{"id":7820,"date":"2025-09-20T10:20:07","date_gmt":"2025-09-20T10:20:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=7820"},"modified":"2025-09-20T10:20:07","modified_gmt":"2025-09-20T10:20:07","slug":"me-dashuri-i-edukojme-brezat-tane-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=7820","title":{"rendered":"ME DASHURI I EDUKOJM\u00cb BREZAT TAN\u00cb"},"content":{"rendered":"

Allahu,\u00a0azze ue xhel,<\/em>\u00a0f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e b\u00ebri k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi p\u00ebr syt\u00eb e prindit, dashuri t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, g\u00ebzim t\u00eb shpirtit t\u00eb tij dhe t\u00eb natyrshme e konsideroi dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb e ndjen prindi kundrejt f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tij. Bile n\u00eb Kur\u2019an, Allahu,\u00a0azze ue xhel,<\/em>\u00a0i lavd\u00ebroi miqt\u00eb e Tij, se ata i luten dhe i n\u00ebnshtrohen Atij q\u00eb t\u2019i k\u00ebnaq\u00eb syt\u00eb e tyre me f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb e fetar. Allahu,\u00a0azze ue xhel,<\/em>\u00a0thot\u00eb:\u00a0\u201c<\/em><\/strong>Edhe ata q\u00eb thon\u00eb: \u201cZoti yn\u00eb, na b\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb g\u00ebzuar me\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>(pun\u00ebn)\u00a0e grave tona dhe pasardh\u00ebsve tan\u00eb, e neve na b\u00ebn shembull p\u00ebr t\u00eb devotshmit<\/strong>.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0(El-Furkan: 74)<\/p>\n

K\u00ebt\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e ndjen prindi kundrejt f\u00eb\u00admij\u00ebs s\u00eb tij \u00ebsht\u00eb burim i siguris\u00eb dhe i stabilitetit shpirt\u00ebror tek f\u00ebmija dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb baz\u00eb e fort\u00eb n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimin e personalitetit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs mbi parime fetare t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme dhe bashk\u00ebveprim pozitiv me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb q\u00eb e rrethon. Realizimi i k\u00ebtyre q\u00ebllimeve nuk mundet t\u00eb paramendohet kur dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb e burgosur n\u00eb gjokset e prind\u00ebrve edhe pse ajo ekziston dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e fort\u00eb, p\u00ebr shkak se ajo nuk shprehet me fjal\u00eb e as me vepra kundrejt f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe kjo i dob\u00ebson urat e lidhjes mes f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe familjes dhe t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt e humbin k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb e jep kjo ndjenj\u00eb e mre\u00adkullu\u00adeshme.<\/p>\n

Dashuria konsiderohet si mjet m\u00eb i zhvilluar n\u00eb bashkimin e njer\u00ebzve mes vete, qofshin ata edhe me rac\u00eb, edukat\u00eb dhe vlera t\u00eb ndryshme. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb unik n\u00eb respektin dhe njohjen e saj, ajo si natyrshm\u00ebri e ngulitur n\u00eb shpirtrat e njer\u00ebzve refuzon q\u00eb t\u00eb deformohet dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtohet. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb e k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb, \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb dhe shpresojn\u00eb, prandaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7uditur kur i themi se \u00ebsht\u00eb:\u00a0\u201cVeg\u00ebl magjike n\u00eb ndikim dhe ndryshim.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb pushim i zemr\u00ebs prej t\u00eb gjitha llojeve t\u00eb lodhjes, p\u00ebr shkak se ndjenja e dashuris\u00eb n\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme rrezaton harmoni shpirt\u00eb\u00adrore dhe qet\u00ebsi t\u00eb brendshme dhe gjurm\u00ebt e k\u00ebtyre rrezeve t\u00eb ngrohta q\u00eb dalin prej njeriut ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb rre\u00adthin q\u00eb e shoq\u00ebron dhe n\u00eb veprat q\u00eb i punon duke mos ndjer\u00eb aspak lodhje e mundime.<\/p>\n

Dashuria, lodhjet dhe belat\u00eb e pun\u00ebs i shnd\u00ebrron n\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi shpirt\u00ebrore dhe mendore, dhe e ngrit\u00eb nje\u00adriun n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ku i shtohet durimi nd\u00ebrsa lodhjet e mundimet i b\u00ebhen t\u00eb \u00ebmbla dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n

