{"id":6061,"date":"2022-09-07T17:16:46","date_gmt":"2022-09-07T17:16:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=6061"},"modified":"2022-09-07T17:16:46","modified_gmt":"2022-09-07T17:16:46","slug":"edukimi-i-femijeve-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=6061","title":{"rendered":"EDUKIMI I F\u00cbMIJ\u00cbVE"},"content":{"rendered":"
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  1. Dhuntit\u00eb dhe mir\u00ebsit\u00eb e Allahut p\u00ebr rob\u00ebrit e Vet jan\u00eb aq shum\u00eb, saq\u00eb numri i tyre nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizohet dhe t\u00eb num\u00ebrohet. N\u00eb to b\u00ebn pjes\u00eb edhe dhuntia e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb dhuntia, dhurata dhe mir\u00ebsia e madhe e Allahut p\u00ebr robin e Vet. Kjo e mir\u00eb e Allahut e meriton fal\u00ebnderimin, p\u00ebrkujdesjen dhe ruajtjen nga robi i Tij. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb fryti i zemr\u00ebs, themeli i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, stolia e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb dynjas\u00eb, ashtu si\u00e7 Allahu thot\u00eb: \u201cPasuria dhe djemt\u00eb jan\u00eb stoli e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb k\u00ebsaj bote\u2026\u201d (El-Kehf: 46)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Allahu n\u00eb Kuran e p\u00ebrmend se nga lutjet e rob\u00ebrve t\u00eb zgjedhur t\u00eb Allahut \u00ebsht\u00eb lutja: \u201cO Zoti yn\u00eb, dhurona nga grat\u00eb tona dhe trash\u00ebgimtar\u00ebt tan\u00eb, \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb prehje p\u00ebr syt\u00eb tan\u00eb dhe b\u00ebna shembull p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebt!\u201d (El-Furkan: 74)<\/p>\n

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    1. Islami f\u00ebmij\u00ebs ia siguron t\u00eb drejtat para lindjes s\u00eb tij: fillimisht me zgjedhjen e n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb ndershme, pastaj p\u00ebrkujdesja p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjat\u00eb periudh\u00ebs s\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb, p\u00ebrkujdesja p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e tij q\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb duke e ndaluar abortimin e tij gjat\u00eb faz\u00ebs s\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb, leht\u00ebsimi i \u00e7\u00ebshtjes s\u00eb agj\u00ebrimit p\u00ebr gruan shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, nd\u00ebshkimi i mbyt\u00ebsit t\u00eb tij duke e detyruar ta shpaguaj\u00eb gjakun e tij etj.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Pas lindjes: lumturia dhe g\u00ebzimi me daljen e tij n\u00eb dynja, thirrja e ezanit n\u00eb veshin e djatht\u00eb, p\u00eblqehet t\u2019i f\u00ebrkohet leht\u00eb qiellza e tij me hurm\u00eb, i jepet e drejta ta marr\u00eb mbiemrin e babait, zgjedhja e emrit t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, therja e akik\u00ebs, qethja e flok\u00ebve t\u00eb kok\u00ebs s\u00eb tij dhe dh\u00ebnia l\u00ebmosh\u00eb n\u00eb pesh\u00eb t\u00eb flok\u00ebve t\u00eb tij, synetimi i tij, plot\u00ebsimi i gjidh\u00ebnies, p\u00ebrkujdesja p\u00ebr edukimin dhe rritjen e tij, shpenzimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb, drejt\u00ebsia n\u00eb mes atij dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij, p\u00ebrkujdesja p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin e tij trupor dhe mendor. Po ashtu i garantohet e drejta e tij n\u00eb trash\u00ebgimi, vasiet, dhurat\u00eb, vak\u00ebf etj.<\/p>\n

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      1. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb jan\u00eb amanet mbi supet tona, p\u00ebr ta do t\u00eb merremi n\u00eb llogari para Allahut.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Allahu thot\u00eb: \u201cO ju, q\u00eb besoni! Ruajeni veten dhe familjet tuaja nga zjarri, l\u00ebnda djeg\u00ebse e t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe gur\u00ebt\u2026\u201d (Et-Tehrim: 6)<\/p>\n

        Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cEdhe ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u00ebnd ke hak (t\u00eb drejta q\u00eb bien mbi ty).\u201d[1]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

        Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cSecili prej jush jeni barinj dhe secili prej jush \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr kopen\u00eb e vet\u2026 Burri \u00ebsht\u00eb bari i familjes s\u00eb tij dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb, gruaja \u00ebsht\u00eb baresh\u00eb e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb saj dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e burrit t\u00eb saj dhe p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj.\u201d[2]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

        Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cAllahu do ta pyes\u00eb \u00e7do p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr kopen\u00eb q\u00eb e ka pasur n\u00ebn p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij, a e ka ruajtur apo e ka humbur, madje do t\u00eb pyetet edhe njeriu p\u00ebr an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes s\u00eb tij.\u201d[3]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

        Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201c\u00c7donj\u00ebrin q\u00eb Allahu e ngarkon me p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb grup njer\u00ebzish, nd\u00ebrsa ai e tradhton amanetin e tij (nuk ja jep hakun paris\u00eb s\u00eb tij) dhe vdes n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje, Allahu ia ndalon atij Xhenetin.\u201d[4]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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        1. \u00c7do mysliman p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij duhet ta ket\u00eb frik\u00eb Allahun, duke i drejtuar dhe p\u00ebrkrahur ata p\u00ebr n\u00eb mir\u00ebsi, duke i larguar nga sherri, shthurja dhe e liga, si dhe duke ua mbyllur \u00e7do rrug\u00eb q\u00eb i \u00e7on drejt m\u00ebkateve dhe gjynaheve.<\/li>\n
        2. Edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve fillon me zgjedhjen e bashk\u00ebshortes s\u00eb ndershme. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e kan\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, q\u00eb n\u00ebna e tyre t\u00eb jet\u00eb e ndershme. N\u00ebna \u00ebsht\u00eb medrese q\u00eb prej saj dalin breza.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201c\u2026Zgjedhe p\u00ebr grua at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb me fe, t\u00eb lumshin duart.\u201d[5]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

          E ka th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn poeti:<\/p>\n

          N\u00ebna \u00ebsht\u00eb medrese, n\u00ebse e p\u00ebrgatit at\u00eb si duhet (d.m.th. e zgjedh si duhet),<\/p>\n

          ajo do ta p\u00ebrgatit\u00eb nj\u00eb popull me rr\u00ebnj\u00eb t\u00eb mira.<\/p>\n

