U ul burri n\u00eb mesin e familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb vet, krenar me vetveten dhe me mendimin e vet para t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve, dhe gruaja n\u00eb at\u00eb moment e jep mendimin e saj, kund\u00ebrp\u00ebrgjigjja e tij ishte: \u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ky budallall\u00ebk?!<\/p>\n
Madje, nuk i mjaftoi kjo, po filloi q\u00eb t\u2019i komentoj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet e tij t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme, se ato jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mira n\u00eb aspekt t\u00eb logjikuarit dhe t\u00eb menduarit.<\/p>\n
F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e v\u00ebrejt\u00ebn reagimin e prindit dhe kjo i b\u00ebri q\u00eb n\u00eb syt\u00eb e tyre, n\u00ebna, t\u2019u duket si budalla! Kjo i b\u00ebri q\u00eb ata t\u00eb mos ken\u00eb besim tek ajo dhe n\u00eb mendimin e saj dhe ajo t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb e fuqishme q\u00eb ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb i sheh t\u00eb drejta n\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimin e gjendje familjare t\u2019i realizo\u00adj\u00eb, ngase ajo n\u00eb syt\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb saj \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cbudalla\u201d, e cila, ballafaqohet me lloje t\u00eb ndryshe kritikash dhe akuzash nga prindi i tyre.<\/p>\n
Ky q\u00ebndrim p\u00ebrs\u00ebritet me format e ndryshme. Her\u00eb me paraqitjen e saj si t\u00eb dob\u00ebt, e cila ka nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb i biri i saj, i cili i ka arritur t\u00eb pes\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjetat, ta mbroj\u00eb dhe ta shoq\u00ebroj\u00eb n\u00eb blerjen e gj\u00ebrave, e her\u00eb se ajo nuk di se si t\u00eb sillet me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj kur ata gabojn\u00eb! Dhe e t\u00ebra kjo t\u00eb b\u00ebhet para syve t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, deri n\u00eb at\u00eb grad\u00eb, saq\u00eb ajo t\u00eb mos respektohet nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt!<\/p>\n
Kjo thyerje do t\u00eb thot\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrim i nj\u00eb pjese t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme nga shtyllat e familjes, dhe me k\u00ebt\u00eb, bara\u00adspesha familjare t\u00eb destabilizohet nga aspekti i ardhm\u00eb\u00adris\u00eb dhe nga aspekti i edukimit t\u00eb brezit t\u00eb ardhsh\u00ebm!<\/p>\n
Me plot kuptim e themi se me thyerje n\u00ebnkuptojm\u00eb humbjen e busull\u00ebs n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi!!<\/p>\n
Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n
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U ul burri n\u00eb mesin e familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb vet, krenar me vetveten dhe me mendimin e vet para t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve, dhe gruaja n\u00eb at\u00eb moment e jep mendimin e saj, kund\u00ebrp\u00ebrgjigjja e tij ishte: \u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ky budallall\u00ebk?! Madje, nuk i mjaftoi kjo, po filloi q\u00eb t\u2019i komentoj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjet e tij t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme, se ato […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":5577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,11,25,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-5576","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-c98-ceshtje-bashkekohore","9":"category-c94-gruaja-dhe-familja","10":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5576","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5576"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5576\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5578,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5576\/revisions\/5578"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5576"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5576"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5576"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}