken dhe nga ato q\u00eb nuk duken dhe t\u00eb na i bashkoj\u00eb zemrat tona e t\u00eb na pajtoj\u00eb mes vete dhe t\u00eb na b\u00ebj\u00eb prej t\u00eb udh\u00ebzuarve dhe q\u00eb i udh\u00ebzojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe jo prej t\u00eb devijuarve dhe q\u00eb i devijojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt!<\/p>\n
Dr. Muhamed el-Munexhid<\/p>\n
Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n
Pjes\u00eb nga libri: Ngush\u00ebllimi i shpirtrave dhe largimi i m\u00ebrzis\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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