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          1. Edhe babai edhe n\u00ebna e kan\u00eb p\u00ebr detyr\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ta edukojn\u00eb, ta rrisin me virtyte t\u00eb larta dhe me moral t\u00eb lavd\u00ebruar sipas Kuranit dhe Sunetit t\u00eb Pejgamberit, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb. F\u00ebmija duhet t\u00eb edukohet n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e imanit, ibadetit, moralit, psikik\u00ebs, sh\u00ebndetit, gjendjes shpirt\u00ebrore dhe asaj shoq\u00ebrore t\u00eb tij. At\u00eb duhet ta marr\u00ebsh p\u00ebr dore (ta p\u00ebrkrah\u00ebsh) n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e stabilitetit n\u00eb fe, q\u00eb ta fitoj\u00eb Xhenetin dhe t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb nga Xhehenemi, ashtu si\u00e7 Allahu thot\u00eb: \u201cO ju, q\u00eb besoni! Ruajeni veten dhe familjet tuaja nga zjarri, l\u00ebnda djeg\u00ebse e t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe gur\u00ebt\u2026\u201d (Et-Tehrim: 6); q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb: urdh\u00ebroje familjen p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe ndaloje nga e keqja, edukoje dhe m\u00ebsoja Islamin, k\u00ebshtu i ruan nga zjarri i Xhehenemit.[6]<\/sup><\/a><\/li>\n
          2. Dijetar\u00ebt kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cF\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb amanet te prind\u00ebrit. Zemra e tij e past\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb gur i \u00e7muar, e shtrenjt\u00eb, e pafajshme, pa asnj\u00eb njoll\u00eb dhe gjurm\u00eb. Ajo ka aft\u00ebsi t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb anoj\u00eb kah \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb anon kah ajo.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            N\u00ebse ajo kalitet me mir\u00ebsi dhe i m\u00ebsohet e mira, f\u00ebmija do t\u00eb rritet me at\u00eb mir\u00ebsi dhe do t\u00eb lumturohet n\u00eb dynja dhe ahiret. N\u00eb shp\u00ebrblim do t\u00eb jet\u00eb pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebs edhe prindi, \u00e7do m\u00ebsues dhe edukator i tij.<\/p>\n

            A n\u00ebse ajo kalitet me sherr dhe i m\u00ebsohet e keqja, lihet anash sikurse t\u00eb jet\u00eb kafsh\u00eb, ai do t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb fatkeq dhe do t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrohet. Faji dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia do t\u00eb bjer\u00eb mbi supet e tij dhe mbi supet e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit dhe edukatorit t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n

            Sado q\u00eb prindi t\u00eb mundohet ta ruaj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn nga zjarri i dynjas\u00eb, ruajtja dhe mbrojtja e tij nga zjarri i ahiretit duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb prioriteti dhe synimi kryesor.\u201d[7]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

            T\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb si skalitja mbi gur\u00eb, si\u00e7 u tha n\u00eb k\u00ebto vargje:<\/p>\n

            Deg\u00ebt kur i b\u00ebn drejt, ato drejtohen,<\/p>\n

            nd\u00ebrsa kur b\u00ebhet dru, ai m\u00eb nuk zbutet,<\/p>\n

            edhe edukata i b\u00ebn dobi f\u00ebmij\u00ebs kur \u00ebsht\u00eb i vog\u00ebl,<\/p>\n

            por nuk i b\u00ebn dobi edukata atij kur t\u00eb rritet.<\/p>\n

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            1. Prindi duhet t\u2019i edukoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij me edukat\u00eb imanore, t\u2019ua m\u00ebsoj\u00eb teuhidin (nj\u00ebsimin e Allahut), si\u00e7 Allahu thot\u00eb: \u201c(Kujtoje) kur Lukmani i tha t\u00eb birit, duke e k\u00ebshilluar: \u201cO djali im, mos i shoq\u00ebro Allahut asgj\u00eb (n\u00eb adhurim)! Pa dyshim, idhujtaria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsi shum\u00eb e madhe.\u201d (Lukman: 13)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Ibrahim Et-Tejmi, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cE p\u00eblqenin q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u2019ia m\u00ebsonin namazin dhe fjal\u00ebt\u00a0 \u2018la ilahe il-lallah\u2019 t\u00eb ishin fjal\u00ebt e para q\u00eb i shqipton duke i p\u00ebrs\u00ebritur ato shtat\u00eb her\u00eb.\u201d[8]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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              1. F\u00ebmija duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb edukohet dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebsohet ta lidh\u00eb zemr\u00ebn me Allahun, t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb nga Allahu, t\u2019i mb\u00ebshtetet Atij, t\u2019i bindet Atij dhe t\u00eb besoj\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktimet e Allahut.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, e porositi Abdullah ib\u00ebn Abasin, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, i cili ishte f\u00ebmij\u00eb i vog\u00ebl, duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cO djalosh! Do t\u00eb t\u2019i m\u00ebsoj disa fjal\u00eb: Ruaje Allahun, Allahu do t\u00eb t\u00eb ruaj\u00eb ty, Ruaje Allahun, q\u00eb Allahun ta kesh \u00e7doher\u00eb pran\u00eb teje. Kur t\u00eb lyp\u00ebsh, lyp nga Allahu. Kur t\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh ndihm\u00eb, k\u00ebrko ndihm\u00eb nga Allahu. Dije se, poq\u00eb krejt umeti bashkohen q\u00eb t\u00eb ta b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, nuk do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb mir\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 asaj q\u00eb Allahu e ka caktuar p\u00ebr ty. N\u00ebse ata bashkohen q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb d\u00ebm di\u00e7ka, nuk do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb d\u00ebm, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 asaj q\u00eb Allahu e ka caktuar p\u00ebr ty. Lapsat jan\u00eb ngritur dhe fletushkat jan\u00eb thar\u00eb.\u201d[9]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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                1. F\u00ebmij\u00ebs duhet t\u2019i mbillet dashuria p\u00ebr Pejgamberin, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, dashuria p\u00ebr sahab\u00ebt dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00ebt tan\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tyre. Ai duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsohet t\u2019i respektoj\u00eb, nderoj\u00eb e t\u2019i njoh\u00eb vlerat e tyre. Po ashtu duhet t\u2019i lexohet dhe m\u00ebsohet biografia e Pejgamberit, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, betejat, gjendjet dhe fjal\u00ebt e tij. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyra jon\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Imami Malik ib\u00ebn Enes, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cT\u00eb par\u00ebt tan\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb i m\u00ebsonin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb ta donin Ebu Bekrin dhe Omerin, si\u00e7 i m\u00ebsonin suret e Kuranit.\u201d[10]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