Ti, o edukator, dije se dashuria p\u00ebr ty \u00ebsht\u00eb thesar q\u00eb nuk mbaron, kapital q\u00eb nuk shteret dhe ti kur e shp\u00ebrndan at\u00eb i hap vetes nj\u00eb fond q\u00eb nuk vidhet dhe pak\u00ebsohet, por ai shtohet \u00e7do dit\u00eb prej ku ti nuk e di dhe e paramendon. Zemrat t\u00eb cilat t\u00eb duan dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura me ty nuk t\u00eb harrojn\u00eb. Nuk e harrojn\u00eb mir\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00ebnde ndaj tyre, sinqeritetin t\u00ebnd dhe flijimet e tua gjat\u00eb procesit edukator.<\/p>\n

Dashuria e shkurton rrug\u00ebn dhe leht\u00ebson fazat e edukat\u00ebs, por prej teje k\u00ebrkohet durim dhe vet\u00ebdije q\u00eb mos t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh kurban i mashtrimeve t\u00eb shejtanit. Natyrshm\u00ebria e njeriut \u00ebsht\u00eb nxit\u00ebse dhe d\u00ebshiron sa ma shpejt\u00eb t\u2019i realizoj\u00eb planet e saj. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mos u mashtro se dashuria dhe nevoja e saj p\u00ebr but\u00ebsi e urt\u00ebsi jan\u00eb penges\u00eb e realizimit t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebllimeve edu\u00adkatore.<\/p>\n

Gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm jan\u00eb ata t\u00eb cil\u00ebt dhurojn\u00eb dashuri, p\u00ebr shkak se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb garant i prer\u00eb p\u00ebr sukses me lejen e Allahut dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shkaktar ky\u00e7 n\u00eb arritjen e suksesit.<\/p>\n

Doktor Mejsere Tahir thot\u00eb: \u201cGjuha e dashuris\u00eb dhe abetarja e saj i posedojn\u00eb tet\u00eb mjete edukatore me dashuri:<\/p>\n

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  1. Fjala e dashuris\u00eb<\/li>\n
  2. Shikimi i dashuris\u00eb<\/li>\n
  3. Kafshata e dashuris\u00eb<\/li>\n
  4. Prekja e dashuris\u00eb<\/li>\n
  5. Kujdesi me dashuri<\/li>\n
  6. P\u00ebrqafimi i dashuris\u00eb<\/li>\n
  7. Puthja e dashuris\u00eb<\/li>\n
  8. Buz\u00ebqeshja e dashuris\u00eb.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Edukator\u00ebt po t\u2019i kishin p\u00ebrdorur k\u00ebto mjete n\u00eb procesin edukator, do dilnin breza me sjellje t\u00eb drejt\u00eb e me moral t\u00eb lart\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq shumica e njer\u00ebzve nuk e vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb edukat\u00ebn me dashuri.<\/p>\n

    Meditoi k\u00ebto transmetime t\u00eb cilat na v\u00ebrtetojn\u00eb kujdesin e Pejgamberit,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,\u00a0<\/em>p\u00ebr edukat\u00ebn me dashuri dhe si arriti me k\u00ebt\u00eb metodologji edukatore q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ta flijojn\u00eb veten dhe pasurin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

    Aliu,\u00a0radijallahu anhu,<\/em>\u00a0nat\u00ebn e hixhretit e vuri jet\u00ebn e tij n\u00eb rrezik duke u shtri mbi shtratin e Pejgamberit,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem.\u00a0<\/em>E flijoi shpirtin e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashurin e tij t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb, i cili e edukoi me dashuri, e m\u00ebsoi si t\u00eb dashuron dhe si ta interpreton at\u00eb dashuri.<\/p>\n

