Fal\u00ebnderimi i takon vet\u00ebm Allahut, At\u00eb e fal\u00ebnderojm\u00eb dhe prej Tij falje dhe ndihm\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb. K\u00ebrkojm\u00eb mbrojtje nga Allahu prej t\u00eb k\u00ebqijave t\u00eb vetvetes dhe t\u00eb veprave tona. K\u00eb e udh\u00ebzon Allahu s’ka kush e devijon dhe k\u00eb e largon nga rruga e v\u00ebrtet Ai s’ka kush e udh\u00ebzon. D\u00ebshmoj se nuk ka Zot q\u00eb i takon adhurimi me t\u00eb drejt\u00eb askujt tjet\u00ebr vet\u00ebm se Allahut, azze ue xhel, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb Nj\u00eb dhe d\u00ebshmoj se Muhamedi \u00ebsht\u00eb rob dhe i d\u00ebrguari i Tij. Paqja dhe m\u00ebshira e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb, mbi familjen dhe shok\u00ebt e tij dhe mbi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebt n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb i pasojn\u00eb ata, deri n\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Gjykimit. <\/p>\n
V\u00ebllez\u00ebr musliman\u00eb!<\/p>\n
Familja muslimane p\u00ebrb\u00ebn b\u00ebrtham\u00ebn e bashk\u00ebsis\u00eb (shoq\u00ebris\u00eb) s\u00eb past\u00ebr e t\u00eb mbar\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu, mbar\u00ebsia e individit \u00ebsht\u00eb e lidhur kryek\u00ebput me mbar\u00ebsin\u00eb e familjes, bile edhe mbar\u00ebsia e bashk\u00ebsis\u00eb (shoq\u00ebris\u00eb) varet nga mbar\u00ebsia e familjes.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse rregullohen pjes\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes ,rregullohet edhe shoq\u00ebria dhe n\u00ebse prishen pjes\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes ,prishet edhe shoq\u00ebria. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e sot\u00ebm jan\u00eb burrat e ardhsh\u00ebm. Jan\u00eb ata q\u00eb do vendosin fatin (pas p\u00ebrcaktimit t\u00eb Allahut \u2013 pra se si do t\u00eb jet\u00eb ) e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Prandaj del detyr\u00eb p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit edukimi I tyre (f\u00ebmij\u00ebve) me nj\u00eb edukat\u00eb islame dhe p\u00ebrgatitja p\u00ebr mbajtjen e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsive kur t\u00eb b\u00ebhen burra.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, feja islame i kushton nj\u00eb interesim dhe r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb dor\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjes s\u00eb familjes e gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me t\u00eb, sikurse bazat mbi t\u00eb cilat duhet ngritur, shkaqet e vazhdim\u00ebsis\u00eb n\u00eb ruajtjen e lidhjeve dhe kompakt\u00ebsia n\u00eb t\u00eb, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb familja muslimane t\u00eb mbetet e konsoliduar dhe e mbrujtur vazhdimisht me frym\u00ebn e dashuris\u00eb, m\u00ebshir\u00ebs e mir\u00ebkuptimit. Kur’ani e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebse t\u00eb qart\u00eb se si burri, ashtu dhe gruaja jan\u00eb t\u00eb domosdosh\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Gjithashtu ka orientuar njeriun q\u00eb t\u00eb mbroj\u00eb veten e tij dhe familjen prej zjarrit t\u00eb Xhehenemit. Thot\u00eb Allahu:
(\u064a\u064e\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u064a\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0622\u0645\u064e\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0642\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0646\u0652\u0641\u064f\u0633\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0648\u064e\u0623\u064e\u0647\u0652\u0644\u0650\u064a\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0646\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064b\u0627 \u0648\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0648\u062f\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0651\u064e\u0627\u0633\u064f \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0644\u0652\u062d\u0650\u062c\u064e\u0627\u0631\u064e\u0629\u064f)
{O ju q\u00eb besuat, ruajeni veten dhe familjen tuaj prej nj\u00eb zjarri, l\u00ebnd\u00eb djeg\u00ebse e t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe gur\u00ebt.}
F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb pasuria dhe dhurata m\u00eb e \u00e7muar me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn Allahu (xh.sh.) i ka shp\u00ebrblyer prind\u00ebrit. Prandaj, q\u00eb t\u00eb ruhet ky thesar, duhet q\u00eb p\u00ebr edukimin e tyre t\u00eb kushtohet kujdesi i ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb quhet fillim si foshnje, n\u00eb faz\u00ebn e shkollimit dhe n\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb pjekuris\u00eb.