                  Alij ib\u00ebn El-Husejn, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cI m\u00ebsonim betejat dhe luft\u00ebrat e Pejgamberit, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, sikur q\u00eb i m\u00ebsonim suret e Kuranit.\u201d[11]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

                  Ismail ib\u00ebn Muhamed ib\u00ebn Sad ib\u00ebn Ebi Vekas, Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cBabai na i m\u00ebsonte betejat e t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Allahut, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, dhe na i renditte ato. Na thoshte: \u2018O bijt\u00eb e mi, k\u00ebta jan\u00eb heroizmat e baballar\u00ebve tuaj, mos harroni q\u00eb t\u2019i kujtoni\u2019.\u201d[12]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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                  1. Prindi duhet ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ta fal\u00eb namazin prej f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb. Ai duhet ta urdh\u00ebroj\u00eb ta fal\u00eb at\u00eb kur t\u2019i mbush\u00eb t\u00eb shtatat, ta rrah\u00eb leht\u00eb kur t\u2019i mbush\u00eb t\u00eb dhjetat, bazuar n\u00eb hadithin e Pejgamberit, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, i cili thot\u00eb: \u201cUrdh\u00ebroni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj me namaz kur t\u00eb jen\u00eb shtat\u00eb vje\u00e7, rrihni (leht\u00eb), n\u00ebse nuk falen kur t\u00eb jen\u00eb dhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7 dhe ndani ata nga shtrati.\u201d[13]<\/sup><\/a><\/li>\n
                  2. F\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb edukohet t\u00eb agj\u00ebroj\u00eb prej f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb, t\u00eb marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb n\u00eb projektin e dh\u00ebnies iftar agj\u00ebruesit, t\u00eb nxitet q\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00eb l\u00ebmosh\u00eb n\u00eb Ramazan dhe t\u00eb kalitet p\u00ebr faljen e namazit t\u00eb teravive. P\u00ebr mundin q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u2019u jepet kurajo dhe t\u00eb shp\u00ebrblehen me gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb i kan\u00eb p\u00ebr qejfi.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    Er-Rubejia bint Muavidh, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej saj, p\u00ebr agj\u00ebrimin e dit\u00ebs s\u00eb Ashur\u00ebs, e cila ishte obligim t\u00eb agj\u00ebrohet para se t\u00eb obligohej agj\u00ebrimi i Ramazanit, tha: \u201cAgj\u00ebronim dit\u00ebn e Ashur\u00ebs dhe i nxisnim edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb ta agj\u00ebronin. Atyre u b\u00ebnim lodra nga leshi dhe kur qante ndonj\u00ebri prej tyre nga uria, u jepnim lodrat derisa vinte koha e iftarit.\u201d[14]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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                    1. F\u00ebmij\u00ebs prej vog\u00eblis\u00eb duhet q\u00eb shkall\u00eb-shkall\u00eb t\u2019i m\u00ebsohet hallalli dhe harami. Ai, edhe pse \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, mund ta kuptoj\u00eb dhe ta perceptoj\u00eb hallallin dhe haramin, n\u00ebse ato i sqarohen mir\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      Kur e mori Hasan ib\u00ebn Alij, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, nj\u00eb hurm\u00eb q\u00eb ishte sadaka dhe e futi n\u00eb goj\u00eb, Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, i tha: \u201cKih, kih[15]<\/sup><\/a>\u201d; q\u00eb ta hedh\u00eb hurm\u00ebn prej goj\u00ebs. Pastaj i tha: \u201cA harrove q\u00eb ne nuk e ham\u00eb sadakan\u00eb.\u201d[16]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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                      1. Prindi duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb kujdeset t\u2019ia m\u00ebsoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe familjes s\u00eb tij dhikrin e m\u00ebngjesit dhe mbr\u00ebmjes, t\u2019u lexoj\u00eb disa hadithe t\u00eb shkurta gjith\u00ebp\u00ebrfshir\u00ebse nga fjal\u00ebt e Pejgamberit, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat p\u00ebrshtaten me mosh\u00ebn e tyre. Mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb her\u00eb pas here ato t\u2019i p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisin bashk\u00ebrisht, si dhe t\u2019u jap\u00eb shp\u00ebrblime p\u00ebr m\u00ebsimin e tyre. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb kalitje p\u00ebr ta si t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb me Allahun, me tradit\u00ebn profetike dhe me Islamin.<\/li>\n
                      2. Prindi duhet q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u2019ua m\u00ebsoj\u00eb moralin:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                        \u2013 Moralin me Allahun: duke e ngjallur natyrshm\u00ebrin\u00eb n\u00eb shpirtin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, me njohjen e begative t\u00eb Allahut, me vet\u00ebdijesimin se Allahu na mbik\u00ebqyr.<\/p>\n

                        \u2013 Moralin me t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin e Allahut, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb: duke ia mbjell dashurin\u00eb dhe respektin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, ndjekjen e rrug\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, m\u00ebsimin e betejave dhe jet\u00ebp\u00ebrshkrimin e tij, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                        \u2013 Moralin me veten dhe me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt: duke ia m\u00ebsuar turpin, sjelljen e mir\u00eb, respektimin e prind\u00ebrve, respektimin e farefisit, ruajtjen e gjuh\u00ebs, sinqeritetin, bujarin\u00eb, amanetin, sistematizimin n\u00eb jet\u00eb, bartjen e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsive etj.<\/p>\n

                        \u2013 T\u2019i paralajm\u00ebroj\u00eb nga morali i keq: duke i paralajm\u00ebruar nga koprracia, g\u00ebnjeshtra, vjedhja, mendjemadh\u00ebsia, t\u00eb f\u00eblliqurit e gjuh\u00ebs, shpenzimi i tep\u00ebrt, spiunimi, zilia, tradhtia etj.<\/p>\n

