{"id":7624,"date":"2025-05-17T11:07:57","date_gmt":"2025-05-17T11:07:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=7624"},"modified":"2025-05-17T11:07:57","modified_gmt":"2025-05-17T11:07:57","slug":"porosi-drejtuar-cdo-prindi-dhe-edukatori","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=7624","title":{"rendered":"POROSI DREJTUAR \u00c7DO PRINDI DHE EDUKATORI"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ndoshta vitet ndikuan t\u00eb harroni mosh\u00ebn e rinis\u00eb dhe problemet q\u00eb i vuajn\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb nga kurthet e shejtanit. Shpresoj q\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e mia t\u2019jua kthjellin mendjen q\u00eb ta kuptoni realitetin e rrezikut p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj.<\/p>\n<p>Kujtoni hadithin e Pejgamberit \ufdfa q\u00eb thot\u00eb: <em>\u201cT\u00eb gjith\u00eb jeni barinj dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jeni p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr kopen\u00eb tuaj. Burri \u00ebsht\u00eb bariu i familjes dhe ai \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes s\u00eb tij.\u201d<\/em><a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><sup>[1]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Para s\u00eb gjithash kujtoni fjal\u00ebt e Allahut: <strong>\u201c<\/strong><strong>O ju q\u00eb besoni! Ruani veten dhe familjet tuaja nga zjarri, l\u00ebnda djeg\u00ebse e t\u00eb cilit jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe gur\u00ebt. At\u00eb e mbik\u00ebqyrin engj\u00ebj t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm e t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kurr\u00eb nuk i kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb urdhrat e Allahut, por i zbatojn\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb ata.\u201d<\/strong> (Et Tehrim, 6)<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb revist\u00eb kuvajtiane n\u00eb hulumtimin e saj rreth problemeve t\u00eb t\u00eb rinjve e p\u00ebrshkroi rastin e nj\u00eb t\u00eb riu, i cili tha: \u201cFamilja jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk e kam d\u00ebgjuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb baban\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb pyes\u00eb se ku po shkoj dhe me k\u00eb po shoq\u00ebrohem.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb i ri tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb u rikthye n\u00eb Qendr\u00ebn e Kujdesit social n\u00eb Riad, pasi kishte dal\u00eb m\u00eb her\u00ebt prej aty, krejt barr\u00ebn e fajit ia hodhi prindit t\u00eb vet: \u201cBabait nuk i interesonte a e fal namazin apo jo, a i respektoj urdhrat e Allahut apo jo. Sikur t\u00eb isha edukuar me Islam, do t\u00eb pajisesha me parzmore kund\u00ebr shejtanit dhe intrigave t\u00eb tij. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak isha i dob\u00ebt n\u00eb fe dhe u ballafaqova me devijime her\u00eb pas her\u00eb, gj\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb kthehesha s\u00ebrish n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb qend\u00ebr.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\"><sup>[2]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; D\u00ebshiroj t\u2019ju jap disa sugjerime:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>U pajtuam q\u00eb imani \u00ebsht\u00eb fortifikat\u00eb q\u00eb mbron prej gjynahut, andaj kujdesuni ta mbillni at\u00eb n\u00eb zemrat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj. Edukoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ta duan Allahun dhe t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin e Tij \ufdfa.<\/li>\n<li>U pajtuam q\u00eb medoemos t\u00eb mbyllet \u00e7do rrug\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7on te gjynahu, andaj merrni vendim t\u00eb prer\u00eb si do ta trajtoni \u00e7\u00ebshtjen e televizorit, internetit dhe revistave t\u00eb f\u00eblliqura.<\/li>\n<li>Buz\u00ebqeshjen, qet\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe g\u00ebzimin q\u00eb i p\u00ebrjeton i riu me shok\u00ebt t\u00eb k\u00ebqij, sigurohuni t\u2019i gjej\u00eb n\u00eb ambientet e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet mes jush b\u00ebjini v\u00ebllaz\u00ebrore e jo ushtarake. Ato k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi q\u00eb i riu i p\u00ebrjeton me shok\u00ebt, mundohuni t\u2019i ndiej\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me ju. Duke ua plot\u00ebsuar nevojat shpirt\u00ebrore brenda ambientit familjar, i ruani nga shoq\u00ebria e keqe.