\u00c7do njeri q\u00eb merr obligimin t\u00eb b\u00ebhet prind, duhet t\u00eb dij\u00eb se merr p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr nj\u00eb detyr\u00eb sa t\u00eb domosdoshme, aq edhe t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Prindi duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb mir\u00eb parasysh se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdestar dhe edukator p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e vet dhe p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledh termi edukat\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet para Allahut (xh.sh.). Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, n\u00ebse nj\u00eb prind d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb i respektuar e me nder n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, duhet t’i kushtoj\u00eb kujdes edukimit, formimit dhe personalitetit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, pasi ai do t\u00eb jet\u00eb nes\u00ebr pasqyra e mundi i vepr\u00ebs s\u00eb tij n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri.<\/p>\n
Gjetja dhe aplikimi i metodave sa m\u00eb efikase n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb edukimit dhe formimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, do t\u00eb \u00e7onte n\u00eb kryerjen me sukses t\u00eb detyr\u00ebs fisnike prind\u00ebrore dhe do t\u00eb vendoste themele solide p\u00ebr zhvillimin dhe p\u00ebrparimin e m\u00ebtejsh\u00ebm t\u00eb edukimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, duke plot\u00ebsuar k\u00ebshtu amanetin hyjnor, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin jemi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs para Zotit.
”\u0623\u064e\u0644\u0627 \u0643\u0644\u0651\u064f\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0631\u0627\u0639\u064d \u0648\u0643\u0644\u0651\u064f\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0645\u0633\u0624\u0648\u0644\u064c \u0639\u064e\u0646\u0652 \u0631\u064e\u0639\u0650\u064a\u0651\u064e\u062a\u0650\u0647\u0650 ”
“\u00c7dokush \u00ebsht\u00eb bari (p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs) dhe \u00e7dokush do t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet p\u00ebr kopen\u00eb e tij…” (Buhariu dhe Muslimi).
Metod\u00ebn m\u00eb efikase n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb edukimit dhe formimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, na e ka treguar Allahu I Lart\u00ebsuar n\u00eb Kuranin Fam\u00eblart\u00eb. Metod\u00eb e cila formon bazat e edukimit dhe kjo bazuar n\u00eb k\u00ebshillat e Lukman Hakimit I cili ka qen\u00eb njeri I mir\u00eb dhe I devotsh\u00ebm, prandaj dhe Allahu ka em\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb sure t\u00eb plot\u00eb me emrin e tij. Le ti shikojm\u00eb k\u00ebshillat e Lukmanit duke nxjerr\u00eb prej tyre bazat themelore t\u00eb edukimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshilla e par\u00eb: {(p\u00ebrkujtoju popullit t\u00ebnd) Kur Llukmani duke e k\u00ebshilluar, birit t\u00eb vet i tha: “O djali im, mos i p\u00ebrshkruaj All-llahut shok, sepse idhujtaria \u00ebsht\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsia m\u00eb e madhe!” }.
Q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim shikojm\u00eb se Lukmani ka p\u00ebrdorur metod\u00ebn e k\u00ebshill\u00ebs me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb buta t\u00eb qarta dhe t\u00eb drejt\u00ebp\u00ebrdrejta.