                        \u2013 T\u2019ia m\u00ebsoj\u00eb etik\u00ebn e sjelljes s\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme: etik\u00ebn e kryerjes s\u00eb nevoj\u00ebs fiziologjike, kujdesin p\u00ebr mir\u00ebqenien fizike, etik\u00ebn e past\u00ebrtis\u00eb, etik\u00ebn e ngr\u00ebnies dhe pirjes, etik\u00ebn e gjumit, etik\u00ebn e veshjes, etik\u00ebn e k\u00ebrkimit t\u00eb lejes, mbulimin e vendeve t\u00eb turpshme, etik\u00ebn e rrug\u00ebs, etik\u00ebn e teshtitjes dhe gog\u00ebsim\u00ebs etj.<\/p>\n

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                        1. Prindi duhet q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn ta edukoj\u00eb me virtyte dhe ambicie t\u00eb larta, ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e p\u00ebrbuz\u00eb veten, t\u2019ia mbjell\u00eb kuptimet e burr\u00ebris\u00eb q\u00eb prej f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb, dhe nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb ta nxit\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme q\u00eb t\u00eb arrij\u00eb deri te q\u00ebllimi.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                          P\u00ebrcillet p\u00ebr Hind bint Utbe se ia m\u00ebsonte k\u00ebrcimin djalit t\u00eb saj Muavij\u00ebs, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, kur ishte i vog\u00ebl, dhe thoshte:<\/p>\n

                          N\u00ebse mendimi im del t\u00eb jet\u00eb i drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb djal\u00eb,<\/p>\n

                          ai ka p\u00ebr ta udh\u00ebhequr fisin Kurejsh sikur babai im.[17]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

                          Kur e pa at\u00eb n\u00eb vegj\u00ebli nj\u00eb mendjempreht\u00eb nga arab\u00ebt, tha: \u201cMendoj q\u00eb ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb do ta udh\u00ebheq\u00eb popullin e vet.\u201d Nd\u00ebrsa n\u00ebna e Muavij\u00ebs ia ktheu: \u201cMjer\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, n\u00ebse e udh\u00ebheq ve\u00e7 popullin e tij.\u201d[18]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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                          1. Talenti dhe aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs shfaqen n\u00eb vitet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                            Dijetar\u00ebt thon\u00eb: \u201cTalenti i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs shfaqet me vendimet dhe zgjedhjet e tij q\u00eb ua b\u00ebn gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. Kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt mblidhen p\u00ebr t\u00eb luajtur, ai q\u00eb ka ambicie t\u00eb larta thot\u00eb: \u2018Kush do t\u00eb jet\u00eb me mua?\u2019; kurse ai q\u00eb ka ambicie t\u00eb ul\u00ebta thot\u00eb: \u2018Me k\u00eb do t\u00eb jem un\u00eb?\u2019\u201d[19]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

                            Kur Omeri e v\u00ebrejti talentin e Ib\u00ebn Abasit, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tyre, e mori n\u00eb mexhlisin e tij bashk\u00eb me ata q\u00eb kishin prezentuar n\u00eb betej\u00ebn e Bedrit[20]<\/sup><\/a>, edhe pse Ib\u00ebn Abasi ishte i vog\u00ebl n\u00eb mosh\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                            Ib\u00ebn Omeri, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tyre, kur e takonte birin e vet Salimin e puthte dhe i thoshte: \u201cDijetari po e puth dijetarin.\u201d[21]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

                            Kjo na m\u00ebson q\u00eb prindi t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdeset p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb mundohet q\u00eb t\u2019i zbuloj\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre, sepse ndoshta ndonj\u00ebri prej tyre nes\u00ebr mund q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb dijetar, ose q\u00eb punon ta p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoj\u00eb gjendjen e njer\u00ebzve, ose q\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet tij Allahu ta ngrej\u00eb fen\u00eb e Tij.<\/p>\n

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                            1. Vajzave duhet t\u2019u m\u00ebsohet turpi dhe virtytshm\u00ebria, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb zbukurimi i gruas dhe bukuria e saj. Mbulesa p\u00ebr to \u00ebsht\u00eb emblema e nderit, dinjitetit dhe virtytshm\u00ebris\u00eb. Prandaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb gradualisht t\u00eb kaliten q\u00eb t\u2019i mbulojn\u00eb pjes\u00ebt e trupit dhe ta veshin mbules\u00ebn. Druri sa \u00ebsht\u00eb i njom\u00eb mund t\u00eb drejtohet, e kur t\u00eb thahet dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebhet i fort\u00eb, nuk mundet m\u00eb t\u00eb drejtohet, por ve\u00e7 t\u00eb thyhet.<\/li>\n
                            2. \u00cbsht\u00eb toleranc\u00eb e keqe n\u00eb edukat\u00eb q\u00eb vajzat e vogla t\u00eb vishen me rroba t\u00eb shkurtra dhe t\u00eb tejdukshme, gjysm\u00eb t\u00eb zhveshura dhe t\u00eb ngushta dhe t\u00eb ket\u00eb l\u00ebshime n\u00eb shpalosjen e pjes\u00ebve t\u00eb turpshme t\u00eb trupit. E sidomos ato q\u00eb kan\u00eb filluar t\u00eb rriten dhe tek ato t\u00eb shfaqen shenjat e pubertetit, sepse kjo mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shkak q\u00eb pas tyre t\u00eb lakmoj\u00eb zem\u00ebrs\u00ebmuri q\u00eb nuk e b\u00ebn dallimin e moshave, e vog\u00ebl apo e madhe. Shtoja k\u00ebsaj edhe simpatin\u00eb e vajzave p\u00ebr k\u00ebto rroba, gj\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb do ta v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsoj\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimin e veshjes, n\u00ebse ato edukohen dhe m\u00ebsohen q\u00eb prej f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb t\u00eb vishen me to.<\/li>\n
                            3. Prindi \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tij q\u00eb ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb ta zgjedh\u00eb shokun e mir\u00eb, i cili do ta ndihmoj\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e fes\u00eb dhe dynjas\u00eb dhe ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb t\u2019i largohet shokut t\u00eb keq. Po ashtu \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u2019i verifikoj\u00eb shok\u00ebt e djemve dhe shoqet e vajzave t\u00eb tij. Profeti, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, thot\u00eb: \u201cNjeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fen\u00eb e shokut t\u00eb tij, andaj \u00e7donj\u00ebri le t\u00eb shikoj\u00eb se k\u00eb e shoq\u00ebron.\u201d[22]<\/sup><\/a><\/li>\n
                            4. Sa vajza t\u00eb ndershme e t\u00eb pastra devijuan shkaku se familjet e tyre i anashkaluan ato n\u00eb p\u00ebrzgjedhjen si dhe n\u00eb verifikimin e shoqeve t\u00eb tyre! Sa t\u00eb rinj shkuan me shok\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqij derisa ran\u00eb n\u00eb krime dhe drog\u00eb! Parambrojtja \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb sesa ila\u00e7i.<\/li>\n
                            5. St\u00ebrvitja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs p\u00ebr ta zgjedhur shokun e mir\u00eb b\u00ebhet drejtp\u00ebrdrejt duke i folur p\u00ebr moralin e mir\u00eb, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb shpjegimin e sjelljeve t\u00eb ndryshme pozitive dhe ato negative, duke e paraqitur g\u00ebzimin me sjelljet e mira, dhe e kund\u00ebrta, duke e paraqitur hidh\u00ebrimin me sjelljet e k\u00ebqija.<\/li>\n
                            6. Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb faktori baz\u00eb p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrtimin e sjelljes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Suksesi ose d\u00ebshtimi n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs varet nga p\u00ebrdorimi i m\u00ebnyrave t\u00eb edukimit. N\u00ebse ato p\u00ebrdoren gabimisht, kjo \u00e7on deri n\u00eb probleme psikike, shoq\u00ebrore dhe irritim n\u00eb personalitetin e tij. Po ashtu mosmarr\u00ebveshjet dhe grindjet n\u00eb mes prind\u00ebrve ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin psikik t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, \u00e7ojn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7rregullimin dhe n\u00eb shfaqjen e devijimit n\u00eb sjellje dhe n\u00eb personalitetin e tij.<\/li>\n
                            7. Familja luan rol t\u00eb madh n\u00eb zbulimin e talentit te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Ata mund t\u2019i dallojn\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe t\u00eb talentuarit n\u00eb mesin e tyre, e pastaj t\u2019i nxisin q\u00eb t\u00eb avancohen, duke ua mund\u00ebsuar mjetet dhe p\u00ebrkujdesjen e nevojshme p\u00ebr zhvillimin e aft\u00ebsive dhe talentit t\u00eb tyre.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                              Sipas studimeve, 90% e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn pes\u00ebvje\u00e7are jan\u00eb talent\u00eb. Kjo p\u00ebrqindje zvog\u00eblohet duksh\u00ebm deri n\u00eb 10% n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn shtat\u00ebvje\u00e7are, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn tet\u00ebvje\u00e7are numri i tyre bie n\u00eb 2%.<\/p>\n

