Familja jote, shoq\u00ebria e af\u00ebrt, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt t\u00eb konsiderojn\u00eb mbret\u00ebresh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi p\u00ebr ty n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb dhe n\u00eb \u00e7do rast. Detyrimet e tua ndaj familjes shtohen n\u00eb muajin q\u00eb e arrijm\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb vit e nuk garantohemi se do ta arrijm\u00eb vitin e ardhsh\u00ebm \u201cMuaji i Ramazanit\u201d. Pra, familja nga ti do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr udh\u00ebzimin drejt m\u00eb t\u00eb vlefshmes, p\u00ebrkrahjen n\u00eb kryerjen e adhurimeve t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, dhe t\u2019i ofrosh asaj ndihm\u00eb pa u d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar dhe pa humbur shpres\u00ebn p\u00ebr shkak se \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar nga edukata t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb familjes gjat\u00eb Ramazanit, q\u00eb p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq jan\u00eb shoq\u00ebruar me k\u00ebt\u00eb muaj n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti.<\/p>\n
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Ti ke nj\u00eb rol q\u00eb nuk shp\u00ebrfillet, ti mund t\u00eb jesh sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyr\u00eb t\u2019i m\u00ebnjanosh nga ato gabime pa e v\u00ebrejtur vet\u00eb. Kujdesu t\u00eb largosh veten dhe familjen t\u00ebnde t\u00eb mos bien n\u00eb k\u00ebto gabime, dhe p\u00ebrkujto se je duke formuar nj\u00eb gjenerat\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00eb ardhmes, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt me rolin e tyre do t\u00eb jen\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr gjenerata q\u00eb do t\u00eb vijn\u00eb pas. N\u00ebse mbjell tek ata edukat\u00ebn e duhur po ashtu do t\u2019i trash\u00ebgojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre dhe e kund\u00ebrta po ashtu, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb barr\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr ty ta kuptosh madh\u00ebshtin\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj gj\u00ebje. N\u00eb vazhdim do t\u00eb paraqesim disa sjellje t\u00eb k\u00ebqija dhe gabime n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat bien disa familje muslimane gjat\u00eb Ramazanit.<\/p>\n
Nijeti<\/p>\n
Disa e harrojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb nijet p\u00ebr agj\u00ebrimin, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb duhesh t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujtosh pjes\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes t\u00ebnde, q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb nijet q\u00eb n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje para koh\u00ebs s\u00eb sabahut, kjo na v\u00ebrtetohet nga i D\u00ebrguari, sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem, t\u00eb ket\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cKush nuk b\u00ebn nijet q\u00eb n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje ai nuk ka agj\u00ebrim\u201d.<\/p>\n
Fjetja gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs dhe ndeja e nat\u00ebs<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu sillen shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz gjat\u00eb muajit t\u00eb bekuar t\u00eb Ramazanit, ku flen\u00eb dit\u00ebn dhe zgjohen nat\u00ebn, Allahu i Madh\u00ebruar thot\u00eb: \u201cDhe nat\u00ebn ua b\u00ebm\u00eb mbules\u00eb (si rrobat). Nd\u00ebrsa dit\u00ebn e b\u00ebm\u00eb p\u00ebr gjall\u00ebrim.\u201d Ata me k\u00ebt\u00eb nuk e shijojn\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00eblsin\u00eb e agj\u00ebrimit, ku ndoshta disave mund t\u2019ju kaloj\u00eb koha e drek\u00ebs apo edhe e ikindis\u00eb. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb obligim i yti si n\u00ebn\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb rregullosh koh\u00ebn n\u00eb familjen t\u00ebnde dhe t\u00eb sakrifikosh n\u00eb mos lejimin e ndejave t\u00eb nat\u00ebs, t\u00eb flen\u00eb nat\u00ebn e t\u00eb zgjohen dit\u00ebn, q\u00eb secili t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb e t\u00eb kryej\u00eb veprimtarin\u00eb e vet, burri n\u00eb pun\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Shikimi i serialeve dhe kuizeve<\/p>\n