Dhe padyshim se k\u00ebshilla e par\u00eb ka qen\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjen m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb baza e par\u00eb dhe m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja n\u00eb edukim : nj\u00ebshm\u00ebria e Allahut n\u00eb adhurim I vet\u00ebm dhe I pa shok. Pasi shirku (t\u00eb b\u00ebrit Allahut shok n\u00eb adhurim ) \u00ebsht\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsia m\u00eb e madhe.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshilla e dyt\u00eb: {Ne njeriun e kemi urdh\u00ebruar p\u00ebr (sjellje t\u00eb mira ndaj) prindit t\u00eb vet, sepse n\u00ebna e vet at\u00eb e barti me mund pas mundi dhe pas dy viteve ia ndau gjinin. (E porosit\u00ebm) T\u00eb jesh\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs ndaj Meje dhe ndaj dy prind\u00ebrve tu, pse vet\u00ebm tek Un\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kthimi juaj. }
Nga kjo k\u00ebshill\u00eb del baza e dyt\u00eb : Respektimi I prind\u00ebrve e sidomos I n\u00ebn\u00ebs , I cili vjen pas adhurimit t\u00eb Allahut. Ky respektim \u00ebsht\u00eb I detyruesh\u00ebm n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb sidomos n\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e dynjas\u00eb por……{ n\u00ebse ata t\u00eb dy tentojn\u00eb q\u00eb ti t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruash Mua shok, p\u00ebr \u00e7ka ti nuk ke kurrfar\u00eb fakti, at\u00ebher\u00eb mos i respekto ata (mos ju bind n\u00eb kund\u00ebrshimin e Allahut), po n\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb k\u00ebsaj bote t\u00eb kesh\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptim ndaj tyre, e ti ndiqe rrug\u00ebn e atij q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i kthyer kah Un\u00eb, mandej kthimi juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb tek Un\u00eb, e Un\u00eb do t’ju njoftoj p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb keni punuar.}. Pra respektimi I prind\u00ebrve \u00ebsht\u00eb detyr\u00eb dhe urdh\u00ebr nga Allahu. Gjithashtu duhet t\u00eb shtojm\u00eb falenderimin e Allahut n\u00eb fillim e m\u00eb pas falenderimin e prind\u00ebrve p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ata b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00ebmir\u00ebn ton\u00eb.
K\u00ebshilla e tret\u00eb : {O djali im, s’ka dyshim se edhe n\u00ebse ajo (vepra) peshon sa kokrra e lirit, e t\u00eb jet\u00eb e fshehur n\u00eb rras\u00eb guri (shk\u00ebmb), ose n\u00eb qiej apo n\u00eb tok\u00eb, All-llahu do ta sjell\u00eb at\u00eb, do ta nxjerr\u00eb n\u00eb shesh se All-llahu \u00ebsht\u00eb i but\u00eb dhe holl\u00ebsisht i informuar. Dhe I di t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb fshehtat}.<\/p>\n
Nga kjo k\u00ebshill\u00eb del baza e tret\u00eb: T\u00eb forcuarit te f\u00ebmija mbikqyrjen e Allahut mbi \u00e7do gj\u00eb, duke m\u00ebsuar se Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb i dijsh\u00ebm dhe I fuqish\u00ebm mbi \u00e7do gj\u00eb,qoft\u00eb ajo edhe m\u00eb e vog\u00ebl se kokrra e lirit (sinapit bim\u00eb nga e cila prodhohet mustarda).<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshilla e kat\u00ebrt: {O djali im, fale namazin, urdh\u00ebro p\u00ebr pun\u00eb t\u00eb mira, e ndalo nga t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat, p\u00ebrballo me durim \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb godet, v\u00ebrtet, k\u00ebto jan\u00eb nga \u00e7\u00ebshtjet m\u00eb t\u00eb preferuara.}
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb jan\u00eb tre prej bazave t\u00eb edukimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve:<\/p>\n
1- urdh\u00ebri p\u00ebr faljen e namazit si nj\u00eb prej adhurimeve kryesor\u00eb dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, I cili \u00ebsht\u00eb shtylla e dyt\u00eb e Islamit, adhurimi I par\u00eb I cili \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb obligacion p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzimin dhe adhurimi I par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin do pyetet njeriu dit\u00ebn e gjykimit. \u00cbsht\u00eb lidhja e drejt\u00ebp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb e robit me Zotin e tij (Allahun). Prandaj Allahu na porosit duke th\u00ebn\u00eb:
\u0648\u064e\u0623\u0652\u0645\u064f\u0631\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0647\u0652\u0644\u064e\u0643\u064e \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0635\u0651\u064e\u0644\u064e\u0627\u0629\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0635\u0652\u0637\u064e\u0628\u0650\u0631\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u06d6
“Urdh\u00ebroje familjen t\u00ebnde, q\u00eb t\u00eb fal\u00eb namazin dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb!
