{"id":7462,"date":"2025-02-08T22:44:13","date_gmt":"2025-02-08T22:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=7462"},"modified":"2025-02-08T22:44:13","modified_gmt":"2025-02-08T22:44:13","slug":"dashuria-ne-haram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=7462","title":{"rendered":"DASHURIA N\u00cb HARAM"},"content":{"rendered":"

– Babi im! Ka t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb sprovohen me dashuri t\u00eb ndaluar. A ke ndonj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb rreth k\u00ebsaj teme?<\/p>\n

* Biri im! Prej gj\u00ebrave m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb biesh n\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb ndaluar, sepse pasojat jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, nd\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat:<\/p>\n

    \n
  1. N\u00ebse arrin ta p\u00ebrfitoj\u00eb dashurin\u00eb ose t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje n\u00eb haram, nuk i ik\u00ebn atij e keqja e gjynahut, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb shpirt do ta ndiej\u00eb hidh\u00ebsin\u00eb e munges\u00ebs s\u00eb t\u00eb dashurit.<\/li>\n
  2. I dashuruari mendjen e ka t\u00eb angazhuar me mendime dhe m\u00ebrzi. Kjo b\u00ebhet shkak q\u00eb ta largoje nga veprimi i pun\u00ebve t\u00eb mira t\u00eb dynjas\u00eb dhe ahiretit. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb situata vazhdon t\u00eb mbetet e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb, derisa ai nuk mendon p\u00ebr dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ose p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr. Mendja i rri ve\u00e7 tek i dashuri i tij. Kjo i jep dhembje dhe ia shton belan\u00eb. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj nd\u00ebshkimi q\u00eb e merr q\u00eb n\u00eb dynja.<\/li>\n
  3. Dashuria n\u00eb haram e largon nga dashuria e Allahut t\u00eb Madh\u00ebrish\u00ebm. \u00c7\u00ebshtja arrin deri n\u00eb at\u00eb shkall\u00eb, sa i jep p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb atij q\u00eb e do, para dashuris\u00eb dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb Allahut. Kjo e \u00e7on n\u00eb shirk (idhujtari), q\u00eb e nxjerr nga rrethi i Islamit.<\/li>\n
  4. Dashuria n\u00eb haram mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet sebep q\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimin ta ket\u00eb t\u00eb keq n\u00eb fund t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Njeriu n\u00eb agonin\u00eb e vdekjes e shpreh me gjuh\u00ebn e tij at\u00eb q\u00eb e mbante me ashk n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tij. Tregohet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person, i cili aq tep\u00ebr kishte dashuruar nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr, saq\u00eb n\u00eb momentet e agonis\u00eb s\u00eb vdekjes k\u00ebrkonin prej tij q\u00eb ta shprehte shehadetin (t\u00eb thoshte: La ilahe il-lallah), nd\u00ebrsa ai e shqiptonte emrin e personit q\u00eb e dashuronte me ashk. Vdiq pa shehadet, duke e p\u00ebrmendur emrin e t\u00eb dashurit t\u00eb tij! Allahu na ruajtt\u00eb nga p\u00ebrfundimi i keq dhe na dh\u00ebnt\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim t\u00eb mir\u00eb!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    – K\u00ebto ishin disa prej pasojave kryesore q\u00eb i shkakton dashuria n\u00eb haram, ndon\u00ebse ka edhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjera.<\/p>\n

    Me siguri ke interes t\u00eb dish p\u00ebr ila\u00e7in e k\u00ebtij problemi? Biri im, dije se gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb robi ta mbush\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tij me dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr Allahun, ta shpeshtoj\u00eb p\u00ebrmendjen e Tij, ta lexoj\u00eb Librin e Tij (Kuranin), t\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohet me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb drejt\u00eb e t\u00eb devotsh\u00ebm, t\u00eb shk\u00ebput\u00eb \u00e7do lidhje me shikimin dhe mendimin n\u00eb haram, t\u00eb largoj\u00eb prej zemr\u00ebs qysh n\u00eb momentin e par\u00eb \u00e7do gjurm\u00eb nga dashuria haram q\u00eb e prek zemr\u00ebn e tij, se, n\u00ebse e l\u00eb t\u00eb dep\u00ebrtoj\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebr, at\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb t\u00eb largohet prej saj.<\/p>\n

    Dr. Muhamed ed Duvejshi<\/p>\n

    Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n

    (Pjes\u00eb nga libri: \u201cBIRI IM, TASHM\u00cb JE B\u00cbR\u00cb BURR\u00cb\u201d \u2013 i p\u00ebrkthyer n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn shqipe)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    – Babi im! Ka t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb sprovohen me dashuri t\u00eb ndaluar. A ke ndonj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb rreth k\u00ebsaj teme? * Biri im! Prej gj\u00ebrave m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb biesh n\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb ndaluar, sepse pasojat jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, nd\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat: N\u00ebse arrin ta p\u00ebrfitoj\u00eb dashurin\u00eb ose t\u00eb hyj\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje n\u00eb haram, nuk […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":7463,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,4,6,67],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7462","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-c95-ahlak","category-c86-akide","category-c96-davet","category-te-zgjedhura"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7462","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7462"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7462\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7464,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7462\/revisions\/7464"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7462"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7462"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7462"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}