Pasi e h\u00ebngr\u00ebm dark\u00ebn me disa f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb miku t\u00eb respektuar, u ul\u00ebm t\u00eb pinim \u00e7aj dhe t\u00eb nisnim me muhabet.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00ebri prej tyre m\u00eb befasoi me nj\u00eb pyetje rreth pirjes s\u00eb \u00e7ajit dhe m\u00eb tregoi se kishte lexuar disa cic\u00ebrima n\u00eb profilin tim n\u00eb Twitter rreth k\u00ebsaj teme, derisa kishte filluar t\u00eb mendonte se un\u00eb isha prej atyre q\u00eb merreshin me k\u00ebt\u00eb pije.<\/p>\n
Pas nj\u00eb kohe t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr \u00e7aji u b\u00eb tema kryesore e ndej\u00ebs. Nj\u00ebri, kur nisi t\u00eb fliste p\u00ebr llojet e \u00e7ajrave dhe t\u2019i p\u00ebrshkruante shijet e ndryshme, e nd\u00ebrpreva duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb me bindje t\u00eb plot\u00eb: Ata q\u00eb e shijojn\u00eb dhe e njohin \u00e7ajin, nuk krenohen me gj\u00ebrat shtes\u00eb t\u00eb cilat e tejkalojn\u00eb shijen e natyrshme t\u00eb \u00e7ajit.<\/p>\n
Flisja me shum\u00eb besim. Isha i bindur se prej t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb pranishm\u00ebve un\u00eb kisha m\u00eb shum\u00eb njohuri p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Pa i p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb reagimet e fytyrave t\u00eb tyre dhe duke supozuar paraprakisht se ata do t\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebgjonin me v\u00ebmendje dhe entuziaz\u00ebm, e vazhdova fjalimin tim dhe e thash\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb e dija p\u00ebr bim\u00ebn e \u00e7ajit. Muhabetit iu bashk\u00ebngjit personi q\u00eb ma parashtroi pyetjen. Ai na njoftoi me shum\u00eb t\u00eb dh\u00ebna t\u00eb detajuara p\u00ebr \u00e7ajin, saq\u00eb e pash\u00eb q\u00eb kisha mang\u00ebsi n\u00eb njohjen e \u00e7ajit.<\/p>\n
At\u00ebkoh\u00eb n\u00eb vete thash\u00eb: \u00c7far\u00eb gabimi ka k\u00ebtu? Un\u00eb nuk jam i specializuar p\u00ebr \u00e7ajin. Dashuria e njeriut p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrkujdesja e tij p\u00ebr at\u00eb gj\u00eb, nuk e detyron me \u00e7do kusht ta dij\u00eb \u00e7do detaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nuk shkoi shum\u00eb koh\u00eb, e kuptova fsheht\u00ebsin\u00eb e informacioneve t\u00eb tij rreth \u00e7ajit. Ai kishte qen\u00eb n\u00eb Shrilank\u00eb, atje kishte marr\u00eb instruksione dhe ishte st\u00ebrvitur nga njer\u00ebz t\u00eb specializuar n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e \u00e7ajit. Nj\u00eb prej m\u00ebsimeve q\u00eb e kishte m\u00ebsuar ishte t\u2019i k\u00ebpus\u00eb flet\u00ebt e bim\u00ebs s\u00eb \u00e7ajit menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas zbritjes s\u00eb shiut e m\u00eb pas ta krahasoj\u00eb me flet\u00ebn para se t\u00eb zbres\u00eb shiu.<\/p>\n
Pastaj u zgjerua n\u00eb muhabet, e shtjelloi m\u00eb detajisht rastin e tij dhe na rr\u00ebfeu si u shnd\u00ebrrua nga kureshtar p\u00ebr \u00e7ajin n\u00eb profesionist. Atje kishte marr\u00eb m\u00ebsime dhe ushtrime p\u00ebr \u00e7ajin, derisa n\u00eb fund filloi t\u00eb tregtonte \u00e7aj.<\/p>\n
Pas gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj q\u00eb e m\u00ebsova, prezenca ime u b\u00eb e padukshme, kalova nga pozicioni i m\u00ebsuesit n\u00eb pozicionin e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit. Fol\u00ebsin e d\u00ebgjoja me v\u00ebmendje dhe me respekt p\u00ebr informacionet dhe p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn q\u00eb e kishte.<\/p>\n