    Ebu Bekri,\u00a0radijallahu anhu,<\/em>\u00a0ishte sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyr\u00eb e gjall\u00eb q\u00eb e meriton t\u00eb imitohet se sa e donte shokun e tij,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,\u00a0<\/em>dhe si e flijonte veten p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Rrug\u00ebs p\u00ebr n\u00eb Medine dit\u00ebn e hixhretit k\u00ebrkoi leje prejPejgamberit,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,\u00a0<\/em>q\u00eb i pari t\u00eb futet n\u00eb shpell\u00eb dhe ta pastroj\u00eb prej insekteve q\u00eb mos ta d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb Pejgamberin,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem.\u00a0<\/em>Kur u v\u00ebrtetua se shpella \u00ebsht\u00eb e past\u00ebr i dha leje t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Allahut q\u00eb t\u00eb futet brenda. Prej lodhjes s\u00eb madhe Pejgamberin,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,\u00a0<\/em>e zuri gjumi mbi k\u00ebmb\u00ebn e Ebu Bekrit dhe n\u00eb ato momente u paraqit nj\u00eb gjarp\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin nuk e kishte v\u00ebrejtur gjat\u00eb pastrimit t\u00eb shpell\u00ebs. Nuk d\u00ebshironte ta zgjon prej gjumi, kurse rreziku afrohej. Prej frik\u00ebs se do ta kafshoj\u00eb t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin e Allahut e vendosi k\u00ebmb\u00ebn e tij mbi gjarp\u00ebr i cili e kafshoi dhe prej dhembjes s\u00eb madhe filluan t\u2019i rrjedhin lot. Disa pika loti ran\u00eb mbi fytyr\u00ebn e Pejgamberit,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,\u00a0<\/em>dhe e zgjuan prej gjumi. V\u00ebrejti se k\u00ebmba e Ebu Bekrit ishte n\u00eb rrezik dhe me p\u00ebshtym\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb past\u00ebr e sh\u00ebroi prej pla\u00adg\u00ebve t\u00eb kafshimit.<\/p>\n

    Poashtu rrug\u00ebs p\u00ebr n\u00eb Medine i frik\u00ebsuar se armiku do ta sulmoj\u00eb Pejgamberin,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,<\/em>\u00a0her\u00eb i dilte para,<\/em>\u00a0her\u00eb i shkonte mbrapa, her\u00eb i dilte n\u00eb an\u00ebn e djatht\u00eb, e her\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00eb t\u00eb majt\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri e cila nuk ka shembull n\u00eb histori.<\/p>\n

    Thumame ib\u00ebn Ethal,\u00a0radijallahu anhu,<\/em>\u00a0pasi q\u00eb e pranoi Islamin i tha Muhamedit,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem: \u201c<\/em>O Muhamed, pasha Allahun, nuk ka pasur gj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb urryer p\u00ebr mua n\u00eb tok\u00eb, sesa fytyra jote, nd\u00ebrsa tani \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb fytyra jote m\u00eb e dashura p\u00ebr mua sesa t\u00eb gjitha fytyrat. Pasha Allahun, nuk ka pasur fe m\u00eb t\u00eb urryer tek un\u00eb, sesa Feja jote, nd\u00ebrsa tani ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb feja m\u00eb e dashur p\u00ebr mua, sesa t\u00eb gjitha fet\u00eb. Pasha Allahun, nuk ka pasur vend m\u00eb t\u00eb urryer tek un\u00eb, sesa vendi yt, nd\u00ebrsa tani ai \u00ebsht\u00eb vendi m\u00eb i dashur p\u00ebr mua, se \u00e7do vend tjet\u00ebr. O i D\u00ebrguar i Allahut, mua m\u00eb mor\u00ebn kalor\u00ebsit e tu dhe un\u00eb desha t\u00eb shkoj p\u00ebr Umre, por nuk kam kal\u00eb, ti si mendon? \u2013 I D\u00ebrguari i Allahut,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,<\/em>\u00a0e p\u00ebrg\u00ebzoi at\u00eb dhe i tha q\u00eb t\u00eb shkon p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb Umren. Kur ai hyri n\u00eb Meke, dikush i tha: A hyre n\u00eb fen\u00eb e idhujtar\u00ebve? Ai tha: Jo, por jam b\u00ebr\u00eb musliman bashk\u00eb me t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarin e Allahut,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem<\/em>. Pasha Allahun, nuk ka p\u00ebr t\u2019ju ardhur nga Jemame asnj\u00eb kok\u00ebrr grur\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb jap\u00eb leje p\u00ebr t\u00eb i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0\u2013 M\u00eb von\u00eb kurejsh\u00ebt i d\u00ebrguan let\u00ebr Pejgam\u00adberit,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,<\/em>\u00a0dhe i than\u00eb: \u201cO Muha\u00admed, ti urdh\u00ebron n\u00eb respektim t\u00eb farefisit, mir\u00ebpo vet nuk e respekton.\u201d -Pejgamberi,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,<\/em>\u00a0prej m\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb madhe q\u00eb e posedonte si njeri i shkroi nj\u00eb let\u00ebr Thumames,\u00a0radijallahu anhu,<\/em>\u00a0ku i tha q\u00eb t\u2019i liroj\u00eb karvan\u00ebt me ushqim q\u00eb t\u00eb nisen p\u00ebr n\u00eb Meke.\u201d<\/p>\n

