{"id":68,"date":"2012-03-18T22:08:17","date_gmt":"2012-03-18T22:08:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/SHKIWP\/index.php\/2012\/03\/18\/si-te-pendohem\/"},"modified":"2012-03-18T22:08:17","modified_gmt":"2012-03-18T22:08:17","slug":"si-te-pendohem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=68","title":{"rendered":"Si t\u00eb pendohem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"images\/Pendohu.jpg\" alt=\"Pendohu\" width=\"150\" height=\"101\" style=\"float: left;\" \/>Fal\u00ebnderimi i takon Allahut, prej Tij k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb ndihm\u00eb dhe falje. P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjet dhe bekimet e Allahut qofshin mbi Muhammedin dhe familjen e tij. <!--more--> <\/p>\n<p>Njeriu, qoft\u00eb edhe besimtar shembullor, mund t\u00eb gaboj\u00eb. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak ekziston pendimi ndaj Zotit Madh\u00ebshtor, pendim, i cili nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsim t\u00eb dikujt, por mjafton zemra e past\u00ebr. Muhammedi, sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00c7do bir i Ademit gabon, nd\u00ebrsa m\u00eb i miri prej gabimtar\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb ai, i cili pendohet.&#8221; (Ahmedi, hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb autentik).<\/p>\n<p>Pra, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb nd\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe n\u00eb bot\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, jemi t\u00eb obliguar me pendim ndaj Zotit t\u00eb Vet\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Ebu Seid el-Hudriu, radijallahu anhu, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ju sot po b\u00ebni disa vepra, t\u00eb cilat n\u00eb syt\u00eb e juaj duken m\u00eb t\u00eb holla se qimja, kurse ne n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e Pejgamberiti, sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem, konsideronim si m\u00ebkate t\u00eb m\u00ebdha&#8221;. (Buhariu).<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebto fjal\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebtij as-habi t\u00eb nderuar na sqarojn\u00eb rrezikun e gjendjes son\u00eb, k\u00ebto dit\u00eb kur kemi filluar t&#8217;i konsiderojm\u00eb m\u00ebkatet t\u00eb imta dhe nuk e shohim rrezikun e veprimit t\u00eb tyre, edhe pse m\u00ebkatet q\u00eb i b\u00ebjm\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, madje disa prej nesh nga pakujdesia b\u00ebjm\u00eb m\u00ebkat as duke mos e hetuar.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb ndiesh keqardhje p\u00ebr gabimin e b\u00ebr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kushti m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm i pendimit.<\/p>\n<p>Muhammedi, sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem, thot\u00eb: &#8220;T\u00eb ndiesh keqardhje (p\u00ebr m\u00ebkatin e b\u00ebr\u00eb) \u00ebsht\u00eb pendim.&#8221; (Ahmedi, hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb autentik).<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebshtu mund ta humbim nj\u00eb rast t\u00eb volitsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr pendim. Gjithashtu, konsiderimi i m\u00ebkateve t\u00eb vogla b\u00ebn q\u00eb m\u00ebkatari t\u00eb adaptohet n\u00eb m\u00ebkate dhe t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb kujdes a b\u00ebn m\u00ebkate ose jo, edhe pse Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar na ka ofruar rast p\u00ebr pendim dhe k\u00ebrkim faljeje, si\u00e7 thot\u00eb Muhammedi, sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Pronari i t\u00eb majt\u00ebs (meleku q\u00eb i shkruan m\u00ebkatet) ngren\u00eb lapsin e tij gjasht\u00eb or\u00eb nga myslimani m\u00ebkatar, n\u00ebse pendohet dhe k\u00ebrkon falje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb (m\u00ebkat), e l\u00ebshon, p\u00ebrndryshe ia shkruan nj\u00eb m\u00ebkat&#8221;. (Taberaniu, hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb hasen).<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak, n\u00eb rast se myslimani b\u00ebn m\u00ebkat, nuk guxon t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrohet, por e ka p\u00ebr detyr\u00eb ta pranoj\u00eb m\u00ebkatin nd\u00ebrmjet tij dhe Zotit, t\u00eb pendohet dhe ta dij\u00eb se &#8220;zvog\u00eblimi&#8221; i m\u00ebkatit nuk i b\u00ebn dobi, as q\u00eb e zvog\u00eblon krimin, p\u00ebrkundrazi- e shton dhe e zmadhon at\u00eb, ngase kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00e7mim i ndalesave t\u00eb Allahut.