                              K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb edukimi i gabuar e zvog\u00eblon talentin dhe aft\u00ebsit\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa nxitja dhe stimulimi i shtojn\u00eb ato.<\/p>\n

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                              1. Thirrja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs me epitete t\u00eb ndershme, si: luan, i sinqert\u00eb, e ndershme; \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga m\u00ebnyrat e nxitjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Pastaj lidhja e tyre me librarin\u00eb e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, nxitja e tyre q\u00eb t\u00eb lexojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb hulumtojn\u00eb, organizimi i garave sht\u00ebpiake, marrja e mendimeve t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb disa raste etj.; edhe k\u00ebto jan\u00eb nga m\u00ebnyrat e nxitjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/li>\n
                              2. Jeta shoq\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb shtyll\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe baz\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e \u00e7do njeriut. Periudha e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb dhe vitet e para t\u00eb jet\u00ebs jan\u00eb periudha m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e njeriut, n\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktohen v\u00ebshtrimet dhe tiparet e k\u00ebsaj jete. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb formohen themelet e \u00e7do periudhe t\u00eb jet\u00ebs njer\u00ebzore, formohen shtyllat e personalitetit t\u00eb tij, p\u00ebrcaktohen tiparet, tabiatet dhe karakteri i tij, q\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshohen, ashtu si\u00e7 e thon\u00eb dijetar\u00ebt e edukat\u00ebs.<\/li>\n
                              3. Zot\u00ebsia shoq\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledhje e nj\u00eb grupi t\u00eb shkatht\u00ebsive q\u00eb f\u00ebmija i p\u00ebrdor p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebveprim dhe kontakt me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt ose aft\u00ebsia e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetuar dhe kontaktuar me ata q\u00eb i ka p\u00ebrreth, me fjal\u00eb dhe me sjellje.<\/li>\n
                              4. F\u00ebmija, shkatht\u00ebsit\u00eb e tij shoq\u00ebrore, fillon t\u2019i p\u00ebrfitoj\u00eb prej familjes gjat\u00eb bashk\u00ebveprimit t\u00eb tij me prind\u00ebrit dhe sjelljes s\u00eb tyre me t\u00eb, gjat\u00eb bashk\u00ebveprimit me v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e tij n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe gjat\u00eb bashk\u00ebveprimit me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt q\u00eb e rrethojn\u00eb.<\/li>\n
                              5. Kur f\u00ebmija posedon shkatht\u00ebsi shoq\u00ebrore, kjo i ndihmon n\u00eb harmonizimin e raporteve me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, kurse mungesa e k\u00ebtyre shkatht\u00ebsive shkakton probleme psikike dhe morale, si dhe i jep prirje p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar armiq\u00ebsi n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/li>\n
                              6. Prej shkatht\u00ebsive shoq\u00ebrore q\u00eb k\u00ebrkohen t\u00eb mbillen dhe t\u00eb zhvillohen te f\u00ebmija, p\u00ebrmendim:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                \u2013 Pritja dhe p\u00ebrcjellja e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, bashk\u00ebndjenja me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, kuptimi i ndjenjave t\u00eb tyre dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjurit n\u00eb k\u00ebrkesat e tyre, paraqitja e g\u00ebzimit me prezenc\u00ebn e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, k\u00ebmbimi i mendimeve me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, kontaktet pozitive me njer\u00ebzit, p\u00ebrdorimi i fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb qarta t\u00eb lehta p\u00ebr shprehje.<\/p>\n

                                \u2013 Fal\u00ebnderimi q\u00eb f\u00ebmija ia b\u00ebn shokut t\u00eb vet, i cili ia ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb atij, \u00ebsht\u00eb shkatht\u00ebsi shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n