Pasi p\u00ebrfundoi muhabeti rreth \u00e7ajit, u tregova p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb sillej n\u00ebp\u00ebr mendje n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb muhabetit, derisa m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb qeshja fakti q\u00eb mendoja se jam m\u00eb i dituri nga t\u00eb pranishmit p\u00ebr \u00e7ajin.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i ri nga t\u00eb pranishmit, i sjellsh\u00ebm dhe me edukat\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, m\u00eb tha: \u201cS\u2019ka gj\u00eb, mos u merakos! Edhe un\u00eb m\u00eb her\u00ebt isha sikur ti sot, po n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn situat\u00eb. Isha n\u00eb vetur\u00eb dhe me vete e kisha nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr. Ai i pa kat\u00ebr kuti t\u00eb \u00e7ajit pran\u00eb meje dhe kjo e shtyri t\u00eb m\u00eb pyeste p\u00ebr to. Un\u00eb ia dhash\u00eb disa informacione t\u00eb thjeshta duke menduar se ato i mjaftojn\u00eb dhe u p\u00ebrshtaten p\u00ebrvojave t\u00eb tij t\u00eb kufizuara. Mir\u00ebpo, ai m\u00eb befasoi me informacionet dhe t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat e holl\u00ebsishme q\u00eb i posedonte p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb pije. At\u00eb dit\u00eb edhe un\u00eb u ndjeva sikurse ti sot.\u201d<\/p>\n
Pasi na i dha k\u00ebto informacione dhe para se t\u00eb ndaheshim, m\u00eb tregoi se punon si ekspert i \u00e7ajit te Organizata Bot\u00ebrore e Ushqimit.<\/p>\n
Ishte situat\u00eb e sikletshme n\u00eb fillim, por, megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb fund, p\u00ebrfundoi me fillimin e nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie t\u00eb vazhdueshme dhe projekt t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Me kaq p\u00ebrfundoi kjo vizit\u00eb, pastaj shkova n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, por me mendje te rasti q\u00eb m\u00eb ndodhi.<\/p>\n
– Kuptoje se p\u00ebr \u00e7do dit\u00eb m\u00ebsimet q\u00eb i marrim nga gabimet na e shtojn\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Pavar\u00ebsisht faktit se gabimi im te tema e \u00e7ajit nuk ishte i madh dhe trondit\u00ebs dhe nuk m\u00eb futi n\u00eb siklet t\u00eb madh, megjithat\u00eb prej tij m\u00ebsova shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
– Shpeshher\u00eb flasim pa e ditur realitetin e bashk\u00ebbiseduesit. Ne nuk dim\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr gjendjen, njohjet dhe p\u00ebrvojat e tij e kjo na shtyn q\u00eb me plot vet\u00ebbesim ta paraqesim at\u00eb q\u00eb e dim\u00eb, me supozim se jemi m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se ai q\u00eb na d\u00ebgjon dhe me besim t\u00eb thell\u00eb se ne kuptojm\u00eb, njohim dhe lexojm\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se ai. N\u00ebse ai interesohet apo kund\u00ebrshton, nuk kemi interes t\u00eb thellohemi ta kuptojm\u00eb pyetjen dhe ta pranojm\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtimin e tij, por e vazhdojm\u00eb fjalimin ton\u00eb me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin rit\u00ebm, duke pretenduar me gjuh\u00eb para se ta v\u00ebrtetojm\u00eb me vepra, se ne jemi m\u00eb t\u00eb dijsh\u00ebm dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb men\u00e7ur.<\/p>\n
E kur na qart\u00ebsohet gjendja se qenka e kund\u00ebrta e asaj q\u00eb e kemi menduar, ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb koha p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar m\u00eb ve\u00e7 t\u00eb ket\u00eb kaluar. Ndodh nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb paraqitet padija jon\u00eb para d\u00ebgjuesit, mir\u00ebpo edukata e lart\u00eb e tij e b\u00ebn at\u00eb t\u2019i jap\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi heshtjes para futjes son\u00eb n\u00eb siklet.<\/p>\n
– Ky rast m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi mos ta n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsoj bashk\u00ebbiseduesin, m\u00eb e mira nga t\u00eb mirat \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb supozoj se ai mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb dhe njohuri se un\u00eb dhe, ndoshta, p\u00ebr tem\u00ebn q\u00eb i flas t\u00eb jet\u00eb i specializuar. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak, m\u00eb e mira \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb shikoj diapazonin e njohurive t\u00eb tij, para se un\u00eb t\u00eb nisi t\u2019ia paraqes njohurit\u00eb e mia.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00ebher\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i ri t\u00eb cilin nuk e njihja, m\u00eb tregoi p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebmarrjen e tij n\u00eb nj\u00eb projekt prej projekteve. Un\u00eb thash\u00eb n\u00eb vete: Po ky \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb ofroj\u00eb? E, n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti, kur projekti k\u00ebrkon aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb larta shkencore. Prandaj, nuk m\u2019u duk i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta pyetur rreth projektit.<\/p>\n