<\/p>\n<p>Rruga e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pendimi, q\u00eb myslimani t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoj\u00eb nga gjer\u00ebsia e m\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb Allahut dhe t\u00eb ec\u00eb rrug\u00ebs s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, n\u00eb \u00e7&#8217;m\u00ebnyr\u00eb do ta shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb veten nga d\u00ebnimi i Allahut.<\/p>\n<p>Duhet ditur se pendimi i sinqert\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb obligim i \u00e7do myslimani.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu, tebareke ve teala, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;O ju q\u00eb keni besuar, pendohuni tek Allahu me nj\u00eb pendim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb&#8230;&#8221; (Et-Tahrim: 8).<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ata q\u00eb nuk pendohen, jan\u00eb mizor\u00eb&#8221;. (El-Huxhurat: 11).<\/p>\n<p>Muhammedi, sal-lall-llahu alejhi ve sel-lem, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;O njer\u00ebz, pendohuni te Allahu, sepse un\u00eb pendohem nj\u00ebqind her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb!&#8221; (Muslimi).<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb gjith\u00eb dijetar\u00ebt islamik\u00eb pajtohen n\u00eb at\u00eb, se pendimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i obliguar dhe i domosdosh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse do t\u00eb pendohesh sinqerisht duhet ti kesh parasysh k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra:<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb: Mos e n\u00ebn\u00e7mo m\u00ebkatin. Mos shiko se \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00ebkati b\u00ebn por shiko se kujt i b\u00ebn m\u00ebkat.<\/p>\n<p>Muhammedi, sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Keni kujdes m\u00ebkatet e vogla, sepse shembulli i m\u00ebkateve t\u00eb vogla \u00ebsht\u00eb sikur shembulli i nj\u00eb populli q\u00eb kishte zbritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb lugin\u00eb dhe vjen nj\u00eb njeri me nj\u00eb deg\u00eb, vjen tjetri po ashtu me nj\u00eb deg\u00eb, derisa tubuan aq drunj, saq\u00eb poq\u00ebn buk\u00ebn. N\u00ebse dikush b\u00ebn m\u00ebkate t\u00eb vogla (pand\u00ebrprer\u00eb), ata e shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb at\u00eb.&#8221; (Ahmedi, hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb autentik).<\/p>\n<p>Dy: mos e llogarit m\u00ebkatin asgj\u00eb pse t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt e b\u00ebjn\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Tre: Duhet pat\u00eb kujdes t\u00eb mos b\u00ebjm\u00eb m\u00ebkate haptazi dhe t\u00eb mos u tregojm\u00eb njer\u00ebzve m\u00ebkatet q\u00eb i kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<p>Muhammedi, sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I gjith\u00eb ummeti \u00ebsht\u00eb i falur, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 atyre q\u00eb i b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00ebkatet haptazi&#8221;. (Buhariu dhe Muslimi).<\/p>\n<p>Kat\u00ebr: Mos e vono pendimin.<\/p>\n<p>Askush nuk e di se kur mund t&#8217;i vjen vdekja. Ajo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb af\u00ebr se sa mendon, mund t\u00eb vjen papritur, kurse pendimi nuk pranohet gjat\u00eb gargaritjes s\u00eb vdekjes, kur vjen shpirti n\u00eb fyt.<\/p>\n<p>Muhammedi, sal-lallahu alejhi ve sel-lem, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Allahu i Lart\u00ebsuar pranon pendimin e robit derisa ai nuk gargarit\u00eb (para vdekjes).&#8221; (Ahmedi, hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb hasen).<\/p>\n<p>Pes\u00eb: Mos vazhdo n\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebrit m\u00ebkate.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu, subhanehu ve teala, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;&#8230;Edhe ata, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kur b\u00ebjn\u00eb ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar ose i b\u00ebjn\u00eb zullum vetes s\u00eb tyre, e p\u00ebrmendin Allahun dhe k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb falje p\u00ebr m\u00ebkatet e tyre-e kush i fal m\u00ebkatet p\u00ebrve\u00e7 Allahut?-dhe q\u00eb duke e ditur, nuk vazhdojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb punuar.&#8221; (Ali Imran: 135).<\/p>\n<p>Gjasht\u00eb: Mos u mashtro me t\u00eb mira n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb, edhe pse ti akoma vazhdon t\u00eb b\u00ebsh m\u00ebkate.<\/p>\n<p>Muhammedi, sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem, thot\u00eb: &#8220;Kur t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh se Allahu i jep nj\u00eb robi (t\u00eb vet) prej k\u00ebsaj bote at\u00eb q\u00eb e do, kurse ai akoma b\u00ebn m\u00ebkate, dije se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shkall\u00ebzim drejt shkat\u00ebrrimit t\u00eb tij nga Allahu&#8221;. (Ahmedi, hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb autentik).