{"id":7830,"date":"2025-09-28T15:51:54","date_gmt":"2025-09-28T15:51:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=7830"},"modified":"2025-09-28T15:51:54","modified_gmt":"2025-09-28T15:51:54","slug":"prej-dobive-te-udhetimit-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/?p=7830","title":{"rendered":"PREJ DOBIVE T\u00cb UDH\u00cbTIMIT"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00eb udh\u00ebtim ka dobi t\u00eb konsiderueshme dhe ai ndikon pozitivisht n\u00eb zemra. Disa prej dobive\u00a0 i ka p\u00ebrmendur imam Shafiu (Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!) n\u00eb vargjet e Divanit<\/em> t\u00eb tij, kur ka varg\u00ebzuar:<\/p>\n

Largohu nga vendlindja n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb lart\u00ebsive,<\/em><\/p>\n

dhe udh\u00ebto, se me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb udh\u00ebtimi ofron pes\u00eb dobi:<\/em><\/p>\n

E largon m\u00ebrzin\u00eb, p\u00ebrfiton p\u00ebr jetes\u00eb,<\/em><\/p>\n

Merr dije, moral dhe shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb mir\u00eb!<\/em><\/p>\n

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  1. Udh\u00ebtimi e zbut m\u00ebrzin\u00eb dhe e largon d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimin:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Q\u00ebndrimi n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend shkakton bezdi dhe lodhje. Kjo b\u00ebn q\u00eb zemra t\u00eb kaplohet nga d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr freski. Personat q\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend vuajn\u00eb nga kjo gjendje. T\u00eb till\u00ebt ndiejn\u00eb m\u00ebrzi, shqet\u00ebsim e bezdi dhe jeta u duket rutin\u00eb. Kur nj\u00ebri prej tyre udh\u00ebton dhe takon fytyra t\u00eb reja, e ndryshon ambientin dhe rrethin, menj\u00ebher\u00eb e v\u00ebren si i zbutet m\u00ebrzia dhe i zgjerohet gjoksi.<\/p>\n

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    1. Udh\u00ebtimi ndihmon n\u00eb p\u00ebrfitimin e jetes\u00ebs:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb ardhura t\u00eb pakta, k\u00ebshillohen t\u00eb udh\u00ebtojn\u00eb n\u00eb vend tjet\u00ebr e t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb rriskun e tyre. Allahu thot\u00eb: \u201cAi jua ka b\u00ebr\u00eb Tok\u00ebn t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorshme, andaj ecni n\u00ebp\u00ebr viset e saj dhe ushqehuni me at\u00eb q\u00eb ju ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb Ai. Si t\u00eb ringjalleni, do t\u00eb ktheheni tek Ai.\u201d (El Mulk, 15)<\/p>\n

      Sa e sa njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb kan\u00eb udh\u00ebtuar q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb p\u00ebr jetes\u00ebn e tyre, Allahu ua hapi dyert e rriskut.<\/p>\n

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      1. Udh\u00ebtimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar dituri:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyrat tona m\u00eb t\u00eb mira, pejgamber\u00ebt dhe gjeneratat e para t\u00eb drejta, udh\u00ebtonin p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar dituri. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebrshkonin distanca t\u00eb gjata ve\u00e7 p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar nj\u00eb hadith t\u00eb Pejgamberit <\/a><\/p>\n

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        1. Udh\u00ebtimi mund\u00ebson t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitosh edukat\u00eb dhe moral:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Udh\u00ebtari i men\u00e7ur kujdeset gjat\u00eb udh\u00ebtimit q\u00eb t\u00eb takohet me dijetar\u00eb dhe njer\u00ebz t\u00eb men\u00e7ur e t\u00eb urt\u00eb; t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoj\u00eb nga dija dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrvet\u00ebsoj\u00eb nga morali i tyre. K\u00ebshtu e plot\u00ebson personalitetin e tij, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve u p\u00ebrcjell dobit\u00eb dhe m\u00ebsimet q\u00eb i ka marr\u00eb nga udh\u00ebtimi i tij. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ngrihet personaliteti, p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet morali dhe shtohet dija e tij.<\/p>\n

