{"id":676,"date":"2015-03-23T17:11:56","date_gmt":"2015-03-23T17:11:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/SHKIWP\/index.php\/2015\/03\/23\/mesimi-31-kujdes-se-cka-po-flet\/"},"modified":"2015-03-23T17:11:56","modified_gmt":"2015-03-23T17:11:56","slug":"mesimi-31-kujdes-se-cka-po-flet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=676","title":{"rendered":"M\u00ebsimi 31 &#8211; Kujdes se \u00e7ka po flet!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>All-llahu i Lart&euml;suar thot&euml;:<br \/>&ldquo;O besimtar&euml;, shmanguni moris&euml; s&euml; parashikimeve! Disa parashikime me t&euml; v&euml;rtet&euml; jan&euml; m&euml;kat. Dhe mos spiunoni nj&euml;ri-tjetrin e as mos p&euml;rqeshni nj&euml;ri-tjetrin! A do dikush prej jush t&euml; haj&euml; mishin e v&euml;llait t&euml; vet t&euml; vdekur? Ju at&euml; e dini se &euml;sht&euml; shum&euml; keq &#8211; prandaj, ruajuni All-llahut; All-llahu v&euml;rtet&euml; pranon pendimet dhe &euml;sht&euml; shum&euml; i m&euml;shirsh&euml;m.&rdquo; (el-Huxhurat, 12) <!--more--> <\/p>\n<p>I D&euml;rguari i Allahut, sal-lallahu alejhi ve selem ka th&euml;n&euml;: &ldquo;Kush beson n&euml; All-llahun dhe n&euml; Dit&euml;n e Gjykimit, le t&euml; flet&euml; mir&euml; ose le t&euml; hesht&euml;.&rdquo;(Muttefekun alejhi)<\/p>\n<p>I D&euml;rguari i Allahut, sal-lallahu alejhi ve selem ka th&euml;n&euml;: &ldquo;V&euml;rtet njeriu me nj&euml; fjal&euml; t&euml; folur, p&euml;r t&euml; cil&euml;n ai deklarohet (pa e menduar), mund t&euml; rr&euml;shqa-s&euml; drejt zjarrit m&euml; larg se distanca nd&euml;rmjet lindjes dhe per&euml;ndi-mit.&rdquo; (Muttefekun alejhi)<br \/>I D&euml;rguari i Allahut, sal-lallahu alejhi ve selem ka th&euml;n&euml;: &ldquo;V&euml;rtet njeriu me nj&euml; fjal&euml; t&euml; folur, me t&euml; cil&euml;n All-llahu &euml;sht&euml; i k&euml;naqur, kurse ai nuk ka kujdes, do t&euml; jet&euml; i ngritur nga All-llahu n&euml; shkall&euml; (t&euml; nderit). Dhe v&euml;rtet njeriu me nj&euml; fjal&euml; t&euml; folur, me t&euml; cil&euml;n All-llahu s&rsquo;&euml;sht&euml; i k&euml;naqur, kurse nuk ka kujdes, do t&euml; hudhet n&euml; Xhehenem.&rdquo;(Transmeton Buhariu)<\/p>\n<p>I D&euml;rguari i Allahut, sal-lallahu alejhi ve selem ka th&euml;n&euml;: &ldquo;V&euml;rtet njeriu flet nj&euml; fjal&euml; me t&euml; cil&euml;n All-llahu &euml;sht&euml; i k&euml;naqur, nga e cila ai nuk ka shpresuar se do t&euml; arrij&euml; di&ccedil;ka. All-llahu p&euml;r k&euml;t&euml; atij do t&rsquo;ia shkruaj e k&euml;naq&euml;sin&euml; e Tij deri n&euml; dit&euml;n e takimit me t&euml;. Dhe v&euml;rtet njeriu flet nj&euml; fjal&euml;, t&euml; cil&euml;n All-llahu nuk e do, nga e cila ai nuk ka shpresuar se do t&euml; arrij&euml; di&ccedil;ka, All-llahu p&euml;r k&euml;t&euml; atij do t&rsquo;ia shkruaj zem&euml;rimin e Tij deri n&euml; dit&euml;n e takimit me t&euml;.&rdquo; (Maliku n&euml; Muvatta dhe Tirmidhiu, i cili thot&euml; se ky &euml;sht&euml; hadith hasen sahih)<\/p>\n<p>I D&euml;rguari i Allahut, sal-lallahu alejhi ve selem ka th&euml;n&euml;: &ldquo;Mos flitni shum&euml; pa p&euml;rme-ndjen e All-llahut. Sepse, shum&euml; biseda pa p&euml;rmendjen e All-llahut e vdesin zemr&euml;n. V&euml;rtet, m&euml; s&euml; largu nga All-llahu jan&euml; ata q&euml; i kan&euml; zemrat e vdekura.&rdquo; (Transmeton Tirmidhiu)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Shpjegim:<\/p>\n<p>&Euml;sht&euml; e domosdoshme t&euml; dihet se &ccedil;do nj&euml;ri duhet ta ruaj&euml; gjuh&euml;n e tij nga &ccedil;do e folur, p&euml;rve&ccedil; asaj q&euml; tregon dobi. Madje edhe at&euml;her&euml;, n&euml;se &euml;sht&euml; e barabart&euml; t&euml; flitet dhe t&euml; mos flitet edhe p&euml;r gj&euml;rat e dobishme, &euml;sht&euml; m&euml; mir&euml; p&euml;rmbajtja nga t&euml; folurit, sepse shpeshher&euml; kuvendimi i lejuar e &ccedil;on njeriun n&euml; t&euml; palejuar&euml;n apo t&euml; jopreferuar&euml;n. &Euml;sht&euml; e nevojshme t&euml; p&euml;rmbahemi nga t&euml; folurit, p&euml;rve&ccedil; n&euml;se &euml;sht&euml; i mir&euml;, d.m.th. n&euml;se dobia e tij &euml;sht&euml; e dukshme. Nd&euml;rsa n&euml;se dobia e tij &euml;sht&euml; e dyshimt&euml;, at&euml;her&euml; nuk bisedohet.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Dobi:<\/p>\n<p>Besimtari duhet ti largohet paragjykimeve.<br \/>Besimtari i mir&euml; flet&euml; vet&euml;m mir&euml;.<br \/>Fjala e mir&euml; t&euml; drejton p&euml;r n&euml; xhenet.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ulvi Fejzullahu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All-llahu i Lart&euml;suar thot&euml;:&ldquo;O besimtar&euml;, shmanguni moris&euml; s&euml; parashikimeve! Disa parashikime me t&euml; v&euml;rtet&euml; jan&euml; m&euml;kat. Dhe mos spiunoni nj&euml;ri-tjetrin e as mos p&euml;rqeshni nj&euml;ri-tjetrin! A do dikush prej jush t&euml; haj&euml; mishin e v&euml;llait t&euml; vet t&euml; vdekur? Ju at&euml; e dini se &euml;sht&euml; shum&euml; keq &#8211; prandaj, ruajuni All-llahut; All-llahu v&euml;rtet&euml; pranon pendimet [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-676","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c96-davet"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/676","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=676"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/676\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}