Fal\u00ebnderimet dhe lavd\u00ebrimet i takojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm Allahut xhele ue ala.
At\u00eb e fal\u00ebnderojm\u00eb, prej Tij dhe vet\u00ebm prej Tij ndihm\u00eb dhe Falje k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb.
P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjet tona qofshin mbi t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin e Tij, Muhamedin salallahu alejhi ue selem, mbi familjen e tij, shok\u00ebt e tij dhe mbi t\u00eb gjith\u00ea pasuesit e tij deri n\u00ea Dit\u00ebn e Gjykimit. <\/p>\n
Fjala m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala e Allahut xhele ue ala (Kur’ani), nd\u00ebrsa udh\u00ebzimi m\u00eb i mir\u00ea \u00ebsht\u00eb udh\u00ebzimi i Muhamedit alejhi selam (Suneti).<\/p>\n
Fal\u00ebnderojm\u00ea Allahun q\u00eb na udh\u00ebzoi n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb Fe dhe na mund\u00ebsoi t\u00eb jemi prezent n\u00eb muajin e bekuar Ramazan.<\/p>\n
Allahu na pranoft\u00eb ibadetet dhe na falt\u00eb m\u00ebkatet.<\/p>\n
Dhe m\u00eb pas:<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr s\u00ebmundjet m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb smira.<\/p>\n
Vlen t\u00ea theksohet se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr s\u00ebmundjet m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
Sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo s\u00ebmundjen e shpie besimtarin drejt\u00eb humbjes s\u00eb fes\u00eb dhe dunjas s\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n
Andaj, mu kjo arsye m\u00eb shtyri mua ta zgjedh k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb dhe ta ligjeroj sot k\u00ebtu para jush.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb me pak fjal\u00eb q\u00eb do ti flas rreth k\u00ebsaj teme, s\u00ebpari ta kujtoj veten time dhe juve p\u00ebr smir\u00ebn dhe rrezikun e smir\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
S\u00eb pari:
Kuptimi i smir\u00ebs:
” Smira apo Hasedi \u00ebsht\u00eb:
T\u00eb shikuarit e dhuntis\u00eb q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb dhuruar v\u00ebllait t\u00ebnd nga ana e Allahut, e ti shpreson q\u00eb ajo dhunti ti humb v\u00ebllait t\u00ebnd e ta marr\u00ebsh ti n\u00eb posedim at\u00eb dhunti, gjithmon\u00eb duke shpresuar q\u00eb askush mos ta posedoj\u00eb at\u00eb dhunti p\u00ebrpos teje.”
(Shiko; Tefsir Ibn Kethir: v\u00ebll.1, fq.383).<\/p>\n
Llojet e Smir\u00ebs;
1). Smira e ndaluar
2). Smira e lejuar<\/p>\n
1). Smira e ndaluar \u00ebsht\u00eb:
T\u00eb shikuarit e njeriut nj\u00ea dhunti tek v\u00ebllai i tij, e urren\u00ea at\u00eb dhe shpreson t\u00eb largohet ajo dhunti nga v\u00ebllai i tij dhe t\u00eb transferohet tek ky.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebt\u00eb lloj t\u00eb smir\u00eb e ka ndaluar Allahu dhe i D\u00ebrguari i Tij.<\/p>\n
Allahu,- xhele ue ala!,- thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n
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” A u kan\u00eb zili atyre njer\u00ebzve p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb Allahu u dha nga mir\u00ebsit\u00eb e Tij.
Ne u pat\u00ebm dh\u00ebn\u00eb pasardh\u00ebsve t\u00eb Ibrahimit librin e sheriatin dhe u pat\u00ebm dh\u00ebn\u00eb atyre pushtet t\u00eb madh.”
(Nisa: 54).<\/p>\n
2). Smira e lejuar;
T\u00eb shikuarit e njeriut nj\u00eb dhunti tek v\u00ebllai i tij, mir\u00ebpo lakmon ta posedoj\u00eb edhe ky, porse duke mos shresuar q\u00eb ajo dhunti ti humbet v\u00ebllait t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb nderuar v\u00ebllez\u00ebr:<\/p>\n
Transmetohet nga Zubejr el Auami se Muhamedi alejhi selam ka thene:
” Jan\u00eb p\u00ebrhapur n\u00eb mesin tuaj s\u00ebmundje t\u00eb popujve para jush: hasedi dhe urrejtja dhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb rruan, nuk them q\u00eb rruan flok\u00ebt, por e rruan e fen\u00eb.”