edhe Profeti a.s na ka th\u00ebn\u00eb :
(\u0645\u064f\u0631\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0623\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0644\u0627\u062f\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0628\u0650\u0627\u0644\u0635\u0651\u064e\u0644\u0627\u0629\u0650 \u0648\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064f \u0633\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0639\u0650 \u0633\u0650\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0627\u0636\u0652\u0631\u0650\u0628\u064f\u0648\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0644\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0647\u064e\u0627\u060c \u0648\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0623\u064e\u0628\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0627\u0621\u064f \u0639\u064e\u0634\u0652\u0631\u064d \u0648\u064e\u0641\u064e\u0631\u0651\u0650\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0628\u064e\u064a\u0652\u0646\u064e\u0647\u064f\u0645\u0652 \u0641\u0650\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064e\u0636\u064e\u0627\u062c\u0650\u0639\u0650) (\u0631\u0648\u0627\u0647 \u0623\u062d\u0645\u062f \u0648\u0623\u0628\u0648 \u062f\u0627\u0648\u062f\u060c \u0648\u062d\u0633\u0646\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0644\u0628\u0627\u0646\u064a).
“Urdh\u00ebrojini f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj q\u00eb t\u00eb falin namazin n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn shtat\u00eb vje\u00e7are dhe q\u00ebllojini (rrihni) q\u00eb t\u00eb falen kur t\u00eb mbushin dhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7 dhe ndajini nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri n\u00eb shtrat.”<\/p>\n
2- Urdh\u00ebrimi n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe ndalimi nga e keqja.
Deri tani k\u00ebshillat ishin t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndruara n\u00eb rregullimin e vetes dhe kjo b\u00ebhet duke njohur Allahun, forc\u00ebn e Tij,Madh\u00ebshtin\u00eb e Tij, duke respektuar prind\u00ebrit, duke falur namaz. Nd\u00ebrsa duke filluar nga kjo pjes\u00eb e k\u00ebshillave, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 rregullimit t\u00eb vetes jan\u00eb edhe bazat q\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb n\u00eb rregullimin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. S’ka dyshim se baza e par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb urdh\u00ebruarit n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb (n\u00eb adhurimin e Allahut, respektimin e prind\u00ebrve, faljen e namazit) dhe t\u00eb ndaluarit nga e keqja ( \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb bie n\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtim me ligjin e Allahut). Duke zbatuar k\u00ebt\u00eb baz\u00eb ashti si\u00e7 duhet, patjet\u00ebr me lejen e Allahut do t\u00eb arrihet rregullimi I shoq\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/p>\n
3- Rregullimi I vetvetes dhe I shoq\u00ebris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb I v\u00ebshtir\u00eb prandaj del detyr\u00eb zbatimi I baz\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb edukim : durimi n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Kjo sepse me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb durimi \u00ebsht\u00eb \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u0639\u064e\u0632\u0652\u0645\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u064f\u0645\u064f\u0648\u0631\u0650 thelbi I patundur I t\u00eb gjitha pun\u00ebve.