Vet\u00ebm pasi bashk\u00ebbiseduam m\u00eb gjat\u00eb, e kuptova se punimi i tij shkencor n\u00eb nivelin e magjistratur\u00ebs dhe doktorat\u00ebs kishte lidhje direkte me k\u00ebt\u00eb fush\u00eb. Kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohesha para tij n\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebs q\u00eb hesht dhe k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
– M\u00ebsova se nuk duhet t\u00eb supozojm\u00eb q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit garojn\u00eb n\u00eb mes vete t\u00eb ulen me ty, apo t\u00eb supozojm\u00eb se do t\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb me v\u00ebmendje dhe do t\u2019i binden asaj q\u00eb e them. Kjo s\u00ebmundje shpeshher\u00eb di t\u00eb hyj\u00eb vjedhurazi n\u00eb shpirt. M\u00eb e r\u00ebnda \u00ebsht\u00eb se kjo ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb na \u00e7oj\u00eb deri n\u00eb at\u00eb shkall\u00eb sa ta qortojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e kemi para nesh n\u00ebse nuk e shohim tek ai heshtjen dhe interesimin q\u00eb e pritnim prej tij.<\/p>\n
Ai q\u00eb gjendet para nesh, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e patjet\u00ebrsueshme t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb pak dije dhe p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb se ne rreth tem\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn flasim. Ku e di, ndoshta ai ka njohuri q\u00eb neve na e shton dijen.<\/p>\n
– M\u00ebsova t\u00eb jem i kujdessh\u00ebm q\u00eb mos t\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00e7oj sinjal tek ai q\u00eb e kam para meje q\u00eb ai t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se un\u00eb jam i bindur se jam m\u00eb i mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb i dijsh\u00ebm se ai, e kjo pastaj ta dekurajoj\u00eb at\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrisht dhe fjalimi im t\u00eb jet\u00eb i padobish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
– M\u00ebsova se m\u00ebnyra e shfaqjes s\u00eb p\u00ebrvojave tona \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme se vet\u00eb p\u00ebrvojat. Me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb kujdesemi p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb e kemi para nesh; nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb prej moralit dhe sjelljes s\u00eb bukur ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb pal\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihet se ne jemi m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb apo m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se ai, as me shprehje dhe as me vepra.<\/p>\n
Nuk na ka hije neve ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet ashtu, qoft\u00eb edhe kur ne, thjesht, vet\u00ebm jemi duke e vler\u00ebsuar gjendjen reale. N\u00ebse jemi t\u00eb detyruar t\u2019i tregojm\u00eb disa prej p\u00ebrvojave tona n\u00eb form\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshmis\u00eb, duhet ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme, e cila nuk p\u00ebr\u00e7on te pala tjet\u00ebr sinjal se lavd\u00ebrohemi para tij, apo ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet se po lavd\u00ebrohemi indirekt para tij.<\/p>\n
Dr. Muhamed Duvejsh<\/p>\n
Nga arabishtja: Irfan Jahiu<\/p>\n
Pjes\u00eb nga libri: \u201cGabimet m\u00eb m\u00ebsuan\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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