                                \u2013 K\u00ebrkimi i faljes q\u00eb f\u00ebmija ia b\u00ebn shokut kur gabon ndaj tij, \u00ebsht\u00eb shkatht\u00ebsi shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n

                                \u2013 Interesimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb kur mungojn\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb apo \u00e7erdhe, \u00ebsht\u00eb shkatht\u00ebsi shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n

                                \u2013 P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs q\u00eb ia b\u00ebn shokut t\u00eb vet kur e takon, \u00ebsht\u00eb shkatht\u00ebsi shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n

                                \u2013 Bashk\u00ebndjenja e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs me shokun e vet kur ai m\u00ebrzitet ose frik\u00ebsohet duke ia leht\u00ebsuar atij, ose pik\u00ebllimi i tij kur shoku pik\u00ebllohet, \u00ebsht\u00eb shkatht\u00ebsi shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n

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                                1. Nga mjetet m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb i kultivojn\u00eb shkatht\u00ebsit\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, theksojm\u00eb:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                  \u2013 Rritja e men\u00e7uris\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore te f\u00ebmija duke i ndihmuar atij me mund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb lidhet me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, t\u2019i kuptoj\u00eb ndjenjat e tyre dhe t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjet atyre nevojave.<\/p>\n

                                  \u2013 Respektimi dhe aktivizimi i vetes, mbjellja e ndjenj\u00ebs s\u00eb krenaris\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebbesimit, edukimi i tij q\u00eb t\u2019i mb\u00ebshtetet vetes dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb i pavarur n\u00eb kryerjen e nevoj\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, n\u00eb zgjedhjen e loj\u00ebrave dhe rrobave t\u00eb tij, n\u00eb zgjidhjen e problemeve t\u00eb tij me shok\u00ebt, n\u00eb angazhimin e tij t\u00eb marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb n\u00eb aktivitetet sht\u00ebpiake t\u00eb lehta, si: p\u00ebrgatitja e sofr\u00ebs, futjen e mbeturinave n\u00eb qese etj.<\/p>\n

                                  Po ashtu atij duhet t\u2019i jepet mund\u00ebsia q\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb vendime dhe ta bart\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e vendimmarrjes, dhe koh\u00eb pas kohe t\u2019i thuhen fjal\u00eb nxit\u00ebse p\u00ebr vendimet e drejta q\u00eb i merr.<\/p>\n

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                                  1. Nga shembujt q\u00eb e paraqesin aktivizimin e vet\u00ebbesimit dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb n\u00eb shpirtrat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb rasti kur Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, ia tregoi nj\u00eb fsheht\u00ebsi Enes ib\u00ebn Malikut, q\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb ishte f\u00ebmij\u00eb, dhe e d\u00ebrgoi si t\u00eb d\u00ebrguar t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb mision t\u00eb fsheht\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                    Enesi, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij, thot\u00eb: \u201cDuke lozur me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, m\u2019u afrua Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, m\u00eb dha selam dhe m\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi ta kryeja nj\u00eb nevoj\u00eb. U ktheva von\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe n\u00ebna ime m\u00eb tha: \u2018Ku ishe o Enes, pse u vonove?\u2019 I thash\u00eb: M\u00eb d\u00ebrgoi Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, ta kryej\u00eb nj\u00eb pun\u00eb. M\u00eb pyeti: \u2018\u00c7far\u00eb pun\u00eb ishte ajo?\u2019 I thash\u00eb: \u00cbsht\u00eb fsheht\u00ebsi. Pasi q\u00eb i d\u00ebgjoi fjal\u00ebt e mia m\u00eb tha: \u2018Mos i trego askujt p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat e fshehta q\u00eb t\u2019i tregon Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb\u2019.\u201d[23]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

                                    Po ashtu rast tjet\u00ebr:<\/p>\n

                                    Ia soll\u00ebn nj\u00eb pije Pejgamberit, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, dhe piu nga ajo. N\u00eb t\u00eb djatht\u00ebn e tij e kishte nj\u00eb djalosh, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb t\u00eb majt\u00ebn e tij ishin disa t\u00eb moshuar. Djaloshit i tha: \u201cA m\u00eb jep leje q\u00eb s\u00eb pari t\u2019u jap\u00eb atyre t\u00eb pin\u00eb?\u201d Djaloshi ia ktheu: \u201cJo, pasha Allahun! Askujt nuk ia jap pasi q\u00eb ti ke pir\u00eb i pari!\u201d Pejgamberi, lavd\u00ebrimi dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin p\u00ebr t\u00eb, ia dha pijen djaloshit n\u00eb dor\u00eb.[24]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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                                    1. At\u00eb q\u00eb Allahu e sprovoi me f\u00ebmij\u00eb me t\u00eb meta fizike duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb durim dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me caktimin e Allahut. P\u00ebr myslimanin t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebrcaktimet e Allahut jan\u00eb t\u00eb mira: \u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u \u00e7uditur me \u00e7\u00ebshtjen e besimtarit. N\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi \u00e7\u00ebshtja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb hair dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Kur i jepet nj\u00eb e mir\u00eb e fal\u00ebnderon Allahun dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Dhe kur e godet nj\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsi b\u00ebn durim dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb.\u201d[25]<\/sup><\/a><\/li>\n
                                    2. O ti baba i m\u00ebshirsh\u00ebm dhe oj ti n\u00ebn\u00eb e dashur, mos harroni se f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb juaji. E meta e tij fizike nuk ia pak\u00ebson atij vler\u00ebn dhe njer\u00ebzimin. Sa f\u00ebmija me t\u00eb meta fizike jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn me dijen dhe zbulimet e tij. Prandaj, mos e n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsoni \u00e7\u00ebshtjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj.<\/li>\n
                                    3. \u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb f\u00ebmija me t\u00eb meta fizike t\u00eb d\u00ebrgohet n\u00eb shkolla t\u00eb posa\u00e7me p\u00ebr ta. Atje m\u00ebsohet me planprograme m\u00ebsimore t\u00eb posa\u00e7me q\u00eb i p\u00ebrshtaten nevoj\u00ebs dhe s\u00eb met\u00ebs fizike t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/li>\n
                                    4. Interneti, celulari, rrjetet sociale dhe teknologjia bashk\u00ebkohore jan\u00eb shpat\u00eb me dy tehe. \u00cbsht\u00eb gabim i madh t\u00eb mjaftoj\u00eb mendimi q\u00eb ato jan\u00eb mjete prej mjeteve t\u00eb arg\u00ebtimit dhe d\u00ebfrimit p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn. E kemi p\u00ebr obligim fetar mbik\u00ebqyrjen e vazhdueshme t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb sjelljeve t\u00eb tij, si dhe mbjelljen e vet\u00ebdijesimit n\u00eb veten e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs q\u00eb Allahu e mbik\u00ebqyr at\u00eb.<\/li>\n
                                    5. Prindi duhet q\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt se \u00e7far\u00eb filma p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb po shikojn\u00eb. Ai duhet q\u00eb t\u2019u zgjedh\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve filmat e vizatuar t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr mosh\u00ebn e tyre dhe q\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb ndalesa fetare. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb u ofron edhe alternativ\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme, si: lodrat, sh\u00ebtitjet n\u00eb parqe dhe kopshte, angazhimin e tyre me gj\u00ebra t\u00eb dobishme, pa e anashkaluar edhe ndej\u00ebn e vazhdueshme me ta. K\u00ebto i plot\u00ebsojn\u00eb nevojat e tyre shpirt\u00ebrore dhe u japin alternativ\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb karshi zhytjes s\u00eb tyre n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e iluzioneve t\u00eb filmave t\u00eb vizatuar.<\/li>\n
                                    6. Edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve k\u00ebrkon sab\u00ebr, k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulje, p\u00ebrmbajtjen e vetes dhe para gjithash, duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkohet ndihma e Allahut n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb proces.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                      Nd\u00ebshkimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nuk b\u00ebhet \u00e7doher\u00eb me rrahje. Ndonj\u00ebrit prej tyre i p\u00ebrshtatet shikimi me zem\u00ebrim ose heshtja e befasishme nga t\u00eb folurit.<\/p>\n