    Thumame,\u00a0radijallahu anhu,<\/em>\u00a0k\u00ebt\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb madhe q\u00eb e ndjente ndaj Pejgamberit,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,<\/em>\u00a0e fitoi si rezultat i sjelljes dhe kujdesit t\u00eb lart\u00eb q\u00eb e kishte ndaj tij dhe kjo ishte shkak i Islamit t\u00eb tij dhe interpretimit t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb ndaj t\u00eb D\u00ebrguarit t\u00eb Allahut,\u00a0sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem,<\/em>\u00a0me ato fjal\u00eb t\u00eb shkurta e t\u00eb bukura.<\/p>\n

    P\u00ebr fund, dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb prej bazave m\u00eb kryesore n\u00eb edukat\u00ebn e ekuilibruar, prandaj \u00e7do mang\u00ebsi ose \u00e7rregullim n\u00eb t\u00eb shpie deri n\u00eb defekt t\u00eb madh n\u00eb edukat\u00eb dhe deri n\u00eb mosrealizim t\u00eb q\u00ebllimeve eduka\u00adtore.<\/p>\n

    K\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb e p\u00ebrfundoj me disa direktiva t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme t\u00eb cilat do t\u2019u ndihmojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrve n\u00eb edukat\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre me metod\u00ebn e dashuris\u00eb dhe afrimit:<\/p>\n