K\u00ebshilla e pest\u00eb: {Dhe mos shtremb\u00ebro fytyr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde prej njer\u00ebzve, mos ec n\u00ebp\u00ebr tok\u00eb kryelart\u00eb, se All-llahu nuk e do asnj\u00eb mendjemadh e q\u00eb shum\u00eb lavd\u00ebrohet. T\u00eb jesh i matur n\u00eb ecjen t\u00ebnde, ule z\u00ebrin t\u00ebnd, se z\u00ebri m\u00eb i eg\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb z\u00ebri i gomarit. }<\/p>\n
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb kemi disa prej bazave kryesore t\u00eb edukat\u00ebs personale dhe shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n
1- respektimi I t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve q\u00eb n\u00eb pamjen t\u00ebnde duke I buzeqeshur pasi ajo t\u00eb llogaritet sadeka dhe jo ta sht\u00ebmb\u00ebrosh fytyr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde para t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, kjo sjellje t\u00eb ndihmon q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb fjal\u00ebn t\u00ebnde kur ti urdh\u00ebrosh o\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe ti ndalosh nga e keqja, ndryshe nuk kan\u00eb p\u00ebr ta d\u00ebgjuar fjal\u00ebn dhe do t\u00eb largohen prej teje krejt njer\u00ebzit. Thjesht\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb cil\u00ebsi me an\u00ebn e t\u00eb cil\u00ebs Allahu e ngre njeriun n\u00eb grada t\u00eb larta n\u00eb dunja dhe ahiret.<\/p>\n
2- mos u b\u00ebj mendjemadh, arrogant, pasi mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb cil\u00ebsi e shejtanit, kur I tha Allahut un\u00eb jam m\u00eb I mir\u00eb se Ademi. Mendjemadh\u00ebsia e tij e b\u00ebri t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb Allahun dhe meritoi zem\u00ebrimin dhe d\u00ebnimin e Allahut.<\/p>\n
3- T\u00eb jesh i matur n\u00eb ecjen t\u00ebnde,duke mos shprehur mendjemadh\u00ebsi,sepse ti je nj\u00eb krijes\u00eb e dob\u00ebt dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb Allahu Ai I Cili t\u00eb ka krijuar dhe t\u00eb ngre n\u00ebgrada apo t\u00eb posht\u00ebron. Prandaj duhet q\u00eb ecja t\u00eb jet\u00eb mesatare as e nj\u00eb mendjemadhi dhe as e nj\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebti, t\u00eb pafuqish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
4-ule z\u00ebrin t\u00ebnd, se z\u00ebri m\u00eb i eg\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb z\u00ebri i gomarit. Nj\u00eb prej bazave t\u00eb komunikimit me njer\u00ebzit \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mos ngriturit e z\u00ebrit,por t\u00eb biseduarit me nj\u00eb z\u00eb mesatar dhe t\u00eb kuptuesh\u00ebm, sepse ngritja e z\u00ebrit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb prej cil\u00ebsive t\u00eb p\u00eblqyera por prej cil\u00ebsive t\u00eb urryera, ndaj dhe Allahu e krahasuar z\u00ebrin e lart\u00ebme z\u00ebrin e gomarit I cili \u00ebsht\u00eb z\u00ebri m\u00eb I urryer te njer\u00ebzit. Kurse Profeti a.s na ka k\u00ebshilluar se kur t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb z\u00ebrin e gomarit t\u00eb themi eudhubil-lahi mish-shejtanirr-rraxhim pasi gomari shikon shejtan\u00ebt.
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V\u00ebllez\u00ebr t\u00eb nderuar!
