Ngush\u00ebllimi i shpirtrave dhe largimi i m\u00ebrzis\u00eb si edukat\u00eb dhe moral l\u00eb gjurm\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha dhe ndikon fuqish\u00ebm n\u00eb shpirtra.<\/p>\n
Sa g\u00ebzim t\u00eb madh fut fjala e mir\u00eb dhe e m\u00ebshirshme n\u00eb shpirtin e gruas s\u00eb moshuar dhe ajo e shpreh g\u00ebzimin me lutje t\u00eb sinqerta p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ia lumturoi shpirtin!<\/p>\n
Ndoshta t\u00eb vjen mund\u00ebsia ta ledhatosh kok\u00ebn e jetimit t\u00eb pik\u00eblluar, e ai ta rikujton k\u00ebt\u00eb gjat\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij dhe lutet p\u00ebr ty derisa t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjall\u00eb!<\/p>\n
Ndoshta t\u00eb vjen mund\u00ebsia t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh pran\u00eb nj\u00eb v\u00ebllai mysliman i cili ka humbur nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur dhe t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb t\u00eb tij, e ai t\u00eb mos e harroj\u00eb vepr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde gjat\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij!<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb natyrshm\u00ebria e shpirtit t\u00eb njeriut, i krijuar q\u00eb ta doj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb sillet mir\u00eb me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse braktiset kjo edukat\u00eb e lart\u00eb islame, pa dyshim se do t\u2019ua shtoj\u00eb edhe m\u00eb tep\u00ebr brengat t\u00eb goditurve me bela dhe fatkeq\u00ebsi, do t\u00eb largohet af\u00ebrsia dhe dashuria n\u00eb mes njer\u00ebzve, si dhe myslimanit do t\u2019i ikin shp\u00ebrblimet dhe mir\u00ebsit\u00eb e shumta.<\/p>\n
Ana e err\u00ebt: s\u00ebmundja e dashalig\u00ebsis\u00eb <\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, gjen njer\u00ebz q\u00eb zemrat e tyre jan\u00eb ngurt\u00ebsuar dhe g\u00ebzohen apo qeshen me fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe d\u00ebmet q\u00eb u ndodhin v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre mysliman\u00eb. Kjo vep\u00ebr e tyre bie ndesh me m\u00ebsimet e Islamit, duke u bazuar n\u00eb hadithin q\u00eb e p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb Enes ib\u00ebn Maliku, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur prej tij!, se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, lavdia dhe paqja e Allahut qofshin mbi t\u00eb!, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cNuk ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb besuar plot\u00ebsisht ndonj\u00ebri prej jush p\u00ebrderisa nuk e d\u00ebshiron p\u00ebr v\u00ebllain e tij at\u00eb q\u00eb e d\u00ebshiron p\u00ebr vetveten.\u201d<\/em>[1]<\/a><\/p>\n Dit\u00ebve t\u00eb sotme shohim njer\u00ebz me zemra t\u00eb ngurta ku fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb, sprovat dhe belat\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve i kan\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb objekt talljeje dhe p\u00ebrqeshjeje.<\/p>\n T\u00eb k\u00ebnaqurit se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e fqinjit jan\u00eb dob\u00ebsuar n\u00eb m\u00ebsime dhe shkoll\u00eb, t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqurit se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtorin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqurit me fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb i godasin koleg\u00ebt e pun\u00ebs, t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqurit e gruas me nj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe q\u00eb i godet familjar\u00ebt e burrit, me fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb e ortakes s\u00eb saj,\u00a0 apo se nj\u00ebra nga shoqet e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb divorcuar nga burri etj., t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto jan\u00eb nga dukurit\u00eb e p\u00ebrhapura t\u00eb p\u00ebrqeshjes dhe talljes me fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n Le t\u00eb ken\u00eb kujdes t\u00eb till\u00ebt, sepse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb prej natyr\u00ebs dhe cil\u00ebsive t\u00eb hipokrit\u00ebve: \u201c<\/strong>N\u00ebse ju vjen ndonj\u00eb e mir\u00eb, ata i brengos, e n\u00ebse ju gjen ndonj\u00eb e keqe, ata g\u00ebzohen, por n\u00ebse ju duroni dhe ruheni nga gjynahet, dinak\u00ebrit\u00eb e tyre nuk mund t\u2019ju d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb aspak. V\u00ebrtet Allahu ka dijeni p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb punojn\u00eb ata.\u201d<\/strong> (AliImran: 120)<\/p>\n Kur mysliman\u00ebt shtoheshin, fitonin, gjenin p\u00ebrkrahje dhe b\u00ebheshin t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm, hipokrit\u00ebt m\u00ebrziteshin, kurse kur mysliman\u00ebt nuk shtoheshin n\u00eb num\u00ebr apo mundeshin prej armikut, p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb urt\u00ebsi q\u00eb Allahu e kishte pas caktuar, hipokrit\u00ebt k\u00ebnaqeshin me pamjet e tilla.[2]<\/a><\/p>\n Shkaku i animit t\u00eb disa shpirtrave drejt dashakeq\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe dashalig\u00ebsis\u00eb ndaj atij q\u00eb i ka nd\u00ebshkuar apo u ka b\u00ebr\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsi, Allahu urdh\u00ebroi q\u00eb shpagimi n\u00eb nd\u00ebshkim t\u00eb jet\u00eb i nj\u00ebjt\u00eb, pa mos i tejkaluar apo shkel\u00eb kufijt\u00eb, dhe tha: \u201c<\/strong>Pra, kushdo q\u00eb ju sulmon, edhe ju keni t\u00eb drejt\u00eb ta sulmoni at\u00eb, ashtu si\u00e7 ju sulmoi juve! Frik\u00ebsojuni Allahut dhe dijeni se Allahu \u00ebsht\u00eb me ata q\u00eb ruhen nga t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat.\u201d<\/strong> (El-Bekare: 194) Kjo, sepse \u201cshpirtit kur zakonisht i jepet hap\u00ebsir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebshkuar, dashakeq\u00ebsia bie shkak t\u00eb mos ndalet aty ku duhet dhe t\u2019i tejkaloj\u00eb kufijt\u00eb, prandaj Allahu urdh\u00ebroi p\u00ebr pasimin dhe ruajtjen e devotshm\u00ebris\u00eb, e q\u00eb n\u00ebnkupton t\u00eb ndalurit te kufijt\u00eb e Tij dhe mos tejkalimin e tyre.\u201d[3]<\/a><\/p>\n Ajo q\u00eb ndalohet \u00ebsht\u00eb dashakeq\u00ebsia e tep\u00ebrt q\u00eb shkakton tejkalimin e kufijve n\u00eb nd\u00ebshkime dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb e sqaruam m\u00eb lart.<\/p>\n [1]<\/a>Buhariu (13), Muslimi (45).<\/p>\n