– Babi im! T\u00eb bisedojm\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje tjet\u00ebr. V\u00ebrej se disa t\u00eb rinj, kur zem\u00ebrohen, nuk mund ta kontrollojn\u00eb e ta p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb veten! M\u00eb intereson t\u00eb di a ka lidhje veprimi i tyre me k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
* Po, biri im. I riu n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb karakterizohet me reaksione t\u00eb ashpra. Kur ai zem\u00ebrohet, zem\u00ebrimi i tij shtohet dhe z\u00ebri i tij ngrihet. Ka mund\u00ebsi t\u2019i thyej\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb i ka n\u00eb dor\u00eb e t\u00eb sillet keq me dik\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i madh dhe me pozit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb se ai. Biri im, zem\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb cil\u00ebsi e keqe: e \u00e7on njeriun n\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat, m\u00eb von\u00eb, do t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb keqardhje. A ke v\u00ebrejtur disa t\u00eb rinj q\u00eb, pasi u zem\u00ebruan, vepruan gj\u00ebra t\u00eb pahijshme ose than\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb pamatura mir\u00eb e, n\u00eb fund, ndiejn\u00eb keqardhje p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb njeri vajti te Pejgamberi, alejhi selam, dhe k\u00ebrkoi ta k\u00ebshilloj\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa Pejgamberi, alejhi selam, i tha: \u201cMos u zem\u00ebro!\u201d<\/em> Prap\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi k\u00ebshill\u00eb, e Pejgamberi, alejhi selam,\u00a0 s\u00ebrish e porositi me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn porosi: \u201cMos u zem\u00ebro!\u201d<\/em>, dhe e p\u00ebrs\u00ebriti disa her\u00eb: \u201cMos u zem\u00ebro!\u201d<\/em>[1]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n Nj\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm tha: \u201cI meditova fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb i tha Pejgamberi m, saq\u00eb e kuptova se zem\u00ebrimi me vete i sjellka t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat.\u201d[2]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n Allahu i lavd\u00ebroi njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e p\u00ebrmbajn\u00eb dhe e kontrollojn\u00eb veten gjat\u00eb zem\u00ebrimit: \u201c… <\/strong>e mposhtin zem\u00ebrimin dhe ua falin fajet njer\u00ebzve. Allahu i do bamir\u00ebsit.\u201d<\/strong> (Ali Imran, 134)<\/p>\n Dhe thot\u00eb: \u201c… dhe q\u00eb, kur i zem\u00ebron dikush, falin.\u201d<\/strong> (Esh Shura, 37)<\/p>\n – Kjo bised\u00eb rreth zem\u00ebrimit m\u00eb kujtoi nj\u00eb dukuri q\u00eb shoh te disa shok\u00eb. Ata, kur duan dik\u00eb, e teprojn\u00eb n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e n\u00eb l\u00ebvdat\u00ebn e tij, dhe e kund\u00ebrta, kur e qortojn\u00eb, e teprojn\u00eb n\u00eb qortimin e tij. A ka lidhje kjo gj\u00eb me at\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrmende?<\/p>\n * Po, biri im. Furia e gjaknxeht\u00ebsis\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb e shtyn t\u00eb riun ta teproj\u00eb e ta ekzagjeroj\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri dhe urrejtje. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak n\u00eb mas\u00eb t\u00eb madhe e sheh q\u00eb mahnitet me heroizmat. Te njer\u00ebzit kriteret e heroizmit dallojn\u00eb: p\u00ebr dik\u00eb heroizmi gjendet n\u00eb arritjet sportive, p\u00ebr dik\u00eb n\u00eb art e aktrim, e p\u00ebr dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb kriminalitet dhe \u00e7rregullim.<\/p>\n Si rrjedhoj\u00eb, kur njeriu mahnitet me heroizmin e ndonj\u00ebrit prej tyre, at\u00ebher\u00eb e t\u00ebrheq personaliteti i tij, e kjo e shtyn ta imitoj\u00eb n\u00eb sjelljet e tij e ta teproj\u00eb n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb dhe l\u00ebvdat\u00ebn e tij.<\/p>\n – Me sa po kuptoj, babi im, armiqt\u00eb e Islamit e kan\u00eb kuptuar mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb veti te t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, prandaj i angazhuan t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb rejat me ngjyrat e ndryshme t\u00eb artit dhe sportit duke e tepruar n\u00eb to. Ndoshta edhe e gjith\u00eb kjo i \u00e7oi t\u00eb bien n\u00eb gropat e devijimit dhe shkat\u00ebrrimit?!<\/p>\n * Po, biri im, gj\u00ebrat jan\u00eb ashtu si thua ti. Armiqt\u00eb e Islamit nxituan vazhdimisht t\u00eb shfaqin sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyra t\u00eb k\u00ebqija para t\u00eb rinjve dhe t\u00eb rejave myslimane n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha mediat. Mir\u00eb e shfryt\u00ebzuan \u00e7do zhvillim bashk\u00ebkohor n\u00eb shkenc\u00eb dhe n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet tij ia shfaq\u00ebn publikut at\u00eb q\u00eb donin vet\u00eb, duke i mahnitur t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb me at\u00eb q\u00eb e shfaqnin.<\/p>\n – Edukata islame a ka ila\u00e7 dhe zgjidhje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb problem?<\/p>\n * Po, biri im. Prej mjeteve m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb kurimin e k\u00ebtij problemi, madje prej mjeteve t\u00eb investimit te t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019u ofrosh sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyra t\u00eb drejta dhe yrnek t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n N\u00eb Kuran p\u00ebrmenden shum\u00eb rr\u00ebfime n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat shfaqet jet\u00ebshkrimi i t\u00eb devotshm\u00ebve prej pejgamber\u00ebve dhe atyre q\u00eb e ndoq\u00ebn rrug\u00ebn e tyre. Aty shfaqet trim\u00ebria e guximi i tyre, si dhe p\u00ebrqendrimi i tyre n\u00eb mejdanin e betej\u00ebs mes s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs dhe s\u00eb kot\u00ebs. P\u00ebrgjat\u00eb historis\u00eb islame ka shembuj n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha fushat: n\u00eb dije e adhurim, n\u00eb luft\u00ebn n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e Allahut dhe heroiz\u00ebm, n\u00eb davet dhe p\u00ebrqendrim n\u00eb parime. I riu mysliman shpresohet t\u00eb ndikohet dhe ta t\u00ebrheqin k\u00ebta shembuj, t\u2019ia shtojn\u00eb dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz e t\u00eb ngjashmit me ta, dhe t\u00eb kujdeset t\u00eb lexoj\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00ebshkrimin dhe ngjarjet e tyre.<\/p>\n \u00c7far\u00eb rezultatesh me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi jep kjo rrug\u00eb:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dr. Muhamed ed Duvejshi<\/p>\n Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n (Pjes\u00eb nga libri: \u201cBIRI IM, TASHM\u00cb JE B\u00cbR\u00cb BURR\u00cb\u201d \u2013 i p\u00ebrkthyer n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn shqipe)<\/p>\n <\/p>\n\n