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                                      1. Sjellja me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn e adoleshenc\u00ebs nga prind\u00ebrit k\u00ebrkon urt\u00ebsi dhe men\u00e7uri n\u00eb ekuilibrin n\u00eb mes p\u00ebrcjelljes s\u00eb tij dhe respektimit t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb tij personale, n\u00eb mes t\u00eb edukimit dhe mosakuzimit t\u00eb tij, n\u00eb mes t\u00eb shp\u00ebrfilljes, t\u00eb k\u00ebshillimit dhe t\u00eb t\u00ebrheqjes t\u00eb v\u00ebrejtjes s\u00eb tij.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                        Adoleshenti patjet\u00ebr duhet t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb q\u00eb familja e tij e p\u00ebrcjellin at\u00eb dhe sjelljen e tij, dhe po n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb, ai duhet patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb jet\u00eb i bindur q\u00eb ata i besojn\u00eb sjelljeve t\u00eb tij dhe nuk e akuzojn\u00eb, dhe se kjo p\u00ebrcjellje \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e tij, p\u00ebr ta ruajtur dhe mbrojtur e jo p\u00ebr ta qortuar at\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                                        Prindi i men\u00e7ur nuk nd\u00ebrhyn n\u00eb \u00e7do detaj, nuk e b\u00ebn f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb q\u00eb ai e di \u00e7do detaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb, t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe t\u00eb madh, sepse kjo \u00e7on deri n\u00eb humbjen e personalitetit t\u00eb tij n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

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                                        1. Prindi \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb kur f\u00ebmija t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ta shp\u00ebrblej\u00eb at\u00eb dhe ta lavd\u00ebroj\u00eb p\u00ebr sjelljen e tij. Nd\u00ebrsa kur t\u00eb gaboj\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb, nuk e merr n\u00eb llogari, a n\u00ebse i rikthehet gabimit, at\u00ebher\u00eb ia t\u00ebrheq v\u00ebrejtjen p\u00ebr gabimin e tij me but\u00ebsi dhe dashuri.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                          Nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr gabimet e prind\u00ebrve \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb kur e kuptojn\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmija i tyre gabon, mundohen ta kapin duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb gabimin!<\/p>\n

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                                          1. Nga sfidat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha me t\u00eb cilat ballafaqohet myslimani i cili jeton n\u00eb vende jomyslimane \u00ebsht\u00eb edukimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me edukat\u00eb islame t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, vet\u00ebdijesimi i tyre p\u00ebr rreziqet e m\u00ebdha q\u00eb do t\u00eb ballafaqohen n\u00eb ato vende, qofshin ato rreziqe n\u00eb besim, n\u00eb moral, shoq\u00ebrore, arsimore etj.<\/li>\n
                                          2. Prindi i cili jeton n\u00eb vende jomyslimane duhet q\u00eb t\u2019i edukoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me akide (besim) t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb vaksina mbrojt\u00ebse nga rreziqet e dyshimeve dhe epsheve.<\/li>\n
                                          3. Ai duhet t\u2019i edukoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesen p\u00ebr pes\u00eb koh\u00ebt e namazit me xhemat, ta shpeshtojn\u00eb p\u00ebrmendjen e Allahut dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb ndihm\u00eb nga Allahu n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e tyre. Ai po ashtu duhet t\u00eb interesohet dhe t\u2019i p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb se a i kryejn\u00eb detyrimet fetare.<\/li>\n
                                          4. Ai duhet t\u2019i lidh\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me xhamin\u00eb dhe me qendrat islame t\u00eb ngritura n\u00eb at\u00eb vend. Ai nj\u00ebherit duhet t\u00eb kujdeset q\u00eb vet\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyr\u00eb e mir\u00eb, duke e vepruar at\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve ua m\u00ebson.<\/li>\n
                                          5. Myslimani n\u00eb vende jomyslimane \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb kujdeset p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb ta m\u00ebsojn\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn e tyre amtare, t\u00eb din\u00eb t\u00eb flasin dhe t\u00eb shkruajn\u00eb, t\u00eb lidhen me traditat e popullit t\u00eb vet q\u00eb nuk bien ndesh me parimet fetare, si dhe t\u2019i m\u00ebsojn\u00eb shkronjat e Kuranit q\u00eb ta lexojn\u00eb ashtu si ka zbritur.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                            Prindi i mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb organizoj\u00eb ndeja me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb lexuar Kuran dhe hadithe profetike.<\/p>\n

                                            Prind\u00ebrit duhet ta kuptojn\u00eb q\u00eb ardhm\u00ebria e imanit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rrezik, n\u00ebse i largohen namazit, Kuranit dhe haditheve profetike.<\/p>\n