(Sahih et Tirmidhi: 2038).<\/p>\n
Muhamedi alejhi selam ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:
” Nuk bashkohen n\u00eb nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr besimi(imani) dhe zilia.”
(Sahih en Nesai: 2912).<\/p>\n
Shejhul Islam Ibn Tejmije,- Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb!,- ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:
” Hasedi (Zilia) \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje psiqike dhe shpirt\u00ebrore, s\u00ebmundje dominante q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj prej saj ve\u00e7se nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e vog\u00ebl e njer\u00ebzve.
Nuk ka trup pa hased, por arroganti e shfaq hasedin e forcon at\u00eb duke mos e bekuar v\u00ebllain e tij, kurse njeriu fisnik dhe bujar\u00eb e fsheh hasedin dhe e zhduk\u00eb at\u00eb duke th\u00ebn\u00eb: MashAllah, TebarekAllah.”<\/p>\n
Transmetohet nga Enes Ibn Maliku,- Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb!,- se Muhamedi,- salallahu alejhi ue selem!,- ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:
” Hasedi i han\u00eb veprat ashtu si\u00e7 i han\u00eb zjarri drunj\u00ebt. Sadakaja i shuan m\u00ebkatet ashtu si\u00e7 e shuan uji zjarrin. Namazi \u00ebsht\u00eb drita e besimtarit dhe agj\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb mburoja e besimatrit prej zjarrit t\u00eb Xhehenemit.”
(Hadithi Sahih).<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse ndonj\u00ebri nga ne \u00ebsht\u00eb goditur nga smira e ndaluar, le t\u00eb shpejtojm\u00eb me pendim tek Allahu gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtij muaji t\u00eb bekuar Ramazan.<\/p>\n
Mesruku,- Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb!,- thot\u00eb:
” \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e nevojshme p\u00ebr njeriun q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb \u00e7aste ku ai duhet t\u00eb vetmohet me veten e tij, t’i kujtoj m\u00ebkatet e kaluara dhe t\u00eb pendohet prej tyre.”<\/p>\n
Shpejto n\u00eb faljen e namazit, sepse namazi b\u00ebn shp\u00ebrlarje m\u00ebkatesh .<\/p>\n
Muhamedi,- sal-lAllahu alejhi ue selem!,- ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:
“Kur robi d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb falet, t\u00eb gjitha m\u00ebkatet e tij i sillen pran\u00eb dhe i vendosen mbi kok\u00ebn dhe supet e tij, sa her\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn sexhde apo ruku, ato bien prej tij.”
(Sahihul-Xhami’ Nr.1671).<\/p>\n
T\u00eb nderuar v\u00ebllez\u00ebr :
Shpejtoni n\u00eb pastrimin e zemr\u00ebs nga smira.
Sepse, zemra n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e past\u00ebr, i gjith\u00eb trupi yn\u00eb do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i past\u00ebr, n\u00ebse zemra zhytet me smir\u00ebn dhe prishet, at\u00ebher\u00eb i gjith\u00eb trupi yn\u00eb do jet\u00eb i prishur, Allahu na ruajt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Muhamedi,- salallahu alejhi ue selem!,- ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:
” N\u00eb trup gjendet nj\u00eb cop\u00eb mishi, n\u00ebse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb, i t\u00ebr\u00eb trupi \u00ebsht\u00eb i mir\u00eb, n\u00ebse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e prishur, i t\u00ebr\u00eb trupi \u00ebsht\u00eb i prishur.
Kjo cop\u00eb mishi \u00ebsht\u00eb zemra.”
(Buhariu dhe Muslimi).<\/p>\n
Dhe n\u00eb fund:<\/p>\n
Pendohu o v\u00eblla nga ajo q\u00eb kaloi dhe zotohu q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk do t’u kthehesh atyre veprave t\u00eb k\u00ebqija(smir\u00eb, p\u00ebrgojimit dhe bartjes s\u00eb fjal\u00ebve)!<\/p>\n
Le t\u00eb jete ky muaj nj\u00eb faqe e re p\u00ebr ne dhe zemr\u00ebn ton\u00eb, mbi t\u00eb cil\u00ebn do t\u00eb shkruajm\u00eb:
O Zot, Ne jemi penduar nga m\u00ebkatet!<\/p>\n
Allahu na i sh\u00earoft\u00eb dhe pastroft\u00eb zemrat tona nga smira!<\/p>\n
Vazhdon…<\/p>\n
Ligjeroi dhe P\u00ebrgatiti: Suad B. Shabani<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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