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          1. Udh\u00ebtimi ndihmon t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitosh shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb dalluar:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            K\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb e d\u00ebshmon p\u00ebrvoja dhe realiteti. Kush udh\u00ebton duke shoq\u00ebruar njer\u00ebz bujar\u00eb dhe d\u00ebgjon prej fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb zgjedhura, i tilli p\u00ebrjeton \u00e7aste fisnike dhe i shp\u00ebton s\u00eb keqes, n\u00eb krahasim me tjetrin, udh\u00ebtimi i t\u00eb cilit b\u00ebhet shkak p\u00ebr prishjen e zemr\u00ebs dhe karakterit t\u00eb tij. Shkaku kryesor pas gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj q\u00ebndron tek udh\u00ebtimi me shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb keqe.<\/p>\n

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            1. Udh\u00ebtimi \u00ebsht\u00eb shkak p\u00ebr pranimin e lutjes:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Ebu Hurejra p\u00ebrcjell se Pejgamberi \ufdfa ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cTri lutje jan\u00eb t\u00eb pranuara pa asnj\u00eb dyshim: lutja e atij q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsi, lutja e prindit p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tij dhe lutja e udh\u00ebtarit.\u201d[2]<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n

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              1. Udh\u00ebtimi p\u00ebr ta vizituar farefisin, akrabat\u00eb dhe dashamir\u00ebt:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Ky udh\u00ebtim llogaritet nj\u00eb prej veprave m\u00eb t\u00eb mira q\u00eb e afrojn\u00eb njeriun me Allahun e Madh\u00ebrish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n

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                1. Udh\u00ebtimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb larguar posht\u00ebrimin dhe p\u00ebrbuzjen q\u00eb i b\u00ebhet, n\u00ebse jeton n\u00eb mesin e nj\u00eb populli t\u00eb posht\u00ebr:<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Kjo ndodh kur \u00ebsht\u00eb fetar dhe me moral e populli i tij jan\u00eb gjynahqar\u00eb t\u00eb hapur e t\u00eb shfrenuar, rrjedhimisht bie pozita e tij n\u00eb mesin e tyre, e p\u00ebrbuzin dhe e n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsojn\u00eb. N\u00ebse largohet prej aty dhe shkon n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb njihet p\u00ebr ndershm\u00ebri, do t\u00eb ndiej\u00eb veten krenar dhe do t\u00eb respektohet pozita e tij.<\/p>\n

                  Dr. Muhamed el Munexhidi<\/p>\n

                  Nga arabishtja: Irfan JAHIU<\/p>\n

                  (Pjes\u00eb nga libri “Udh\u00ebtimi – rregulla, norma dhe fetva”)<\/p>\n

                  [1]<\/a> Shih librin \u201cRihletu fi talebil hadithi\u201d, Hatib el Bagdadij (Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!).<\/p>\n

                  [2]<\/a> Tirmidhiu (1905) dhe e vler\u00ebsoi hadithin si t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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                  N\u00eb udh\u00ebtim ka dobi t\u00eb konsiderueshme dhe ai ndikon pozitivisht n\u00eb zemra. Disa prej dobive\u00a0 i ka p\u00ebrmendur imam Shafiu (Allahu e m\u00ebshiroft\u00eb!) n\u00eb vargjet e Divanit t\u00eb tij, kur ka varg\u00ebzuar: Largohu nga vendlindja n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb lart\u00ebsive, dhe udh\u00ebto, se me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb udh\u00ebtimi ofron pes\u00eb dobi: E largon m\u00ebrzin\u00eb, p\u00ebrfiton p\u00ebr jetes\u00eb, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":7831,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,4,22,6,67],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-7830","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-c95-ahlak","8":"category-c86-akide","9":"category-c82-artikuj","10":"category-c96-davet","11":"category-te-zgjedhura"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7830","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7830"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7830\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7832,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7830\/revisions\/7832"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7831"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7830"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7830"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7830"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}