K\u00ebshillat e Lukman Hakimit jan\u00eb metodika m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me nj\u00eb edukat\u00eb islame t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb, pasi n\u00eb tojan\u00eb vendosur bazat e k\u00ebtij edukimi. K\u00ebto k\u00ebshilla nuk dalin nga urdh\u00ebri I Allahut ( q\u00eb p\u00ebrmendet edhe n\u00eb k\u00ebshillat e Lukmanit) urdh\u00ebro p\u00ebr mir\u00eb dhe ndalo nga e keqja. K\u00ebshtu Lukmani ka urdh\u00ebruar p\u00ebr mir\u00eb :
1-nj\u00ebshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e Allahut 2- respektimi I prind\u00ebrve
3- falenderimi I Allahut 4- falenderimi I prind\u00ebrve
5- faljen e namazit 6- urdh\u00ebrimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00eb
7- ndalimi nga e keqja 8- durimi n\u00eb \u00e7do situat\u00eb
9- T\u00eb jesh i matur n\u00eb ecjen t\u00ebnde, 10- ule z\u00ebrin t\u00ebnd,<\/p>\n
dhe ka ndaluar nga e keqja:<\/p>\n
1- mos i p\u00ebrshkruaj All-llahut shok
2- mos shtremb\u00ebro fytyr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde prej njer\u00ebzve,
3- mos ec n\u00ebp\u00ebr tok\u00eb kryelart\u00eb,<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu pra v\u00ebllez\u00ebr musliman \u00e7donj\u00ebri prej nesh duhetti m\u00ebsoj\u00eb dheti praktikoj\u00eb k\u00ebshillat e Lukmanit n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n
Si mbyllje dua tu jap juve dhe vetes time tre mesazhe
1- Fjala e Allahut :{O ju q\u00eb besuat, ruajeni veten dhe familjen tuaj prej nj\u00eb zjarri, l\u00ebnd\u00eb djeg\u00ebse e t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe gur\u00ebt.}duhet t\u00eb punojm\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr ta ruajtur veten dhe familjen ton\u00eb nga zjarri.<\/p>\n
2-Fjala e Allahut :{Nxitoni drejt faljes s\u00eb gjynaheve nga Zoti juaj dhe Xhenetit, hap\u00ebsira e t\u00eb cilit \u00ebsht\u00eb sa qiejt e toka dhe q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr t\u00eb devotshmit.}Prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb nj\u00eb shembull I mir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre duke e zbatuar ata n\u00eb veten e tyre fen\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb te f\u00ebmij\u00ebtme fjal\u00ebt dhe veprat e tyre.<\/p>\n
3- O ju prind\u00ebr angazhojini (v\u00ebrini n\u00eb pun\u00eb) me \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebnaq Allahun, para se t\u00eb angazhohen me gj\u00ebra q\u00eb e hidh\u00ebrojn\u00eb Allahun. Kush nuk pason t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn , do pasoj\u00eb t\u00eb kot\u00ebn. Pasimi i t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs t\u00eb dhuron Xhenetin dhe pasimi I t\u00eb kot\u00ebs t\u00eb \u00e7on drejt Xhehenemit.<\/p>\n
Lusim Allahun q\u00eb t\u00eb na udh\u00ebzoj\u00eb ne, familjet tona, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb drejt t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb na ruaj\u00eb neve, familjet dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb nga pasimi I t\u00eb kot\u00ebs.
Lusim Allahun q\u00eb t\u00eb na e leht\u00ebsoji edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb me edukat\u00eb isalme.<\/p>\n
Shtoni salevatet mbi Profetin ton\u00eb Muhamedin a.s pasi Allahu I Lart\u00ebsuar na ka urdh\u00ebruar duke th\u00ebn\u00eb:
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{V\u00ebrtet Allahu e bekon t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin dhe engj\u00ebjt e Tij luten p\u00ebr at\u00eb. O besimtar\u00eb, lutuni p\u00ebr at\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndeteni me selam}.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrgaditi: Petrit Zharova<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Fal\u00ebnderimi i takon vet\u00ebm Allahut, At\u00eb e fal\u00ebnderojm\u00eb dhe prej Tij falje dhe ndihm\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb. K\u00ebrkojm\u00eb mbrojtje nga Allahu prej t\u00eb k\u00ebqijave t\u00eb vetvetes dhe t\u00eb veprave tona. K\u00eb e udh\u00ebzon Allahu s’ka kush e devijon dhe k\u00eb e largon nga rruga e v\u00ebrtet Ai s’ka kush e udh\u00ebzon. D\u00ebshmoj se nuk ka Zot q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-469","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c115-hutbet"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/469","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=469"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/469\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=469"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=469"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=469"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}