{"id":5209,"date":"2021-06-18T14:47:14","date_gmt":"2021-06-18T14:47:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=5209"},"modified":"2021-06-18T14:47:14","modified_gmt":"2021-06-18T14:47:14","slug":"xhelozia-ku-me-dergoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=5209","title":{"rendered":"XHELOZIA, KU M\u00cb D\u00cbRGOI!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, e cila gjendej n\u00eb brend\u00ebsin\u00eb e Haremit n\u00eb Meke, na rr\u00ebfen dhe thot\u00eb: Brenda Haremit n\u00eb Meke e v\u00ebrejta nj\u00eb plak\u00eb e cila falej, qante dhe i ngrinte duart e saj dhe i lutej Allahut duke qar\u00eb. M\u00eb her\u00ebt nuk kisha par\u00eb si kjo plak\u00eb dhe kjo m\u00eb ngjalli interes t\u00eb shkoj dhe t\u00eb ulem af\u00ebr saj dhe ta pyes p\u00ebr gjendjen e saj. Iu afrova dhe i thash: Oj n\u00ebna ime, \u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi me ty?! E shoh se qan shum\u00eb, cili \u00ebsht\u00eb tregimi yt?! &#8211; Plaka duke i rrjedhur lot\u00ebt m\u00eb tha: Qaj nga d\u00ebnimi i vetes!<\/p>\n<p>I thash: Si ashtu?!<\/p>\n<p>Mu p\u00ebrgjigj: Isha e martuar me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb dhe e dashuronim nj\u00ebri-tjetrin marr\u00ebzisht, mir\u00ebpo Allahu gjat\u00eb martes\u00ebs me t\u00eb nuk na furnizoi me f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Kjo filloi t\u00eb ndikon n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb dhe fillova t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitem p\u00ebr burrin tim, derisa i propozova t\u00eb martohet me nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb dyt\u00eb. Ai refuzoi menj\u00ebher\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo un\u00eb k\u00ebm\u00adb\u00ebngulja n\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00ebn time me dit\u00eb, me jav\u00eb, me muaj, derisa n\u00eb fund edhe pranoi.<\/p>\n<p>E zgjodhi nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe e fejoi dhe un\u00eb isha prezente me t\u00eb kur e martoi. Pas nj\u00eb kohe filloi t\u00eb paraqitet n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn time zjarri i xhelozis\u00eb kur e shihja se ai anon kah ajo m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti, e sidomos kur mbeti shtatz\u00ebne dhe ia lind\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb bukur. \u00c7do dit\u00eb m\u00eb shtohej zilia dhe xhelozia ndaj saj, e sidomos kur e shihja se i afrohet asaj m\u00eb shum\u00eb se sa mua. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb m\u00eb erdhi dhe m\u00eb tha se d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb udh\u00ebtoj\u00eb me gruan e re dhe se do ta le f\u00ebmij\u00ebn me mua. Un\u00eb pranova pa diskutim, p\u00ebr arsye se nuk kishte tjet\u00ebr kush t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrve\u00e7 meje. Dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb udh\u00ebtimit f\u00ebmija q\u00ebndronte para meje dhe luante. Ishte nj\u00eb nat\u00eb dimri e ftoh\u00ebt dhe acari, i mora disa dru dhe e ndeza zjarrin q\u00eb t\u00eb ngrohet dhoma. F\u00ebmija duke lozur, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb mua zjarri i xhelozis\u00eb dhe zilis\u00eb ma digjte zemr\u00ebn, iu afrua zjarrit dhe e kapi nj\u00eb gac\u00eb dhe un\u00eb shpejtova kah ai, mir\u00ebpo n\u00eb vend se t\u2019ia largoj dor\u00ebn nga zjarri, un\u00eb ia mbajta edhe m\u00eb tep\u00ebr derisa dora e tij u shkrumbua mbi zjarr. U qet\u00ebsua zjarri i zemr\u00ebs sime, mir\u00ebpo nuk u fik t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht.<\/p>\n<p>Pas ndodhis\u00eb, disa or\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb m\u00eb erdhi lajmi se burri im dhe gruaja e tij e re kishin b\u00ebr\u00eb ndeshje dhe kishin vdekur t\u00eb dyt\u00eb. U ndjeva e vetmuar pa ask\u00ebnd af\u00ebr, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se k\u00ebtij f\u00ebmij\u00ebs me dor\u00eb t\u00eb djegur.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00ebmija filloi t\u00eb rritet, kurse mua brenda kohe dashuria ndaj tij filloi t\u00eb m\u00eb shtohet dhe ai gjithashtu m\u00eb donte shum\u00eb. Ai u b\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi im, ai p\u00ebrkujdeset p\u00ebr mua dhe i kryen nevojat e mia. Me mua ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb i but\u00eb dhe i sjellsh\u00ebm duke i respektuar ligjet e Allahut dhe duke m\u00eb th\u00ebrritur me emrin \u201cn\u00ebn\u00eb\u201d. \u00c7do her\u00eb kur m\u00eb th\u00ebrret me k\u00ebt\u00eb em\u00ebr, zemra ime digjet nga pik\u00ebllimi e m\u00ebrzia dhe \u00e7do her\u00eb kur ia shoh dor\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb djegur, zemra ime cop\u00ebtohet dhe qaj shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk e di se si do t\u00eb ishte gjendja ima pa k\u00ebt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar thot\u00eb: <strong><em>\u201c<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>Por mund ta urreni nj\u00eb gj\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ju e mund ta doni nj\u00eb gj\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e d\u00ebmshme p\u00ebr ju. Allahu di, kurse ju nuk dini\u201d.<\/em><\/strong>(El-Bekare: 216)<\/p>\n<p>Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb, e cila gjendej n\u00eb brend\u00ebsin\u00eb e Haremit n\u00eb Meke, na rr\u00ebfen dhe thot\u00eb: Brenda Haremit n\u00eb Meke e v\u00ebrejta nj\u00eb plak\u00eb e cila falej, qante dhe i ngrinte duart e saj dhe i lutej Allahut duke qar\u00eb. M\u00eb her\u00ebt nuk kisha par\u00eb si kjo plak\u00eb dhe kjo m\u00eb ngjalli interes t\u00eb shkoj dhe [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":5210,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,25,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-5209","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-c94-gruaja-dhe-familja","9":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5209","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5209"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5209\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5211,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5209\/revisions\/5211"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5210"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5209"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5209"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5209"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}