– Injoranca dhe mosdija. Injoranca \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00ebmundje vras\u00ebse, nd\u00ebrsa injoranti \u00ebsht\u00eb armik i vetvetes. Njeriu kur e injoron realitetin e respektimit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve, kur e injoron shp\u00ebrblimin dhe d\u00ebnimin e tij n\u00eb dynja dhe ahiret, shum\u00eb leht\u00eb mund t\u00eb bie n\u00eb m\u00ebkatin e mos-respektimit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve.<\/p>\n
– Edukata e keqe dhe jo e drejt\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit kur nuk i edukojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre n\u00eb devotshm\u00ebri, mir\u00ebsi dhe respekt, pa dyshim se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00eb von\u00eb do t\u00eb rebelohen ndaj prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n
– Kund\u00ebrshtimi n\u00eb vepra. Ndodh q\u00eb prindi f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tij ta merr ta m\u00ebsoj\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb falet, nuk duhet t\u00eb g\u00ebnjej\u00eb, t\u00eb jet\u00eb i drejt\u00eb, e k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo ai vet si prind nuk i vepron k\u00ebto vepra. Kur f\u00ebmija sheh se prindi nuk falet nd\u00ebrsa ai e nxit at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb falet, kur e v\u00ebren se g\u00ebnjen, nd\u00ebrsa nxit n\u00eb fisnik\u00ebri dhe n\u00eb besnik\u00ebri, mos t\u00eb prese se ai f\u00ebmij\u00eb do ta d\u00ebgjon dhe respekton urdhrin dhe k\u00ebshill\u00ebn e tij.<\/p>\n
– Shoq\u00ebria e keqe e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Pejgamberi, alejhi salatu ue selam, thot\u00eb: \u201cNjeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fen\u00eb e shokut te vet, pra kini kujdes cilin e merrni p\u00ebr shok\u201d. Shoq\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr shkaqet kryesore q\u00eb ta shkat\u00ebrron edukat\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak prindi duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i kujdessh\u00ebm se me k\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohet f\u00ebmija i tij.<\/p>\n
– Mosrespektimi i prindit ndaj prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb vet. Zakonisht kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prej shkaqeve kryesore t\u00eb mosrespektimit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve. Kur f\u00ebmija e sheh prindin se nuk i respekton prind\u00ebrit e vet, at\u00ebher\u00eb edhe ai kur ta arrin ata pleq\u00ebrin\u00eb nuk do t\u2019i respektoj\u00eb dhe po ashtu nuk duhet harruar edhe faktin se shp\u00ebrblimi vjen sipas vepr\u00ebs q\u00eb e vepron.<\/p>\n
– Dallimi mes f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Njeriu nuk mundet q\u00eb t\u2019i doj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb mas\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb dhe kjo nuk bie n\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtim me fen\u00eb e Allahut. Shembull m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb e kemi Jakubin, alejhi selam, i cili e donte Jusufin, alejhi selam, m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti se sa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb. Problemi ndodh at\u00ebher\u00eb kur prindi nuk ia jep t\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb vet t\u00eb drejtat proporcionalisht dhe e favorizon nj\u00ebrin para tjetrit, kjo nuk lejohet n\u00eb fen\u00eb e Allahut dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prej shkaqeve q\u00eb f\u00ebmija m\u00eb von\u00eb t\u00eb rebelohet kund\u00ebr prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n
– Morali i keq i gruas. Allahu mund ta sprovoj\u00eb njeriun me ndonj\u00eb grua e cila posedon moral t\u00eb keq, nuk i frikohet Allahut, nuk i respekton t\u00eb drejtat dhe e nxit burrin q\u00eb t\u00eb rebelohet kund\u00ebr prind\u00ebrve, apo t\u2019i nxjerr prej sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, apo mos t\u2019i respektoj\u00eb, e k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb.<\/p>\n
– Mospasja e p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebs si prind. Disa f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk e kuptojn\u00eb realitetin se \u00e7ka do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh prind. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak i v\u00ebren se nuk u intereson p\u00ebr ndjenjat e prindit dhe m\u00ebrzit\u00eb e tij, nat\u00ebn vonohen apo ndoshta nuk u tregojn\u00eb aspak se ku shkojn\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa prindi i shkret\u00eb i pret tan\u00eb nat\u00ebn deri sa t\u00eb kthehen dhe t\u2019i sheh se jan\u00eb mir\u00eb. Mir\u00ebpo kur b\u00ebhen ata vet\u00eb prind\u00ebr at\u00ebher\u00eb i v\u00ebrejn\u00eb gabimet dhe gjurm\u00ebt e gabimeve t\u00eb tyre tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n
Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Injoranca dhe mosdija. Injoranca \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00ebmundje vras\u00ebse, nd\u00ebrsa injoranti \u00ebsht\u00eb armik i vetvetes. Njeriu kur e injoron realitetin e respektimit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve, kur e injoron shp\u00ebrblimin dhe d\u00ebnimin e tij n\u00eb dynja dhe ahiret, shum\u00eb leht\u00eb mund t\u00eb bie n\u00eb m\u00ebkatin e mos-respektimit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve. – Edukata e keqe dhe jo e drejt\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":6312,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,4,6,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-6311","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-c86-akide","9":"category-c96-davet","10":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6311","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6311"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6311\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6313,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6311\/revisions\/6313"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6311"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6311"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6311"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}