    \u2013 Nd\u00ebrto n\u00eb brend\u00ebsin\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u00ebnd vet\u00ebbesim, madje duke e p\u00ebrkrahur dhe respektuar mundin q\u00eb e jep, e jo vet\u00ebm duke i respektuar rezultatet q\u00eb i rea\u00adlizon.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 M\u00ebsoje f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb mendon pozitivisht q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet pozitiv. Shembull, n\u00ebse kthehet prej shkolle i p\u00ebrlyer dhe i parregulluar mos e akuzo, por thuaj: Biri im, m\u00eb duket sot se je k\u00ebnaqur duke lozur, a nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu? Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb, por mos e sjell pun\u00ebn q\u00eb rrobat e tua t\u00eb p\u00ebrlyen deri n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb grad\u00eb.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 Kalo nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb s\u00eb koh\u00ebs t\u00ebnde me \u00e7donj\u00ebrin prej tyre n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti, pa marr\u00eb parasysh se a do ta hash drek\u00ebn me ndonj\u00ebrin prej tyre jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb apo do t\u00eb ushtroni sport s\u00eb bashku, kryesore \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ua mund\u00ebsosh t\u00eb ndjejn\u00eb se ti e respekton \u00e7donj\u00ebrin prej tyre.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 Organizo fest\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arriturat ditore t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Shembull, shtro nj\u00eb sof\u00ebr t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak se f\u00ebmija yt sot ka arritur sukses t\u00eb lart\u00eb n\u00eb provim ose p\u00ebr shkak se f\u00ebmija tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb treguar i suksessh\u00ebm n\u00eb moral, derisa t\u00eb ndjen secili prej tyre se ti kujdesesh p\u00ebr to dhe i p\u00ebrcjell gj\u00ebrat me koh\u00eb.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 Ky\u00e7u me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb loj\u00eb, luaj ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb futboll me to ose garoni mes vete n\u00eb vrap, e k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 M\u00ebsoje orarin shkollor t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u00ebnd, m\u00ebsoja m\u00ebsuesin e tij, shok\u00ebt e tij q\u00eb mos ta pyes\u00ebsh kur t\u00eb kthehet: \u00c7far\u00eb b\u00ebt\u00eb sot? \u2013 Por pyete: \u00c7\u2019b\u00ebre me shokun t\u00ebnd filanin? \u00c7\u2019m\u00ebsuat sot n\u00eb or\u00ebn e matematik\u00ebs? \u2013 K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ndjen se ti e p\u00ebrcjell jet\u00ebn e tij dhe kujdesesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 Krijo nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb fsheht\u00eb ose nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e cila aludon n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs dhe mos ta din askush p\u00ebrve\u00e7 se ju t\u00eb dy.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 N\u00ebse k\u00ebrkon f\u00ebmija q\u00eb t\u00eb flet me ty, mos fol me at\u00eb duke qen\u00eb i preokupuar me gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, por kush\u00adtoja t\u00ebr\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen t\u00ebnde atij dhe shikoje n\u00eb sy kur t\u00eb flet.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 Shkruaj n\u00eb flet\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl fjal\u00eb dashurie ose nxit\u00ebse dhe vendose at\u00eb an\u00ebsh mbi krevatin e tij e ti je duke dal\u00eb prej sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, ose vendose n\u00eb \u00e7ant\u00ebn e shkoll\u00ebs q\u00eb ata t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se ti mendon p\u00ebr ata edhe kur nuk je prezent n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 P\u00ebrqafoje f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00ebnd, puthe dhe thuaj \u00e7do dit\u00eb se t\u00eb dua. Sado q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e tep\u00ebrt p\u00ebrs\u00ebritja e k\u00ebsaj fjal\u00eb ata kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, qofshin t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl apo t\u00eb rritur, bile qofshin edhe t\u00eb martuar e kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 N\u00ebse vizaton di\u00e7ka mere vizatimin e tij dhe vendose n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb posa\u00e7\u00ebm t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, q\u00eb ai t\u00eb ndjen se ti krenohesh me vizatimin e tij.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 Shpik disa mendime t\u00eb cilat do t\u2019i ushqejn\u00eb ndjenjat e mira mes teje dhe tyre, si p\u00ebr shembull hapja e nj\u00eb e-maili t\u00eb posa\u00e7\u00ebm ku do t\u2019i shk\u00ebmbeni letrat e dashuris\u00eb dhe fal\u00ebnderimit mes jush.<\/p>\n

    \u2013 Shfaqe dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb ndjen ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u00ebnd me vepra, madje duke u kujdesur p\u00ebr mendimin e tij, duke k\u00ebrkuar k\u00ebshilla ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb prej tij, duke ia respektuar ndjenjat, duke ia b\u00ebr\u00eb me dije se edhe ai \u00ebsht\u00eb an\u00ebtar i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb familje, duke ia fal gabimet e sidomos ato t\u00eb cilat i ka gabuar p\u00ebr shkak munges\u00ebs n\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb dhe duke k\u00ebrkuar falje prej tij n\u00eb rast se kemi gabuar dhe kemi qen\u00eb t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr ndaj tij.<\/p>\n

    Autor: Sad el Othman<\/p>\n

    Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Allahu,\u00a0azze ue xhel,\u00a0f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e b\u00ebri k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi p\u00ebr syt\u00eb e prindit, dashuri t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, g\u00ebzim t\u00eb shpirtit t\u00eb tij dhe t\u00eb natyrshme e konsideroi dashurin\u00eb q\u00eb e ndjen prindi kundrejt f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tij. Bile n\u00eb Kur\u2019an, Allahu,\u00a0azze ue xhel,\u00a0i lavd\u00ebroi miqt\u00eb e Tij, se ata i luten dhe i n\u00ebnshtrohen Atij q\u00eb t\u2019i k\u00ebnaq\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":7821,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,4,22,6,25,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-7820","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-c86-akide","9":"category-c82-artikuj","10":"category-c96-davet","11":"category-c94-gruaja-dhe-familja","12":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7820"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7820\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7822,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7820\/revisions\/7822"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7821"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}