Dhe programe t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat garojn\u00eb kanalet p\u00ebr transmetimin e tyre, q\u00eb p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq k\u00ebto kanale e presin Ramazanin dhe p\u00ebrgatiten p\u00ebr te m\u00eb tep\u00ebr sesa ne b\u00ebhemi gati, ku programi i saj p\u00ebrgatitet me kujdes p\u00ebr t\u00eb joshur shikuesit m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, sesa ne p\u00ebrgatisim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb dhe i joshim n\u00eb adhurim gjat\u00eb Ramazanit.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb<\/p>\n
Shum\u00eb gra shumic\u00ebn e dit\u00ebs e kalojn\u00eb n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur ushqimin dhe mundet q\u00eb mos ta p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitjen pos n\u00eb ezanin e akshamit e ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe pas ezanit. Me k\u00ebt\u00eb ajo e humb dit\u00ebn, pra muajin n\u00eb mesin e en\u00ebve dhe er\u00ebzave, larg nga p\u00ebrmendja e Allahut, adhurimi dhe leximi i Kuranit, ndoshta k\u00ebrkon nga bija e saj t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatis\u00eb lloje t\u00eb tjera ushqimi, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb ta nxis\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb adhurim. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb duhesh ta m\u00ebsosh familjen t\u00ebnde t\u00eb mjaftohen me nj\u00eb ose dy lloje ushqimi dhe koh\u00ebn q\u00eb e kalon n\u00eb kuzhin\u00eb, e drejt\u00eb e jotja \u00ebsht\u00eb ta adhurosh Allahun n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Teprimi n\u00eb ngr\u00ebnie dhe pirje<\/p>\n
Gj\u00eb e cila rezulton n\u00eb p\u00ebrtaci dhe apati, q\u00eb e godet gjith\u00eb familjen, e i vonon ata nga p\u00ebrgatitjet e detyrimeve jet\u00ebsore, i d\u00ebshton atyre namazi i teravis\u00eb dhe adhurimeve t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat ata duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatiten p\u00ebr n\u00eb Ramazan.<\/p>\n
Lutja e iftarit<\/p>\n
Shumica e familjeve kaplohet nga gjendja e zhurm\u00ebs para iftarit, nj\u00ebra vjen me pijet, tjetra i v\u00ebrtit en\u00ebt n\u00eb zjarr, ky k\u00ebrkon uj\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa harrojn\u00eb se erdhi koha p\u00ebr lutje n\u00eb iftar, lutje e cila nuk refuzohet.<\/p>\n
Falja e namazit t\u00eb akshamit me xhemat<\/p>\n
Shumica e burrave nuk e falin namazin e akshamit me xhemat, sepse i t\u00ebrheq tryeza e iftarit me shum\u00ebllojshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e saj me programe t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse gjat\u00eb iftarit nga shkuarja n\u00eb xhami, k\u00ebtu duhesh s\u00eb pari ta pak\u00ebsosh tryez\u00ebn n\u00eb disa hurma e nj\u00eb got\u00eb me uj\u00eb, e m\u00eb pas p\u00ebrgatitjen e tryez\u00ebs pas kthimit t\u00eb burrit dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nga namazi. Do t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh se kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb po ashtu edhe nga aspekti sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor.<\/p>\n
Vizitat<\/p>\n
Disa gra preferojn\u00eb t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb net\u00ebt e Ramazanit me vizitat e t\u00eb af\u00ebrmve. N\u00ebse kjo ndodh si shkas p\u00ebr lidhjet farefisnore, at\u00ebher\u00eb s\u2019ka gj\u00eb, por t\u00eb mos e zgjasim vizit\u00ebn e t\u00eb tejkalojm\u00eb te p\u00ebrgojimi, bartja e fjal\u00ebve n\u00eb at\u00eb ndej\u00eb etj.<\/p>\n
L\u00ebnia e syfyrit<\/p>\n
Disa familje e l\u00ebn\u00eb syfyrin p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr dobive, t\u00eb cilat i ka cekur i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem: \u201cB\u00ebni syfyr, ngaq\u00eb n\u00eb syfyr gjendet bereqeti\u201d, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kujdesesh p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ushqim dhe t\u00eb kujdesesh n\u00eb zgjimin e mbledhjen e familjes n\u00eb tryez\u00ebn e syfyrit.<\/p>\n
Cikli mujor (hajzi) dhe lehonia (nifasi)<\/p>\n