<\/p>\n<p>Shtat\u00eb: Mos e humb shpres\u00ebn nga m\u00ebshira e Allahut, sepse Ai thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Thuaj: &#8220;O rob\u00ebrit e Mi, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt e keni b\u00ebr\u00eb gabim ndaj vehtes, mos e humbni shpres\u00ebn ndaj m\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb Allahut, se v\u00ebrtet Allahu i fal t\u00eb gjitha m\u00ebkatet. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb Fal\u00ebsi (i m\u00ebkateve), M\u00ebshiruesi. Dhe kthehuni te Zoti juaj dhe p\u00ebruljuni Atij para se t&#8217;ju vij\u00eb d\u00ebnimi, se pastaj nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb kush t&#8217;ju ndihmoj\u00eb.&#8221; (Ez-Zumer: 53-54).<\/p>\n<p>Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb tep\u00ebrmi nxit n\u00eb pendim \u00ebsht\u00eb se pendimi i sinqert\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 q\u00eb i fshin m\u00ebkatet, ai edhe i shnd\u00ebrron m\u00ebkatet n\u00eb shp\u00ebrblime.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu, azze ve xhel-le, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;S&#8217;ka dyshim se veprat e mira i fshijn\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat&#8221;. (Hud: 114).<\/p>\n<p>Muhammedi, sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;&#8230;Pas t\u00eb keqes b\u00ebje nj\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, e cila e fshin t\u00eb keqen&#8230;&#8221;. (Tirmidhiu, hadithi \u00ebsht\u00eb autentik).<\/p>\n<p>Allahu, azze ve xhel-le, thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;P\u00ebrve\u00e7 atij q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb penduar, ka besuar dhe ka b\u00ebr\u00eb vep\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00eb, t\u00eb till\u00ebve Allahu t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat ua shnd\u00ebrron n\u00eb t\u00eb mira. Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb Fal\u00ebsi (i m\u00ebkateve), M\u00ebshiruesi.&#8221; (El-Furkan: 70).<\/p>\n<p>Kujtoje faktin se Allahu, azze ve xhel-le, \u00ebsht\u00eb i Fisnik, Fal\u00ebs, m\u00eb i M\u00ebshirsh\u00ebm ndaj rob\u00ebrve t\u00eb Vet sesa n\u00ebna p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e saj. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak duhet drejtuar Allahut me pendim dhe duke k\u00ebrkuar falje, sepse Allahu nuk largohet prej robit q\u00eb shpreson M\u00ebshir\u00ebn e Tij, e cila kaplon \u00e7do gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Gjithashtu po e p\u00ebrmend p\u00ebrs\u00ebri se pendimin nuk duhet vonuar.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Shembulli i atij q\u00eb e vonon pendimin \u00ebsht\u00eb sikur shembulli i atij q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb ta pres\u00eb nj\u00eb dru, mir\u00ebpo e sheh drurin e madh dhe t\u00eb fort\u00eb, i cili nuk mund t\u00eb pritet leht\u00eb, dhe thot\u00eb: &#8220;Do t\u00eb vij vitin e ardhsh\u00ebm&#8221;, kurse nuk e din se sa m\u00eb tep\u00ebr koh\u00eb kalon, druri b\u00ebhet aq m\u00eb i fort\u00eb dhe rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt e tij futen edhe m\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00eb, kurse ai sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb dob\u00ebsohet (p\u00ebr shkak se fillon t\u00eb plaket). Ai dob\u00ebsohet e druri forcohet. A thua do ta pres\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dhe p\u00ebr n\u00eb fund, Allahu, subhanehu ve teala, n\u00eb hadith kudsij thot\u00eb:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Atij q\u00eb m\u00eb afrohet nj\u00eb p\u00ebll\u00ebmb\u00eb, i afrohem nj\u00eb krah, atij q\u00eb m\u00eb afrohet nj\u00eb krah, i afrohem nj\u00eb pash dhe atij q\u00eb m\u00eb afrohet me ecje, i afrohem me shpejt\u00ebsi.&#8221; (Muslimi).<\/p>\n<p>Bekir Halimi<\/p>\n<p>Burimi: www.shkollaislame.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fal\u00ebnderimi i takon Allahut, prej Tij k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb ndihm\u00eb dhe falje. P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetjet dhe bekimet e Allahut qofshin mbi Muhammedin dhe familjen e tij.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-68","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c82-artikuj"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=68"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=68"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=68"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=68"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}