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                                            1. Me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr prindin n\u00eb vende jomyslimane \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb kujdeset se me k\u00eb po shoq\u00ebrohet f\u00ebmija, t\u00eb interesohet p\u00ebr shok\u00ebt e tij, p\u00ebr besimin, moralin dhe sjelljen e tyre. Ai duhet q\u00eb t\u2019ia sqaroj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs q\u00eb lidhjet jasht\u00ebmartesore jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndaluara dhe ato sjellin vet\u00ebm destabilizim n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe n\u00eb familje.<\/li>\n
                                            2. Me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr prindin n\u00eb vende jomyslimane \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb kujdeset q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u2019i d\u00ebrgoj\u00eb n\u00eb shkolla islame, n\u00ebse ato gjenden e, n\u00ebse nuk ka, munden t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet internetit p\u00ebr fen\u00eb e tyre.<\/li>\n
                                            3. Po ashtu me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr prindin n\u00eb vende jomyslimane \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrcjellja e p\u00ebrditshme e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn e adoleshenc\u00ebs, t\u00eb jet\u00eb sy\u00e7elur derisa t\u00eb rriten dhe ta kuptojn\u00eb bartjen e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsive, sepse ata jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb mes t\u00eb huaj, t\u00eb rrethuar me fitne, devijime shpirt\u00ebrore dhe shoq\u00ebrore.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                                              E lusim Allahun t\u00eb na jap\u00eb sukses q\u00eb ta veprojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e Ai do dhe At\u00eb e k\u00ebnaq, si dhe t\u00eb na bekoj\u00eb n\u00eb pasardh\u00ebsit tan\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                                              \u201cO Zoti yn\u00eb, dhurona nga grat\u00eb tona dhe trash\u00ebgimtar\u00ebt tan\u00eb, \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb prehje p\u00ebr syt\u00eb tan\u00eb dhe b\u00ebna shembull p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebt!\u201d<\/p>\n

                                              Fal\u00ebnderimi i takon Allahut, Zotit t\u00eb bot\u00ebve.<\/p>\n

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                                              [1]<\/a>\u00a0Muslimi (1159).<\/p>\n

                                              [2]<\/a>\u00a0Buhariu (2409), Muslimi (1829).<\/p>\n

                                              [3]<\/a>\u00a0Nesaiu n\u00eb El-Kubra (9174), shejh Albani e vler\u00ebsoi hadithin si t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                                              [4]<\/a>\u00a0Buhariu (7151), Muslimi (142).<\/p>\n

                                              [5]<\/a>\u00a0Buhariu (5090), Muslimi (1466).<\/p>\n

                                              [6]<\/a>\u00a0Tefsir El-Bagavij (8\/169).<\/p>\n

                                              [7]<\/a>\u00a0Ihja ulum ed-din, Imam Gazaliu (3\/72).<\/p>\n

                                              [8]<\/a>\u00a0Ib\u00ebn Ebi Shejbe n\u00eb El-Musanaf (3519).<\/p>\n

                                              [9]<\/a>\u00a0Tirmidhiu (2516), shejh Albani e vler\u00ebsoi t\u00eb sakt\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                                              [10]<\/a>\u00a0Usul Itikad ehlu suneti uel xhema\u2019, Imam El-Lalekai (7\/1313).<\/p>\n

                                              [11]<\/a>\u00a0El-Xhamiu li ahlak er-ravij, Hatib El-Bagdadi (1591)<\/p>\n

                                              [12]<\/a>\u00a0El-Xhamiu li ahlak er-ravij, Hatib El-Bagdadi (1590)<\/p>\n

                                              [13]<\/a>\u00a0Ebu Davud (495), e sakt\u00ebsoi shejh Albani.<\/p>\n

                                              [14]<\/a>\u00a0Buhariu (1960), Muslimi (1136).<\/p>\n

                                              [15]<\/a>\u00a0Fjal\u00eb q\u00eb i thuhet f\u00ebmij\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u2019i largoj\u00eb ose t\u2019i hedh\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e pista. (sh.p.)<\/p>\n

                                              [16]<\/a>\u00a0Buhariu (1419), Muslimi (1069).<\/p>\n

                                              [17]<\/a>\u00a0El-Ijal, Ib\u00ebn Ebi Dunja (272).<\/p>\n

                                              [18]<\/a>\u00a0Tarih Dimeshk, Ib\u00ebn Asakir (59\/65).<\/p>\n

                                              [19]<\/a>\u00a0Tedhkiretul aba ue teslijetul ebna, Ib\u00ebn El-Adim (fq. 30).<\/p>\n

                                              [20]<\/a>\u00a0Buhariu (4970).<\/p>\n

                                              [21]<\/a>\u00a0En-Nefekatu ala El-Ijal, Ib\u00ebn Ebi Dunja (147).<\/p>\n

                                              [22]<\/a>\u00a0Ebu Davudi (4833), Tirmidhiu (2378), hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe n\u00eb Es-Sahiha (927)<\/p>\n

                                              [23]<\/a>\u00a0Muslimi (2472).<\/p>\n

                                              [24]<\/a>\u00a0Buhariu (2451), Muslimi (2031).<\/p>\n

                                              [25]<\/a>\u00a0Muslimi (2999).<\/p>\n

                                              Dr. Muhamed Salih el-Munexhid<\/p>\n

                                              Nga arabishtja: Irfan Jahiu<\/p>\n

                                              Pjes\u00eb e librit \u201cUDH\u00cbZIME DHE DISPOZITA P\u00cbR NDODHIT\u00cb E NDRYSHME GJAT\u00cb VITIT\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                                              Dhuntit\u00eb dhe mir\u00ebsit\u00eb e Allahut p\u00ebr rob\u00ebrit e Vet jan\u00eb aq shum\u00eb, saq\u00eb numri i tyre nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizohet dhe t\u00eb num\u00ebrohet. N\u00eb to b\u00ebn pjes\u00eb edhe dhuntia e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb dhuntia, dhurata dhe mir\u00ebsia e madhe e Allahut p\u00ebr robin e Vet. Kjo e mir\u00eb e Allahut e meriton fal\u00ebnderimin, p\u00ebrkujdesjen dhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":6062,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,25,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-6061","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-c96-davet","9":"category-c94-gruaja-dhe-familja","10":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6061","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6061"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6061\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6063,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6061\/revisions\/6063"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6062"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6061"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6061"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6061"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}