<\/li>\n<li>O ti prind dhe o ti edukator! Mendoni se f\u00ebmija me shum\u00eb leht\u00ebsi do ta hap\u00eb gjoksin t\u00eb shprehet p\u00ebr problemet e tij personale? Pse nuk angazhoheni ta thyeni k\u00ebt\u00eb barrier\u00eb e t\u2019i edukoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb hapur n\u00eb bised\u00eb me ju?<\/li>\n<li>Kujdes dy her\u00eb nga besimi i verb\u00ebr! Nuk ju nxis t\u00eb keni mendim t\u00eb keq p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj, por duhet t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb dijeni se ju jeni t\u00eb fundit q\u00eb f\u00ebmija ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoni p\u00ebr gjendjen e tij n\u00ebse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e keqe. Ai para jush do t\u00eb shfaqet sikurse nuk ka ndodhur gj\u00eb.<\/li>\n<li>Ndoshta nuk keni harruar q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj e porosit\u00ebm t\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohet me shok\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, andaj p\u00ebrkrahni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rrug\u00eb dhe leht\u00ebsojani gjendjen duke u gjetur shok\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Dijeni se, n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija juaj nuk shoq\u00ebrohet me t\u00eb mir\u00ebt, do ta shoq\u00ebrojn\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqijt\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs zgjidhjani shok\u00ebt q\u00eb mendoni se jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta.<\/li>\n<li>N\u00ebse zbuloni se f\u00ebmija juaj ka r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb gjynah, kini kujdes nga nxitimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarr\u00eb ndonj\u00eb hap t\u00eb pamenduar mir\u00eb. Problemi, p\u00ebrskaj rrezikut, k\u00ebrkon zgjidhje t\u00eb studiuar mir\u00eb. N\u00eb pyetje \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Pakujdesia juaj p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn me vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra ka l\u00ebn\u00eb pasoja t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, andaj mos mendo se qortimi dhe rrahja jan\u00eb zgjidhja. Ajo q\u00eb ju ndihmon n\u00eb k\u00ebso rastesh jan\u00eb m\u00ebsuesit q\u00eb keni besim n\u00eb ta ose imami i xhamis\u00eb, ose te personat e besuesh\u00ebm kini besim n\u00eb ta. M\u00eb e mira \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb bisedoni me ta dhe t\u2019ua tregoni rastin, t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni prej tyre mendimin dhe p\u00ebrkrahjen e tyre.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li>E, n\u00ebse bijt\u00eb ose bijat tuaja jan\u00eb p\u00ebr martes\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb ju pengon juve t\u2019i p\u00ebrkrahni n\u00eb zbatimin e porosis\u00eb profetike: <em>\u201cO ju t\u00eb rinj! Kush i ka mund\u00ebsit\u00eb t\u00eb martohet, le t\u00eb martohet&#8230;\u201d<\/em>?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>O ti prind, o ju t\u00eb rinj dhe t\u00eb reja! K\u00ebta rreshta q\u00eb i shkrova ishin p\u00ebrpjekje modeste q\u00eb t\u2019ju drejtohem me porosi dhe nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e obligimit tim kundrejt jush. Shpresoj k\u00ebto porosi t\u00eb prekin zemrat tuaja dhe t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb dobishme p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n<p>Allahu na dh\u00ebnt\u00eb mbar\u00ebsi dhe sukses!<\/p>\n<p>Paqja, m\u00ebshira dhe bereqeti i Allahut qofshin mbi ju!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Buhariu (7138), Muslimi (1829), Tirmidhiu (1705), Ebu Davudi (2938).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Revista \u201cDar el Mulahadha\u201d, numri 3, (f. 51-52).<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Muhamed ed Duvejshi<\/p>\n<p>Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n<p>(Pjes\u00eb nga libri: \u201cSI T\u00cb BALLAFAQOHESH ME EPSHIN\u201d \u2013 i p\u00ebrkthyer n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn shqipe)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ndoshta vitet ndikuan t\u00eb harroni mosh\u00ebn e rinis\u00eb dhe problemet q\u00eb i vuajn\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb nga kurthet e shejtanit. Shpresoj q\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e mia t\u2019jua kthjellin mendjen q\u00eb ta kuptoni realitetin e rrezikut p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj. Kujtoni hadithin e Pejgamberit \ufdfa q\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cT\u00eb gjith\u00eb jeni barinj dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jeni p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr kopen\u00eb tuaj. 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