Disa gra dhe t\u00eb reja b\u00ebhen pasive nga adhurimi gjat\u00eb hajzit dhe nifasit, e kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gabim, se n\u00ebna duhet patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb bij\u00ebn e saj se hajzi ndalon nga agj\u00ebrimi dhe namazi, mir\u00ebpo nuk e ndalon at\u00eb nga p\u00ebrmendja e Allahut, lutja, l\u00ebmosha, nga leximi i Kuranit, por duke mos e prekur mus\u2019hafin.<\/p>\n
\u201cEnde jeni t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl\u201d<\/p>\n
Disa n\u00ebna i ndalojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre nga agj\u00ebrimi, duke u argumentuar se ata jan\u00eb ende t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl dhe nuk kan\u00eb mund\u00ebsi fizike p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, k\u00ebtu duhet q\u00eb n\u00ebna t\u00eb mos e injoron k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe mbik\u00ebqyrjen e saj n\u00eb kryerjen e agj\u00ebrimit, kur f\u00ebmija t\u00eb arrij\u00eb vitin e obligueshm\u00ebris\u00eb e m\u00eb pas p\u00ebrkujtimin p\u00ebr kryerjen e asaj q\u00eb i ka mbetur nga dit\u00ebt e agj\u00ebrimit pasi t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb Ramazani.<\/p>\n
Dhjet\u00ebshi i fundit n\u00eb treg<\/p>\n
Shumica e familjeve muslimane e humbasin dhjet\u00ebdit\u00ebshin e fundit t\u00eb Ramazanit n\u00eb treg, b\u00ebhen turma n\u00ebp\u00ebr tregje n\u00eb dit\u00ebt ku afrohet dita e Bajramit p\u00ebr t\u00eb bler\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e nevojshme p\u00ebr Bajram, si rroba, \u00ebmb\u00eblsira, mjete p\u00ebr gostitje etj., n\u00ebna i merr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj n\u00eb treg q\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedhin e t\u00eb masin rrobat, po ashtu k\u00ebrkon nga burri i saj ta shoq\u00ebroj\u00eb at\u00eb, e me k\u00ebt\u00eb e gjith\u00eb familja e humbet shansin p\u00ebr adhurim. Ky shans nuk p\u00ebrs\u00ebritet p\u00ebrve\u00e7se nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb vit, dhe kur i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem, arrinte dhjet\u00eb dit\u00ebt e fundit e shtr\u00ebngonte izarin, e gjall\u00ebronte nat\u00ebn, i zgjonte familjar\u00ebt duke k\u00ebrkuar nat\u00ebn e Kadrit, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ai edhe b\u00ebnte itikaf n\u00eb k\u00ebto net t\u00eb fundit.<\/p>\n
Vonimi i sadakatu fitrit<\/p>\n
Prej gabimeve n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat bien disa familje \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe vonimi i sadakatu fitrit deri n\u00eb kalimin e koh\u00ebs. Ki kujdes q\u00eb t\u2019ia p\u00ebrkujtosh burrit t\u00ebnd ta jap\u00eb at\u00eb para namazit t\u00eb Bajramit.<\/p>\n
Namazi i Bajramit<\/p>\n
Disa gra e neglizhojn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i d\u00ebrgojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre p\u00ebr namazin e Bajramit, pavar\u00ebsisht se i D\u00ebrguari i Allahut, sal-lallahu alejhi ue selem, i ka nxitur grat\u00eb e burrat t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb namaz edhe ato q\u00eb jan\u00eb me hajz si dhe ato q\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb reja.<\/p>\n
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Familja jote, shoq\u00ebria e af\u00ebrt, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt t\u00eb konsiderojn\u00eb mbret\u00ebresh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi p\u00ebr ty n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb dhe n\u00eb \u00e7do rast. Detyrimet e tua ndaj familjes shtohen n\u00eb muajin q\u00eb e arrijm\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb vit e nuk garantohemi se do ta arrijm\u00eb vitin e ardhsh\u00ebm \u201cMuaji i Ramazanit\u201d. Pra, familja nga ti do […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-862","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-c103-te-ndryshme"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/862","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=862"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/862\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=862"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=862"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shkollaislame.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=862"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}